Crackhaus, you are contradicting yourself so much that I don't even know how to respond to you. You should re-read all of posts, too much contradiction

You can use asewo service now. That is why their job is created

Dam007, do you expect your working wife to contribute financially to your household? If so, then she has same choice as you when house chores are concern. So you expect her help pay the bills with her salary and MUST do all house chores duty. But you, who also have salary and contribute financially only HAVE CHOICE to do house chores??

Ok, did I even read that correctly?

Who die and say woman duty is to housework Shouldn't it OUR duty instead of just one person?

When a woman works and make salary, the same idiiot men in here who say "it is her duty to do house chores" will be the one asking where is her own share of financial contribution to the household. And give her the silent treatment if she doesn't contribute. If you expect her to follow gender rules, then you should do the same. When she works, even if she earns more than you, don't use that stinky mouth with yellow teeth of urs to ask her to contribute financially to the house. You bring home the money and she can keep her salary n still make sure your is house clean, your clothes are clean, your kids look clean, food is ready , etc. And at night whether she is tired or not, she can spread her legs eagles for you and you can go up n down for ur boring 5 minutes action without pleasing her sexuaal needs

Most women who have daddy issue usually married older man. You rarely see a lady who has excellent relationship with her daddy married to one old man.

If you have daddy issues work on yourself first instead of thinking one grandpa is going to fill a void your daddy couldn't fill.

coogar:

that's exactly the problem.
what do i imagine? an obese woman that is about 24 stones in weight or a halle berry lookalike?

you are asking too much from me asking me to imagine....imagine what?

I am not obese that I know for sure. but if you post your pic I will post mine

coogar:

a pictorial evidence would convince me. every woman says this: "i look good, i look fit." i have a feeling that someone like you is about 22 stones at least.

lol I don't need to include pictures. b/c there are millions of women who have carried 2 more pregnancies and still look good and young.

But if you must have pictorial evidence, you can imagine my picture in head while using ur right hand

I am more shocked about all these men stating "women age faster especially after childbirth" abeg stop that rubbish.

If a woman takes good care of herself (exercise, eat healthy and emotionally sound) childbirth will not age her. I have carried two pregnancies and I look better than most women who have not given birth. I take good care of my body. Everyone I have met do not believe I have children.

Wow that girl really suffered. First day on the job? I believe if she was not pregnant her survival rate would have been higher. Those people did not deserve painful death like that. I will leave Patrick Sawyer to judgement of God

Omg her poor vagi.na will never be the same

If it is for Nigerians at home and in diaspora, then why are all pictures of white and light skinned people? Those pictures are not good representation. They don't have modeling agency in Nigeria where you hire models for better promos? It should look Nigerians or Africans at least.

I am speechless. At least he is admitting to have an attraction to little children. Most pedoph.ile will not admit to this unless they are around their kind. Loft you do not only need to do the deed to be a pervert, the thought alone makes you a pedoph.ile. I know there is a doctor in Canada that works with men like you who have not acted on their desire (I am praying you have not n you are only thinking). If you are not there, you should really think of chemical castration. It helps decrease sex libido since pedoph.ilia is incurable and you will always have attraction for kids.

If my husband cheats on me, I will stick it him where it hurts the most. I will fuvk one of family member brother, cousin, nephew etc one of those people. If he has no male family member, I will go for his dearest friend or his boss. I will make sure I plan it well that he walks in on us while I am riding the dude. After he is heartbroken and pissed off, I will take him to the cleaners. So don't pissed me off cos I am loyal and I expect the same from him.

It depends on the woman. A woman that has asewo for a husband that will sleep with anything that has holes, I will advice against it. But if your husband is not asewo and has self respect, sure why not. If there is trust then there is no problem.

wizkid is guilty of this with yankee accent

Babymama1:

You mean with this serious story,na her lace wig you dey look?

lol sorry o, it was distracting

omg her lacewig, is wearing lacewig compulsory eh?

what is with all these sexist posts this weekend? na wa o

This post is so sexist

Dez80: Question is, WETIN THE WOMEN DEY DO WEY THE ATTRACT THE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE?
Shey man dey craze to just beat d woman like dat wen she do noting ni?

Watch dat ur sharp mouth dear,dat is wat annoys ur short-tempered husband or boyfriend!

you are an idi.ot that for that comment. I pray you will never have a sister,daughter, cousin, friend, niece, etc in a domestic violence situation

this list is boring

I know a lot about autism as i am personally affected by this. I have a child who suffers from one. I know exactly what you are going through. If you need someone to talk to. you can always pm

do you have family members there or someone you trusted with your babies so you can have some "me" time to yourself for a few hrs or even a day or two? When you have kids, you have to have me time, it is a MUST.

Also when you said developmental delayed, what do you mean?

Get on your knees and give glory to God that you are not married yet. Your husband is still out there waiting for you to find him.

cococandy: You that came to NL with a matter that's not your business wetin we go call you?

lol nice one

IcecoldDon: friend of mine who is getting married next year told
me that she is getting contradictions on the use of
depo provera as a contraceptive. She said a doctor told
her it was fine...but some nurses scared her that the
side effects would be that she wouldn't ever get
pregnant.

So in essence,to all doctors out there, Please...is it
medically fine or ok for a lady who hasn't had kids to
take it without any bad side effects.

p.s she doesn't want to constantly be using postinor as
she heard that the depo provera lasts for 3 months.

please please please no bashing,just friendly feedback will be highly appreciated.

I will leave depo alone. It makes you ridiculously fat. it can also cause osteoporosis in the future. there are plenty of other methods out there. I am scared of depo and the patch

njokusboy:
Lolzz, he should pack out or ask her to pack out... You didn't ask the op who owns the house

I highly doubt she wants to leave the marriage since he is the frustrated one, he should be the one to pack out. they both own the house since they are married

bennyrazz: It is very possible to cheat and still love your partner. Let me put it like this, you like vegetable soup very much and you eat it everyday, some days will definitely come where you want to do away with vegetables for probably a day or two but you still love vegetables and you rate it ahead of any other soup. After tasting other soups, you will be like hun hun vegetable is better than this now, vegetables doesn't purge me now, vegetables doesn't make my tongue bitter now. That is when you realise you can't do away with vegetables and vegetable is better than ogbono, ewudo, okro soup, edika ikong , white soup, egusi, banga, gbegiri e.tc and when you are caught by your wife eating another soup that is when you begin to explain and make her realise that the other soup you tasted isn't as sweet as her own vegetables

what a poor excuse. does this example only work for men or can this apply to women too? Cos next time i step out on my man, I can tell one guy like that NL use this example

didn't he know she was a gossiper before he married her? I am sure she did not just start. well he has to accept her for who she is.

He should stop beating her, if it is too much for him, he should pack out instead of beating her. gossiping is her gift, people make millions from olofofo, look at linda ikeji and SDK for example. She may be his answer to become a millionaire. Instead of complaining, he should see this as a blessing in disguise. he should invest in it and gain a lot of profit