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I don't even know what to say cuz she neva gave a valid reason for the break up buh from all indications and the things she told me, she felt I am broke

kingphilip:
wetin make am extend like that

Me just de chocked up with preparation for my exam I no fit think straight

Sorry say I no de reach out

Admission list jux dy flow anyhow as if na menses....... I code no ish..... Me too get tym sef I cm here once in a while

kingphilip:
your sister and brothers go help your mama n papa procreate no worry

BTW how school

Baba oo skul tyt.... 7 months for a semester nor be beans..... In short the next semester continues no break

kingphilip:
ehya kpele

When I tell you to be reverend papa you say no

Lolz.... I must procreate na

This thread should be moved to the promise land




I call on thee lalasticlala

The first accused me of cheating which is not true.... She later came to say she reconciled wif her previous ex..... And then my latest ex doesn't understand the dynamics of relationship... She was always seeing me as a sole provider in the relationship.... Gals matter dn tire me

QuietHammer:
First of all, do you masturbate?

What has masturbation got to do with this?

OP is a virgin. Only virgins act this way

Tryna be friends with my ex buh she sees me as an enemy. She wouldn't even let me know the reason for our break up at least let me know where I've gone wrong so I can make amends and be a better person to the next

abouzaid:
what were you expecting from a Nigerian girl? believe it or not, most of them are akwuna of one form or the other.

Although she didn't say it to my face. We were chatting. Same gal that can't boost of ordinary 20k in her account. I was busy laughing while she was spewing those thrash..... You know you have to pretend to know who's real and who's not

My ex told me. Don't you know in a relationship, the guy is supposed to provide while the girl gives him sex in return. If I don't have money why did I venture into relationship. Also, that I should be able to take care of my next girlfriend.

mrnwas:
The young man you're seeing is a craftsman.
Today he made over #10,000 just fixing keys to doors in one of the sites I'm managing.

The other day, I met a graduate whom I paid #8,000 for some odd jobs.

And that's how they make their money.

On another site, I have Mr Pedro who has been contracted to handle all tiling jobs for the entire building.

Its a block of 5 flats, he's going to fix tiles all around the building. Guess what his pay is? He's gonna earn some #210,000

I asked Mr Pedro how long its gonna take him to complete the job, he promised to hand me the keys in 5 days.

So in 6 days, Mr Pedro would have earned 210,000 for himself, I supply the water he needs, I provide all the necessary materials needed for the job.

He'll earn #210,000 for the things he can do with both his hands, all he came with was a tape and a piece of paper, he's also currently on site, but the most Important tool he wields is his cutter, spirit level, a Pincer, chisel, shovel and his working clothes.

Now this is why I've been saying you'll earn more when you have more skills than a degree.

The guy on the pics is an ND Holder, today he made some #10,000 tomorrow I will use him again and pay him almost the same amount.

Adding that up, he would have made some #20,000 in 2 days. How much does an average worker make in a month?

Some white color jobs won't even pay you up to #85,000, yet its what we read for, fight for, drink garri for, we even sleep under the cold wind at night just to grab this certificate.

To me, I think vocation is still the best no matter what. Even if we're gonna be offered some paper called certificate, let's also bag some skill along with the degree.

Degree is good, but you'll earn more with a skill. The white people that are guarded with 4 armed men, carried on a fully air conditioned hilux, treated like some god don't even have a degree.

They're white, yes but all they have is some 6 months certificate on a particular skill.

Let me go an bathe now, work was fine today
I hope you learnt from all these?

©MrPinner 2017

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skillfulrapper:
am 23, and have been dating my girlfriend 23, for about six years now..we started when we young and loved each other truly,i disflowered her...we even had a bible oath not to leave eachother...am from a very humble background,i jus got a job after months of sitting at home after nysc..during this months i was broke and jobless my girlgriend would always insult me, call me names for not been able to provide..she gave me different attitudes i truly loved her and i forgave her each time....she and her mum asked me to visit her church for prayer to get a job,a white garmenr church..many of you will understand the type of prayers they do there..i refused,,the mum was angry and stopped picking up,,my gf broke up with me..lo and behold after 2weeks of refusing the offer i got a job,,after a month my gf came back begging and i accepted her back..buh she doesnt care,,she gets angry easily,hangs up,hisses when i talk or so..have always talked bou it buh she never listens,,she doesnt respect me in any way and she loves fighting,,shes notthe type that will encourage a bf or offer words of support buh instead fighting..one day she lied to m,e and i caught her in the lie she apologised for a while and later got angry that she has apologised and thats okay that i should stop talking bou it..was like u offended me and still have a right to complain...mosttiimes i do the begging and geting back together..she wont just do it or care..its like i need her more...we had a fall out and a week ago i called her to see she said she was busy..till now i havent heard from u..maybe she wants me to call her and beg her so...v decided to move on...just dont know what to do if she comes and beg and note..i v no other girl

OP get another geh.... Dah geh don't love you no more..... I had the same experience in skul . Mine started giving me attitude ryt after she realized she couldn't get me to do her bidding and stuffs

xstry:
then don't let them know you have it, you're very lucky you know. saving money has been one of the hardest things for me

Its my hobby

ikombe:
Yes

And why do u ask

From your comment tho

This is what I call trials and temptation

darkenkach:
I am still waiting for my ex to realize that leaving me was a mistake she will live to regret later.

Let bygones be bygones..... Stop brewing over the past

Bevy12:
No better human being and no time for that

I beg to differ dear.... Don't let your past experiences influence ideology about relationship.... Try and mingle, you'll definitely find the ryt partner.... Have a beautiful evening

ikombe:
Guy the thing dey fear me eh . Like the second coming of jesus

Are you a virgin?

darkenkach:
I am still waiting for my ex to realize that leaving me was a mistake she will live to regret later.

Share your experience bro

Hian! How many times do I have to state why am single? OP biko search similar threads for my reason

Justnora:
Dating a guy who is broke is a bargin cause most broke dudes do not end up with the lady who suffered with them, when they hammer and sophisticated ladies start falling for him then you end up not to bin Good enough for him.

Sometimes they just marry you cause you where there for him when he had no money something like a pity marriage.

Truth is money changes people when broke dudes eventually hammer they want to enjoy all the things they missed when they had no money.

Everything the op said its true. Sometimes it is good to start from friendship before dating it helps too

Nora, I be damned if I abandon any lady who stays with me when I have
nothing. Unless the reason for our breakup is justifiable buh I'll still find a way of appreciating her..... All men are not the same










Some girls think what they can offer in a relationship is just sex

SafeDavid:
Point 2 also reminds ne of people who always jump right to the next best thing only to get disappointed over and over again in an endless cycle all in the name of moving on.

Such people hardly stay married.

Their favourite anthem would be all men are the same particularly for the ladies

This is exactly the same problem I had with my ex

Black is beautiful..... I'll choose dark skinned ladies over the fair ones anytime, anyday.

Cute

Blame it on recession

O= Oman
L= Liberia
U= Ukraine
W= Wales
A= Afghanistan
S= Sudan
H= Hungary
E= Egypt
D= Denmark
Y= Yugoslavia

This reminds of a friend in skul who celebrated 6months relationship with his gf, after a month or two the duo broke up, the gal is heavily pregnant for another man

Let love lead

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