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You stole this story from Stella (SDK) blog. Why are you trying to tarnish the image of the lady in the picture? Thunder will fire your yansh for the way you are trying to torture that poor lady in the picture

It is a curse. There are a lot of disrespectness that come with looking younger for your age especially when you are older. I guess it is a gift bc you and your daughter can pass as sisters but a curse with the disrespectness that comes with it.

Ehhhh, You seem like a rapist apologist. Like the type that will marry your rapist for apologizing bc he is nice. Orisirisi

amicable09:

He has a weakness which we've seen but his strength has been overshadowed by lack of self control for us to bypass.

After she left his house and he made the estate guards send her outside the estate, he later realized the evil thing he had done without thinking properly before and went out to meet her. You apologized and was ready to take her to a safe place.

He drove her to where she got a cab and cared enough to know if she had arrived at the place she was headed. That's a guy with a conscience.

He came to his senses, realizing his mistake. He wouldn't have done that for her if he wasn't a nice person.

amicable09:
It's unfortunate. Seyi is really nice but lacked the one thing that should have made him completely good.

Good thing this story ended well. Otherwise someone would have said the lady brought it upon herself. Why did she agree to sleep in a guy's house?

But people dey try o!
Someone whose personal hygiene you know nothing about is someone you're trying to sleep with. Lol.

Did your clit get bigger now?

Lalas247:
You are insulting his English yet simple primary school subtraction you can’t do ..
Shot yourself in the foot dear

Rada rada

Lol you all want to have heart attack over my math? be my guest jo. The guy is still a nuisance with all his useless posts.


Yes Acidosis, I remember you

Lol you are 34 and your dad is 57? Which means your dad had you at age 13. You could have formatted a better age with your story. You are a senior executive with poorly written English like that? Koburu Lol.

Lol how did they go about this study? How subjects were in the study? What was their age and race? How many men were in the study? How many subjects did each men bone? So many questions

Can you define “control the home”?

Big fat no

Who did this study? They need to add United States on that list with all the school shooting going around. You can’t safely send your kids to school anymore cos you don’t know if you will receive a bad call before day end.

I know parents who are opting for homeschooling now

Tinamoore:
Thanks so much.yes , I am already seeing that it won't be easy.trust me,single motherhood was never among the plans I had for myself.

I try to show my angels so much love while at the same time not sparing the rod.

Thanks a lot for sharing your own story.

Trust me, it will get better, I was an emotional wreck. I had to seek professional counseling for 2yrs. If you can, you should think of seeing one. Do not see a pastor or Alfa or any spiritual leader. They will only make your emotional health worst, I am talking from experience. But it will get better, just take it one day at time. Please remember to be selfish a little and put yourself first.

I am a single mother of two. I left a very very abusive relationship. So I did not choose single motherhood but that was what life dealt me.

It is very tough on the children. I have been single mother for 4 yrs, the first 3 yrs was really really tough on them. But please you need to make them feel very love. Let them have a fatherly figure in their life, like your brother or father, any male figure that you trust very well. You don’t necessarily have to start dating again if you are not ready. They will adapt but I will not lie, it will not be an easy road at all. They might lash at you sometimes especially if you have boys.

I really feel for you. Your husband is really taking advantage of you. Please do everything to ensure that you don’t get pregnant again. Have your doctor put you on birth control, please don’t tell your husband at all. Tell him after the last failed attempt, you want him to use condom from now on. That way you are double protected. Please put yourself first, you do not need anymore children.

Lol your post is funny. You want to marry this yr There are only just 6-7 months left in the yr. I better not see you next year complaining about how your new husband is an evil man.

You also want to settle abroad? Is that your way of stylishly asking for men who stay abroad only? Lol

A lot of women use pregnancy to eat like a cow and have people pitied them. I have been pregnant twice. I never eaten like that. I ate at my normal rate. My only issue was I had to eat in small portion throughout the day, because if I ate regular portion in one seating, I would be so uncomfortable. I had heart burn.

I can’t stand womanly man. Go grow some balls

HoodBillionaire:
im praying to God to remove the spirit of lust from me.
my last girl i fated her for 2months
she dsnt get satisfied
lazy
pretends
tells lies
phone rings
itz 2days nw she ddnt call or say thank u .if i ask.she will say hw much did i give her.
well ive moved on since on tuesday.
blocked all her nos
deleted and moved on.
i need aoeone who is a working class
i will neva date a jobless poor girl
who has no vision.mission
wen u r too nice .dey take u for granted.
my former gal of 4yrs.
at age 32 shes nt atill married
she stil dey form young.
weneva i place a curse
its evalasting.
she wilk only get married in the grave

as for d one dah neva showed me appreciation.
ritualists go use her organs.
very simple
sex is nothing

to marry i no dey interested
marriage in naija is like nepa

Your wife knows you very very well. She knows you will come back to apologize. Even I can picture you running back to her to apologize. If you want to be freed from the control she has over you, then you need to ignore her completely and let her continue her tantrum. This will most likely result in the dissolution of your marriage because your wife ego and pride are too strong for her to admit any fault. She will rather be a divorcee than admit any fault. So the ball is in your corner, you can either try to gain your emotional freedom by completely ignoring her(which might dissolve the marriage) or you can go beg her, which will result in more disrespect from her to you. The choice is yours.

In the meantime, I will advise you to move back to Norway and get your own place. Your children need you the most. They deserve a father that is there for them physically. You can’t do your fatherly duties from such a long distance.

I am seen enough autism cases that he will be missed diagnosed as an autistic child. Anyway I will recommend his parents take him to a child behavior expert so he can be properly diagnosed. His mom needs to be a little patient. Her excessiveness is only making matter worst.

Otubio:
You were able to rule out Autism and diagnose ADHD from the same write up? You realize the Autism Spectrum is very broad and some of the characteristics are as described by the OP. Only a medical professional can evaluate the child and make that determination.

Also, for the people saying the OP should stop worrying that it is normal. You all realize that he may be witnessing signs that made him come here for ideas? Everyone knows kids can be defiant and overactive but sometimes if you notice things out of the ordinary, it is best to have them checked because EARLY INTERVENTION is key. If there is nothing wrong, no HARM done but if something is wrong and you WAIT and keep saying it is normal, you may regret the decision later in life. Best thing is to have the child checked if the OP suspects anything out of the ordinary.

Yes I am a very active member of the autism community and I am a member of several autism organization.

ststyreal:
Well, I am talking from experience. Austism is wide, some kids own might be that of loss of speech, echolalic(meaning repetition of words), being hyperactive, meaning they can injure themselves while playing, they are always on the move, they hardly feels pain etc. While some could be social behaviour. My friend, have you ever seen a severe austistic child? Hmmmmm. Any way, I only offered an advice.

He is not autistic. There is nothing in that writeup that screams autism. He has ADHD and needs to be formally diagnosed so he can get on medication.

ststyreal:
Your child might be displaying one of the autistic spectrum which is being hyperactive. I am talking from experience and if care is not taken the younger one will toll his path. Get a therapist to access him as soon as possible. God bless our children.

If she is pregnant, why is she still on gf status and not wife?

You are an idioot. Maybe you should date men for awhile

Shugarlord213:
I don’t know what you people are saying. I have taken women as h.oes and treated all Nigerian girls as the same.

I stopped dealing with women for 5 months to enable me save money to buy a car, because with a car you have unlimited access to their kitty even your friends wives and girls will follow you just so you know how cheap they are.

Once I fvck a naija gal, I just drop her at the busstop and leave #500 for her hand. Sometimes as soon as she steps off my car, I zoom off

If the girl like male she call me again if she doesn’t call me I get over 40 number ladies women way day disturb me for WhatsApp

Why spend for a leech when you got a car and bills to pay. I even bought a dog so to tell you I can’t afford to spend money on another being with complete legs and hands

Guys get sense pls and pls. Get a car if you don’t have. If you are on leggedis benz we way get car go fvck your babe and we don’t care how you feel atall


@op, so he told you to relax and he will set up a job. If you are a lady that works for her money before marriage a week of relaxation without action from your husband should have put you on our toes but no

You and all other Nigerian ladies see marriage as a breakout. I got no sympathy for your kinds who only knows how to sit down at home and open your legs and cry fowl...

For the people advising her not to abort, are you all planning to financially support her? Fucck No!

I will advise you to go seek a competent doctor to preform the procedure. You can abort until to 4 months. Just make sure you go to train professional.

I am so tired of all these I must die being a Mrs women. they are nuisance. Their advice have killed so many women or infected so many women with HIV

Let me tell you a big secret. Your children are already suffering when they constantly see their dad beating their mother. If this continue, your son will beat any woman he is with because you and your husband are showing him that is how a man treats his woman. Your daughter will also date and marry abusive men because they will think it is normal and that is the only way they can receive love from a man. So be honest with yourself, are you really staying for your children or are you staying because of fear of the unknown, fear of raising them by yourself, fear of what people will say, fear of being alone, fear of not having enough money to care for them etc? I don't think you are staying for your children but for yourself ONLY. If your husband dies today and leave you a widow, you will still survive and raise your children. Why are you making yourself miserable? abeg you only live once, why live it in fear and sadness?

I don't get it, so your wife will allow you to pour your $perm inside of her every time you have sex, but will not let you use her bath sponge? i am confused. Maybe I am missing something

that guy is a foolish boy, if i was the wife, I will let him seize the passport and go to US embassy as soon as possible for a new one (it will most likely be a long process). I will take picture of injuries he caused and report him to US embassy and then report his stupiDD a$$ to the police as soon as I enter US.

they never heard of C section?