Pukkalolo: A goat does not climb a roof unless someone puts a ladder there.
Before you open your mouth to attack “Naija women” for being gold diggers, entitled, or disrespectful, ask yourself one hard question: Who keeps building the ladder?
For every behaviour you complain about Naija women, there are men who encourage it, reward it, and sometimes practically beg for more of it.
Let's look at a few examples.
EXAMPLE #1: Women who are gold diggers and just want to chop men's money.
The women you call gold diggers did not invent the game. They simply noticed that most men still try to buy women's love with money.
If men stopped using money and lavish spending as their primary strategy for attracting women, there would be no such thing as gold diggers anymore.
Example #2: Women who act entitled, rude and saucy towards men
The truth is simple:
A woman does not continue disrespecting a man she knows will walk away the moment she tries it.
But when a woman disrespects you, you double your effort for her. She ignores your message, and you send another message. She treats you like trash, and you keep giving her attention.
What exactly do you expect her to learn from that arrangement?
You’re literally teaching her that the ruder and more saucy she acts, the more you want her.
You become the reason the next man will meet the same attitude.
This is nothing but the truth...these days we have so many feminine insecure men that use money to cover their weakness...the sad reality is, the women see the weakness and just keep eating up your money. To the guy, he thinks he's in love, to the lady, she's just dealing with a fool that doesn't know what to do with his money.
Sphinx419: Na why I choose pocket 2t2t... is better than relationship and vaseline... Pocket 2t2t offers you so much... I promise to invest more in the silicon one ... a more upgraded one. .... 9ja babes go give u infection but pocket 2t2t will never
Favourjackipali: There was this girl I had sex with earlier this year She called she was HIV+ now I'm sick got treated malaria and typhoid and I'm experiencing racing heart beat and weakness of the body.
I'm super scared I'm at the point of getting tested I don't actually know if it's HIV cox I don't have any signs written on Google only a carter and it's dried not a running nose.
What should I do? The thought of it always comes back I'm scared.
Did you use condom? Go and carry out a test on yourself.
Lilosama: A man has shared his opinion that having a woman who constantly bills you can motivate you to hustle harder, stay focused, and become more successful. He also argues that getting married early can help young men become more responsible and build wealth.
However, I disagree with his perspective. A man should have his own reasons to work hard, build his future, and become financially successful. Your goals, family, personal growth, and desire for a better life should be enough motivation.
There is a difference between a supportive woman who encourages you to succeed and one who constantly puts you under financial pressure.
My question is: Must a woman constantly bill a man before he can become successful? Or should a man have his own motivation to hustle and make money?
Watch my video, hear my perspective, and join the discussion. Do you agree with him or do you share my opinion?
Well, the man that made that statement is indeed hustling backwards and lacks self discipline. Constant billing is a clear sign that you're dealing with a heavy liability...when you're going to toilet (without your phone) ask yourself "Aside Sex, what has she really done for me?
“I hear my opponents talking about hunger and poverty. Who created it? They did! To you, the children of our country, it’s a promise of a second term – prosperity; you will not regret it."
LegacyB: Is Adams any better?, he just played the tricks better. Labour his worse than the government . Adams also enriched himself with Labour that’s the truth.
But atleast he kept government on their toes...the current NLC leader is not doing that.
If it were in the days of Adams, I would've been sure that FG would atleast agree to 5 if not 4 of the points raised...but as for Joe? Dem no sennthe guy
Godszilla: Veteran Nollywood actor and filmmaker Jide Kosoko has said he is in debt after his film, Eleko: Oba Esugbayi, failed to recoup its production cost of over N300m in cinemas.
Kosoko disclosed this in a now trending clip from his interview on African A-List published on October 17, where he explained that the money used to produce the film came from investors who expected returns on their investment.
According to him, the film which premiered in the cinemas in March, failed to generate enough revenue to recover its production cost, while the little money earned was shared among those involved.
“My film ‘Eleko: Oba Esugbayi’ that recently came out and we took to the cinemas, cost us over N300 million. Do I have 300 million? You should know that some people gave it to me and it was not that they dashed me, they invested in it and we took the film to the cinemas,” he said.
He added, “Different things happened and we did not earn our money back. The little that was earned was split. As I am, if you hear someone with debt dancing around their neck, it is me.”
PUNCH Online had earlier reported that Kosoko revealed he had been living with diabetes since 1996, saying his decades-long experience with the condition had given him a better understanding of his health.
“I became diabetic in 1996; I understand my health better than some doctors do. Do not misquote me. I am not saying I know how to do everything, I just do not want to die,” Kosoko said.
He also spoke about his personal life, disclosing that he had lost three wives, including the mother of his daughter, Bidemi Kosoko, who died during childbirth.
“I lost my wife during childbirth; that’s Bidemi’s mother. I have lost three wives,” he said.
SecurityNgr: The challenge now is whether improved welfare, better hospital infrastructure and sustained investment in healthcare can help reverse the trend.
But Mr Tinubu sir, it was still you that said you were exporting them...so please let them keep leaving.
I believe the Governor should be warned because he had warned the local government chairman that no opposition should be allowed to enter their territories to campaign.
Rebuker: Why I Started Working Out And Why You Must Too
Three years ago, I would get tired climbing a flight of stairs. My stomach was growing, my clothes were getting tighter, and I was always making excuses for why I couldn't exercise.
"Exercise is for people who have too much free time," I used to say.
Then one morning, I saw a video of myself at a friend's birthday party. Guy, I couldn't believe my eyes! I looked older than my age, and I was breathing heavily after dancing for barely five minutes.
That was my wake-up call.
The following Monday, I joined a gym. On my first day, I struggled with exercises that other people seemed to perform effortlessly. I almost quit, but the instructor told me something I never forgot: "You didn't become unfit in one day, so don't expect to become fit in one day."
I kept showing up.
After a few weeks, I noticed I had more energy. I slept better, felt stronger, and started becoming more confident. Months later, my clothes fitted differently, and climbing stairs no longer felt like running a marathon.
But the biggest change wasn't my appearance. It was my mindset. I became more disciplined, and that discipline began influencing other areas of my life.
Today, I understand that working out isn't just about building muscles or getting a flat stomach. It's about investing in your health, improving your strength, and giving your body a better chance of serving you well as you grow older.
You don't need an expensive gym membership to begin. Walking, jogging, skipping, and simple home exercises can make a difference. Start small, stay consistent, and choose activities that suit your fitness level.
Remember, you don't have to wait until you are overweight, constantly tired, or struggling with your health before you take fitness seriously.
Start moving today, because the best time to take care of your body is before it starts begging you to.
AnonPoet: “You were the Governor of Cross River when Bakassi was ceded to Cameroon—you couldn’t do a thing because you were no local champion.”
— Diri fires back at Donald Duke over Coastal Road remark, declares Bayelsa’s terrain conquerable!
Bayelsa State Governor, Senator Douye Diri, has hit back at former Cross River Governor Donald Duke, insisting that roads and bridges can be built despite Bayelsa’s tough terrain.
Diri also warned Duke over what he called an insulting posture on national television, declaring: “If you claim you don’t know me, I don’t know you either!”
“You were the Governor of Cross River when Bakassi was ceded to Cameroon—you couldn’t do a thing because you were no local champion.”
— Diri fires back at Donald Duke over Coastal Road remark, declares Bayelsa’s terrain conquerable!
Governor Diri is just behaving like a typical average Nigerian. I was thinking he will lecture and enlighten Donald on the "Coastal Road" rather he resorted to abuse and insults...smh
Tinubu campaign team was lambasted by Emir of Katsina! He frankly told them his palace is not a polling centre,they visit every 4 yrs. Hunger everywhere The in fighting within the northern governors both old & current. Tinubu should prepare to go back to Iragbiji pic.twitter.com/I2KViPYGEy
Great100000: England, Great Britain, and the United Kingdom are often used interchangeably, but they describe different things.
England is a country, with London as its capital. Great Britain is the large island that contains England, Scotland, and Wales—it does not include Northern Ireland.
The United Kingdom is the sovereign country officially made up of England, Scotland, Wales, and Northern Ireland. London also serves as the UK’s capital.
The easiest way to remember it is like this: England is one part of Great Britain, Great Britain contains three countries, and the UK adds Northern Ireland to those three.
So when someone says “England” while referring to the entire UK, they’re technically talking about only one of its four constituent countries.
Great100000: Elon Musk has shared an ambitious timeline for the future of artificial intelligence, predicting that the technology could transform nearly every aspect of human work within the next decade. According to his projections, Al could surpass human intelligence as early as 2026, followed by a major shift in 2027 when artificial intelligence may become capable of handling virtually all digital work. By 2028, Musk believes Al systems could reach a point where even the most skilled human software developers would struggle to outperform them.
His predictions extend far beyond computers and into the physical world through advanced robotics. Musk has suggested that Tesla's Optimus humanoid robot could eventually perform surgical procedures better than the world's leading human surgeons by 2029. Looking further ahead, he envisions more than 100 million humanoid robots operating worldwide by 2031, with artificial intelligence eventually becoming more capable than the combined intellectual abilities of humanity.
By 2036, Musk predicts a future in which approximately 1 billion humanoid robots could be deployed across industries, potentially generating more physical labor output than the entire human workforce combined. While these timelines remain speculative and depend on major technological breakthroughs, they highlight just how dramatically Musk expects Al and robotics to reshape the global economy, employment and everyday life over the coming decade.
Let's save this pictures for reference purposes, so that if it happens, we will know.
Vision101: Are you interested in the value of the funds only? Poor argument. During Buhari's time what was the condition of Enugu? What was achieved? The man knew what he met on ground and how far the reforms helped him to achieve what he achieved. You are outside but he's inside. Who has a better understanding?
Well, if you're talking about what he met on ground. Will he be honest enough to ask his predecessor that question?
dallasi: Look at the four pictures below again and you will see the new Nigerian epidemic.
1. The Ibadan Engineer John Aderemi Abiola. A man who built a house, bought a car, gathered properties. In September 2022, his skeleton was found in his own house in Ibadan. He had been dead for almost four years. Four years. No one noticed. His car was in the compound, overgrown with weeds. His possessions were intact. Thieves did not kill him. Loneliness did.
2. The Senator Senator Bello Mandiya. A man who reached the peak of Nigerian power - the Senate. The red chamber. He reportedly slipped and fell in his bathroom in Abuja. His body was found 72 hours later. Not because his security aides checked. Not because his colleagues missed him at plenary. But because he missed prayers.
3.The Father in Enugu A 68 years old. A widower. His children were abroad, in Lagos, in Canada - everywhere but home. When his daughter couldn't reach him on phone, she begged neighbours to check. They found him dead, alone on his sofa.
4. The Mother in Port Harcourt A mother. Probably a mother who cooked for everyone, who warned everyone. Relatives called for three days. No answer. Neighbours broke the door and found her by the bathroom.Four stories. One question:
Who would notice if we disappeared?
We gradually accepted the "Individualism" pill from the Western Culture...especially once we make a little money or a high status in society, we build houses with very high fences and shut everyone out. By nature are meant to be social beings..
Do you guys go home straight after closing from work or you simply hang around bars,pub or taverns to clear your heads before sneaking home when your family have gone to bed
I know some men go home straight after work rushing to meet and spend time with their families.
To the ones that evade going home after closing from work/businesses,I love to hear why you guys behave like that.
It's just a way of socialising...in some places of work in Asia its an unwritten Constitution for workers to hangout abit after work. To some people it's just a way of letting off work stress before getting home...
Your Excellency, what's the value of the funds you said you have received now as compared to the value of funds during the Buhari regime, having in mind that Buhari paid fuel subsidy.
Romance › Re: Before You Blame Women, Answer This One Uncomfortable Question. by Omalicious1: 11:43am On Oct 29
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