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Family / Re: Chimamanda Adichie Misconception Of Feminism And Its Dangers To Rising Africans by OmoAlata1(f): 6:20pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
I can’t ascertain whether you are a feminist or not. Are you against feminism? Or are you speaking against those who are on the extreme end of it? |
Family / Re: Why Are Most Woman Now A Terrible Mother by OmoAlata1(f): 5:15pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
You are an idiot for this write up. 10 Likes |
Family / Re: Help!!! by OmoAlata1(f): 5:43pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
Op, I blame you for all these nonsense that you are going through. See me, I have a very strong personality, so I can never ever be with a man that I can overpower bc I can never respect him at all. I need a man who can put me in my place when I overstep my boundary,not an abuser, but a manly man. I am an alpha woman so I like alpha man. You are in a reverse relationship, you are the woman and your wife is a man. You have given her too much control and too much power. Until you start acting like a man and putting up some boundaries, my dear I pray that you will not die of high bp or stroke before then. If you are just naturally soft and you can’t set boundary without fear, please leave the marriage. Because you can never get upper hand again until you do something drastic. No prayers, bible verses, vigils will solve this. You are the wife and your wife is the husband. She knows this and she will use it to the fullest. Marriage is not by force, you only get one life. This relationship has cost you the death of your father, are you waiting for your mother’s turn? 1 Like |
Family / Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by OmoAlata1(f): 8:15pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Wow, this is serious. He actually brought the stalking of you online. Please if he is still based in London, go report him to police ASAP. He is a psycho. JoshVI: |
Family / Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by OmoAlata1(f): 7:53pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
I fear London men. I don’t know why women deal with them. Dyt: |
Family / Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by OmoAlata1(f): 6:07pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Josh we are waiting o genq: |
Family / Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by OmoAlata1(f): 4:58pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Oga no vex o. Just think of me as your sister that sees that you are about to enter fire that will destroy you and she is trying to talk some sense into you before you allow love and tight toto to cloud your judge. No vex. JoshVI: 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by OmoAlata1(f): 12:14pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Sweetie it is called tough love. You and her have no business being in a relationship at all not to even talk of marriage. Have you for once thought of those innocent kids you are planning to birth? Do you think they will be happy in that toxic environment? Please think of those children that are yet to be born and go search for your own true wife while she go search for her own true husband. Or else if you continue this into marriage, you are going to breed more abusers and abuse receivers into our environment. We, as citizen, are tired of domestic violence stories. We want to reduce it, not expand it. JoshVI: 12 Likes |
Family / Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by OmoAlata1(f): 11:55am On Jun 12, 2018 |
Both of you are very useless people. I pity the innocent children that you two will bring into this toxic environment. You will end up raising boys that when they become men, they’ll think it is ok to beat women and you will raise girls that when they too become women, they’ll think it is ok for a man to turn them into his punching bag bc it is love. You both have serious ego problems. I am taking you as the type of man who likes his ego to be stroked all the time so you can feel like a man and when she doesn’t, you will beat it into her. She also seems like the type of women that like to be beaten bc it means love and good sex. For the sake of the innocent children that you two are planning to selfishly bring into your toxic relationship , do those innocent kids a favor and part ways. You are not compatible at all on any level. But if you both insist you must continue on with your demonic toxic relationship, please please please, do not bring innocent children into it, just so they can suffer and have a misconstrue mind of what relationship is. We are tired of self parents breeding abusive men and low self esteem women that think abuse is ok. 21 Likes |
Family / Re: As A Man Wat Will You Do? by OmoAlata1(f): 1:58am On Jun 06, 2018 |
I am having issue with you stating that you discipline a full grown adult like she is a child. I have a feeling you might be the problem, not her and she is acting out due to your treatment of her 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Yomi Fabiyi Slams Toyin Abraham Over Mercy Aigbe by OmoAlata1(f): 10:04pm On Jun 03, 2018 |
Yomi just needs to come out of the closet. He is a woman stuck in a man’s body. I am not surprised he got involved in this matter. 5 Likes |
Family / Re: Advice On An Alleged Illegitimate Son by OmoAlata1(f): 1:55pm On Jun 03, 2018 |
You are a very wicked person. Some people should just not be parents. babyfaceafrica: 1 Like |
Family / Re: A Cry And Urgent Plea For Help by OmoAlata1(f): 1:56pm On Jun 01, 2018 |
You are an idiot and you can kiss my black ass. Leave me with bible quoting nonsense richdad555: 2 Likes |
Family / Re: I Need Your Help Regarding My Relationship by OmoAlata1(f): 1:53pm On May 29, 2018 |
I think you are being too sentimental on the number of years you have been together. It is not about quantity but the quality. I foresee a lot of Wahala in the marriage if you go through with this. They said you can manage a bad spouse but you can never ever manage a bad in law. I don’t want to read a post from you in couple of yrs complaining about your wife and in laws. erictus: |
Family / Re: I Need Your Help Regarding My Relationship by OmoAlata1(f): 1:01pm On May 29, 2018 |
My advise, let her leave. There is nothing more worst than a wife that goes from one pastor to another pastor. If you marry her, it is the churches and pastors that will be controlling your home, do you really want a life like that? Let her go and marry a man that her pastor approves of. Cry for a week more and get over it. Go and do thanksgiving for dodging a bullet. Your own person with common sense and mind of her own will come. 6 Likes |
Family / Re: A Cry And Urgent Plea For Help by OmoAlata1(f): 12:43pm On May 28, 2018 |
Where is your husband in all of these? Why is he not helping? I see all your children are 2 yrs apart. If you are so broke, why do you keep getting pregnant every year for the last 6 yrs? I don’t get how people can be crying poverty but they have more children then the rich people. Even me that have very good job, I am scared of having more kids after the 2 I have already. I have not gotten pregnant in almost 10 yrs. Please sell this phone you are using and first thing, go do family planning. You can use the remaining to feed your children. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Children's Day: Does Flogging Help In Correcting A Stubborn Child? by OmoAlata1(f): 3:15pm On May 27, 2018 |
Flogging is child abuse. I have never ever flogged my children and they are well behaved children. Punishment in our house is taking things away. It always does the trick 2 Likes |
Family / Re: After 27 Years Of Marriage, 57-year-old Nigerian Woman Gives Birth To Twins by OmoAlata1(f): 5:05pm On May 22, 2018 |
I don’t see the good news here. This is pure selfishness. By the time those kids reach 20, she will be 77 and her husband will be in his 80s. What is even guarantee they will be alive at that age? Do they have things in place in case they die? Not just financial things. This is just pure selfishness at the highest order. Those poor kids. |
Programming / Re: API Using Python by OmoAlata1(f): 9:36pm On May 16, 2018 |
I am a java person but due to work I have to learn how to use python. I have never really worked with API before. I just need crash course on APIas we use it a lot at work. 1 Like |
Programming / API Using Python by OmoAlata1(f): 2:51pm On May 16, 2018 |
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Family / Re: Please Help A Confused Lady Out. by OmoAlata1(f): 9:53pm On May 15, 2018 |
I will love to mentor you. You need strong positive women in your life. Please go focus on building your career and empowering yourself. Find a man who will love you for you and accept you for you. A good man will make you a better version of yourself, he will not try to rob you of your identity and strip you of your self worth. Any man who tells you that you must be someone else before he can accept you , please RUN. Date but your number one priority right now should be your career and empowering yourself. Don’t ever quit your job for any man ever again. BukkyDan: 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Please Help A Confused Lady Out. by OmoAlata1(f): 8:18pm On May 15, 2018 |
Does he have big dicck and fucck you well well? Because I am trying to understand why you are so daft at this your tender age. Quitting a job for a man that is not even your husband, his dicck must be really good. Please describe the dick and sex to me. I need a good dick that will turn me into mumu. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Would It Be Wise To Marry This Kind Of Person ? by OmoAlata1(f): 5:03pm On May 15, 2018 |
Please don’t waste your time advising him. I pray he will just end the relationship with the poor woman so he can safe her from unnecessary years of pain. Gallant12: 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Wife Confessed This To Me by OmoAlata1(f): 1:03pm On May 15, 2018 |
Wow had no idea. I pity the mumu that calls her a wife joudini: 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Would It Be Wise To Marry This Kind Of Person ? by OmoAlata1(f): 9:14pm On May 14, 2018 |
Plesse free this woman and allow her to go find a man who can appreciate her. I can already see how you will frustrate the poor lady in marriage. Please for the sake of her happiness, self esteem and self worth, end this relationship so she can go find a man who will truly appreciate and love her as she is. You are the type that will make a woman age 10 yrs after 5 yrs of marriage. Go to your village and the type of ladies you desire are plenty there 11 Likes |
Family / Re: My Wife Confessed This To Me by OmoAlata1(f): 6:42pm On May 14, 2018 |
How am I poke-nosing? It is on public forum and he asked for advise. Abeg, go and educate yourself on the definition of pokenose. We know your type very well. I bet you will not even dare raise your voice at your husband or even voice your opinions to him. But you want to come online and act like you are the queen bee. Go and get a better hobby than to come online and make outlandish statements that you know they have not born you well to dare commit or else you will lose the title Mrs. that you have worked so hard for. UjuJoan2: 8 Likes |
Family / Re: My Wife Confessed This To Me by OmoAlata1(f): 6:32pm On May 14, 2018 |
Your life must be really boring and miserable for you to come on NL to make outrageous comments that you know deep down you will never dare do in your life, all in name of getting attention. Na wa for you o UjuJoan2: 7 Likes |
Family / Re: My Wife Confessed This To Me by OmoAlata1(f): 5:05pm On May 14, 2018 |
I don’t get why you guys are saying she is a good woman. She cheated on him for goodness sake! That is one of the biggest betrayal in relationship. I also believe she slept with the man. She did not tell him bc she was a good woman and wife, she told him bc the guilt was eating her alive, that was why she couldn’t sleep with him and was forced to tell him half the truth. Even if she only kissed him, she still cheated, that is a very hard pill to swallow especially on the husband’s ego. So I fail to see where she is a good woman. She is not a good woman, bc of small financial difficulty, she went and fancied a man with more money. OP, this is totally your call, if you can forgive and truly let it go, then go ahead and work on the marriage. If not, then it is perfectly understandable. I will advise you to tell her to go look for work in another organization, bc she might be tempted by this man again. Also, it will affect you trusting her again, if she continues to work in the same office with the said man. 12 Likes |
Family / Re: I Need Serious Advice by OmoAlata1(f): 12:59am On May 12, 2018 |
Why would you want to arrest his mother? Was she there when her son was shooting his cum inside your sister? How old is your sister? She has 4 kids for this man so she must have enjoyed the sex and has indirectly accepted the consequences that come with it. If you guys are adamant in arresting his mother for having an irresponsible son, then you must arrest your mother too for having irresponsible daughter. It takes two to tango. Your sister is not innocent here. The men can just runaway whereas the women are stuck. In her next life, she will think with her brain, instead of her pusssy. Please leave that poor MIL alone. I only feel sorry for the 4 innocent children in this matter because they are born to irresponsible parents that do not understand the concept of condom. 10 Likes |
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