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Murder. If she had shot herself, the blood would have spilled on her left side or around her and not behind her, since it appears she shot from her right.

Khd95:
so jesus had to wait for peter to cut some1's ear be4 he condemns him

Didnt jesus know peter was with sword all along,why didnt he condemn him?

Peter took the sword from one of the guards standing by, not that he had the sword all along.

Well, well, well. Alot of comments on this thread.
Hmmm... I don't know for sur about others, but for me Olubunmi Apekeade, its a no-no. Why would I even consider asking a guy out? Either for dating or marriage, mba nu.
If you(as a lady) loves a guy and you've given him (is it green card people call it now?), and he's not getting it, you've given him tips to get him understand that u want him to ask u out( which I would personally never do) and he's still not getting it, believe me, HE WILL NEVER GET IT!! Why? Because he doesn't look at you that way. No guy is that dumb, not to recognize such signs. Even if he likes u too but scared or shy, he'll be giving you signs too n before you know it, you guys will start dating.
I like the old-fashioned way. Guy chases girl==girl gree==dating start or guy chases girl==girl no gree==guy waka.
No matter the circumstance, even if its for marriage, when a lady is so sure a particular guy is meant for her, she should be patient. IT IS A VIRTUE. The God that revealed the man to her will reveal her to the guy.
Das all.

Other reasons some guys are not married...

*They only focus on looking for ladies that are "wife materials" not looking inward to build themselves to be "husband materials" as well. You'll see a guy that consumes alchohol like a thirsty Carmel drinking water, only that they never stop. They only look for where street jamz or carnival is happening so they can attend. You'll see them at home in the morning, in their friends place during the day, at game house in the evening and back home in the night. Practically without a job and never with the aim of finding one. Most of them have daddy's and mummy's they ask for money. Then don't know HOW to talk, they are bossy and never say Please or sorry.

*Lack of contentment.
Your babe is walking beside you, yet you turn that your head to look at another lady's behind and boobs. Not only looking, but drooling with saliva "commoting" from your mouth and eyes wide open at someone else's body, and you want her to trust you. You are dating Princess, but sidelining Mariam, you were caught kissing Deola, and introduced Chichi to your friends as your babe. My brother, oyo lowa. She ends up breaking up with you and you start thinking there's a spirit wife following you cause 5girls have dumped you the same way. Look inward.

*Aka-gum-ness.
This is different from stingyness, its worse. Some guys are soooooooo stingy! Common! She's not asking you to buy her a car or buy her a house, but please, pick up the bills sometimes. She doesn't have to ask you before you give her. It doesn't have to be money all the time. You went out, see a nice book(if she reads), buy it for her. It shows you were thinking of her. I'm not saying guys should automatically become ATM's, No. But generally, the man in a relationship provides and protects while the lady submits and care. that's the way its been, even culturally.

I stop my fingers here.

It's good to listen to godly counsel, and messages from God to you. The only problem is that there are lots and lots of people who'll tell you they are from God, while they are not. But thank God! We don't have to pay any amount to be heard by God and hear from him directly. Go can to the throne of grace and let God lead us. Believe me if u are sure God is leading you, even when trouble comes in the future, your legs will stand gidigba ni o. The thought that maybe u married wrongly will not have a place in ur heart, cos u are sure God led u.

Na so one guy I sat with in Maruwa 2weeks ago tapped me, I turned, then, "Hello" I said hi, I face front. Next thing, "Please, is your name Jummy? You look like somebody that came to look for job in my office" My mouth just hung open without my consent. I replied politely that I'm not Jummy, then I heard "Ok, you look like her. Can I have your number?
Another one(this one was like 2years ago), I was even thinking of giving him a favourable answer, until he said, " I'm a gift to any lady that dates me".
Guys and yeye toasting abilities.

Na so one guy I sat with in Maruwa 2weeks ago tapped me, I turned, then, "Hello" I said hi, I face front. Next thing, "Please, is your name Jummy? You look like somebody that came to look for job in my office" My mouth just hung open without my consent. I replied politely that I'm not Jummy, then I heard "Ok, you look like her. Can I have your number?
Another one(this one was like 2years ago), I was even thinking of giving him a favourable answer, until he said, " I'm a gift to any lady that dates me".
Guys and yeye toasting abilities.

goodnewscliff:
man....it is boldly written in d bible that false prophet will mislead many...andda at 1timothy 2:11,12 and 1corinthians 14:34,35,there it was clearly stipulated that a womans position in the church is to keep silent but to be in subjection 2 their husbands...if u see d reverse practically,knw dat d church is something elseee...follow #bible standards#not humans

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I disagree. The bible says in Joel 2:28 that God will pour his spirit upon sons and daughters, they will prophecy and dream dreams. One of the gifts of the Holy Spirit is to teach, he can teach the church through whoever he wants, either man of women, old or young.

I agree with that your third point is in the bible, but I'd like to let you know that women of those days were usually uneducated as men then. So, they ask questions which can cause distractions, hence they were to ask their husbands at home. If women are not to talk in churches today, then why are women called by God to serve? May God give us wisdom

Well, I've read some comments... So I'd like to ask from the Muslims here, cos I've heard this from people, but not directly, so I wanna be sure I heard right. Now my question: Is it true that Muslims are being commanded by Allah to kill infidels so as to gain a place in heaven? Infidels i.e. those that are not of their religion.
Please, no abuse, its something I heard and read and I want know if its true or not. No offence.

Sweetlemon:
Have YOU accepted Jesus as YOUR own personal lord and savior? The fact that you were born into a Christian home is NO automatic ticket to heaven. You will end up in the same hell with terrorists because a true Christian preaches love and acceptance.
Shalom.

Hmmm...and see you, a "true Christian" saying his fellow will end in hell. I don't think we understand the gravity of what we comment sometimes. Would Jesus say what you just said? Let's be kind in our words, we preach love.

I had like you to date my uncle, hope you don't mind?

Who are all these children on Nairaland? Henh? Without any respect for their elders. See this one now

artisticallyart:
Are you single?

Yes, I'm single. Kilode?

artisticallyart:
That's why Jehovah's witnesses don't celebrate Christmas.

I don't see any compulsion that Christ must be celebrated the day he was born on earth. We should celebrate the most important birth ever everyday. Christmas is a day the whole world celebrates his birth together. I love Jesus.
#lovingChristmasAllTheWay#

Hmmnn.... I wonder what No 7 will look like?

To most ladies even our mothers, church wedding must be done, but personally, I don't see the big issue in it, really(I don't want an elaborate wedding, maybe that's why I feel it's not such a big deal). I acknowledge the fact that a spiritual head should bless your union, and that's just about it. So, why not just choose a date and go with your parents or witnesses to your pastor in his office for blessings? I also get it that couple to be want their friends and families to be there while they are being blessed, but its not mandatory. There's the trad wedding for the family. (My own thoughts tho)
I've realized there's more to 'church wedding' than just pastor's or church blessings. Sometimes, its for show off, to some its a do or die(even if they can't afford it), while to some, its a doctrine that must be held intact at all cost, to some also, they just follow the order, do it as its been done.

Its never too late to come out...

kilisi:
Thanks for pointing out that part in your last paragraph. Maybe that was a mistake. Although I don't have issues with saying things the way they are regardless of who is involved. What is good for the goose is also good for the gander. Else we shouldn't even publicly condemn anyone doing what is wrong but rather call them privately to inform them. And I believe you won't subscribe to that.

I don't subscribe to saying ill things about Pastors or even anyone. Personally, I think if u wanna reprove someone, do it privately. My "everybody should go on a reprove him here on social media" was meant to be sarcastic.
I don't wanna talk about this anymore, can u pls not mention me again? Cos I mighy be tempted to reply. May God teach us to do right always.

kilisi:
How come Paul publicly reproved apostle Peter when he did something wrong? Or have you not read the bible to that extent? (Galatians 2:6-14.) I wonder why we are so quick to absolve so called men of God from any blame even when it is obvious that they have erred. There is absolutely nothing wrong in calling a spade a spade regardless of who is involved.

Yeah... Well, then let everyone go on and reprove him here on social media. In verse 14 of that passage, Paul talked to Peter and reproved him but he dint say nasty things about him in another place. If you wanna reprove, you can get his phone number or write to him. Personally, I don't take everything everyone says hook, line and sinker. I take the ones beneficial to me, discard the rest. It's not necessary to comment if you feel you don't agree with him, das my point. Considering if he's a man of God or not, its the same point.
And your "obviously when they have erred". Smh, really?... I reserve my comment on that.

kilisi:
Nope. He saw Abraham in heaven while he was in hell. Not while he was here on earth.

For the rich man to have seen Abraham in heaven even though he(rich man) was in hell, is enough reason to say that someone can go to heaven after death

All ye haters, thou shouldest well remember that the Scriptures says "Touch not mine anointed and do my prophet no harm" Just cause you want people to 'feel' your comments, you comment nonsense, not because you don't know the truth. If you don't agree to it, talk sense to your hands and don't comment. I'd rather not make any comment than use my hands to beg for the wrath of God

9jatatafo:
What about the call that Jesus said he will call the Saints and they will come forth from their tombs or graves? This matter hard oo

That's another matter. The best explanation is only if God explains these things to us by Himself

[quote author=menxer post=40381363]Is it written that man has the power to know who is in heaven?

He said, “By the special grace of God and because of my interaction with Mama, I have no doubt at all that she is in heaven now.”

I know pst Adeboye just made a "political" statement to console the bereaved family.

If not all that have "interacted" with him are heaven bound.

...but Heaven is the abode of the Gods, man can at best have a vision of it, for now.






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Ogbeni, the interacted' used in that context meant he led her to Christ. Dont dabaru it

daveyjay:
Dah'Bleep! Does dis man read his bible at all, I used to respect him until now, aside moses and Jesus, the bible makes it clear that the dead remains in the qrave until the sound of the trumpet...SMH end time clerqy men

Hmmm, how come the rich man in the bible saw father Abraham in heaven? We know where we belong because the Spirit of God bears witness in us, the bible lies not, so when a person has sincerely given his/her life to Christ and continues in Him, you know where you r are going

9jatatafo:
The Holy Bible clearly stated that after death comes judgement and not direct entry to heaven. Is my copy of the Bible different?

When judgement has been passed, the next thing is to enter heaven na, if the person lived well.

Well, you can be sure of eternity in paradise when you have been saved and you continue in the way of Christ.

HerXcellency:
[b][/b]Did u say quite modest?without bra is quite modest.ok.

One can go out without bra as long as its not so obvious with everything pointing out. If she sees that her breast are small and they definitely would not be dancing shoki while she's walking, she can go on and put on a singlet, then her cloth. Going out braless is different from going out without cloths. Smqll brested ladies dont necessarily have to put on bra, a singlet under the dress myt do

kokoA:
I'm really concerned about this issue of fallen bo00bz all over in our country. What have we young men done to deserve this? This is an issue of great national importance. Buhari should do something please.

Buhari should do something about fallen 'Olympus'? Lolss

Lekozy:
Pls Can Someone Explain This A B C Of A Thing And Who Are We Giving Seat To Pls Can Someone Explain This A B C Of A Thing And Who Are We Giving Seat To

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