Iykegodslove: Good day everyone!! I am emotionally shattered as I type this message. I have been suspecting my wife for years now but no concrete evidence to confront her.
There is a boss of my mine who happens to be our family friend. Each time he calls my wife, she deletes the call history immediately. This has been happening for years but I keep quite because i love my wife and my children so much.
Of recent, i decided to know what is happening by hacking her call with him. Lo and behold, they are into deep relationship that my wife calls him baby. Infact, sleep has gone out of my eyes and am thinking of how to deal with the situation.
It should be noted that i am not working under the man in question only that we are church members and he has rendered countless of help to me. I am wondering what puts my wife into this mess. I am graduate but i decided not to work for anybody but to focus on my farming. I am doing well financially bcs i can boost of 500k or more every month. We are not lacking anything at all.
Please house ignore my typo and help with good advice.
Note: i dnt want to divorce my wife and am ready to forgive her bcs she has been of great help to my success and moreover, i love my family very well. What should i do to stop them?
Sequel to your "NOTE" I would say PREPARE FOR A WORSE SCENARIO. Reasons: Men & Women think differently. To you, you have forgiven her but to her, it's a stepping pad to do more hence she won't take you seriously. Don't say you weren't told. She had left you psychologically.
Who sold Buhari to Nigerians? Who is the current president of Nigeria? Who avoided media chats and debates during campaign? Well, for real, he didn't promise us anything.
Chai...I'm trying hard not to laugh. Very soon, they will blame the poor people. Simple solution is; provide adequate security for farmers in the middle belt especially the food basket of the nation, disband all food item association in the market, and brings down the cost of petrol/diesel.
Will they still blame it on Opay, Palmpay, Moniepoint and Kuda users? Until we start producing in bulk and also insisting that foreigners trading with us use the Naira, without that, the naira will keep falling before the dollar....meanwhile, where is Odumeje?
God1000: Many of the world’s richest countries are also the world’s smallest: the pandemic, the global economic slowdown and geopolitical turmoil have barely made a dent in their huge wealth.
Domaining101: Popular Nigerian Travel and Tourism YouTuber Tayo Aina, has come out to share his take about the current controversies surrounding the coastal Highway project that resulted in the demolition of the popular Landmark Demolition beach in Lagos.
Tayo Aina who has almost a million subscribers on his YouTube channel mainly focused on travel and tourism, communicated his thoughts through his verified social media handle saying -
T0T0Vulcanizer: Hello everyone, I'm seeking advice on a challenging situation. In 2020, I purchased a plot of land and built a house, which I and my parents moved into in 2021.
While I love having them close, I'm feeling suffocated by the lack of personal space and freedom. I'm struggling to maintain my sexual urges due to my high sex drive... late night clubbing...enjoy my hobbies with different hook up girls of my choices, and even relax in my own home without judgment when I kpo!.
To cope, I've been spending a significant amount (around 50k) on hotel stay and I do this like four times in a week, which is unsustainable due to their high cost of drinks and food dollar rate increase and they put price in everything...when I could have all this in my house.
I'm considering two options: renting a separate house for my parents or finding a new place for myself. However, I'm concerned about the potential stigma He's a landlord but rents a house himself? I'd appreciate guidance on navigating this situation and finding a solution that works for my parents and I.
Notes: I have tennants and could easily drive one and pack in but it's almost same thing.
I pray that government should come up with good employment laws as regards the private sector...was shocked to discover that there are people that are being paid 30k as salary, in this harsh economy.
Go to trade fare and see how street retailers are ripping us off big time.
My wife bought her body cream CT+ at the rate 2100 at trade fare yesterday while in our area retailers are selling it for 3700.
Kk brothers soap my wife bought the pack for 7k(6pieces) while one is sold for 1700 by retailers.
Her sanitary pad she bought 1 pack at the rate of 1050 while retailers sell for 1700.
Even strike bitters sachet pack(20 pieces) wey I dey always use console myself i buy for 2000 she got it for 1450.
Note she didn't even buy at carton price but at pack price because if she was buying in carton the price would be lower that than.
Just yesterday I bought a derica of rice on my way back home for 900 around oshodi terminal while the seller in my street is still selling for 1300 despite price of bag of rice coming down.
We are own problem.......everyone is wicked in this country.
Last time they blamed it on the dollar, now they are blaming it on the cost of petrol...we are definitely our problem
Well, I would suggest...Pastor Chris should have his medical team that will scrutinise the malaria vaccine and if they see anything otherwise, then he can now speak up. Or, let a reputable media House invite Bill Gates & Pastor Chris, and let them clear each other doubts
Quality20: Instead of discharging old boyfriends and old ways, these types of girls will just hang these pregnancies on their husbands.
Are they afraid that their husbands may not be able to impregnate or what? You see some women givin their husbands pregnancies from not only one boyfriend but upto two or more.
Anyway, nairaland women, pls help us out on why some modern day girls behave this way- or is it now a bad thing to marry modern day ladies?
Negroid001: Me and my younger sister were having our usual afternoon gossips and gists and something came up. I asked after a close friend of hers whom i know to be very affluent and she erupted that i should stop asking after her that she doesn't support me dating any of her close friends. I asked her why, she said i have nothing to offer her friend. I mean, imagine, I'm some years away from 30, working with several firms of which 1 is among the top 10 highest grossing in the country and this big head has the audacity to tell me i can't hook her rich friend.
I take us down memory lane to the reason why she ditched her immediate ex, she told me the dude was struggling and she didn't see much prospect in him, her childhood crush oo. I asked her what's the difference between me and her? She couldn't come up with a valid response. She kept on hollering that I'm supposed to be a provider. Provider my ass.
As a man, I've set the standard of not getting involved with women below my economic class or earnings and i see nothing wrong with it. If women see marrying above one's class as normal, we men shouldn't accept anyone below par also.
Woman wey no get shingbai for account go dey give man wey dey earn conditions, what absurdity!
Let's stop fooling ourselves with love shi. Marriages and relationships are transactional. It's an arrangement and one has to make the best of choices. What are you bringing to the table?
I blame low self esteemed men for putting a false sense of value on our women. The thing dey mess with their brain. The only thing most of them have to offer is sex, nothing more.
Men, raise your standards!
Till this earth passes away, you can't separate women from hypergamy...its in their blood. Know this know peace.
GistMedia0: Nigerian influencer Nickie Dabarbie has stirred controversy with serious allegations against popular musician Skiibii. In a video shared on her social media platforms, Dabarbie boldly accused Skiibii of attempting to use her for money rituals. The video, which quickly went viral, captures Dabarbie passionately narrating her alleged encounter with Skiibii.
Dabarbie's accusations have sparked intense debate and speculation across social media platforms, with many expressing shock and disbelief at the allegations. Skiibii, known for hits like "Sensima" and "Daz How Star Do," has yet to respond publicly to the accusations.
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