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RomanceRe: Today I Was Surprised To Know About Infibulation. by oldguyman(op): 9:36am On May 13, 2024
From quora.com, someone said it is practiced in Ebonyi State. I was surprised that this is even more dangerous than circumcision. 

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RomanceToday I Was Surprised To Know About Infibulation. by oldguyman(op): 9:30am On May 13, 2024
What surprised you today?
Today I was surprised to know about infibulation. You may be wondering what is infibulation ? No need to worry. see below:


It is the practice of removing the clitoris and labia of a girl or woman and sewing the edge of the vulva to prevent intercourse. This is complete shaving of the vagina and stitches to prevent the girl from having sex.

The vagina is sealed, leaving a small hole through which the girl can menstruate or urinate.

The girl's leg was bound with a rope for days to allow the wound to heal. The wound usually takes between 15 and 40 days to heal. During this time, the girl's legs are tied and she cannot move.

Basically, the stitches are made so that the husband can open them again on the wedding night so that he can have an intimate relationship with her. Imagine someone opening a stitch and immediately having sex with her.

Imagine the pain, I mean intense pain!!!

Imagine the traumatic experience, the pain that the girl will go through.

Isn't it better to let him decide whether to marry a virgin than to do that?

During birth, many women require repeated incisions because the vagina is too small for the baby to pass through.

It also causes urinary tract infections, fistulas and infertility in women.

The worst part is that women in Africa do this. I think this is where feminism should start.

It should be fought for African feminists and not about who should wash the dishes or cook or other irrelevant issues.

For your information, it is still practiced in some parts of Africa.

According to research, it was also practiced in North America, Australia and New Zealand.

It's heartbreaking

Girls do not deserve this abuse for being girls.

And the most curious thing is that no ideological movement has even tried to raise this issue or even talk about it.
RomanceCan A Couple Survive Infidelity And Save Their Marriage After? by oldguyman(op): 9:14am On May 13, 2024
Can a couple survive infidelity and save their marriage after the betrayal of trust has happened?
The question is well explanatory and I would like to have feedback on the matter.
FamilyRe: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by oldguyman: 11:14am On May 04, 2024
The man is a finished man.

Aboki99:
You aren't a self-respecting man! You have no iota of dignity in you!

Probably you are also cheating on her that's why it doesn't make you act rightly.

A woman give u the worst disrespect, dishonour, and shege any woman can give to a man and you still insist you love her! You are not normal! Olodo!
FamilyRe: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by oldguyman: 11:13am On May 04, 2024
You don't need advise then.

Iykegodslove:
Good day everyone!! I am emotionally shattered as I type this message. I have been suspecting my wife for years now but no concrete evidence to confront her.

There is a boss of my mine who happens to be our family friend. Each time he calls my wife, she deletes the call history immediately. This has been happening for years but I keep quite because i love my wife and my children so much.

Of recent, i decided to know what is happening by hacking her call with him. Lo and behold, they are into deep relationship that my wife calls him baby. Infact, sleep has gone out of my eyes and am thinking of how to deal with the situation.

It should be noted that i am not working under the man in question only that we are church members and he has rendered countless of help to me. I am wondering what puts my wife into this mess. I am graduate but i decided not to work for anybody but to focus on my farming. I am doing well financially bcs i can boost of 500k or more every month. We are not lacking anything at all.

Please house ignore my typo and help with good advice.

Note: i dnt want to divorce my wife and am ready to forgive her bcs she has been of great help to my success and moreover, i love my family very well. What should i do to stop them?
RomanceRe: The Rate Nigerians Belittle Money Nowadays by oldguyman: 11:08am On May 04, 2024
Awoof money in circulation in our kwontri is much and this is the reason someone with zero balance account will see a whole 3.6 million naira as nothing. many believe they can earn it without lifting a finger.

Chingyyy878:
I saw a video on X (twitter) posted by yabaleft and it’s about veteran actress Shan George crying about how someone called Cecilia cleared all the N3.6 million in her zenith bank account into Opay.

The comment section weak me. Nigerians go dey call millions small amount yet hunger wan finish 80% of the population. Some are even surprise that’s all she has in her account.

Even people wey dey earn less than 50k per month.

Thunder go fire 🔥 all of una with una fake life.

If I announce give away now everybody go show with account number. Useless county and citizens
PoliticsRe: Is This Really Your Spouse Asking People Not To Invest In Lagos? - Reno by oldguyman: 3:06pm On May 01, 2024
Let them continue to cry and wish Lagos evil but one thing is certain, Eko Ile has been a center of commerce centuries ago and no amount of blackmailing will hold down the glory of the state.
You people see Lagos flourishing and this is the reason you are coming.
PoliticsRe: "Invest In Lagos At Your Own Peril" - Maryanne Moghalu by oldguyman: 2:06pm On May 01, 2024
You are such a shameless person. So a single person doing tiktok is now your reference ? I think you need serious prayer.

https://www.nairaland.com/2375155/igbos-map-out-5-years

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PoliticsRe: "Invest In Lagos At Your Own Peril" - Maryanne Moghalu by oldguyman: 1:48pm On May 01, 2024
Which of the useless business are you saying. What is stopping you from taking your fake business to your region and let see first. On this same platform, they have listed the names/companies of the real investors in Lagos and we all see the leading tribe. If you think your buying and selling is what make you business owners, then you are on your own. You need Lagos to sell so Lagos don't need you. Take your load and go back to your region, no one will hold you or miss you. Enough of crying all the time. Pack your load and go.

43Ronin:
But your hausa lords and saviors said that 70% of businesses in lagos are owned by igbos, and that is just igbos he did not include hausa that have bought up the entire Agege or nigerdeltans. You yorubas have nothing because your leaders invested in 9-5 for you guys
PoliticsRe: "Invest In Lagos At Your Own Peril" - Maryanne Moghalu by oldguyman: 1:39pm On May 01, 2024
Selling fake drinks, expired drugs and those rubbish is what you consider business. Your head is blank. Without illegal business Ibo man cannot do anything.

emmanuelbrown26:
Give those idiots business to manage and watch dem turn d business to owambe
PoliticsRe: "Invest In Lagos At Your Own Peril" - Maryanne Moghalu by oldguyman: 1:37pm On May 01, 2024
You play too much and over important yourself. Ibo should carry go and see Lagos standing gidigba. Enough of your crime and fake product.

bennybuhari:
Truth is, if Igbos leave Lagos today, Lagos will be like a village or at best, a ghost town
CrimeRe: Parent Slaps Bully At Abuja British School: Institution Temporarily Shuts Down by oldguyman: 9:58am On Apr 24, 2024
Your head is paining you if not you won't vomit such rubbish in a public forum as this. So they cannot hire someone to be monitoring their CCTV for 8/9 hours the children will be at school. If some organization like mall, hospitals and some estates are doing so then nothing stops a high paying school like this to be doing the same.

geoworldedu:
So they will sleep on their CCTV abi. And when they see that a child is about to be slapped on CCTV, they will appear magically on the scene and prevent it from happening abi cheesy
You guys can bring out yeye ideas and make it look like it makes sense eeehn. grin
CrimeRe: Parent Slaps Bully At Abuja British School: Institution Temporarily Shuts Down by oldguyman: 7:34pm On Apr 23, 2024
The school management has failed in their responsibility. Do you want to tell me a school such as this doesn't have CCTV to monitor the student activities. The parent should have slapped the school headteacher instead of the culprit.
Foreign AffairsRe: Iran Vows To Deploy 'weapons It Has Never Used If Israel Launches Retaliatory St by oldguyman: 6:02pm On Apr 16, 2024
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Christianity EtcRe: Why Are Heavy Spiritual Soaps Not Working For Me As A Yahoo Boy by oldguyman:
Dear Armaniboywishes,

Let me start addressing you with some quotes about man's greatest enemy which is time.

1. Lost time is never found again. – Benjamin Franklin.

2. Time is the most valuable thing a man can spend. – Theophrastus.

3. Time is free, but it’s priceless. You can’t own it, but you can use it. You can’t keep it, but you can spend it. Once you’ve lost it you can never get it back. Harvey Mackay

I brought the above quotes for you to have a rethink about your life. According to your narration, you finished your secondary school in the year 2016 and you couldn't go further because no one to sponsor you.
This means by the year 2026, it will be exactly 10 years you are through with your secondary school. By then you will have some of your colleagues that will be rounding up with their first degree, while some will be rounding up with their NYSC, some will be going for their masters, while some will be celebrating one or two achievements they have within the 10 years.

My brother, if you will listen to me, I think the best and the first thing you need to do now is to start pursuing your first degree. You have no excuse for now. If it is part time form at LASU or UNILAG go and get and start equipping yourself for the future. While you are doing so, enroll yourself in any tech training. The 130K you are earning monthly is enough for you to repackage yourself. Stop building your castle in the air by wasting money or what is not certain.

Why you need to go back to school and also get trained in tech:

Any sudden money with no education or skill tends to varnish within a twinkle of an eye. Ask yourself, will I continue to be looking for updates here and there for the rest of my life? Will I continue going from one babalawo to another celestial church woli, going from one alfa to another for soap, concoction or padlock to lock clients for the rest of my life. As a young man with less baggage, what you need most now is your degree and other physical skills to earn good morning. Again, stop building your castle in the air.

Back to spiritual soaps:

I will quickly touch this area not because of you but others like you wasting money up and down.

Before you embark in the spiritual line, you need to first study yourself and know what works for you. I mean what your destiny wants. Many people collecting money from you don't even know how to consult, they will just assume since they did the same soap for A definitely it will work for B & C. No, spirituality doesn't work that way. It is the same with physical too when the doctor will prescribe panadol for Mr A, and prescribe Paracetamol B because he knows they are both having headache but the cause of their headaches is different.
I believe the soaps you paid 150K the person might not spend 20K for the items used and just collect your money. There are things one could do for himself without paying anyone but you must first know what your destiny wants.

My final submission, education is the only platform that will open ways in a manner you least expect. Start saving your money and first thing, go back to school and also learn tech.
PoliticsRe: Every Revolution Has An Ethnic Agenda by oldguyman: 5:27pm On Mar 06, 2024
Loud it Mr man.
CrimeRe: Hardship: Man Kills His Son Over Last Portion Of Food In Abia State by oldguyman: 10:03pm On Feb 27, 2024
Region of Billionaires killing a son over food.
Christianity EtcRe: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by oldguyman: 10:47am On Feb 26, 2024
The pastor goofed badly in this. I am surprised with people attacking the writer. If you read the write up with an unbiased mind, and also watch the video clip then you will know they are not attacking Christianity but opening people's eyes.

I know of a man " landlord " who canceled his daughter's lavish wedding because one of their tenants lost his son, a less than 10 years old boy. The man called his in-laws and explained to them what happened to his tenant and told them they will have to do the wedding in a very low key.... Hall events were cancelled, attendants were cut to a very small number of people and the speakers too were low to the nearest minimum. Even the father of the late boy has to beg the man not to spoil his daughter's day of joy because of his late son. The landlord said no, they can still do another big party if his daughter gives birth but they must respect the lost soul.

I see no reason why mummy G.O cannot postpone her glamorous birthday celebration to next year. Many worshippers will be very sad how the Wigwe were treated after their demise.
Christianity EtcRe: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by oldguyman: 10:36am On Feb 26, 2024
WIGWE, his wife and a son died in the ill fated helicopter crash. I hope you understand better now?

Princezibk:
But I thought it was WIGWE , his younger son and other accomplices that died in the crash … I thought his wife is alive naah

I’m confused 🫤 ! So who’s the wife that was upset with the pastor’s wife ??
Christianity EtcRe: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by oldguyman:
I have a very good friend of mine who always warned me to be selfish, self centered and face myself at least 98% before considering anyone else. I used to laugh at him and tell him how selfish he is. I later found out he is 100% right and I have been stupid thinking that on rainy days I will see someone from people I am throwing money at to come to my rescue. I was madly ashamed of myself for not listening to my friend but now I have learnt my lesson.


Beverlyjean:
Humans are naturally selfish.... me myself have learnt the hard way... when u are in a good position, u see sycophants ... but once u are no longer there, they start to act like u never existed ... imagine , a so called pastors wife of all people
FamilyRe: I Caught My Younger Sister Committing Adultery With A Married Man by oldguyman: 6:41pm On Feb 24, 2024
wink wink wink
PoliticsRe: NTA Cuts LIVE Program As Yakubu Gowon Refuses To Speak In Hausa (video) by oldguyman: 6:39pm On Feb 22, 2024
Another ogogoro analysis as usual.

alsudan:
Its easy to understand what played out.

Thiefnibuu is becoming desperate after being openly thrown under the bus by the North who he depends on for votes.

He brings in Gowon for a propaganda job, so they can circulate the tape in the North, hence the need for the General to speak Hausa.

But the old soldier was to wise for them and rejected their plot. grin

Even Thiefnibuu knows his days in that office are numbered.
Foreign AffairsRe: Pharaoh Gets Passport 3000 Years After His Death by oldguyman: 12:34pm On Feb 18, 2024
Because the French law mandatory anyone coming to France must have a passport, this is the reason the Egyptians issued the remains of Pharaoh the passport so they can take the remains to France for maintenance.

samwash:
Na wa oo !!
Nothing person nor go see or hear.
Our African forefathers that died in slavery go soon get passport, so that we can bring their bodies home for proper burial.
Christianity EtcRe: My Mental Health Challenges, Who Can Help? by oldguyman: 10:49am On Feb 12, 2024
Paranoid schizophrenia was once a subtype of this condition because paranoia commonly happens with schizophrenia. Paranoia is a pattern of behavior where a person feels distrustful and suspicious of other people and acts accordingly. Delusions and hallucinations are the two symptoms that can involve paranoia.

Symptoms and Causes
What are the symptoms?
Schizophrenia typically happens in three stages. The active stage of schizophrenia is when symptoms are at their worst. The key symptoms of schizophrenia are:

Delusions.
Hallucinations.
Disorganized or incoherent speech.
Disorganized or unusual behavior.
Negative symptoms.
Web MarketRe: Debit Card Designner Needed by oldguyman: 3:13pm On Feb 04, 2024
I can help you through... Send PM and let talk business.
PoliticsRe: Aondo Ver, Federal Housing Authority Director Kidnapped In Abuja by oldguyman: 10:47am On Feb 01, 2024
Maybe by now they will know what the average Nigerians are facing.
Foreign AffairsRe: Mossad Agents Disguised As Women, Doctors, Disabled, Nurses To Kill Terrorists by oldguyman: 5:11pm On Jan 31, 2024
diapers soldiers grin
Christianity EtcRe: Can We Have A Thread On Favorite Bible Verse by oldguyman: 10:55am On Jan 28, 2024
2 Corinthians 13:12

Greet one another with a holy kiss.
PropertiesRe: Enugu State Government Demolishes Buildings In Centenary City, Residents Cry Out by oldguyman: 5:32pm On Jan 20, 2024
Keep fooling yourself.

plessis:
After attacking and killing igbos for expressing their right to vote, they now remember tribal bigotry is bad.

Seun cannot fool everyone.
BusinessRe: Tope Awotona: Meet Nigeria's Richest Man In The US by oldguyman: 11:09am On Jan 20, 2024
Stop wasting your time, he is the same anambralastborn cheesy

Kokorokomanaoga:
How does someone praising the feats of his tribesmen translate to tribalism, if you are not ashamed of your tribe why dont you post and praise their achievements too?
That means the likes of anambraIstson etc should be banned too?
PoliticsRe: Kano Emirates’ Issue Will Definitely Be Revisited – Kwankwaso by oldguyman: 6:39pm On Jan 19, 2024
Part of the reasons the FG will not allow state police.

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