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Nelbless:
Hello, I am man will hit 31 in few days time from Awka etiti in anambra state in love with a 21 year old lady who hails from ikwo in abakiliki ebonyi state.

the relationship is quite young 4 months old but to us is as if, we have been together for the past few years.
..it is my intention to marry this girl.

so I deem it fit to just verify from nairalanders whose root is from ebonyi state, what am to expect in marrying this girl, pride price etc...... comments from my fellow girls that married from ebonyi would be appreciated........ I just want to prep up my self prior to meeting my in-laws to be. so your advice and experience would go a long way in helping me adjust........... thanks

Let me assume u wanna say bride price buh ur fellow girls bi bawo?

When will most of u stop being greedy, selfish nd be reasonable wit ur demands?

Op, can't u guys just go for traditional $ court wedding? If ur babe is tellin u d truth, can't u leave his church nd join a new bible believing church?


Dunno why I'm avin d feelin dat ur babe dcivin u.mayb she has also given it to d man or just willing to because I don't knw why any serious lady wld wanna undergo virginity test by her pastor.

How wil d pastor go abt it? And wot after he don confirm she is not a virgin, is he still goin to join u pple in his church??

[quote author= post=35926984]here is her pic without a makeup on. please judge[/quote]#yinmu.

Buh why she dey open shoulder pad bra

Andrew114:
u be dog?

misspicy:
No but my sense of smell can br likened to that of canines,am a rare breed of human.
But you be GOAT

Jeez!!! dog $ goat ke?
How come? Oya e fi ra yin sile

"High school students" for goodness sake!

Define 'Rape' then tell me if it is acceptable $ sane act. Also show me any sane person dat wld engage in dat.

Also I won't b surprised if d survey is comin frm d western part of d world

Op, May God bless u.

It is sad that most pple reference their selfish interest, western teachings $ telemundo more dan their creator nd His word/instructions.

OP, anybody wey get ear let him hear. We shall see who dey will run to wen d consequences starts. Back to God they ignored?

#u can see Nigeria meeting with other countries for security $ financial assistance. Why won't america force same sex marriage law on us? A nation dat fails to reference God(adopts western culture $ ideas) will pay heavily for it.

badaoyeyemi:
we aren't shallow we just having fun....Nd for d Q love conquers all....wen we love we don't see d handsomeness or uglyness

Have u ever seen a mad person agreeing that he/she is mad?

Op comot there, naso dem be since creation.

Omoge bo bi, mofe fe o. Ewo ni o mu e ninu aago owo abi bata ese mi. Omo so gba abi o gba?
(Sexy, com here I wan marry u. Whch one no cage u outta my wrist watch nd my bugatti shoe. U gree or u no gree?)

Dis whites sef has got certain trait of mumu~nity in their blood.

Dawinlove:
your comment please..cos most guys do this

Mr man, speak for urself.

It is possible for a womaniser(like u)

Wen there more gud signs, op jst succeeded in putting poo togeda.

Feet ko, inches ni. U for say mak she turn it backward na.

ShayGirl:
Thanx a lot....Oh yes, i 'm in Lagos

You are very much welcome.
#join me make we listen to 102.3fm right now as u neva sleep

Onila!!!!!!!

U again? Okay continu ooo, u yhear?


Buh why not take ila, it's gonna reduce/stop d pain

Op, na today??
Dnt knw who senior between dem nd lucifer. One of d reasons he tempted eve successfully.

OP is kinda desperate. I av seen where u emphasized in ur comments dat "u just want to keep ur relationship" as if ur life depend on it.
#u were blinded by love wen he slapped u nd u'r still blind...mtcheww
Some gals are just empty.(No offiense)

Wen d purpose of a fin is not known, abuse is inevitable.

Stop giving ursef false hope, I don't see somfin left in dat thrift u called relationship.

##OP kindly give five good reasons why u av to save/keep dis relationship. Then I will know u are serious with life.

Feminist wannabes

Na OLX most of u go end.

Following

Dey will neva tell themselves d truth
#feminist+wannabes

Gift would only activate or ginger her magarism diary.

ShayGirl:
Well said. Totally convincing!!! winks....

Happy to hear dat

So don't get urself stalked nd messed up o. Kindly tak ur time to prepare nd learn more bfor one random guy wil mess u up.

Are u in lagos right nw?

Cutehector:
its all good . As long as someone out thr gets inspired... Like me nw, I may like a gurl very much, buh most times I'd be askn myself, hw will she react wen a conflict happens.. Hw will she handle d situation and all that.. Some ladies just find it difficult to say they are sorry and at that point u just begin to imajin if dats d person u wana spend d rest of ur life with

Tnkz bro! I av experienced dis twice @ diff times. Even wit pple dat are good frnds.

One of d reasons I withdrawn frm my last relationship is her heady habit. I can't remember wen she actually acknowledged her flaws within two good years even wen it is was so glaring(neva said sorry). She is prepared to giv 101 reasons why wot she did is justified.Got to a stage I cld no longer tell her somfinz.
She also knws too much nd not teachable. I analysed who I am nd wot I want in my relationship then I concluded she doesn't worth it/deserve me.

I stand to b corrected, there are more ladies in nowadays that ego/pride has eaten dem deep or I shld say has bin finished by it. They raises head anyhow (seen dat frm female frnds)

Dis is so deep. Though it is long buh I took my time to digest it all nd I feel refreshed.
Op, thankz.

I knw most of dis finz bfor buh it feels gud wen somone else givs u/break it down from another perspective nd in smaller bits.tnkz once again.

ShayGirl:
I believe everyone is entitled to his or her opinion..

on this count, pls expantiate on why u see trust as d most important. I could easily gain more.

Yea, it is true every1 is entitled to his/her opinion. I didn't say dat wit d intention of pickin on u. #pls dnt tak it personal #winks.

Looking @ d word love, it has no particular definition nd it is far from being a feeling.
For ex. A babe $ a guy can only b attracted to one another by superficial attributes. It will b silly for somone to tell d other person he loves at d first sight, rather it wld b mere attraction borne out of lust.

As I said, love is abstract and it develops/occurs frm d combination of certain elements like trust, commitment, care, sacrifice to mention a few.
To an extent, u must av lil trust/blief in somone bfor u can commit ursef to him/her.den u wil b exposed to seeing other gud finz in dat person dat cld mak conclude u love.

U will agree dat love can't hold a relationship where d trust/blief in d person has bin breached or where infidelity is d other of d day.

Now ignore dose elements I listed dat maks love nd tell me d meaning of love if it won't b a useless four-lettered word.


#i will back it up with dis points from

http://thoughtcatalog.com/daphne-sze/2014/10/7-reasons-why-trust-is-more-important-than-love/


1. We can only love someone we trust.

Love is built on trust. As rational individuals, we can only naturally love someone we already trust. Relationships that aren’t anchored in trust are not made to survive rocky trials.

2. Love only reflects our ability to trust others.

Our ability to selflessly give ourselves to others comes with a guarantee of reciprocation. We trust in order to be trusted, but we love only with the hope of being loved back.

3. We use trust to control our emotions.

We are emotional beings who put more emphasis on the means than the end. We engage ourselves in meaningful relationships that we value. Hence, we use trust to gauge our relationship with others, and in the process, we figure out how much we are willing to give of ourselves to others.

4. We put a premium on trust as the building block of any relationship.

Trust precedes love. Every type of relationship is anchored on our ability to be open and share ourselves with others.

5. Judgment is clouded by love but illuminated by trust.

We think that love can save us from emotional roller coasters. More often than not, we are blinded by what love has to offer—gaining the acceptance, admiration, and approval of others. What we fail to consider is the fact that sometimes, our judgment becomes flawed because there are times when love suppresses reason and we get trapped in its foolish play. Trust, on the other hand, routes us back to the reason we built the relationship—establishing a lifelong connection with that person.

6. Trust conquers all.

We always believe that love conquers all, but it is trust that pushes us to believe that we can and will conquer every obstacle. We can say that love is the overarching concept of overcoming whatever obstacle comes our way, but it is trust that holds everything together. It is the glue to every gap and difference.

7. Trust is what makes us love again.

At the end of it all, after we fall down, get back up, and head back on track, trust enables us to believe that deep inside, we are all hopeless romantics just trying to find our own better half among the seven billion little souls on Earth

funnyme:
Yes people like me,we don't have even one. So don't be surprised,there are girls without bf.

Av u decided to be a rev. Sister?

Op, mayb u are destined to b single

Go sing dat song for church during testimony hour nd see no of church single sisters wey don live life tire wey go follow u like flies.

NO.... Dat is is why it is called mobile phone(personal) nd not family gadget. Dis is not for selfish reason(s) buh how am I gonna deal wit my business associates nd customers. How am I gonna put food on d table? Wot if it is dat vry day dat somfin spectacular wld happen?

She can alwys check and use my mobile phone buh leave it for a whole day? Nah

jashar:
Not necessarily. They can be fried too. I actually like the fried samosas. So crunchy and meaty

Good excuse!
Op com nd see one of dem ooo
Bfor u go carry her go show mama

Jst knw dat once u tak dat for breakfast, na roasted corn go be ur dinner

D guy jean nd shoe for dat third pix na die. See as he luk lyk irunmole