Skmoda360:

Like I keep saying you lots are all the same....just a little different...

As long as your mother and all the women in your generations are part of the ”you lots”

Skmoda360:

Don't even listen to her op.....girls of nowadays are wicked and they can just change overnight...

Please just bc one woman stripped you of your dignity doesn't mean you should use her to judge all women. Examine where you went wrong with the woman that fcked you over and use your findings to turn your life around so you will not meet such woman ever again. But don't use your incident to judge all women.

carter009:
My dear, I have seen were this type of issue happened, they guy trained they babe in they university after she graduated , they babe told his boyfriend that she can't marry him, that she doesn't love him again,, OP don't ever try it, I know what am saying.

He can legally marry her to protect his own interest. But hold off on children until she is least in the last yr.

carter009:
OP Don't listen to this person,,,, if you want to train her in school to any level, marry her first, get her pregnant, I know what am saying, to avoid story that touches they heart, girls this days can be funny......

Do you know how difficult it is to be a mother and a student at the same time? You could at least suggest he marries her first then sends her to school. Try to go back to school while you are a very involved father and tell me if you manage to finish the program.

SavageSavior:
Godforbid. Amudeneogu don't you ever ever listen to this person. Never.

Why?

She is the type of woman that will triple in size after just 1-2 kids and be blaming pregnancy for their fatness after 15 yrs.

Abeg look very well before you leap

Why don't you bring her up to your level and taste? Nobody is perfect, everyone you meet will always lack something. If she fits what you want in a woman except her lack of education, bring up her to your standard.

If you want a good man that will treat you like a queen, get yourself an ugly man with good job. Pretty boys will just render you useless.

Ok Mr know-it-all

PoliteActivist:


With due respect u don't know what u talking about. Once again u fail to mention where online it is stated.
You can get ETC same day u r traveling - nothing like not enough time. Also it is not must u renew your passport while in Nigeria - u can give them SMALL bribe at the airport (best way to do it) or get exit visa.

Miarose:
Well, this is trickier when a woman is the carrier. It's not just about him getting the vaccines but she could pass it on to her babies.
If its chronic hepatitis b, she should get on her ARV drugs asap to reduce viral load. Consult a doctor to confirm if that also reduces maternal transmission risk. This shouldn't be a reason for the family to reject her. It can be well managed.

Medicine has advanced that mother can’t pass hepatitis to their newborn. As long as she is going to a well trained doctor throughout her pregnancy, there is zero worry.

Irene89:
OmoAlata1 please kindly share the website for the information on being able to travel with valid us passport and expired Nigerian passport. I am in the same predicament that he experienced.

I don’t remember that site anymore. Even though I printed some paperwork to give the airline attendant here in US when I was checking in. I did not even have to give it to them because it was already in their system that Nigerian can travel with expired Nigerian passport accompany with foreign passport. They did not question it. I just handed them both my passports and I was checked in.

bigfrancis21:
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You can’t travel to Nigeria with just US greencard. You need US passport to accompany the expired Nigerian passport. I will advise to get your passport renew before leaving because the airport will not let you get on the plane.

PoliteActivist:


OP there is something called emergency travel certificate (ETC). That's what people with expired passports use.

I DON'T BELIEVE YOUR STORY.

Where online is such rule stated? Someone already asked that but no answer from you.

Do you believing my story makes me $20 million richer? Until then, have several seats.

There are people who are in situation where they don’t have enough time to get ETC. As of 2015, you can travel to Nigeria with an expired Nigerian passport as long as you accompany it with a valid foreign passport. But you MUST renew your Nigerian passport while in Nigeria or else they will NOT let you out of the country. Unless the Nigerian govt has changed its rule recently, it is a valid statement. I did it and I know 4 other people who have done it.

I will be very frank with you. That man just use to enter US. Did you meet on Facebook? If so, did you spend a lot of money on him? If yes, then those women are is “client”.

Your relationship is not real. The minute he gets his stay, he will either leave you or have one wife in Nigeria. sorry to deliver the bad news to you.


If I am you, I will stop the AOS process.

Roshina22:
My husband is Nigerian and I’m not he recently came to my country we are married and now I’m pregnant. I know quite a bit about culture in Nigeria as I’ve known many people there before, but something is new to me.

I may have a hard time trusting because of misunderstanding of culture but I get a feeling it may not just be that. He talks to so many women on WhatsApp and Facebook every day and likes there pictures. He even sometimes sends long emotional emails to his ex about moving on and when she cries he sends her emails about it being ok.

I told him to stop talking to her because he’s with me and our unborn child and not to have it affect our family...

But the thing is he chats with so many women on Facebook and what’s app and I’m so worried. Even when he does he hides his phone and deleted chats because he says “when you see the woman calling me saying hi dear it just means they say that to everyone”.
I know everyone in Nigeria can start off there sentence with hi dear, it could mean nothing but why does he need to talk to so many women online everyday? He said it’s rude to ignore people and if one bad word is said about him it could spread to anyone so he tries not to ignore to be nice. I saw him chatting ardently with a young girl from his village and he was asking her a lot of questions... I just didn’t understand why he had to be doing that and his response was “what if I want to be a politician one day”. It just makes me never want him to go back to Nigeria because I’m so aftraid one of these ladies he’s gonna meet up with and they will do something one day

I’m really afraid of being cheated on. I don’t chat with many men or entertain them. I don’t like their pictures and don’t feel the need to chat with so many men every day. If I ignore them it’s becquse they should know I love my husband.

My main question is is it normal for Nigerian men to chat with many many women online and on WhatsApp and Facebook like their pictures and chat away Like this? Sometimes late at night too... am I being lied to or at risk of being cheated on? Because it really feels like it. I’m already pregnant and dedicated so much time. Please this really bothers me what can I do? He won’t give up talking to them.

The thing is I don’t think his brothers are like this so why is he like that? I just don’t understand.

I am begging you to come and jam me

Nicoddemus:


if people like us jam you eh. You'll break into pieces. You'll not even know how to type on nairaland

Admin must have been really butt hurt by my comment and he deleted it. Since when do we have censorship on Nairaland? Admin must be the original poster. Gbogbo yin ma wa all right

O ma all right

kingofthenorth:
Just sit down and go through what you just typed I hope u find out how stupid your reply is... If you have nothing good to say, kindly shut up and stop disgracing your family on a public forum..

You sound like a very low self esteem man. You had your wife arrested bc she was not following orders?I only blame all these desperate women who are making all you small boys believe you have huge balls

Saao:
sorry bro, I feel your pains. My wife use to be like your wife but I forced her to change. From your description you maybe as gentle as I am but my own case I handle her with iron hand. Try to be a man enough. Someone is encouraging her and first deal with that,in my own case, it was her only sister who behave thesame to her husband, it get to some point I walk her out of my house and warn her, look family comes before an inlaw. Secondly it get to some point I arrested her, I know u can't do that, but that is what I did from her place of work then she discovers I can do anything. Act now before its too late. Now she is a good wife and a church girl as well.

Why are so many boys butt hurt over my comment? I must have hit a nerve bc I am secretly describing each and everyone of you all. E ma all right

See advise lol orisirisi

Capensis:


Do you intend to marry her? If Yes, the things to watch out for are:

Can she cook nutritious meals, not delicious, but healthy nutritious meals.

Can she maintain a very very clean environment, keeping home clean is a priority as well as fixing great organic meals? These will keep you and your family alive longer.

Do not marry a lady that drinks a lot or smokes weed. Not because they are bad, but a weed smoking girl can Bleep outside easily.

Beyond love is respect, if she respects you a lot and can keep your secrets, love is not important, sex is. Love will always wander on the direction of quiet desperation. No man or woman believe they have bleeped enough, they will always sneak out at least once in the life of their marriage. Expect the worse, but work hard to maintain the best.

crunchyg:

I am not surprised at your comment, your moniker says a lot about your person

I am not surprised you find my comment upsetting. Go hire a psychiatrist to help you with your anger and low self esteem issue.

It’s about time. Nigerians are not original at all. It is all copy copy. After musicians, they need to go after nollywood and that fake met gala shiit they did early this yr.

You better put your children first especially your son before he becomes an adult and have passionate hatre for you.

He did not choose his father, you chose that beast for him as a father. He did not force you to born, you made that choice. It is your duty to protect him and to make sure he grows up to be mentally sound man one day.

That poor boy, imagine shaking out fear of being beaten and you are still in that house. I pity that boy. I wish they have child protective services in Nigeria, I would have called one on you. You are willing to forsake your son mental health for being called Mrs. and chopping steady dicck. in fact you need a hot slap. Madam, receive sense

Yes you can. That was exactly what I did back in 2015. I had the old old Nigerian passport from the 90s not even the ecowa one. Nigeria government will allow Nigerian citizens to travel into Nigeria with an expired Nigerian passport accompany with a valid foreign passport. Your name must be the same on both passports. They will give you a little grievance at the airport in Nigeria but they will let you in. They might just tell you to renew your passport before they can let you out of the country.

keepinfaith:
Hello guys
I am in this predicament.
I am in the UK
Came in with my US passport.
I missed my flight back to the US territory 5 days ago I left which is not in mainland USA (Guam) (close to the Philipines) but is considered a U.S State occupies primarily by USA military.
My Nigerian passport expires in May but I don’t want to go back to the USA.
Am I able to buy a one way ticket from Gatwick or Heathrow to Lagos with my Naija passport and answer Query when I get to Nigeria?
Pls this is urgent. Ejo o
OmoAlata what do you suggest?

My dentist gave me permission to use it but I use 3% hydrogen peroxide. I do 50:50 mixture with water.

Reference:


Hmmm...abeg go easy on the hydrigen peroxide. It is an extremely dangerous, corrosive agent.

Most of the commenters are senseless. How can you idiots turn someone’s pain into a joke?

Op, brush you teeth twice a day, morning and night. Everytime you brush, you need to scrape your tongue. Get a spoon and use it to scrape the back of your tongue and move it forward, this might make you gag. But scrape until you are just getting clear saliva. After that, use your toothbrush or a special tongue brush to brush your tongue very well. Rinse your mouth. Get hydrogen peroxide and mix it with equal part water(50/50 ratio mixture). Put the mixture in your mouth and swish around your mouth for one minute(do not do less). Spit it out. Then put another mixture in your mouth and gargle for 30-60seconds. This will wash the back of tongue for you. You can do this mixture practice 4 times a day especially after you just finish eating. So you can pour the mixture in a 3 ounce bottle and take it around with you whenever you go out.

Hopefully this will help you greatly. Make sure you drink plenty water and leave sugary things along. Dry mouth and being dehydrated can cause bad breath. If you have excess dry mouth issue, chew minty gum

It is called post exposure prophylaxis drug. It only works if you start the regimen within 72hours(3 days) after exposure. They also have prep(truvada) that you need to take everyday for 30 days BEFORE you engage in risky sexual behavior with someone who is HIV positive. You will continue taking that drug daily thereafter as long as you are engage in risky sexual behavior with a HIV positive person.

larion:

Fast

I guess you have exposed yourself to go take the test in the first place.

Anyways there is a drug people who have been exposed to HIV can quickly take to prevent them from been positive.

I am not sure of the name but I know it works to above 95% potency....I will advice you do a research an go get that drug fast....that's if you think you have been expose.

Side effect if the drug is that you become very sick, headache, fever, cough, diarrhoea and the likes....but nothing go do you.

On the flip side....go see a doctor.....be very fast!

Aya mi morire! Lol please start with me o. If they born you well, you better start with me. Btw, before you start with me, go back to primary school first, I could barely make sense of what you have written.

jaksmillioniar:
useless omo alata dat hulk peppe in street its my blog and i will post wat i want if i neva mention dont ever reply me pls cool down cos when i start wit u u will live nairaland. go ask msdelilah or sinaj who i am. i joke a lot in rums dat dosnt mean u cross ur bandary. am sure if i stand u or ur useless boifrnd cant look me in eyes for money or advance life i live. evacroft u will hate urself

You mean a cheap prostitute like your mother. Cos she is a good teacher

milemimi93:



what opinion do you want to have when the obvious is the truth?

Y'all are terribly useless, senseless and cheap prostitues.

You are big fat fool. Next time, don’t post your nonsense in a public forum if you don’t want anyone to have opinion on it.

jaksmillioniar:
u must be an animal a useless animal can u be matured.did i put ur name in my blog? is my choce to write wat i want and is not ur fuccin business