I thought yaba wait until their patients receive full treatment before releasing them or allow them to have access to internet.

damn, your husband is very wicked. I had to wait for 4 months cos i was bruised badly. How did he even have time to think of sex from lack of sleep of dealing with a newborn. Don't have sex until you are on a very good family planning cos you have a very high chance of getting pregnant after giving birth.

Vasectomy can be reserved. If he does it and he changes his mind, he can get it reverse so he can impregnate a woman again

UPDATE...

I had no issue at all leaving the US. When I was checking in my luggages, I gave the agent my Nigerian passport first, then she requested for my US passport. Then she said your Nigerian passport is expired. I told her, online it says I can travel with expired Nigerian passport as long as I have a valid foreign passport. She was like "oh that is right, it says so right here on the computer" she was point to where it says so on her computer. I had a connected flight in Paris, she just told me i don't need my Nigerian passport anymore until I reach Nigeria that I should just use my US passport. I used my US passport in Paris with no issues, no questions were ask.

When I got to Nigeria, i had a small issue because i had the old passport, not the new ecowa one. The worker acted all confused and started talking to me like I am child. "what are you doing here?" "where is your mummy?" then one of them was like, so you know this is an expired passport, i said yes but online it says I can enter with expired Nigerian passport as long as I have a valid foreign passport. he left me alone to go talk to another person. after 5 minutes. the guy came and he was like you can't enter the country with expired passport, we will have to send you back. he was just asking all these nonsense questions like I am a teenager(maybe cos i look like one). The vibe I got from the 2 minutes conversation was he wanted me to give him money in order for me to get clearance into the country, without explicitly asking for it. Me, i just stood there looking dumb and pretended like i did not understand what he was implying. After 2 minutes, he was like I will let you enter the country but just make sure you renew your passport before leaving.

US will not give you any issues as long as you have a valid US passport or another valid foreign passport to accompanying your expired Nigerian passport . In Nigeria, they can't turn you away, if they imply bribery, you can just play dumb like me.

there is nothing you can do about it. it is both of you guys' money. he is not stealing, cos you have access to his just as much as he has access to yours. Next time, go to his pocket/wallet and take the money there. he has no room to complain about it.

I don't find Mr Ibu, Seal and OBJ ugly

tpiar:


i looked up your old threads, thats all.

i dont remember you saying you were in the US.

So, did you move to America?

here is one thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/465678/nigeria-embassy-london-worst-mgmt

I am not the same person, if you notice, mine has a 1 at the end.

enieme:

so what? It's up to her to choose where and when she wants to make her renewaL.
My q is that this arresting thingy, is it part of the law or just immigration made law

No, It is not enieme, he has a personal beef with me. So don't listen to his rubbish.

slimmy05:
she has never travelled out of US. If she can show us a ticket with her name showing such then I would believe

Why is my simple question paining your head so much? You are displaying a womanly behavior in this thread. I only ask a question, why are you acting like your life depends on it? If Nigerian govt detained me, what concern is it of yours? Is it you they will detain ni? It seems like this is more than just a passport issues for you, please whatever is paining you, state it now so you can stop acting like a bitter woman. Don't derail my thread in case someone has a similar question in the future. If I am detained, it is not your wahala and no concern of yours.

worry359:
In the past the advice has been.
Book your tickets and board the plane with your USA passport.
Enter Nigeria, your home country, with expired Nigerian passport.
Renew passport as soon as possible.
(A little money to ease Nigerian immigration might help. )

But I can not guarantee that they will let you board the aircraft without a Nigerian visa, you should check with the airline.

Thank you. That was exactly what my friend just told me she did last yr. she said they did not collect money but told her she couldn't leave the country without renewing her passport. I will reply back with my experience for future seekers

slimmy05:
You will be arrested and detained.

Abeg I don't need your nonsense today. That is your portion for the new yr. have a nice day

Thanks everyone. I will chance it and travel with my expired passport. As my friend just told me she did last yr with no problem. I will let you guys know how it goes, in case someone ask same question in the future.

tpiar:
In one of your old threads, you said you were from the UK.

did you move to the US?

.

Are you e-stalking me?

I am in the US and I have to travel to Nigeria. I was wondering if I will be allow to enter Nigeria with expired passport accompany with a valid US passport. My friend told me, I can travel to Nigeria with an expired passport as long as I have a valid US passport, but I have to renew my passport as soon as I get to Nigeria or else they will not allow me back into US. Is this a true statement?

I don't have time to renew my Nigerian passport in US as I will not receive it before my trip. By the way, i have the old old old passport from the 90s not the new ecowa type.

you don't want to know

Sweet Jesus! she needs full refund. she has the typical tranny silicone injection face

I don't believe this story. Too many holes. So many questions. I digress

What happens in a situation where the mother has no sons? or the father has no sons? who does the properties go to?

a lot of double standard in this thread. if it was a man posting this and said his wife has slept with 60 men in 3yrs after marriage, would you all claim for better for worse?? I digress

OP, There are HIV, HPV and other stds that have been discovered or have yet to be discovered out there. HPV can actually cause cancer and you have a child depending on you already. you are lucky to be std free right now. I don't believe chronic cheater can change. yea he may cool off for few months or even few yrs but he will eventually start up again.

veraponpo:


Thank you for the words of wisdom, as much as babyosis (don't know if I am correct) has wealth of wisdom, she is usually to fast to bring divorce to the fore. I have seen men who really goofed in their homes but with the wisdom of the wives, they salvaged their homes. You don't throw divorce up when a matter just occurred. She did not even mentioned separation pending when the case will be settled, she just said take a walk.

Our women need to think twice and seek for godly advice not from one lady on Nairaland who will lead them astray.

It is not wisdom. It is low self esteem, no self worth, desperation. Lack of self respect, self love and self value.

People like to abuse the word "wisdom" too much.

kaboninc:


Because you don't know what I've been through.

are you stating you were in situation where your wife has gone to go test drive your brother's sperm count?

kaboninc:


So you're single then?

are you trying to stylishly toast me?

coogar:


the difference is obvious....
everyone knows it's not the same. if your hubby impregnates a woman outside marriage. you cannot been deceived that you are the mother of that baby.

if you get impregnated by a man outside marriage - you will have to lie to your hubby that the baby belongs to him. that's the difference!

you did not answer my question. you said cheating for a man is different than for a woman. my question is in reference to that statement

kaboninc:


If she desist, I can continue to live with her. If it becomes too bad, I'll forgive her but may not continue with the marriage.

In fact, I can divorce her and remarry her. Its funny you may say. But I tell you, the surprises in life are just so amazing. Even my brother, I can even get tired of hating him.

Why? Because tomorrow, my brother can end up being an incredible and responsible father and dad to both his wife and kids. I'll die in pains. And my wife can even remarry and find happiness. So why carry so much pain for life?

Let me tell you, you'd be marvelled at what married couples go through should they tell you. That's why they say do not jump into conclusion.

it is very easy to say what you will do in a hypothetical "if" case scenario, until you are actually in the shoes

kaboninc:


Loool.

Neither my dear.

I just want to get your view. Or are the questions too personal?

yes I only discuss that with candidates

coogar:


exactly......
a woman cheating isn't the same as her partner cheating. that's the way planet earth works.....

please educate me on how it is different. is it the pain that make it different?

kaboninc:


You should be shocked!

I can also forgive.

That was why I said it depends on what you want in life!

SO you will forgive and stay with your wife that sleeps with your younger brother to see if she can get pregnant? Bravo!

coogar:


many would forgive too....
forgiving her doesn't mean the relationship would continue........

Forgive but divorce her?