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Mak d runz babe just turn bak to see a guy stood up to dat time...................


#na hospital she go wake hear dat d guy only stood up to go and urinate or carry gift frm his car.

A runz guy/babe go dey count seconds ni for d pastor to move to d next prog while d hrt beat triples.

Only God wld save him/her frm collapsing as a result of high Bp.

Emeraldcute:
See carry ur derailings away from here

E dey pain u
Key u no pick, snake u no carry comot. Naso u do till u miss d range rover
E be lyk ur keke napep sweet u abi?

ShayGirl:
wen there is love, the rest is history.....

Love ko, romance ni.

How many of u sayin love can define wot love is nd wot it is about?
Love is purely abstract, fades nd fails


#TRUST is jst wot is nided

Dat is wot happens wen prior proper preparation wasn't in place ahead of wot u wanna embark on.

They av only succeeded in embarrassing themselves.

Dat is to tell others dat age, ur academic achievements nd societal influence doesn't make a marriage. Marriage is a different institution nd If u don't know wot it entails or tak time to prepare for it, u av also succeeded adding up to d number of home breakers.
If u dey tell dem, dey will be screaming tall, slim $ handsome using marykay $ their pancakes to show off. Not knowing most of them are empty.

If u are still in d safe zone, help ursef first so God can help u.

hiteelong:
be right back, let me ask my Ex


On a lighter note, keep busy n fill your mind with wholesome tins
Avoid staying alone as much as u can
Try to widen out
Remove anything that can remind u of her- pix, phn number, mssgs- at least till you pass this stage
watch all football matches when u are less busy n
STAY away from love songs o


my piece thou

Op, nyc 1 for u here.

Widen out as she said with free mind to d core. Just b neutral nd catch fun in lil way u can.

Konji na omo ale
D man slept off afta hard work.


Those sentimental tribalistic idiots(se ori bi isu ewura) dat use to shout yoruba wunt show face naw, buh wen it is done by anoda tribe u will see dem opening teeth like roasted goat. Still same set of people dat keeps messing lagos state(S/western state) up with all kinds of atrocities.
Omo irankiran

Dis op na stingy person.

No be blue ink, na red ink.

As somone said, I can conclude dt d op's confusion is deeper. E pass our former man sef.

Any advice given here is likely going to b a waste of time because dis very OP can't understand any.


I can only pray to God to restore wisdom nd smartness into u.(Amen)

Having d mindset dat pple will change in future is d height of stupidity.


OP, pple like u are d cause of ur own predicament wen it happens. Seeing all red flags/flash points nd still deliberating on wot to do
Somfin must b wrong somwia.

If you are okay $ can cope with all she said, goodluck to you.

I will likely b available wen u are back here to seek advice on getting d second wife.

I wunt pity u for any reason.I think sorry shld b owkay for u.
It doesn't worth it takin ones life.
As u no giv details of wot has bin happening, d kind of person he his $ wot cld av led to dat

On d contrary, only God knws d extent u av gone to humiliate d guy.
IF I'm in his shoes, I may not giv u reason(s) for my actions(buh wld certainly b justified) nd decide to wreck u wit my silence(as I no dey quick react at all) especially wen a lady is an embodiment of wickedness $ wahala.

Moral of ur story--- analyse who u are, do thorough checking, den start immediate $ sincere work on ur lapses to b a better person.

Wen she wanna pee $ defecate too, open ur mouth nd tell her u will alwys b available.


Mtcheeeew

Shey na inside map dem shoot?

#No source, no pishure

Can 3 pple post their 2packs wit one acct(using pixmix) to mak it 6 for dose wey no get 6packs?

Blood covenant for WHAT?
In dis age?
D babe must b sick den.wld delete her sharply


Only God knws d kind waka waka u pple dey do bfor u jam dat kind gal

Op, no be lie. You wldn't av said it better.
D points were spot on.thumbs up bro.

Dunno wen dey are gonna get sense.
D worst part is dat dey wanna marry so so early wit dia watery brain $ devilish attitude.
(Sole contributors to failure of modern day marriages)

#if person no mature shebi she go get gud attitude buh in dia own case.......

Mak God helep men ooo

Freemanan:

NAIRALAND WORKS IN MYSTERIOUS WAYS LOVE....



IT'S AN AURA AND A PERSONAL IDIOSYNCRATIC FUN

Lwtmb
Dis guy jst nailed it.


And na one werey start dat fin oo
Nairaland is jst a place to be.

NLjona:
Okay thanks .. This the best advice I've got!!

U are very much welcome.

Op is only lukin for justification.

Pple like u(wit delusions) will increase d rate @ whch marriages break.

Looool.
Nairaland filled wit orisirisi.


Op, dey alwys carry bag now wey u fit use cover am incase of emergency as u dey alwys get am.

Op, don't mind all dis pple bashing u. It can only get better

Dnt bother to send her anyfin.e be lyk u dnt knw hw dis babes dey fink?
She fit see 100naira airtym(fink dats wot u can afford now frm ur post) com dey wash u sey na d amt ur mate dey send b dat. She fit no call u self.

Study her first as u don meet her now bfor u start unnecessary investment.

1. Maybe

2. Dat wld depend on her past.

Quite unusual

Mayb she wanna contest for somfin or in need of somfin nd dey tak style pour water for front.

In dis situation, it is not bad if u make d first move(u are a guy). U wanna mak finz better naw.

#dnt b carried away by ur emotions thereby forgetting d purpose of avin dis talk.(Rmember u av to set d foundation ryt, since ur relationship is fresh)

NLjona:
Thanks a lot... But I wanna know who should make the first move.. Me or her?

DeeTus:
Haha. Seems like these girls have finished you guys.

Stop chasing them, work hard and they'll come looking for you.

Bfor nko bros?I av forgotten I av done dat sef.
I did wot I did den jst to b satisfied I av done wot I'm to do nd to justify me actions.#no time

#no gal can finish me ooo.

Looool.
Dis one mess for person mouth com add salt join o.

Buh fink of it too, is mouth action decent?
And wld u ever preach or counsel intending couples to do dat as a pastor?

I bliv woteva u do and u can't preach is not worth engaging in it.

Op frm wot u said I sense lack of effective communicatn, understanding nd trust btw u two.
It is one fin for u to understand wot it taks to av a good relationship nd anoda fin to av a sound partner.
U both nid to av serious talk.Wit dis, u will get necessary knowledge of d babe u are dealing wit if u are intelligent.then u decide if she is som1 dat worth d effort or not.

#rmember there is no room for 70-30 in relationship.

Rexnegro:
U earned my respect so don't tank me...as regard what u said about yes u re correct...I have talked sense into her to the point she said I complain and talk too much....I ve done everything possible to make her see my stand about us...but u no some girls na when they see and meet a dude who's for real they will appreciate him....right now I ve not called her and I won't until she calls and have some sense of commitment...I won't kill myself in a relationship because am the guy na....she better realize that guys who are for real aint much outside meanwhile girls are 2/3 of world population....I got time for any lady who will get time for me. Shikena....madam nice quoting I must say.

Loool
Dis is exactly wot jst happened to me. Dat is to affirm to u dat ladies are confused beings. Mine told me same fin dat I complain a lot, whch is normal to com from adamant $ arrogant nonentity.(I dnt knw other ways to correct finz dan communication afta I av muted nd led by example, moving d relationship nd finking she wld emulate nd change buh na lie) most tyms, they are ingrates nd are never satisfied. U will just die danu danu if u dare try giv ur best.If u want buy her dis world, u will still b messed wit. U may remain in d friendzone/magazone foreva sef if care is not taken. They are just too silly.

Me sef over sat her down nd over talked buh i resolved dat she doesn't worth me(coupled wit other finz I saw).she dey even use church cover face,nt knwin dat I knw every damn fin
Dey tak loving $ caring for dem genuinely(mayb wit gentility$diplomacy in my own case) as being dull/weak.
Wen it is not as if ladies don finish, few good ones at dat.If u knw wot is gud for u, wot u really want in ur life u shld knw d next fin to do wit such useless gals.

As for me, I can't deal wit a lady dat is full of herself nd not teachable(unfortunately we av more of dem now). No time for one egocentric nuisance.

beautycrush24:
Religiously speaking, its wrong. Traditionally speaking, its right. So d choice is yours

Confusionist!!!

Op, it is all about wot pleases u.
So far u both made vow in d presence of two or more pple (God is also there) I bliv u av married her. Now left to u to use ur discretion.

I be 11yrs (7th assembly) and I am engaged( d babe proposed to me dis morning @ olumo rock).




OP to sav tym nd reduce d stress frm dis charitable task u'v given ursef, y can't u go to NCC or NIMC @ abuja?

OP, are u also a student?

dancok:
I check ur pic, the girl am talking about is just like u, fair, same posture, I have something for u girls. *winks*

Loooooooooooooool
Live $ direct
Nairaland is gonna b everly lively
Loads of pple wit skuchi for head.