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Family / Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Mature Advice by OmoAlata1(f): 8:35pm On May 19, 2015 |
kaboninc: Are you interviewing me for Punch or SaharaReports? |
Family / Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Mature Advice by OmoAlata1(f): 8:31pm On May 19, 2015 |
coogar: I am shocked. you are actually the first man in this thread that say they will forgive |
Family / Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Mature Advice by OmoAlata1(f): 8:28pm On May 19, 2015 |
coogar: So you will forgive a cheating wife? |
Family / Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Mature Advice by OmoAlata1(f): 8:27pm On May 19, 2015 |
kaboninc: what does conflict of interest cause? Drama, so what is the difference? reason of being married is subjective to each person. Cos everyone will give different answers as everyone reason is not the same |
Family / Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Mature Advice by OmoAlata1(f): 8:23pm On May 19, 2015 |
babyosisi: I don't know why people have that mentality that if a divorced woman or widow has not remarried, it automatically means, no man is checking for her. Which is so not true at all 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Mature Advice by OmoAlata1(f): 8:15pm On May 19, 2015 |
coogar: Coogar, eiyah pele, which woman gives you another man's pregnancy to raise so i can console you? 5 Likes |
Family / Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Mature Advice by OmoAlata1(f): 8:02pm On May 19, 2015 |
kaboninc: yes she can quite frankly. finding a husband is not hard. finding the right husband is what is hard. Most divorced women or widowed choose to remain single not cos they can't find a husband but cos they don't want to deal with the drama(cos most men ARE drama queens). Men are not as scarce for any women of any age as you like to promote. it is that type of fear and scare tactic that have so many suffering women in Nigeria 5 Likes |
Family / Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Mature Advice by OmoAlata1(f): 7:53pm On May 19, 2015 |
samtol4: No there is nothing barbaric about my advice. you just mad cos it deflated your ego. If she remarries that is her own choice, but she deserves more than that so called husband. Marriage is not the beginning of her identity as a woman. 11 Likes |
Family / Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Mature Advice by OmoAlata1(f): 7:49pm On May 19, 2015 |
samtol4: I don't need to have a husband for her. A woman's happiness, identity, peace and joy is not solely about her having a husband. Especially one who has no respect for her by sleeping with very young sister to see if he can get her pregnant. He has done a lot of damages that I don't even know how you can repair it. She deserves way way way more than so called husband. it is not must to be Mrs. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Mature Advice by OmoAlata1(f): 7:43pm On May 19, 2015 |
smsshola: Would you have same opinion if the OP was a guy? 1 Like |
Family / Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Mature Advice by OmoAlata1(f): 7:42pm On May 19, 2015 |
kaboninc: so are you stating if a woman divorces her husband she can't get another husband? young or old? cos she should just stay cos she has been used up and expired. But it is ok for a man to leave cos he has so much option out there no matter his age? ok o Oga, I have heard you 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Mature Advice by OmoAlata1(f): 7:33pm On May 19, 2015 |
smsshola: Ori mi o!!! what did I just read? typical guy always shifting the blame on the woman(who is the victim). if the case was reverse, would you advice your fellow man to "forgive and forget"? would you question if he was playing his role as the husband for his wife to go and sleep with his younger brother to see if she could get pregnant? Women in Nigeria have sufferred. I ache for all the women in Nigeria if this is truly how men in Nigeria reason 11 Likes |
Family / Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Mature Advice by OmoAlata1(f): 6:59pm On May 19, 2015 |
kaboninc: I believe it is you who do not comprehend my simple question. it is stated there crystal clear |
Family / Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Mature Advice by OmoAlata1(f): 6:27pm On May 19, 2015 |
kaboninc: Thanks for novel. I feel honored, but you still did not answer my question 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Mature Advice by OmoAlata1(f): 6:01pm On May 19, 2015 |
Kaboninc, you are making this thread irritating. I bet if OP is a man stating his wife was sleeping with his younger brother cos she wanted to see if she could get pregnant. You will be telling the husband to run as far from that devilish woman ASAP. but when it is a wife dealing with cheating husband and you are saying "it is man's world" "men are above women" etc She should not divorce if her husband is truly remorseful. Would you tell a fellow man to stay with a woman, who has had several sexual encounter with his younger brother that he is raising, if she is very remorseful of her behavior because she was looking for pregnancy?? I hate hypocrite with passion. The hypocrisy is this thread is killing me softly. Just like one idiiot was telling me "the success of a marriage falls on the woman ONLY and if it fails, it is all her fault" Abeg I need panadol 11 Likes |
Family / Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Mature Advice by OmoAlata1(f): 5:41pm On May 18, 2015 |
OMG, I am speechless. This is like the worst way to betray someone ever. Two people whom you hold dearly to your heart, I don't even know how to advice you. Since your emotions are all over the place now, the sights of both of them might make you do something stupid. Can you stay in a hotel for a wk? or find someone who will allow you to let you stay with them for at least a wk, so you can gather your thoughts. Just make up some type of lie to your husband as to why you are going away for a week. Don't say anything until you have gathered your thoughts. I am with babyosis, I believe your husband has been sleeping with her since she was 14, it did not just happened. Which might explain why your sister is very promiscuous. God has a funny way of blessing and protecting us. Maybe this is the reason why you have not gotten pregnant. You should be on your knee and thanking God for not having any children with that disgusting pig. God sees this and that is why he has not given pregnancy. I will advice you to talk to your sister. Don't do it in a confrontation manner, do not judge her nor be aggressive. Talk to her in a motherly way, trust me, she will spill all the beans to you. Just be prepared for what you will hear from her cos it might break you into pieces. But divorce him kia kia. Do not let anyone try to guilt you to stay. You deserve better than that. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Ladies! Will You Marry A Very Rich Handsome Man With A Small Manhood? by OmoAlata1(f): 8:33pm On May 09, 2015 |
God Forbid bad thing. I don't want a husband I will cheat on |
Family / Re: He Molested Her Baby. by OmoAlata1(f): 2:02pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
what the hell are still you doing there? and you are also so calm about it? are you waiting for him to fully penetrate her, damage her womb and send her to hospital before your eyes open?? You need to call the police on that pedophile or call your neighbors for jungle justice. if you want to save face cos it is more important than your child's well being, then you move out of that house ASAP. I am more shocked at how calm you are about it and still living in that house. I will not curse you out cos I will assume you are still in shock from the discovery 4 Likes |
Family / Re: What Part Of Marriage Do You Dislike? by OmoAlata1(f): 8:29pm On Apr 19, 2015 |
when he gets too comfortable and starting farting around you. or does a bad stinker in the toilet and not use air freshner. disgusting lol. get comfortable but not that comfortable 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Mind Blowing Facts About Kissing by OmoAlata1(f): 9:56pm On Apr 16, 2015 |
Naija men in naija are the worst kisser ever. they want to choke you with their tongue. Or suck your lips so hard, it will go numb. But Westernised naija men, can kiss well |
Family / Re: Does Sugar Really Make Small Kids Have Hyper-active Behaviour? by OmoAlata1(f): 9:48pm On Apr 16, 2015 |
no it is a myth. Funny thing is, I have very hyper children and they eat no sugar |
Family / Re: Please Help Me. Am I Making A Right Decision??! by OmoAlata1(f): 9:36pm On Apr 16, 2015 |
you need to get yourself a self esteem and think highly of yourself. That man has no respect for you at all. And you have a son for God sake, what kind of example are you setting for him when his father is treating you like a piece of shiit. Do you want your son to be like mini daddy to other women? He also had sex with you 3 wks after CS . what if your incision had ripped and you started bleeding internally? Forget about that guy, and work on your self worth and self esteem and start falling in love with yourself. How can you say you love him when you don't even love yourself? When you learn to love yourself and have high regard and standard for yourself, then the correct man will come your way. If you stay in self pity and have no love for you and not in love with yourself, even if you leave him, men like him will still manage to find you. As a woman to a woman, please learn from your mistake, get away from him and start working on your self esteem and self worth, please love and fall in love with yourself. PS., if you must have sex with him, please please use condom, you do not need anymore pregnancy in your life at this moment. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Mother Gives Birth To Son’s Baby by OmoAlata1(f): 7:20pm On Mar 10, 2015 |
I hate stories that are sensationalized. I don't know why people are having heart attack over this story |
Celebrities / Re: Nkiru Sylvanus In Colourful New Photo by OmoAlata1(f): 7:11pm On Mar 10, 2015 |
How can she be an actress when she has not acted in any movie in several yrs? She formerly not currently. |
Family / Re: Picture Of A Funny Bar...called A Day Care Center by OmoAlata1(f): 3:01pm On Mar 08, 2015 |
Just make sure you send him with box of condom so he doesn't bring unwanted home for you. |
Jokes Etc / Re: Bikini Wahala (pics) by OmoAlata1(f): 11:43pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
lol dead |
Family / Re: Why Are Some Husbands So Selfish?(pic) by OmoAlata1(f): 9:30pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
I blame the woman, not the man |
Family / Re: Plz Help! Her Husband Has Suddenly Developed Sick Sexual Fantasies. by OmoAlata1(f): 9:29pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
soulglo: ok madam researcher, if it makes you feel better |
Family / Re: Plz Help! Her Husband Has Suddenly Developed Sick Sexual Fantasies. by OmoAlata1(f): 9:16pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
soulglo: Honey, you have a lot to learn, you will be surprised what people do behind closed door. Especially innocent looking people 1 Like |
Family / Re: Plz Help! Her Husband Has Suddenly Developed Sick Sexual Fantasies. by OmoAlata1(f): 8:53pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
all you hypocrite need to stop condemning people. if you don't like it, fine, but don't condemn those who do. people who live in glass house shouldn't throw stone PS, I never said for a woman to do something she is not comfortable with to keep her husband, i just said she should be open minded as his request is not outrageous. |
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