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Maychang:
Where is the story?

follow the source link attached to it

thought I've heard the worst break- up story after my mum told me the story of her friend's daughter who was with her boyfriend on the night before the morning he travelled to his hometown to go pay the bride price of his wife- to- be, the poor girl was relaxing in the guy's apartment while he was in his wife- to- be's house negotiating with her family,paying her bride price and fixing a date for her traditional marriage.

I was upset with myself for not turning off my phone before lying down to take my siesta, due to the nature of my job, siesta means a lot to me, it helps me clear off my head and get ready for the remaining hours before dusk, so you can imagine my frustration that moment my phone buzzed and notified me of some messages,

I picked up my phone and scrolled through, then my eyes fell on a particular mail because of the subject, it read "Help Save A Soul",guickly I rushed to my gmail and started reading, what I read on that mail will be in my memory for the rest of my life.

I say this everyday to people around me, "don't love anyone so much that you will be blind to red flags!! Please don't, I'm warning women everyday because they are mostly at the receiving end.

And to whoever it may concern, please if at anytime in your relationship you have to walk away, please kindly call the attention of the individual you are in the relationship with and tell that individual that you are ending things, tell them in which ever way you deemed right but not by giving them poison through shocking acts,

If anyone is going into a relationship, that individual should know that even relationship with self is difficult talk more of a relationship you are having with a whole different person,someone you are just meeting,falling in love and getting to know and understand one another is not enough to make it a heaven without odds and difficulties, every individual should be ready at anytime to accept the truth no matter how disappointing it may be.

Understand that knowing a disappointing truth is better than wondering forever, often times people feel it will be hard to bear if the person who loved them so much have them call off the relationship they are in with them so they decides it's better to hide certain things and get them to find out the truth by themselves, how about the situation where the person has soft nerves and cannot take in shock?

Emotional attachment is very deep and sensitive, it connects the brain and soul, this is one reason a lot of people can't bear or handle break -ups. so the way you go about it matters a lot.

Just like Kate's story, it was her traditional marriage day, guests have arrived, her family have been busy since the day before , the ground was ready and everything set ,the cooks were busy cooking and serving different dishes, the cooling van parked and drinks were been served chilled,

Read Full story here https://www.omaleeblog.com/2019/01/i-thought-ive-heard-worst-break-up.html?m=1

Don't forget that some girls are not bills so has no space for emotionally unavailable men?

Control a girl as how and what?
The evolved woman is only available for a conscuous lover.someone who is ready to love her rightly and treat her properly.

Casan0va:
Let me give you some scenarios.

You see a girl for the first time and you're immediately wowed and taken in.


You walk up to her, make small talk, if you're good with words, you can make her laugh and collect her number.
Maybe you met her in an eatery or mall or anywhere and you end up going to have some drinks and snacks.

What signals are you immediately sending out?
My name is ATM Machine!!!!!
Whoa.. I'm not saying you shouldn't get her drinks or something, but some guys go ahead to do more, like pay for whatever she was buying or something.

Really?

Okay, let me not be sidetracked.
You've gotten her number..
She probably has a boyfriend or atleast 30 passive admirers and 10 active and serious ones.

What are your odds?

Lets assume you're tall, dark, nice physique, smart, well to do.
So she sees you as an option.

Then, that evening or the next you call her/chat her up on WhatsApp and you guys get talking.

You have barely started talking and you're already telling her you like her (heloooooo, she knew that, 20 seconds before you even opened your mouth to talk to her) and how beautiful she is (seriously?? She's heard it a billion times).

Immediately she starts to lose interest in you fast, because, believe it or not, that particular pattern has become boring to her and she actually needs adventure.


Ever seen a broke boy or someone you're obviously better than financially fùcking the girl that said no to you

He is probably daring, has a sense of adventure, stingy with his compliments (so that whenever he actually compliments, she adores it), he's mean, he doesn't bow to her whims and carpricss.

I remember a line from a James Hadley Chase novel I read one time..

"Why are you sitting down there, won't you stand and acknowledge my presence?"

"Say what you want to say and let me be on my way"

"I could have you beaten, you manner less dog!! "

"I've heard about you and your snobbish attitude and I'll have none of that"

Shocked beyond words, she stared at him, then slowly let out a smile.
"at last, a real man"

I hope this does not include an evolved woman who spends. Her time working on being the best version of herself and has no space for emotional unavailable men.?

Kachy1605:
vagina-smell

Fish taco, cod canal, tuna town… should I go on? Boys can be mean.

First, let’s get this out of the way: Your vagina is supposed to have a smell, despite what rude sexual partners or jerks on the playground may have told you in the past.

Few things make women feel more insecure than wondering whether or not they smell fresh down there, especially before getting handsy with a partner. The topic may be kept hush hush, but if you have a vagina, you know the issue all too well.

If you’re stressing out about whether your vagina smells like daisies and roses or a seafood restaurant, I have answers for you.

There are many factors that can affect the way your friend downstairs smells, and we’ll get into those. But every vagina has it’s own special smell. It’s a combination of the normal bacteria that lives in your vagina, what you eat, what clothes you wear, your level of hygiene, how much you sweat, and what your glands secrete. So, no two are alike (yay for individuality)!

Using too many soaps and perfumes and crotch sprays to frantically deodorize your va-jay-jay can interfere with the vagina’s natural pH balance and make her sad. As much as you might wish it to be true, vaginas aren’t supposed to smell like a flower garden.

Author of The Hormone Cure, Sara Gottfried M.D., thinks that women have unrealistic expectations about their scent. “There’s so much shame around the normal range of what women smell like,” she said. “We’re stuck with this mindset that women are expected to be nice, pretty and for their lady parts to smell really good, like some fake scent. Like you’re going to smell like a gardenia. And that’s just going to make you miserable because that’s not the normal human scent.”

But neither is the smell of a fish taco. Somewhere in between is what’s considered normal. Some women have no vaginal scent whatsoever, while others naturally emit a stronger vaginal odor. So how can you tell if the smell of your lady parts is A-OK? Spend some time getting familiar with your scent, so that when it changes, you’ll notice. A scent that signals something is wrong is often accompanied by other symptoms, such as itching, swelling, discharge or pain while urinating. Here are a few smells you should look out for:
1. Fishy scent

The idea that vaginas smell like fish may be something that grade school boys use to torment the girls in their class, but if you’re noticing this smell, it could be the sign of a real medical problem. An intense fishy smell down there can be a sign of bacterial vaginosis – an infection linked to an imbalance of bacteria in the vagina – or trichomoniasis – a common curable STI. These two infections give off a fishy scent, sometimes with a white or gray discharge, and both can be cleared up with prescription antibiotics.
2. Metallic scent

A metallic scent is most common right after you’ve had your period, or if you let your partner’s tiny swimmers enter your vagina. Both of these things can change the pH of your vagina, changing the smell. The metallic scent should be temporary, but if you’re noticing it long after your period is gone, check in with your doctor.
3. Yeasty / Bread scent

Yeast infections often don’t give off a scent, but you’ll notice something is wrong from other symptoms such as thick, white discharge or itchiness. In some cases, a yeast infection will emit a slightly musty, bread-like odor, letting you know that something is off down there. This smell can help you distinguish a yeast infection from bacterial vaginosis or other infections.
4. Musky scent

If you’re smelling a heavier and slightly more musky version of your vagina’s usual scent, it typically means that you’ve been sweating a lot, or wearing pants or underwear that were tight with little breathing room. Washing your friend with some mild soap and wearing looser clothing every once in a while should get things back to normal, but this smell doesn’t signify that there is anything medically wrong.
5. Rotten scent

If your vagina suddenly smells like a bag of old trash, go see your doctor ASAP. It could be a sign of a tampon gone astray – which happens way more often than you’d think (check out this lost tampon question on Go Ask Alice). A tampon can get lodged near the top of the vagina, but it will stay there until you find it, so don’t worry, it wont make it’s way to another part of your body on the Magic School Bus.

Those five scents may be signs of something extra going on downtown, but there are other factors that can influence your scent. “Many women notice after having their periods that there is a different odor,” Gottfried noted. Normally, the pH of the vagina is below 4.7, meaning it’s naturally on the acidic side of the scale. Having your period – menstrual blood has a pH of 7.4 – alters the pH of the vagina, which can change it’s scent. Semen has a pH level of around 8, so having sex can also leave you with a different smell.

Here’s the good news ladies: it doesn’t take much to keep your vagina clean and balanced. “The vagina is a self-cleaning oven,” Gottfried explained. It naturally excretes discharge to get germs and bacteria out of your body (hey, thanks!), so it does a pretty good job keeping things clean without you needing to intervene. Douching messes with the vagina’s balance of bacteria. AKA, not a good idea. In general, some warm water and gentle soap is all you need to keep things smelling fresh. If you’re on the go, consider a quick swipe with a pH-balanced, alcohol-free wipe.

One final piece of advice – say no to synthetic underwear. It traps in odor and can make you sweat. Cotton is the way to go. Give your friend downstairs a little breathing room to keep her happy and healthy, and you two will get along just fin

In all its okay

Chikiletta:
https://thepunditng.com/elections-postponement-the-implications-on-the-common-nigerian/

In all I plead with Nigerians to still go out and vote if the 23rd Feb date come to fruition

For the starter the female vagina has a natural odor,each woman's odor is different, the healthy vaginal odor smells fleshy and most men find it inviting and often become aroused perceiving it,

I remember a certain man who told a story of how he traveled without washing off his hands after using his fingers on his wife during love making, he said 'I am always on the road because of the nature of my job,one thing that keeps me going is the passionate smell from my wife's vagina,ofcourse we make love each time I'm ready to leave the house,I make sure I use my fingers on her and save the smell by not washing my hands, from time to time I put my palm over my nose and inhale her fluid,it bonds me to her and makes it feel like she is wrapped up in my arms every single time"


The vagina has a natural cleansers which helps it clean itself as well as fight off bacteria,most women from their late teens had have series of discussions within their circle of friends and often come out with unprofessional and unapproved methods of keeping the vagina odorless, most of these unauthorised methods includes the use of medicated soaps and cleansers,these only damages the vagina's ability to maintain a healthy pH at the end these leaves the vagina open to receive unwanted particles from faeces ,menstrual blood,sexual discharge ,the residue will finally grow bacteria which attacks the vagina and fill it up with all kinds of odor.

Full text source
http://www.omaleeblog.com/2019/02/here-are-7-tips-for-healthy-vagina.html?m=1

As Nigerians get set to go to the polls on Saturday 16th February, I wish to urge Nigerians to come out and vote for the candidates of their choice.

Believe your votes will count,voting massively will help stop rigging,
Don't be induced by party agents,be vigilant and vote rightly so that your vote will be valid, stick around to see how the votes are counted.shun violence.

Say no to thuggery ,don't fight your fellow citizen because of politicians ,they will not remember you when they get into office, their children are safely in America and the UK.

Vote for a better tomorrow for you and Nigeria.

#Grammy came upon us and lived.up its billing!! who else had their eyes fixed on the telly?
Cant ignore this Diana Ross scintillating looks
#evergreen #Grammys #61stedition

One second I thought #laurenlondon was me!!
Kai hot is her.#Grammys

CardiB didnt come to play as she went home with the award for "Best Rap " and killed the show with her fascinating looks

Ariana Grande was angry at the #Academy for inviting her late.ex boyfriend Mac Miller's parents to the show only to give the award for best rap album to someone else, #Grammys

If you are waiting for Dolly parton's look to age.you are definitely on your own. #Dollyparton #Grammys

It would have been understandable if chelsea's awful display against city happened in the 90s,since the coming of Roman Abramovich,the London club have seen a total turn around,coming from a zero PL trophy to win a good number of domestic titles including the Europe most prestgeous trophy,the Uefa champions league.

In recent years chelsea fc.have assembled one of the most dangerous squad ,a squad that can stand any tough opposition.

Looking at chelsea fc on sunday feb 10 at etihad the playing ground of manchester city,chelsea fc looked a shadow of the former self,the players performance was not only shambolic and dismal, I saw a chelsea squad that looked clueless .

They played without aim and zeal and got punished by the furious citizens ,at the end of 90+ munites,chelsea were drubbed by 6 goals to 0.

Wherr will this train take the blues to?I wonder

meobizy:
I like it. It is not the most lyrical but it has Reekado Banks and I can dance to it.
At this time and day when noise by Migos and Future is listened to by kids and young adults anyone wey take time to compose good lyrics go carry last.

Bitter truth

Who is getting ready for valentine?
You have written something to your love yet?
Get into my blog and pick any love note for a starter.


It is in relationships we are wounded and in relationships we're healed.

Relationships are dichotomous for in them we receive kisses &wounds, blessings and curses, security and exposure

But as the age old saying goes "I'd rather have loved and lost than to not have loved at all"

Do you believe in love? are you in love?...
Check my profile for direction.

Angel told me her man had busy schedule, with his job taking almost 80% of his time "I know he has little time for relaxation so I make it count, nothing soothes a man more than having a warm bossom to rest his head after hours in the office. I massage him with words right from the first hour till he runs home to me, he always warned me playfully about me causing him to loss concentration and misdirecting messages, but it's what I enjoy doing, I leave no space in his head, all I do is fill his memories with fantasies of me"

Then coming home those fantasies should be sustained, if what he's seeing does not complement the images your words created in his mind, he will keep searching for what looks like it, this is where the real sexiness is, men are moved by sight, this does not include sending nude pic, firstly the connection, the ability to connect with one another in all levels, then making it home natural by being real and appearing neat,your warm welcoming spirit,your warming company and ability to understand one another's body language and reading each other's mood,....what happens in the bedroom is no longer the genesis like most people believe.

"I have experienced countless orgasms with his words without him touching me, I've made love with him In different positions in my head, shared with him unspoken words in my subconscious "
Anytime our bodies touches something must go down, we have created huge sexual tension between us through deep soul conbersation.

Full write up is available
.check my profile for direction.

I listened to skibbi's new track "sensima" and my fear for the.nigerian music industry.increased.

Okay I also listened to two tunes before 'sensima" and am.thinking aloud.
"So someone only has to come up with three sentences,make them rythm,then make a very sweet danceable beat and you are there?

I am still trying to understand the message that song is sending out and a high profile radio station.has it on no 3 ,on its top 10 countdown.
I need help.on this,maybe my ear needs cotton bud.

Being a great player doesn't make one a great coach, Henry has never come across to me as a coach .
He should return to punditry.


LIVERPOOL YET AGAIN!!
I wonder what will be going on in the minds of Liverpool's fans but yet again it's beginning to look like they've blown away their champions chance.

Does anybody believe that Liverpool is cursed? Or is it a complex issues?

I have cheated twice, twice I have been caught,to me it was more like "good riddance to bad nonsense " but inside me it was an ugly scene /experience, it gave me this gory feeling, you know that type of feeling you get,you wanted to play a fast one and stay clean but just at the moment you are at the middle of it, someone comes in,
But like the saying goes "everything that happens in life has a lesson it teaches if only one is able to observe it"

I cheated and I learnt something.

No 1,I learnt that you cannot cheat on someone you truly love and respect.


Read full write up .https://www.omaleeblog.com/2019/01/i-have-cheated-twice-twice-i-have-been.html?m=1

I would love to read your thought.

Earthbound:
This is the most sexist thing I've read in a while. The moment women discovered the value of their vaginas, they monetized it.

It is the truth ,what you don't know you cannot ruin or control, the moment eve ate the forbidden fruit, we all know what happened.

I have interesting articles on blog,I am facing difficulties posting here, kindly visit my blog www.omaleeblog.com
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A lot of women need to know what it means to be 'sexual being ' this is one of the most important factor for being a good lover and partner

I took out time to explain this on my recent post, as a relationship expert... Take a look at this piece and discover the right thing you are not doing, the main reason you are not enough for your man.

http://www.omaleeblog.com/2019/02/be-sexual-for-one-who-have-invested-in.html?m=1

Men's fertility is important and contrary to what most people think, cannabis has lots of health benefits though we always remember the smoking and it's harm.

I'm available for counseling on health and relationship. Contact me via chicrystal90@gmail.com.
Visit my blog www.omaleeblog.com for your health and relationship tips

Men felt free and wooed women, they cajoled them into submission , but unlike men women were taught from the early stages of their lives to avoid sex, no touches no kisses except it's their husband that is inside marriage, and I don't think that civilisation has erased this at least in an African setting.

https://www.omaleeblog.com/2019/01/men-starting-buying-sex-moralinstruction.html

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For everything love, relationship and family

Respect55:
I don't agree with u at all

You don't have to agree but he's right, after David prayed psalm 51 ,God forgave him and he married Uriah's wife.

Respect55:
It doesn't really ads up very much. My main emphasis is on the child's dedication on the holy alter of God

Like I am wondering how the church got here?

Lol..like you are trapped and stuck at the same time in the relationship or she is using a spell on yiu?

What is love?has love ever being enough in a relationship?so many things makes relationship work nit judt love
Again it is important that a man take good care of the woman in his life but if your relationship is making you spend more than you earn,call her for a talk!when she is not willing to change ,dump her!!

Any girl that cannot take care of the home front is not going to make a goid mother,she can like sitting out,when she does it once in a while it is still okay but doing thato often and neglecti the home for fun?my dear you dont need any advise before your sense will give you a red alert ....my candid thought!!

chicrystal90@gmail.com I am a psychologist and a relationship counselor