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@ all response

am not doubting ur words, description and definitions.
But u know what, it depend mainly on where you are taking the woman from.
There are still modern day chic that are honest, simple and caring.

Chiori:
Actually, I would say that there is no just reason for men to cheat. . . . . Cheating is an aberration, and it can be stopped.

yeah, thanks
but many, who are living just to satisfy their urge/desire will not see this as easy as it is.

luap:
Start off by identifying the problem: Your a sx addict.

^^^
are U ok?
or maybe u run are reply to a wrong thread.

phemmy88:
If 'm to copy it from a book . . .the book is with me rait now!

The old anthem was compose by a white.

Abeg, if no body fit try, can u help us out.

At least we can tell it to the next generation too.

49cents:
Temptation of the flesh is a part of life, we all have to do mental work to deduce or stay docile to realize what is true and right about our sexuality and its beneficial use.
From my personal experience, Pre-marital sex has not helped at all in achieving consistency in behavior as rational persons. deception and lies are the hallmarks.

There are no hard rules about overcoming fleshly temptations it is simply a matter of not starting the fire in the first place and calling a spade a spade even when you are falling or have fallen: having pre-marital sex can never be a sign of love nor can it nourish love, on the contrary it shrivels it!

if your utmost personal life goals is to be a person of integrity; it will happen that a person who strives towards integrity is bound to know how direct there natural sexual drives.

The ultimate challenge is to find the motives for being a person of consistent character, really its what the effort!

^^^^
THANK U MY BRODA

akinolasam:
Let me give it a trial:

Nigeria we hail thee
Our on dear native land
No tribal ,
In brotherhood we stand
, am proud to serve
our sovereign father land.

SORRY,COULDN'T REMEMBER THE WORDINGS AGAIN.

this is a good trial.
you must have been around when it was in use.

Ayowumie:
Old Anthem. Never heard it before

my broda, there was oh!

okenwa:
it is a state of dilenma which men find themselves in, ladies equally do the same. but the best way out is for someone to make up his/her mind to quit or restrict the act to one partner.
i guess this is my opinion

thanks

Ebonyeyes:
Well if you are not married how would you know  . . . . . . . . .
You cant know how about it if you havnt felt it.

It is called "stolen water" in the scripture

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Ebonyeyes:
A sexual relationship outside of marriage can be highly addictive and the search for love in all the wrong places, insatiable.

if u read well you would have known that i was talking to both married and singles who search for love in all wrong places.

the problem with referees is that they are always busy running around but never allowed to play the ball.

stop been a referee and tell us any thing meaningful if u have one

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I dont know why both of u are coming into this thread as unjust judges. I never said am married, never posted anything about myself, I only made a general comment that I want REASONABLE PEOPLE to contribute to.

Anyway sexual temptation is not limited to the married alone. the single faced it more often.

so are u going to be useful now or stay out of this thread?

A sexual relationship outside of marriage can be highly addictive and the search for love in all the wrong places, insatiable. It is like a drink that never satisfies the soul and leaves the partaker only thirsty for more.

I have found myself many times on this path.

Can U share ur experience with us and how u overcome?

I luv no one but ME.

^^^^

pls keep that book very well because u may be the one to finally give us the solution at the end of this thread

once again, thank u for ur sincerity

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yeah, there was an old Anthem.

I am just wondering if anybody here can help with the lyrics of the Old National Anthem without looking at any reference or copying it out from somewhere.

The first line reads:NIGERIA WE HAIL THEE,

If u can just give it a trial. lets see how many line U still remember.

(Avoid Cheating on Urself by copying it out - just be honest this once)

Beync:
if a comon man challange a police man, d police man would hav done d same tin to a comon man.
uniform men n women ar cruel people.

Then they will tell us it ACCIDENTAL DISCHARGE.

ziddy:
How can a Nigerian policeman's soul rest in peace? That's the definition of 'impossibility'

It will be easy for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a POLICEMAN/WOMAN to rest in peace.


[quote author=sir-p2007 link=topic=505529.msg6667388#msg6667388 date=1283188784]May our police brother rest in peace.Hope its not a case of SELF DEFENCE[/quote]U must be a prophet.

clomn:
THIS IS PART OF THE PDP DIVIDEND OF DEMOCRACY.
PETER ODILI PLUS SABOMA GEORGE = OLUSEGUN OBASANJO.

someone should tell Odili & Obasanjo that their "dogs" are on the loose.
one down = SOBOMA
two more to go = ODILI & OBASANJO

Let someone tell Oni that he can run, but he can not hide.
Everything he is doing to Ekiti people after smuggling himself to power will never go unrewarded.
Even if it remains just five minutes for him to leave this world, the Lord of the helpless will not overlook his excesses.
To be honest, Ekiti had suffered more in the hand of Oni as compared to Fayose.

WHY?
WHY??
WHY

Why do men find it easy to cheat in relationship/marriage and still go with it than women

go ahead and insult me for posting this, heh!

yorke:
Most often used by those who are caught red-handed.It is not what u're thinkin my foot.

and I have noticed that closely following this phrase is : I can explain.

@ poster
where u dey now?
its like u could not face the yabis, thereby withdrawing.


i was following this tread 'cause i have heard such silly response from babes b4
not even for marriage but just BF & GF thing.

blank:
I, entered a small bus from Port-Harcourt to Lagos.
Just after Lokoja, we met a very terrible traffic jam, I got to Abuja by almost 3 in the morning, so my parents were so worried that something had happened.

going by your take-off point, and your expected destination, you have no business been in Lokoja talkless of ending at Abuja.

@ post, this is surely another World Record

Thank God you are alive to talk about this.
Many of your type are gone, killed by "accidental discharge" from policemen rifle.
Others were maimed out of torture for an offence they do not commit, and police will just end it with one term; 'mistaken identity'.
Once again, congratulations.

However, if those in power refuse to do anything about reformation of the Nigerian Police FORCE,
let them know this that one day, it will be the turn of their relation somewhere.

In a civilized and organised society, even Ghana beside us here, by now the DPO, Team (Unit) Leader, the POLICE-BEAST (woman) will be answering serious questions. Again this is going un-noticed by the POLITICAL TERRORISTS who selected themselves to rule this lovely nation - Nigeria.

One thing am so sure of is that one day, a true revolution will rescue this horrible nation from the hand of these men.

akinolasam:


yeah, how serious could it get

NOT WHAT U'RE THINKING !

sylve11:
the guy go regret him life why him seek una opinion

yabis na normal thing for Nairaland

Omolola1:
no mind am, he nor well

can u tell us his sickness?

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=503758.msg6647260#msg6647260 date=1282867303]@poster: Did this friend of your ever tell you that she wanted to get married or do you think you're just doing her a favor?[/quote]that is the question. most of these ladies are not keen about marriage.

once met a lady too, just 38years old, and when approached for a marriage relationship, she said: I am not interested.
and on further questioning, she said responded: he is not my kind of person. he cant carry my load.

I told my guy He should move on, as for the lady, she may finally get who will be able to carry her load when she is 45/48yrs.

My advice: If a lady (young or old) is fortunate to come across a man who truly loves her but cannot carry her load, she should help him to carry the load now.

People say this is senseless post.
for the fact that u have time to type out that response show that the problem is U and not the post.
It is not a must that ur name must appear on every post now, if you dont know what to say, read and move on.

Kinezeala:
word is
the longer your list, the higher your chance of getting infected with hiv
ok?

this theory is not true. 10 partners that are careful to observe sexual safety are better than 1 that is loose over it. so I think the risk of getting infected is more when one is involved with a partner that does not care.

@post
still counting - the list is really long

MOBO444:
What load, there goes a fustrated black sister again.

my broda, dat is exactly what I think. which load woman get wey no be man go carry am last
@poster, just   4 the babe. she fit no even get your type again.

luap:
Invalidate this woman.  Don't take this talk from any person, she is belittling you.

which has become a big mistake for many of them.

mercy200:
Hello
Am mercy,
i saw your profile today  and became interested in you,  i will  like to know you the more, and i want you to send an email to my mail so that i can give you my picture for you to know whom i am. Here is my email address (mercyjobe@hotmail.com) I believe we can move from here. I am waiting for your reply in my mail don't send it in the site.(Remember the distance or color does not matter but love matters allot in life)

swiftycool:
, ladies lie few but unredeemable and devastating ones ,
common women lies are e.g , I LOVE U
so i guess it might not be the frequency of the lie. Its the weight :x

I have been trying to proof this view for sometimes now.

How true is it

librangyps:
Lol, seriously i ended up in hospital for 2 wiks, I tel u, those words ar killer words

^^^^^^

Sorry 4 dat.
This phrase is a serious issue.