₦airaland Forum

mk3jax:
I didn't hate her behaviour before we got married because like I said in my earlier post, she did every thing to please me during dating but as soon as we got married, she changed. I will stop having resentment against her if she stop the following:

-Stop complaining about my family all the time when your family come into my house when they like and stay as long as they want without my complaining.
-Stop complaining that my family don't call you all the time while I don't complain about your family not calling me. Adult have family problems to deal with everyday and calling people is not always the number 1 list on their priority. Besides not everyone has the free credit she has on her phone to call everybody in her family all the time because their are better things to do with money than buying call credit.
-Stop expecting me to be responsible for your grown up adult siblings because i have my own problems I am thinking about to solve. She quarrels with me when ever I refuse to give money to even her older siblings who are married.
-She doesn't consider me when she makes lot of decisions in the house and use the child as a pretence for all her decisions because the child cannot speak yet.
-Complaining about almost everything I do in the house making me to be more comfortable being at work than at home.
-She has never for once discuss with me about plans like building a house (which I am planning for), or investing for our child but is always ready to discuss demands from her family all in time.

I have told her that if I loose my job tomorrow, none of these so call family member of her will be there to come bail her up financially and they will look for somewhere else to look for this money they are always demanding for without coming to meet her but she still refuse to listen to me.

If she can stop the above, then 80% of our problems are solved but she wouldn't stop even after trying to talk things with her multiple times. Now I just don't care anymore because my observation is that she only care about her interest and not mine so I try to do things that make me happy away from her. I see myself as a utility to her and nothing more and presently make many of my plans without carrying her along because she seems not to care.

Tarteenah:
...and the better word is?

Nonybb:
when two Ofe Mmanu fights it is the soup(our music) that suffers

trulygirl:
I wonder why they left it this late or maybe the fear of #buhari is the beginning of wisdom. All we want is a better Nigeria doesn't matter who win 2015 just a better Nigeria.


Youths in the house say #NO to these old politicians. Am hoping to see a 20 - 30years old person in the House of Rep come 2015 otherwise the youths in Nigeria are total failure. instead of channeling our energy on voting out this old cargos we are here on social media playing to the tunes from the drums of the people we have been hearing their name since we were in our mothers womb
ALL WHAT YOU CARE ABT IS A YOUNG MAN RULING YOU AND NOT THE RIGHT PERSON?

Mogidi:
Hmmm!
What happened to the $2.5bil that disappeared under your watch at PTF? Are you implying you spent all that loot on gworo?

otswag:
laughing at d part where d national chairman said d exhorbitant amount of d form is meant to separate men from the boys. Its really meant to separate supreme thieves from the "relatively" less supreme ones

IdiAmin1:
There are cheap lies I can't accept. How can a sane bank grant loan to buhari knowing fully well he is on a wild goose chase again just like he's been since 2003. Banks are smarter than that except they are targetting to inherit a huge collateral and I can vividly remember that the general once said he has no property anywhere. Also APC seperating men from boys means they uphold money at the expense of quality leadership. With that statement from the party chairman, APC has just murdered democracy and should be ignored by any meaningful and patriotic Nigerian. My thoughts though

lilprinze:
so he is saying he is very broke to the extent that he doesn't have N27 million To Purchase
APC Nomination Form but he has money to sponsors BH, this old man should please respect his age and stop lying and deceiving us.

bulletproofmonk:
Na u be the middle man abi na wetin dem talk?

franklyn009:
The true about this election is the Muslims are desperate for a Muslim president and don't care who that may be, as long the person is a Muslim and will carry out what ever their agenda might be. It is more of a religion tussle.
I was in a naming ceremony of a Muslim friend of mine when d imam was called forth to pray for d baby. During his prayer, he was like pray that goodluck doesn't win next year election and that Allah would select a right and chosen candidate and put in power....dis was followed by a powerful 'amin'. And I was like why the hate and how does that relate to the naming.
Even my Muslim friends don't like hearing his name sef. There is this strong hate for him like he is a plague.

IMO, dis Muslim folks are deliberately been ignorant and sentimental considering GEJ that they don't see any good in him and they always have one reason or the other to keep hating him.


Now the question is that why that much hate on GEJ and why are anti-GEJs so desperate for buhari to win and can go to any extent to achieve that even though buhari haven't done anything to make me put my vote and trust in him............or is there really a secret agenda??

prettyjo:
even his son have same aboki look

kennynelcon:
But who will buy... the worst thing any man will do is to allow a girl disturb his life, imagine twin

kachic2:
Y deny ursef d nitesleep for a man whim dey all know won't win any election. I heard of him wen I was a kid uptill now he still wants to rule Nigeria.

charming247:
I am beginning to be afraid about some of the comments am reading here, please brothers and sisters let's not provoke GOD coz no one can handle his anger.

ELGREF:
they brought education/technology/life.you could have still remain in village till now, you coulden have know nothing about Internet, talk of nairaland,think back to those day,,,

kilokeys:
the last time i checked.. he is considering his stance.. he is getting old . he says it makes sense to believe in God.

Unibenstudent:
If U Are Given 100 Million Naira To Denounce Ur Faith,will U? I can never agree to denounce xtianity.Never?

qadeerkug:
daz why ur name is even fuckshit

flexing11:
those it amount to calling me fool people are entitled to their own different opinion your school of thought might not be mine'God created man in his own image and likeness but some scientist we tell man came about through evolution because that is their own believe.pls learn some decorum and dont pour out words like one of those hooligans roaming the streets mushin!

SlimSkipper:
if mega churches should b taxed wat of mega mosques or doesnt money also flow arnd in d mosque?
and even shrine sef, abi dem dey fear to tax 'SANGO nd IFA'

Tatase:
@ topic,

It's because Hausa is really widely spoken across West Africa even up to Sudan (I think it's spoken in something like 7 or 8 countries total). There's a large Hausa population in Nigeria, and I think in Niger like more than half the population is Hausa, for example. The Hausa services are not just for Nigeria, they broadcast across Africa.

And, although I don't think there are as many Hausa people in the other countries, because it's spoken in several countries, it makes sense for an international broadcaster to have a service in Hausa which appeals to people in more than one country.

Tuntheycr7:
Nice writeup. But if u like comot d Y chromosome and pit am insides woman's egg if she go born gal ma girl she go born. Na God de give pikin. Oya criticize me

toecyne:
Hammer the kpekus for a sometime.

nedu2000:
A bat or hyena that migrated from liberia may've got hold of the virus too,so wait let the disease die out 1st,better safe than stories.
Me too I'm affected,I was adviced to cut my suya intake