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@ POSTER

U are not alone in this 'condition',

Behold ur colleague! ! !

[quote author=190, link=topic=502782.msg6634266#msg6634266 date=1282685001]That statement should follow with a profound [size=15pt]SLAP!!![/size][/quote]Then many people should be deaf by now as a result of multiple SLAPPING.

uzobiz:
as for men they give necessary lies but women lie at will without looking back and damn the consequences.

^^^

when is lying necessary?

^^^^^

I don't know about cheating -
but on any relationship matter, man na guru 4 lies

something missing on this tread:


S A N I T Y.

^^^

i said it; women are good at it when it comes to money matter

thank God u gree say na village u see am.

though no insult intended

^^^^^ (supported)

What I think the real men are looking for is not just the facial beauty,
but babe who got what it takes to satisfy a man,
babe who will not spend hours making up before the mirror (their actual partner).
while complaining every time the man appeared by the bedside.

@ poster

Yeah, once ran into a scene where a driver was seriously 'cruising' the center of gravity of the cleaner of a multinational somewhere in Lagos Island in the underground car-park. the driver had her from behind, so when i came from their rear, none of then saw me the first time. So i waited for about 6 minutes more, then went back and met them just re-dressing. The driver was too shocked to see me and did not know when he said; not what you are thinking.
I just looked at them both and gave a cool smile and winked at the driver.
from that day, i got more attention from them both whenever i am walking into the building.

oga double08, i think 190 got it very right.
those of us from the village know that the hen do more corn swallowing that the cock, maybe out of generosity from the cock anyway. though not without a reason.

As for who tell lies, it depend on the area of talk.
e.g
money matters - women tells more lies.
relationship - men tells more lies
etc.

^^^uglyguynop

Sorry, whatever you are saying to this poster is coming late. though other may read and respond.

The post has fulfilled its purpose according to the poster over the weekend.

I only hope that some people - married or not - will learn from such discussion like this.

I personally want to say KUDOS to akinolasam for bringing such corrective post up. A friend of mine, who is married saw me reading in one of the days and you need to see the way they both looked at each other, it is obvious that they were HIT too.

jennykadry:
This poster is a joke, are you not the same person that was about to confess adultery on some thread?

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-417735.0.html

U may need to read through that post very well.
He said he did that for someone who came to asked him for advice.

Pple should always try to read through a tread and not just the topic
b4 making comments.

And even if this sound like a joke, its is really getting some people problem solved. I have been following this closely

soft girl:
don't take to the advise of looking for sex in the street u could ruin your home remember for every woman/man u have intimacy with there is a transfer of spirit it could be good or bad, ,

Things has actually gone spiritual here and I want somebody to help out:

what kind of good or bad spirit is she talking about?
U want to scare some of us

[b]@ Poaster, where are u now?[/b]

Are u not reading all these thesis, theories, and ideas.

It is application time.

Personally, I am interested to know where this will end.

^^^^@ Lopsy

This is too much.

Am surprise that a lady is actually giving us this.

Thank u very much

And to all SHOP LOCKERS, oya Open up quick.

Nwaka77:
@ Poster

Why are you disturbing one with your marital problem? And as usual the Nigerian chuvinist pigs come flying out from every corner! Why do alot of Nigerians DECEIVE themselves and dabble into marraige when they know nothing about it? Let me ask you this, don't  you have marraige counselling where you live? If we were not in an age of technology, where will you run to, to report your spouse? Seriously Nigerians make their marraiges seem very unpalatable and UGLY. The constant female bashing bastards on Nairaland are always on the loose as well. If Nigerians are not busy hating on each other due to tribe then its due to gender. You all are cursed and that is why Nigeria can NEVER move forward due to the the calibre of people it has as citizens! Even Sudan is rejecting Nigerians. Countries around the world will continue to reject you because God don't like ugly.

No one forced your sex addicted backside to get married. You ought to have discussed sexual compatability with your spouse before walking down the aile. Maybe you are a lazy bum who never helps out with the kids or the home and allows the poor woman take care of everything and when she is all burnt out, you wonder why she does not want to sleep with your black, lazy, sweaty, stinking, hairy, craw-craw filled, probably herpes infected monkey behind! Abeg free the woman! You Naija males are not worth being married to in the first place. Marraige to you people is like a curse and will lead to an early grave! Go marry oyibo!  Also, since Nigerians are in the business of forcing people to get married and equate being married to happiness and contentment, why the hell are there so many threads created each day complaining about the spouse? Bloody hypocrates! Ufa' Akai!!!!

Is there no psychotherapist around here, someone's dog is on the loose. BELIEVE U ME. U NEED MEDICAL ATTENTION!!!

VALIDATOR:
@OP,
From your post you didn't directly state whether you are male or female.You used words like "spouse,partner,etc not wife/husband. That says a lot about the real root of your problem.

He told us already. the poster is a man. read some of the comments to see how "helpful" some NLcould be

very funny people.

The man is over-gauge and wants to OFF-LOAD.

How are we sure this woman is not rationing the THING.

once a month. dat na big temptation oh.

good advices

but make una remember that "body no be wood oh"

the broda-man needed somewhere to POUR.

5p1naz:
people always got one story or the other about something wrong with em or their spouse. . . . u know sometimes i wonder if all these are true. . .

Do you have something to tell the broda-man or not