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quivah:
so because she wouldn't want her husby to see other women, she should accept her new 'latrine' role and be pissed on...
if she like make she lie down and the man poo on her during sex, he would still see other women if he wants!


pissing on your wife and heres a woman thinking its not a sick sexual fantasy..

Golden Shower is pretty common. you just find it disgusting cos it is new to you. He can pee on her legs or belly. and she can take a shower afterward. it is just pee, kini big deal?

how is that a sick sexual fantasy? Now if he goes and finds another woman to do it for him. She will start visiting all pastors and crusades and doing by fire by force prayers to get him back. lol orisirisi

emusmith:
" Omo alata "...Don't give that excuse please...
Today's bad habits ( nursed and pampered) are Tomorrow's struggles and failures!

How is that an excuse? Are you telling me you have never explored your own body before? most of the hypocrites in here have explored their own body at some point in the life. It is human nature. The girl is very normal.

Abeg leave the girl alone. She is exploring her body which is very normal. Why tell her mum or beat her? Damn you people are so backward. Abeg leave the girl jo, stop shaming her. She is 15 for God sake. Very age appropriate. It is very normal.

4 kids in 6yrs?

Were you on any form of birth control?? I hope you go on birth control asap or get your tube tie in case Oga comes back to beg.

Face your kids and do the best you can to take care of them. Just see yourself as a widow, you have no husband. Kids are not MIL responsibility. She already trained her own kids, do yours

Should pregnant couples not have sex? Cos Missionary is impossible with a huge belly. I guess for all you pregnant couples, you are all going to hell according to this pastor.

laykhorn:
how do you forget such things? My sister, its impossible to forget naa. The last time I saw her was in 2009 which is a while now. There is this wakward friction between us. I just avoided her as much as possible and I made sure we had nothing to do together but its not like that 'haunt' you know. I'm still not convinced its a spiritual or psychological ish.

I really believe that abuse is what affecting you right now subconsciously. I believe when you seek psychological help for it, you will see big changes in you. Abuse is a horrible thing and it can destroy if not dealt with properly.

we should watch all children. I only see girls in your write up. Do you know boys are likely to be molested more than girls. 1 in every 4 boys are molested according to study. so protect ALL children and talk to your son AND daughters about what is appropriate and inappropriate touching.

that is a dicey situation. if you eat out in public whether street food or restaurants. you don't even know the status of the person who cooks the food. what about where you buy butcher meat with sharp sharp knives everywhere and "animal blood"

I feel sorry for that wife. it is actually sad. why does she have to descend so low for that idiiot and not have any self respect and self worth for herself?

where do all these wicked women come from? it was last week in ibadan that something similar happened. How can you say you are a mother who loves your own children very much and do this to another woman's child? pure wickedness

Can he even get his thing up? or last for more than 2 minutes. Olorun maje

Very dramatic person

InZA:
Wow!!!

You're so far from the truth.


Too far for me to even want to attempt fencing my own opinions with you.

It's particularly shocking that this is coming from a lady.

I've never been addicted to po:rn, but I must admit that before I completely stopped watching it, I had my fair share of it.

I don't quite get what you mean by underlying factors or reasons, because quite frankly, nothing justifies por:n watching.

There was a thread I opened with my alternate moniker "1one", in that thread, I made a transcript of a Tedtalks seminar given by Ran Gavreni. I would place the link here, please and please, I'm hoping that you'd spare some minutes to go through that thread, be as liberally minded as possible before reading the content of the thread.

Here's the link.

https://www.nairaland.com/2038350/why-stopped-watching-indecency

I will say it again, there is no such thing as p.orn addiction nor sex addiction. if you believe you have any of these addiction, you don't. You have other issues that need to be treated and it is manifesting itself through sex. First uncover the real reason(s) why have these addiction then seek proper professional treatment for it. then your addiction will be solved. In my opinion p.orn and sex addiction is just an excuse cos people will automatically feel sorry for you.

why are you depriving and torturing yourself? just get yourself a sex minded girl and thrust away. Life is too short jere. Sex is not a sin. Get urself boxes of condoms, lube, c.ockring and a willing partner and all your wahala will be solved. Stay protected

there is no such thing as p.orn addiction. there is an underline issue and p.orn watching is just the outlet. solve the underlining issues and bam, your "po.rn addiction" is solved. BTW watching p.orn is not a sin. je,rking off to p.orn is the safest sex will you ever have

the husband needs a vasetomy and the wife needs her tube tied

How are we supposed to say this prayer? Is it a daily thing?

I love this idea and welcome it. I too will love to pay my tithe this way as I don't trust churches. I don't want to sponsor my pastor next aeroplane or Royce rolls. I will rather give it to someone who desperately needs it to better their circumstances.

Do you want to raise the child with her? or do you want her to give you the child to raise? If you want to raise the child on your own, you should look into surrogacy, surrogacy should not be that hard to find, you just need money for her service. Marriage is not for everyone. it is a good thing that you realize this before actually did it.

coogar: hahahaha - nice to know you don't form....
what's the experience like? did you feel you lost a jewel?

tell me the details of ur experience first and i might share mine

coogar: there i was thinking you are still a certified virgin.

virgin? from where to where? I am not one of those forming ladies on here.

I think I understand where he is coming from. He thought sex was going to be like porn movies. Op you have unrealistic view of sex even pornstars n prostitutes don't have sex like that in their personal life. Porn sex is not real life sex, u need to understand that concept ASAP.

I hope your wife is an open minded person and is willing to explore with you sexually. Did you two even discuss sex while dating? This is why I advocate pre-marital sex. I don't understand why people would sign a huge lifetime contract without test driving first but only to complain afterward. I can't wrap my head around that.

Talk to your wife. Change your unrealistic view about sex. Hopefully your wife is open minded enough to explore with you

I don't believe it. It is a hoax. It would have been all over news. It is even physically impossible.

Your story is fake. It doesn't make sense. When you look at the yrs you have been together, the 7 yrs age difference and 3yrs wait before kids, things are not adding up. Abeg come up with better story or change the yrs around so I can at least buy it.