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Buhari softly, softly o!

Politrickians with no principles!

Toks2008:
GOD bless you and your daughter ma...

It gladdens my heart when i read comments from people who can relate with my articles first hand.

Actually, I'm her father!

Bless you!

The love of money is the root of much evil!
Let hope justice will be done.
Parental negligence may have contributed. May God comfort them!

nonso88:
Make I reach church, I go tell Father to remember una. Keep up the good work.

God's doors are opened to you and the 'father'! Therefore call God, the Authentic and Everlasting Father DIRECT!

[quote author=Souljaboi1 post=42015762][/quote]Psalm 23:

1) The LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want.

4) Yea, THOUGH I WALK THROUGH the VALLEY of the SHADOW of DEATH, I will fear no evil: for THOU ART WITH ME; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.

John 10:11

I AM THE GOOD SHEPHERD: the GOOD SHEPHERD GIVETH HIS LIFE FOR THE SHEEP.

Make the Lord your Shepherd!

May He preserve you spirit, soul and body!

Toks2008:
It is the wish of many ladies to get married and while some ladies are fully prepared for the institution,many are totally naive about what lies ahead after saying i do but from my little experience in life, i present to you 10 things no mother or pastor will tell you before you say i do to that man.

1.That no matter how sweet the man is to you,no matter how caring and romantic and no matter how many prophets told you he is your man,that sweet man can turn to a demon after saying i do so what it seems before marriage is never a guaranty of what it will be after marriage.

2.If your man beats or cheats on you when you are courting,there is a 90% possibility that he will do even worse after marrying you and you need to understand that it is a big mistake to marry a man with the hope that he will change some characters you don't like but just learn to love him that way or take a walk.

3.If your man beats you once,it could be a mistake but if he beats you the second time then its a habit he is likely never going to stop.

4.That it is good to marry a man you have feelings for but it is a terrible thing to marry a man who does not desire you as much as you desire him.

5.That if you marry a man because of what he has and not because of mutual love then be ready to be miserable in that marriage as long as it lasts.

6.That a man can love you with all his life and could still cheat on you because most men think with that thing down there when it comes to their feelings for women and are polygamous in nature and no matter how sweet and disciplined you are,it will not stop him from cheating on you and divorcing a cheating hubby is no guaranty that the next man won't do worse.

7.As a lady, as long as you are sexually decent,GOD fearing,an excellent cook,financially independent and humble,you have absolutely nothing to fear because it will be extremely difficult for your man to disrespect you much less divorce you.

8.That not all men are calm but some have innate tendency to be violent so you must try at all cost to avoid any form of confrontation.

9.That women are women worst enemies and many of your female friends will be glad to see your marriage crumble so avoid discussing your marital flaws with them but take it to God in prayers and you must block your ears from hear says and believe what your hubby tells you even when you have an irking that he is lieing and whatever you have not seen does not exist.

10.That there is always a lady out there who is ready to push you out of your matrimony and take your place but 90% of men who cheat on their wives are not ready to divorce their wives but it is these wives that push the man out with impatience and hot temper so you will need lots of patience to deal with a philanderer because in most cases,they always come back home after having their feel of the side dishes.

11.That no man owns the key to your marital happiness except you because most men are the same and no man is worth the stress and as soon as you are married,you should focus on building your life as well as that of your child(ren).

12.That no marriage is perfect but every marriage has its own perculiar challenges and you must be ready to work on your marital pasture to look green cos that greener marital pasture you see on the other side have been worked so work on yours and remember that a happy union is not between two compactible people or two romantic people but its the one between two forgivers so learn to forgive and you will have a happy union.

13.That no matter how careful you may be in choosing a spouse,marriage will always be a black market where you must prepare for unforeseen situation and there is no right or wrong choice of man but what we have is your choice and what you make out of it and only GOD can guaranty a happy marriage.

Hope these make some sense.

I am very grateful for this your very candid presentation. It sure makes a lot of sense! It is a must read for young girls and women who are yet to be wedLOCKED!

I had just finished a heart to heart talk with my one and only daughter on this subject to discover your Nairaland piece. She is at crossroads in her relationship. I have shared your piece with her one of her female cousins. The following are random thoughts I shared with my daughter in our own discussion:

1) Marry your friend.

2) How happy are you in the courtship? How much emotional stress are you experiencing?

3) How caring is he? How considerate / sensitive? How understanding? How kind?

4) Is the person spiritually sound / balanced?

5) How passionate / excited is the person about the relationship?

6) Who is driving the relationship, taking most decisions, initiatives: you or him?

7) Are you afraid or seriously concerned about the relationship and what marriage life may be with him?

How sincere / honest / transparent

9) Do you have doubts, really strong doubts about the relationship?

10) How comfortable are you in it? Deep in your heart are you at peace with it?

11) Are you 100% sure God is in it?

12) Are you eagerly looking forward to a wedding? Are you excited to have a wedding right now?

13) Never marry out of pity for or pressure from anyone

14) Follow your heart guided / informed by your head (i.e. knowledge, wisdom and understanding, intelligence, common sense), etc

God will see you through. He will guide you. Trust Him!

Dotmax53:
Fellow Nairalander'


Please Help A Brother...I newly married this beautiful young lady in her late 30's, and was shocked with what i saw with my eyes the first night of our wedding,she ended up messing up my newly purchased bed which i bought to appease our marital life,Had i known she was a baby adult,i wouldn't have gone into this marriage with her...No wonder she wouldn't agree to sleepover at my place while we were dating,,,i never knew there was a skeleton in her cupboard.After i noticed the drained bed on our first night together,She ended up giving an excuse that maybe she had drank so much water during the day/stressful day. Ever since, she as been urinating on the bed, We end up going to spread our bed outside everyday to get heated by sun...I believe our neighbors would have started suspecting something of such nature due to the usual sunning of the bed....Fellow Nairalanders, I love this lady and i cant afford to loose her..Our marriage is just a week old..

Please Advise me on what to do because i am really out of my mind presently.....

Pls MOD's Push this to front page to get urgent responses..

Isn't it for better for worse?
Sorry, though.
Let her see doctor.
But here is an advice: She should eat by 6pm latest. Drink small quantity of water and empty bladder before going to sleep.
Good luck!

If true, it's bad news! Mr. President, it's thumps down for you!

Church politricks?

anzaku47:
I don't know why we Nigerians are always having excuses.......Remember the effort GEJ put in place to eradicate EBOLA within a twinkle of an eye.
Common lassa fever you cannot do anything about it.
There is GOD oooooooo

Lassa is in same class as Ebola!

Good may it work! However, the real prevention and'cure' lie in informed personal hygiene and proper environmental including farm, market and kitchen sanitation through well designed and effectively delivered public health communication.

Vaccines are good, but fundamental public health measures (structure and processes) must be in place. These we grossly lack!

God knows the truth.

My advice to you: from now on, watch your back! Those guys won't take it low with you o!

shegsky:
http://www.punchng.com/fec-buhari-shocks-osinbajo-ministers/

It was wrong for Mr. President to have started the meeting before the scheduled time. Especially unfair and embarrassing to the VP and others who came before 10am.

What was the President's motive?

muhakeem:
that's due to the corrupt superiors that we having in our country

Yes, unfortunately so!

Good but he's not safe again. He's going to be hated by some of his superiors! Good luck to him.

Politricks and politricksians! Shamelessness is their father!

ikbnice:
In the Bible, Jesus broke some laws:

1. He first broke the law of biology by coming to this world through a virgin. If you ask a doctor they will tell you it is impossible.


2. He broke the law of chemistry by turning water to wine.


3. He broke the law of physics by walking on sea.


4. He broke the law of economics by feeding 5,000 people with just 5 loafs and 2 fishes.


5. He also disagreed to mathematics which say 1+1+1 = 3 instead he said 1+1+1 is equal to 1 ( TheTrinity ).


6. He broke the law of nature, he died and came back alive.


And He shall break any law binding you down for a miraculous turn-around for greatness. click LIKE if you believe.

Yes, but He's not a law breaker or lawless person. He only applied superior supernatural laws which overrided natural laws.

He is Lord of All creation and situation and circumstances.

Yeah, that's how to be a 'friend' or is it a fiend?

oatzeal:
Hello Tosin {nairanaijanews},

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Believe it or not, this is Emma Abimbola Cole street in Lekki Phase 1 in Lagos. And no, it's not sometime in rainy July, it's the evening of 6th of January 2016..

The spot has been waterlogged throughout the harmattan and I don't know why. I'm getting pretty frustrated with it, because the road beneath the flood has degraded and is now very bad. We hear it has something to do with a leakage of pipes from the water board which is very close to the bad spot. Whatever it is, we the residents of the neighbourhood are quite frustrated with it, it's been so since I moved here almost two years now.
[img]http://2.bp..com/-jUaFpvQWig4/Vo46AiLOLGI/AAAAAAACN1Q/Rh9uH8jPlN4/s400/LE2.jpg[/img]

Please, publish this and shame the right authority into doing their job (it's a shame that that is the tactic tax-paying citizens have to resort to for basic amenities in Nigeria). I'd be truly grateful if you do. Thanks


From a frustrated resident of Lekki Phase 1

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E gbo, Lekki residents how far?


Cc lalasticlala
Source: http://www.nairanaijanews.com/2016/01/photos-flood-in-lekki-phase-1-despite.html

Not unexpected. Its bound to happen and if care is not taken get worse.

What do you expect when you build on reclaimed land at a time when global warming is worsening and ocean volume is rising as the ice caps melts!

I'm sorry they've not seen anything yet!

My advice: Relocate to safer higher grounds!

Oyind17:
I went to my elder brother's house for a visit and I lost my peace due to what I saw there.
I didn't call him on phone before going, I knocked and their first son opened the gate for me, when I entered they were eating. Normally the woman was supposed to dish food if they needed more but to my greatest surprise she asked him to dish more, like an obedient servant he went to the kitchen to get more.

About 30 minutes later her younger sister arrived and the wife started sending him all manner of errands, she started with bring yam for Mercy( the name of the girl), he brought the yam and she sent him again to tie the yams together for the girl, I was pissed cos I couldn't believe my brother was doing that.

She later send him to their shop to bring some stuffs for the girl, I left immediately cos I couldn't bear it any longer. The girl is above 20

To the men,would you accept such from your wives and to the wives would you treat your husbands as errand boys.

Please, leave them alone!

evolg:
A lot of people might have told you that you miss a lot for not having sex, the answer is a capital "YES". You miss a lot and would continue missing them.
1. You miss contracting HIV
2. You miss unwanted pregnancy
3. You miss being an unwanted teen mother or father
4. You miss having sexually trasmitted yokes and bondages
5. You miss having an unwanted child
6. You miss being a school dropout
7. You miss having a broken home
8. You miss making God and your parents sad and disappointed
9. You miss barreness due to abortions
10. You miss having destroyed your career prospects
11. You miss risking cervical cancer
12. You miss getting worried bcoz you may get pregnant after sex
13. You miss being "used" and dumped
14. You miss being depressed all the time
15. You miss throwing your virginity in the mud
16. You miss getting serious broken heart
17. You miss fornication
18. You miss punishment of the grave
19. You miss weakening your veins at an early stage
20. You miss selling your dignity in just 5mins for a useless pleasure and finally,
21. You miss being thrown into hellfire.
Have you seen that you really miss a lot by not having sex?
My real G's out there and God's finest babes, i tell people you can have swag and still be a good christian.
Your life is worth more than 5minutes enjoyment that can destroy ur life in the present and future.
Preserve ur body not just for ur future husband or wife but for Christ sake.
It's Rewardable!!!

Wow! Thanks so much for this piece. A must share!

Yeah! The den of the super rich! Off limits to the 'vermins' except they serve the masters.

Wait till next election!

Asikiya!

912:
Comparing Mandela and Kanu is like comparing Barcelona FC and Eyimba. Wake up man there isn't any basis for comparison between those two people.

Mandela never preached hate for the whites and he had genuine claim of oppression of the blacks. Who is oppressing you guys? You are the most widely travelled individuals in the country. You even have Ezes in Yoruba states in the country. Your businesses are thriving in other parts of the country. Yet you still claim that you are being oppressed.

Do you know how hard it is for a non-Igbo indigene to set up a business in the east? You won’t find a major company owned by a non-Igbo person that has its major operation in the east. Yet all the Igbo big boys work, own businesses and live comfortably in other parts of the country. Yet you claim that you are being oppressed. smh

Anyway if you insist in comparing your hate preaching master to Mandela, then we will oblige you and give your IPOB messiah 54years imprisonment so he can rule you guys well when he gets out.

You've spoken well!
May our Igbo brethren be objective the way they reason at times.
Kanu is not a messiah! He will only give Ndigbo a bad name and create problems for them.

Mr. President, sorry, I don't agree with you! Will you overide the courts?

It's all about deceit and human sacrifice!

Horrible! May our young girls and women be wise!

I doubt it! Its very unlikely!!

Time and eternity will tell!