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RomanceRe: New Marriage About To Crash. by omoiseselagba: 3:42pm On Aug 09, 2023
you get it.she didn't care.to her, he is a man and should provide what her father requested for.that is where she got it wrong!!!

why borrow to marry huh

aint gonna do that shit..!!!

i know a guy that did same.he lost his business their after and to feed was hell.

even same wife that didn't stop him from borrowing then is now blaming herself that she has a bad leg. that how come the man lost his business after marrying him.

so we need to be careful and be logical/considerate/have understanding mind in all we do!!!

emotions,feelings,sentiments na bulshitt..!!!
RomanceRe: New Marriage About To Crash. by omoiseselagba: 3:35pm On Aug 09, 2023
He is right.

He said you didn't support him or fight his case/battle when he could not get funds to produce all what your dad/family requested for.

You said in your post that ''he should provide those things if he loved you'', who told you that that has anything to do with love?

so to you it is okay to borrow to marry a woman ,it okay to borrow to do a big big wedding while the guy is indebted to loans houses for years?

it is okay to borrow to impress and feed 100s of people who don't care or even know you guys.

Solutions;

beg him and tell him you have realized your mistakes.

Learn to support him,it is a duty you have to do.
Foreign AffairsRe: Pope Francis Meets With Ukrainian President Zelenskyy At The Vatican (Photos) by omoiseselagba: 5:36pm On May 14, 2023
PoliticsRe: Plastic Pollution: Why Can't Buhari's Government Do This? (pictures) by omoiseselagba: 8:34pm On May 13, 2023
Na Una state gov go do am ,not Buhari.
FamilyRe: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by omoiseselagba: 8:16pm On May 13, 2023
I don't think it is a big deal.

A child means so many things to different people.

What it means to you is not what it means to your wife,her parents,your family etc.

My own case for example,I named my son a certain name but my wife and her parents called him tamilore.

I was mad at her and it made me changed towards her.to me then,I felt she was not loyal to me at all and she was still connected to her mother.yes her mother!

So after some time I let go.

Later I got to understand that my wife's mother is emotional and spiritual about my son.she never had a son and her first child gave birth to five girls.we are the one that gave her a son and still the only one for now,so she saw the boy as her own.

Infact,it got so hot then that I told my wife not to take the boy to her mother and that we should give him to a nanny,she said ok but I found out she was dropping me boy at her mother's.

I sought the advice of women in my office and they laughed at me say I dey fight a woman over a child.they said I should let her be and face my life.i left her and the whole thing died down,infact the in-law took care of the boy like say na god dash her.the boy dey fresh like americana.na so I just leave all of them and everything just fall in place.

So leave them and do your thing hare.

Make money,enjoy your self,care for your children and let sleeping dog lie jare.
FamilyRe: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by omoiseselagba: 8:07pm On May 13, 2023
Ok
PropertiesRe: Fire Destroys A Building At Lawanson, Lagos (Photos) by omoiseselagba: 12:19am On Sep 15, 2016
chibzykeys:
I know the girl wella, if she waka with her face cap and them tell u she be girl u go doubt am, her steps and even talk na man own
WHERE DO YOU STAY IN LAWANSON.DO YOU KNOW THE BARBER AT THE FRONT OF THAT STREET/HOUSES?
PropertiesRe: Fire Destroys A Building At Lawanson, Lagos (Photos) by omoiseselagba: 12:17am On Sep 15, 2016
careerlife:
how will the Landlord take this news in this Burhari time most especially if he depend on this house as his major source of income!! The cost of fixing the house no be here for now cool
THE OWNER LIVED IN GHANA.HIS CHILDREN ARE IN CHARGE OF THE HOUSE NOW BUT THEY DID NOT SPEND MONEY TO THE HOUSE.FEW PEOPLE WERE LIVING IN THE HOUSE BEFORE THE INFARNO.A FRIEND DIED IN THE HOUSE EARLY THIS YEAR.I WAS ALWAYS PLAYING THEIR BACK THEN I WAS IN LAWANSON.
FamilyRe: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by omoiseselagba: 1:40pm On Aug 26, 2016
missyadorable:
Now here it is: They have been married for almost 30 years with grown up children,all out of the house

They have been having problems as soon as the marriage started but the woman has managed to cope,fast and pray as expected by the society...despite the beatings,abuses and torture. At a point,her dad refunded the dowry and asked her to come home,she refused.Now both parents are late and they have been separated for abt 4 years.but as the children took sides with the woman and abandoned the man,he is now threatening to kill her diabolically or physically via charm or hired assasins...and he sends her such messages via sms.

What can she do?
WOMEN NATURALLY ARE MASTER MANIPULATORS.YOU SAID THEY ARE MARRIED AND THEIR CHILDREN ARE NOW GROWN UP.WHO NURTURED THEM FROM THE CRADLE TO ADULTHOOD?.......it is when the children are grown and very useful that the father wants to kill their mother.scam of all ages. the father can threaten the woman when he realizes OR feels that he has been sidelined.women tell lies alot and will never tell where they err.a good woman builds her home while a slutty and bitchy woman destroys her home.the children too are fools.they should reconcile their parents and restore the family.(only a fool follows the words of a woman)
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Please Help My Husband Get A Job by omoiseselagba: 9:29pm On Jul 27, 2016
iamforChrist:
Good day great people.lam pleading with anyone who can help my husband get a job. Iam at the verge of giving up on life. Things are terribly tight . He has a master's degree in marketing and have had over 8years experience in sales and marketing. Anyone who can help us should please help for the sake of my children. Thank you and God bless you all
nawa!!! KO EASY.LET HIM GET PEOPLE TO HELP HIM.I MEAN CLOSE PALS AND FAMILY MEMBERS.NO JOB OUT THERE O.DOS WEY DEY WORK SEF GAN NO BALANCE.MAY THE SUPREME BEING YOU SERVE SEE YOU THRU
CareerRe: Modern Day Slavery At GTB Contact Center by omoiseselagba: 12:50am On Jul 15, 2016
herzern:
The reason they treat you and your colleagues that way is because they know if any of you leave,there are thousands millions of replacement........ Op.....my advice for you is to pray to God so He paves way for a better offer for you

I have a neighbour who lived with me for three years but I never saw him more than 20 times(only on some Sundays)......his work is 7am-10pm and yet he collects a miserable 60k
DEJAVU
CareerRe: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by omoiseselagba: 10:29pm On Jun 27, 2016
baby124:
Nigerian bosses can be extremely stu*pid. They don't know how to talk at all. At their position they don't know it all either. Why knock a young person down if you are not a lunatic. Sorry OP, don't define yourself by other people's madness. Your boss is a mad man. There is criticism and then destructive talk. He probably has very low self esteem and feels he needs to drag you down. Thank him for HIS opinion and keep working on yourself and find another job quick. Such personalities cannot be productive only destructive.
you spoke my mind.that boss is a MAD MAN.he is not worth anybody's time.this guy should just forget him,face his work and find a way out of the place.i have worked with a lunatic like that,i reported him straight to his supervisor and i gave him a stern warning too.i intimidate anybody who tires to intimidate me.i dont take shit from no body.
CelebritiesRe: Iheme Nancy Celebrates Birthday By Baring Her Body In New Photo: Sexy Or Trashy by omoiseselagba: 8:58pm On Jun 15, 2016
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Foreign AffairsRe: Meet Israel's Artillery Brigade That Can Send Misiles Into A Living Room Window by omoiseselagba: 10:11pm On Jun 07, 2016
CelebritiesRe: Henrietta Kosoko: Condolence Register Signed By Sympathisers by omoiseselagba: 10:06pm On Jun 06, 2016
Blessograo:
meaning that's his 3rd wife that died, he needs serious prayer
AND YOU HUSBANDLESS BIATCH NEED 1000 YEARS OF FASTING.ODE!
CelebritiesRe: Henrietta Kosoko: Condolence Register Signed By Sympathisers by omoiseselagba: 10:06pm On Jun 06, 2016
Blessograo:
meaning that's his 3rd wife that died, he needs serious prayer
AND YOU HUSBANDLESS NEED 1000 YEARS OF FASTING.ODE!
CrimeRe: Lekan Shonde: I Didnt Kill Ronke, My Wife, God Is My Witness by omoiseselagba: 9:26am On May 11, 2016
Sparkle777:
Look at how happy they all seemed to be. God forgive me for envying folks by merely seeing their fronts wtout knowing the death behind them.
I dnt condone adultery, but even if the woman commited adultery or even murder, the hubby shouldnt have beaten her to the point of death. He would have just divorced her as the bible commanded.
Besides from life experiences, men always accuse their wives of sleeping around in other to blacklist them. Even Tbilz used the adultery card. Its so wrong,esp as the woman can no longer defend herself.
For the mans family to avoid him, it gives an insight into the current situation.
I feel most for the children, to loose both parents cry cry
Men and women pls learn from this couple and handle anger issues. Its such a pity esp as the dead woman is still mourning her late brother, the family should still look inside to know where all these death is comin frm.
NIGERIAN WOMEN ARE INSATIABLE.YOUR HUSBAND HAS TWO CARS AND SHE DRIVES THE TWO,CONTROL HIS FINANCE AND HUSSLED ADD TO MEET THE FAMILYS DEMAND,STILL THE BITCH GO OUT TO LAMBA HER OGAS DICKK.....WOMEN!!! THEY DONT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT.FUCCK THEM EVERYTIME,THEY TELL YOU TO GO HUSSLE.GO HUSSLE ALL DAY ALL NIGHT,THEY GO OUT TO Bleep.FROM LITTLE I HAVE EXPERIENCED IN LIFE,A MAN NEEDS CAIN AND CARROT TO MAINTAIN AN AVERAGE NAIJA WOMAN.
CrimeRe: Lekan Shonde: I Didnt Kill Ronke, My Wife, God Is My Witness by omoiseselagba: 9:21am On May 11, 2016
Dee60:
The Police need to read the transcript of the chat with her boss and her husband 3 days to the time she died. It could reveal a lot! It could also expose lies.
THEN THEY SHD ASK THE BOY THAT CLOSED THE GATE TO CONFIRM WHAT THE FATHER SAID.THE OGA THAT bleeped THE WIFE NEEDS TO BE INVESTIGATED TOO.ACCIDENTS HAPPEN.
CareerRe: First Bank To Sack 1000 Workers by omoiseselagba: 4:38pm On Apr 29, 2016
Darayola:
In case you don't know, all firstbank's branch secretary, all area Managers and all regional managers are gone already.
Now, the bank's recruitments concentrates more on the contract staffs. Very soon, sometime this year, the only core/permanent staff in all FirstBank branch won't be more than 3 (The BSM, HLS and the Head Cash) others will be contract staffs. (Note: only for those in operations department)
YOU MUST HAVE WORKED WITH THE BANK BEFORE OR STILL WITH THEM.
FamilyRe: Husband Going To The Market For Wife - Right Or Wrong by omoiseselagba: 12:33pm On Apr 20, 2016
Gaborone:
It is up to a man to express his love for his wife one way -this way- or the other.

It is also up to another to allow his wife go through all the stress there is in the world, while he maintains his traditional man posture as she crumbles under the weight. However, he shouldn't come complain to us that 5 years after contracting the marriage, the wife has started looking like his mother... angry
IT IS NOT ABOUT LOVE.A SMART MAN WILL NOT ALLOW HIS WIFE WASTE HIS LIMITED RESOURCES.I DO IT TOO.WHY? COS I BUY STUFF WHEN COMING FROM WORK AND I MIGHT NOT LIKE WHAT SHE WILL GET.I HAVE BEEN COOKING SINCE I WAS IN PRY SCH AND NOW NO ONE CAN SATISFY ME WHEN IT COMES TO COOKING AND STANDARD GENERALLY.IF YOU WANT ANYTHING DONE WELL,DO IT YOUR SELF
FamilyRe: Can U Get A Job For Ur Wife & She Collect 2times Ur Salary by omoiseselagba: 11:20am On Apr 20, 2016
yetseyi:
I am not surprised at OP's question. I had a similar experience with a married man.

I was teaching in a school immediately after NYSC and there was this computer teacher who is a married man. We were in the staff room one day when someone called him that there's a job somewhere but the clause is the person should not be more than 28 years.

He was 30 as at then,this man came to ask my colleague and I and we said give us the mail lets apply then I remembered his wife and I asked casually is your wife more than 28 years, he said no, I now said why not let her have the opportunity then he said you know women now[b] once they start making money they will feel pompous and start behaving somehow. [/b]

I was shocked , the job pays 4times the peanuts all of us were earning and this guy can borrow money ehn(simply because the salary is not just enough for a family) His wife was a housewife with no business oo.
Now he saw an opportunity that will relieve your family just because of insecurity he let it slide.

OP the fact that you are even thinking about it says a lot. If it was the type of job, stress she will undergo, location of the office that you were thinking about its understandable. If it was a job that pays half your salary I guess you won't hesitate/think about it.

It is well ooo.


Now I understand the prayer they pray in my church "May you not marry your enemy"
MADAM,YOU HAVE NOT HANDLED THE ISSUE OF WHAT WOMEN DO ONCE THEY START HAVING MONEY MORE THAN THEIR HUBBIES.WE SHOULD ALSO CONSIDER THE TYPE OF CULTURE HERE.MEN IN AFRICA ARE BROUGHT UP TO BE THE HEAD IN ALL THINGS,SO THEY FEEL THREATENED WHEN THEY BECOME SUBORDINATES TO WOMEN.I SEE THESE HAPPENING IN MY OWN FAMILY TOO.MY DAD IS A TEACHER AND MY DADS UNCLE GAVE MY MUM A FEDERAL GOVERNMENT JOB.MY MUM HAS ALL THE MONEY AND AT A POINT SHE WAS LIKE THE HEAD OF THE FAMILY.SHE TRIED HER BEST ON US THE CHILDREN BUT WOMEN ARE WHAT THEY ARE.SHE OVERBLOWN IT AND IT BECAME A BIG ISSUE.HEADS OF BOTH FAMILIES HAD TO STEP IN.IF YOU ARE MARRIED,YOU WILL UNDERSTAND THESE THINGS.MEN AND WOMEN ARE NOT WIRED SAME WAY.
BUT IF NA ME HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY I WILL LET MY WOMAN KNOW.I ALWAYS TELL PEOPLE IF MY WIFE HAVE MONEY MORE THAN ME NA FAAJI OF MY LIFE.I GO DEY SPEND THE MONEY NI.KOKANYE!!!
FamilyRe: Can U Get A Job For Ur Wife & She Collect 2times Ur Salary by omoiseselagba: 11:03am On Apr 20, 2016
byvan03:
OP so people like you really exists? you won't ask this question if you knew who you married, why you married and what marriage is!

Denying your family of a better life because of your own selfishness and insecurity is not what any responsible family man will do. Can't believe some men reason like this undecided.
.CALM DOWN!!!! YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND THE CULTURE,RELIGION AND THE ORIENTATION HERE.IN THIS SOCIETY,A MAN IS RAISED AND NURTURED TO BE THE HEAD OF THE HOUSE EXCLUSIVELY.A WOMAN TOO IS RAISED AND TRAINED TO BE THE SECOND IN COMMAND TO THE MAN.
SO,IF A WOMAN WHO IS TRAINED TO BE IN SECOND POSITION FINDS HERSELF IN FIRST POSITION,SHE WILL SURELY REACT TO THE CHANGE JUST AS THE MAN TRAINED TO LORD IT OVER A WOMAN NOW SEES HIMSELF SECOND IN COMMAND FINANCIALLY TO A WOMAN WILL FEEL THREATENED.THESE FACTORS ARE THE THINGS THAT MADE THE MAN ASK THE QUESTION.IT HAPPENED IN MY OWN FAMILY TOO AND THE ISSUE IS STILL ON.ISSUES LIKE THESE IS A NON ISSUE IN WESTERN WORLD BECAUSE THEIR CULTURE LAY NO EMPHASY ON WHO BRINGS WHAT.MARRIAGE IS DELICATE.
I HAVE SEEN A WOMAN DROP A MAN BECAUSE THE MAN DOESNT ORDER HER ABOUT OR BEAT HER.YOU CAN IMAGINE THAT.
MY WIFES FRIEND TOLD HER SHE IS NOT GOING TO MARRY A MAN BECAUSE THE MAN LOOKS WEAK AND DOES CHALLENGE HER DECISION.YOU SEE LIFE.LOLSSS.THATS WHAT CULTURE CAN DO.
FamilyRe: Help!! I Don't Know What To Make Out Of My 38yrs Old Boyfriend Life by omoiseselagba: 10:47am On Apr 20, 2016
enieme:
Why its bad to have this ideology of ' the grass is greener in the other side'/ make fast money abroad.
The thing is he has laid a bad reputation for himself and getting visa to any country now would be very difficult.
he has two options now- to start from where he had no patience at first to start from- get a degree
Or ask from his well off siblings to loan him money to start up a business.
I wish him all the best. Lesson learnt from his story Anyway.
FamilyRe: Help!! I Don't Know What To Make Out Of My 38yrs Old Boyfriend Life by omoiseselagba: 10:34am On Apr 20, 2016
Jinora:
I'm done with school for some years now. Though securing a good job in Nigeria is a problem. I'm currently unemployed though i'm optimistic
.GO GET A JOB.LEAVE THE GUY.YOU WILL NOT REGRET IT.HE NOTHING TANGIBLE DOING AND HE HAS LITTLE EDUCATION.MARRIAGE NO BE MOIMOI.AFTER TWO WEEKS OF MARRIAGE,YOUR EYES GO OPEN LIKE HALOGEN LIGHT AND REALITY WILL SET IN.
OPEN UP AND LET GUYS WITH FOCUS COME INTO YOUR LIFE.THERE IS MORE TO RELATIONSHIP THAN LOVE.AND YOU BE WOMAN.LOLSSSS.WOMAN NO DEY TAKE TIME RUBBISH MAN.I HAVE GONE THROUGH IT.SO DO SOMETHING NICE WITH YOUR LIFE AND MARRY A RESOURCEFUL MAN.
Foreign AffairsRe: THAAD In Korean Peninsula:russia,china Concerned Over Possible US Missile System by omoiseselagba: 3:06pm On Apr 14, 2016
MONITZ:
Must you be unabashedly supportive of anything America and her allies do, can't you just be objective for once or better
still keep quiet when you are about towing your normal Pro-America line.
America can't be right all the time, the reactions of some of these countries are as a result of the blowback of some America policies toward any country in their so called "axis of evil".
THE GUY IS JEWISH.SO WHAT DO YOU EXPECT FROM HIM? I CANT WAIT FOR THE WESTERN WORLD TO START WW3.I WANT TO SEE HOW AMERICA AND THAT TINY LITTLE PUSSYY CALLED ISRAEL WILL BE DESTROYED.
FamilyRe: Police Sergeant Dies During Marathon Sex With Corporal’s Wife In Lagos by omoiseselagba: 4:05pm On Mar 31, 2016
pusssy so sweet!!!what a way to die.
FamilyRe: Police Sergeant Dies During Marathon Sex With Corporal’s Wife In Lagos by omoiseselagba: 4:04pm On Mar 31, 2016
pusssy so sweet!!!
FamilyRe: Opinion: #5,000 A Week Allowance by omoiseselagba: 4:01pm On Mar 31, 2016
poverty is a disease and pray we have an independent woman.independent women don't wait to their men to bring money before the home is sweet.as a man,get money and marry an independent woman.you gonna av a wonder ful home.most of the girls raised these days are liabilities.the only things they bring to the table is their kitten,nothing else.I pity the future generation.just got Married and marriage has taught me a lot of things.men!!! get your priorities right.make money and marry an independent women.bitcches every where!!!
Foreign AffairsRe: Satan Is Resident In Syria..... by omoiseselagba: 3:41pm On Mar 31, 2016
ValerianSteel:
That's the handiwork of Assad's forces.They've been bombing civilians using choppers.

Assad can never have an happy ending.He will pay dearly for his crimes against humanity and the death of 300,000 Syrians will haunt him as long as he lives.
who is this fool?......oh! this Jewish bastard again.this forum is for Africans and foreigners with functional brains and not some gay white Jewish scum.
RomanceRe: Counter Thread,girls Have You Ever Been Sucked?share Your Experiences by omoiseselagba: 3:29pm On Mar 30, 2016
Glory12345:
Lol this is so funny because my friend told me her boo did that to her before she even recorded it on her camon c8...




Share your experience....
..........
you self look suckable.do you care?
CelebritiesRe: Seyi Ariyo & Kemi Afolabi Fight Dirty Over Odunlade & Borrowed Outfit [PICS by omoiseselagba: 2:06pm On Mar 30, 2016
niggi4life:
Am sorry to disappoint you guys but the truth is Majority of Yoruba Women are just too unfaithful, randy and loose
Not forgetting that they are also Razz and immature... I have lived with them for over 30years so I know what I am saying. I am a Yoruba man so don't think otherwise.... Am very sure either of them or both of them is sleeping with Odunlade....God help us all in choices we make concerning a LIFE partner
you are right.Yoruba women are loose naturally.I am Yoruba and I understand our culture very well.Yoruba culture allows a woman to go back to her father's house when she has issues with her hubby but nigger delta and IBO will never do that.it is a taboo to them.they are easily deceived and they lack self control.I have friends sleeping with married women like tomorrow no dey.did it once too but have changed.may olodumare save Yoruba men from their slutty women.aseee!!!
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Is The Role Of A Husband And Wife In This 21st Century? by omoiseselagba: 6:45am On Mar 28, 2016
they are not equals.man and woman are differently made.I believe all the money should be used to build the home.like I told my wife before we got married that we should have a joint acc,she did not want it but reluctantly yielded to my request.after some time,the whole thing forisopon.the best thing is we should screen who we are getting married to thoroughly.so many women out there are not well brought up by their parents.they want their men to treat them like queen while they add value not.so many women are empty,no values,no ambition,no plans.they want to just get married and want men to get them a life.

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