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Arami92:
you make a lot of sense, thanks

U are most welcome.

Arami92:
Thank you, ummm...

I think pride is taking pride in who you are, not being desperate for attention or just not turning yourself into a doormat for people. You can be proud of who you are without thinking you are better than other people. Value yourself and others equally. I don't think i'm better than anybody.
I know some girls that have this stuck up, mean girl attitude..i'm not like that. when guys approach me, even if i'm not interested i'm never rude or mean.

I think arrogance is a false sense of pride, where in elevating yourself you also try and bring other people down. i see arrogant girls as the ones who i always looking for BIG guys with money, and walk around pretending to be more than what they are. The expect people to fall at thier feet and etc..

um, also..How do i communicate frustration without nagging?

and how am i to be humble without letting men take advantage of me?

As a woman how do you protect yourself from being hurt but still leave yourself open for the right person??

Everyman that enters my life doesn't have good intentions, so my pride and my distancing myself is to see how serious this guy is about me? It's like i'm a really nice person but i feel like i have to have this tough exterior or people will just be abusing you. i see how men lie, cheat,and abuse women and that scares me.

#check d completed part of my previous post.

For u to communicate ur frustration witout nagging, u just nid to introduce diplomacy in ur approach. Study d man u are involved wit.
For ex, I can b correct or state wot I dnt like witout shouting/yelling @ som1 and stil b firm

For u not to b taken for granted, u av to know who arami is first and wot u actually want in ur type of man.knowing all dis, then u shld stand for woteva u want witout takin chances.

For u not to b hurt, av a free mind $ b flexible. Do not expect too much from people so ur expectation wunt b cut short. Everyone has a sense of self worth(buh som pple lost theirs long tym ago to emotion $ sex), use dis to tackle woteva u aint okay with.
Alwys b ready to rise to d occasion.#if u cannot stand for somfin, u will fall for anything

Arami92:
You may be right...i guess each time i meet a guy and things fall apart it makes me worry..

and no not now, but maybe like 25/27, if i want to be married by 27 then i should at least be dating someone by 23-25, i cant imagine marrying someone i haven't dated for a few years.

and it's more so because i've never had a serious relationship.

but yes i'm probably worrying for no reason

And where did u get dat idea from dat dating ur potential hubby for yrs is wot wld giv u d kind of marriage u av dreamt of(a happy one for dat matter)

If care is not taken, u will fall flat.

B flexible in ur decisions. Not everyfin will go as u expect in life, there are tyms u nid to drop expectations.

Check my modified post.

Arami,
Can u differentiate btw pride $ arrogance?

For u to av identified ur weaknesses, it is a gud start. No guy wld like to be wit a lady dat nags, a lady dat is proud, a lady dat feels she knws too much, a lady dat is heady or wit a sense of superiority no matter how beautiful u are.If a guy shows more attention wit all dat, jst bliv it is because he is yet to meet anoda lady.

About being a virgin, forget woteva has been d trend among ladies nowadays trading dis punny for love. Love $ sex are two different feelings.Giving a guy sex doesn't mak u special neither will he carry u for head like burger. Just maintain ur self worth nd patiently wait for a man dat is gonna appreciate ur standard afta u must av worked on ur weaknesses.

At age 23, I fink u shld av less worries abt how som dudes av bhaved to u or handled relationship wit u buh concentrate on how to b a better woman wen dat man eventually surface. *prior proper preparation prevents poor performance*

Lastly, commit ur future into God's hand

Hmmmm..... Yabatech!!!!!!!!

I made call to an insider and was told one of d reasons for d delay is because of d year two students dat are undergoing siwes in their respective company, and in a way not to sideline $ deprive dem of accommodation wen they resume to schl for their academic session

At dat, I will blame d management for dis with clear cut structure on how to deal with dis basic challenges of nigerian students using yct as case study. I won't go into much details here.


Light is also a common problem in dat schl bfor I graduated.It was a problem especially for final year students, going to labs outside to pay huge amt of money to carry out bench work dat can b done in d school laboratories.
Part timers also are most times left in d dark despite d huge amt paid.


#funny enuf, all dis guys alredy turned hostels to hotel where babes are straffed like eating biscuit.Most of dem lack purpose $ core values.
Sex coms ahead of wot ought to b dia priority.
Let dem endure it if dey cant voice out.

I really nid somone to give in details wot is likely to happen to whoeva kill dis python of a fin. Probably giv examples of wot happened to pple dat did it in d past. I am interested in knowing d consequences in diff measure.



Also I av seen comments on boa constrictors, bigger python. Wot are d differencse nd are dis bigger ones harmful in a way? I wil b goin to d area soon, I nid precautionary measures. Tnkz

fujirice:

Oniranu. But Precious tried tonight. All the goals she conceded in this tourney has been deffensive errors. Kudos to her and Okobi. Oshoala needs to rise up to the challenge of remaining in the spotlight

Looool. If dem want mak dem improve nd if dem want mak dem no improve. Me I sha no wan see any of dem wit their shoulder padded coat mount stage to rciv any mumu undeserved award frm useless , wuruwuru CAF at d end of d year.if not, na bottle I go throw for dem.
Bye bye, I dey go meet my bobby USA no 2 lady nd my beautiful Dike (naija no 10) tomorrow for canada. Enjoy ur chikala

fujirice:
Park well, I saw her first. Go look for your own jersey number 2. I don't share!!!

U loh fit chance me lai lai. Ah don dey eye dt USA no 2 frm bench, check my post na bfor I start e-fight oo. Na she $ Dike naija no 10 I want. Dose watermelons are too big to b unnoticed. For patriotism sake, go enjoy d rest of ur life wit naija no 2 $ precious dede

And USA maks it 2-0 GOOOOAAAAALLLLL
NIG 0 - 2 USA





Frm d stable of DAARSAT

Somone shld pls tell dem to wipe my screen nd continue to re-show dat usa no 2 player slow action till 90mins as dose watermelon in d frontal part of her physiology are callin for my attention nd don mak my eyes bulge....

Who get dis USA no 2 mobile no? D babe carry no b small. Her windscreen dey kolobi my eyes. Dose watermelon na die.
Plssssssssss

Omo, dis USA no 2 player carry wella ooooo. Her windscreen is too much for a footballer

Mtcheeeww...
Dem still dey show us dat chukwunonye go miss next mtach wit dat card.
Se d one wey fifa wan organise for dem @ otuoke abi where As if we go qualify sef

My most beautiful babe has bin substituted.


10-DIKE. Who get her mobile no pls?

Nonsense!! Dey com dey form stupid africa champion


Wait mak I see any of u by d end of d year carry ur shoulder padded coat mount stage sey u wan collect any mumu undeserved award frm mumu caf or bbc, na bottle I go throw for u.

USA nicked dis!!! GOOOAAAALLLL
1-0 ...


Oloriburuku ni omo keeper yen. Sebi I talk am sey she no dey stay for one place. She cost naija dis goal now

Y dis naija gals b lyk dis na? U no dey play well still dey pick yellow card join

Eleriibu gan ni awon USA gals yi.

Dis usa USA no 15 get shot oooo, second tym



Dis mumu naija keeper jst dey fly here $ there witout waiting for ball dey open yansh evrywhere for pitch.

DIKE--- No 10, my most beautiful

See as oshoala ruin naija chance of goin ahead. Mtchewww

Y dis naija goalkeeper Precious Dede no dey composed sef? She just dey jump lik housefly.
Y she go jst dey comot for goal post anyhw, she dey observe her menstrual period?

Vry soon dis referee go gboju for offside ooo




Vry gud save frm dede, nyc shot frm USA no 15

Jeeeeeeesu oooo! Tnk God for offside flag. USA shld b a goal up now

Dis america babes dey press wella

Bola4boy:
Dike is very sweet

Walahi, I fink na only me see her ni ooo. Dat babe is wonderstically beautiful to dey play football.
I giv it to her #muah


Abeg, who get her mobile no??

Dat guy's olugbohun dack gan sha.

Na wetin dey sweet goat, na him dey kill am.

It can b funny at tyms d way pple can suddenly bcom God's P.A wen d least expected happens, alwys quick to reference God whch dey neva did bfor dey borrowed d man for marriage.

She might av proved "too much level" to whom suppose to b her lucky man.

All dat glitters is not gold

Luking @ dat Maje's skodo, na dat one dem dey call----- "atari ajanaku, ko kin se eru omode" for u toke
#cry of d rich

Moral: Money doesn't buy happiness

#Take hrt, God go giv u eternal peace buh dats if u trust in Him

It can b funny at tyms d way pple can suddenly bcom God's P.A wen d least expected happens, alwys quick to reference God whch dey neva did bfor dey borrowed d man for marriage.

She might av proved "too much level" to whom suppose to b her lucky man.

All dat glitters is not gold

Luking @ dat Maje's skodo, na dat one dem dey call----- "atari ajanaku, ko kin se eru omode" for u toke
#d cry of d rich

Moral: Money doesn't buy happiness

#Take hrt, God go giv u eternal peace buh dats if u trust in Him

Wot he is asking for is not too much. We only more dan enuf rotten/rusty ladies.
It is not impossible buh he shld nt b rigid. Let him ensure he has lot to offer sha oo.

#salaro omo. Looool

This is wot happens wen a woman av tasted enuf joystick. Na comparison henceforth
Only God knws no of pestle wey don pound her mortal.

#onidokudo


On d other side, Y alwys dis line----- "One thing led to d other" I rilly wanna knw
#yinmu