She is too slim for my liking.. Tried loving her out of pity, but at a point I just couldn't stand her being around me. Funny enough we were best of friends for two years before we started dating. Dated 4 just 4 months #TeamThickGirls..

got cheated on,,, thank GOD ive moved on.

banjeezay:
friends costed me my last serious relationship,introduced her to my bae,and she later casted and painted me black to her.. it was according to reports anyway,cos im still trying to figure out how and why she did that,like what did she even say of me that poisoned the girl mind..I never thought of such happening tho buh come on its part of what we've come here to experience..

are you saying u double dated? Please explain better.

JhimmySpark:
She is too slim for my liking.. Tried loving her out of pity, but at a point I just couldn't stand her being around me. Funny enough we were best of friends for two years before we started dating. Dated 4 just 4 months #TeamThickGirls..

its actually better you date someone you are proud of not out of pity. Xoxo

Spactacle:
got cheated on,,, thank GOD ive moved on.

awhhhhh so sorry. Glad you have moved on..

oluwasma:
m so glad you moved on. He doesn't deserve you. You deserve better dear. Xoxo

yes dear, it took me quite some tym to realise dat

Distance

youngbelieve:


yes dear, it took me quite some tym to realise dat

I am so proud of you...hugs

oluwasma:
its actually better you date someone you are proud of not out of pity. Xoxo

.. Yea. U are right.

Tajbol4splend:
Distance

awhhhh. To make a long distance relationship work, trust is important. Then you need to communicate regularly, do things together like playing online game together, make visits to each other, do similar things like watch the same movie. It can actually be fun so incase if you find yourself in one, try these out. Xoxo

oluwasma:
are you saying u double dated? Please explain better.

not really, d ish was just dat my good friend(female) maybe was jealous told my bae unpleasant things abouh me(maybe becos it was a distance rltnshp so I had no opportunity to defend myself and couldn't go to confront the friend to know what went wring..it was the bae who actually told me my friend said this and that abouh me(infidelity related stuffs sha)..it's a kinda long episode jare..I've never had a serious relationship ever since then sha..just doing random levels,and it's kinda interesting and paying off

banjeezay:
not really, d ish was just dat my good friend(female) maybe was jealous told my bae unpleasant things abouh me(maybe becos it was a distance rltnshp so I had no opportunity to defend myself and couldn't go to confront the friend to know what went wring..it was the bae who actually told me my friend said this and that abouh me(infidelity related stuffs sha)..it's a kinda long episode jare..I've never had a serious relationship ever since then sha..just doing random levels,and it's kinda interesting and paying off

if you were not double dating, why did She do that? Anyways girls wahala, maybe your goodfriend wanted to date you too. But dont you think random levels can be risky...

A prank taken too far.

JhimmySpark:
She is too slim for my liking.. Tried loving her out of pity, but at a point I just couldn't stand her being around me. Funny enough we were best of friends for two years before we started dating. Dated 4 just 4 months #TeamThickGirls..

Hahaha.

oluwasma:
awhhhh. To make a long distance relationship work, trust is important. Then you need to communicate regularly, do things together like playing online game together, make visits to each other, do similar things like watch the same movie. It can actually be fun so incase if you find yourself in one, try these out. Xoxo

You could be right but distance makes one have a rethink and look for options

I don't even know what to say cuz she neva gave a valid reason for the break up buh from all indications and the things she told me, she felt I am broke

oluwasma:
I am so proud of you...hugs

tnks hon

oluwasma:
I understand..pls try to move on. Just try to have an open and free mind. Be happy. Only you can make you happy. No man can. Xoxo

That's true dear.... Thank u xoxo much

oluwashedy:
I don't even know what to say cuz she neva gave a valid reason for the break up buh from all indications and the things she told me, she felt I am broke

awwww dear, so sorry. Hugs

Marcus2:
A prank taken too far.

oops it must have been a serious one.....pele. Take this bear hug to cool down.

oluwasma:
if you were not double dating, why did She do that? Anyways girls wahala, maybe your goodfriend wanted to date you too. But dont you think random levels can be risky...

wanted to date me??I din think so maybe she does not want good things for me,but it was all my fault sha,if i had kept my affairs to myself,nothing of such would have happened, P.S random levels is just for the meantime,I'll soon deviate to normal normal.

Princess4ng:


Bae, it was pathetic.. Everyone knew we were dating buh wen am gisting with my friends and they say something like "Girl, hawfa na... Hope this guy will marry u" .. I will be totally dumbfounded.... I loved him seriously... But mehn.. M praying to have a strong mind... M trying to move on..

dear that was same situation i founf myselfmine was six years, right from school, through the hard times and when God finally picked his call, he found out I wasn't good again. been trying to move on though it's very hard. sometimes I feel as if someone is squeezing my heart, that's how much it hurts.

oluwasma:
awwww dear, so sorry. Hugs

Its okay ma.... At least I channeled all the trauma into my academics and got the best grade

banjeezay:
wanted to date me??I din think so maybe she does not want good things for me,but it was all my fault sha,if i had kept my affairs to myself,nothing of such would have happened, P.S random levels is just for the meantime,I'll soon deviate to normal normal.

lol...deviate to normal normal fast o so you wnt be caught unawares

ujusom:
dear that was same situation i founf myselfmine was six years, right from school, through the hard times and when God finally picked his call, he found out I wasn't good again. been trying to move on though it's very hard. sometimes I feel as if someone is squeezing my heart, that's how much it hurts.

pele dear. Hope you have moved on?

oluwashedy:
Its okay ma.... At least I channeled all the trauma into my academics and got the best grade

wow congrats dear

I cnt really figure out wat caused our breakup. Wat I know is dat he can say anytin,anywhere,anytime, anyhow 2 embarrass me.It had been 7yrs and I loved him more and more,but I hate insult 2 d core, especially 4rm sum1 who should av loved me.I stopped talking 2 him 2weeks ago coz I've moved on wit my life.Though,relationships and marriage is out of my plan 4eva.

oyindamolaasake:
I cnt really figure out wat caused our breakup. Wat I know is dat he can say anytin,anywhere,anytime, anyhow 2 embarrass me.It had been 7yrs and I loved him more and more,but I hate insult 2 d core, especially 4rm sum1 who should av loved me.I stopped talking 2 him 2weeks ago coz I've moved on wit my life.Though,relationships and marriage is out of my plan 4eva.

I am so sorry dear. You really tried staying for 7years but did you talk to him about it? Did he feel bad after you left him? If he is embarrassing you every where then he doesnt deserve you..you are free to express your pain by saying relationship and marriage is out of your plan. You will heal overtime dear . You deserve better and to be happy. Hugs....

ujusom:
dear that was same situation i founf myselfmine was six years, right from school, through the hard times and when God finally picked his call, he found out I wasn't good again. been trying to move on though it's very hard. sometimes I feel as if someone is squeezing my heart, that's how much it hurts.

I feel ur pain my dear... He's married now

she Neva trusted me ......she thought I'm nt going straight with her, which is not true, I later found she was fvcking her co-worker and I didn't even know......why re girls so heartless, and she will kiss me with the mouth she just used to kiss and lick someone else....I hate girls

kratosonofzeus:
she Neva trusted me ......she thought I'm nt going straight with her, which is not true, I later found she was fvcking her co-worker and I didn't even know......why re girls so heartless, and she will kiss me with the mouth she just used to kiss and lick someone else....I hate girls

I am so sorry Bro I feel your pain

Princess4ng:


I feel ur pain my dear... He's married now

Not yet. he told me we should taste different waters. the worst part, he didn't even want to sit and tell me face to face, I actually 've to force it out of him cause he couldn't even pick my calls again. he broke up with me on whatsapp. couldn't stop crying. don't know if it will be possible for me to love again cause I wouldn't want to experience this again.