₦airaland Forum

generalj1:
What do you do after marring your wife only to discover her dirty past.

Do you just forget and pretend they never happened or they keep haunting you. . ,  .

Do these past affects your thinking one way or do other . ,  .

Do you still consider yourself lucking?

What if you know some of these men . . ,  .

What do you do @ this stage,

Its says for better for worse abi? you have to be a man and hold your ground as the husband, you fell in love with the person that she is now not the person she was, you have to let go of the past and move on or else it will destroy the marriage. I know its easier said than done, but in a case like this i would suggest counseling, Thats why its good to be honest with each other in the beginning of the relationship so as to minimize any shocking revelations,

Aqva:
You dated a sissy. real men don't run back, instead u gals run back to us.

Dude who says real men don't run back, sometimes real men make mistakes and what makes them real is realizing thier mistake and trying to correct it, running back doesn't equal sissy, by no means at all. And by the way 95% of the time its the man trying to get the gurl back,

I'm sorry but i think Gaddafi is a power-drunk IDIOT! His own solution to everything is always by the knife, splitting nigeria up would be the worst idea ever, can you imagine the bloodshed that would occur? We need to figure out our differences in naija for us to stand as a country, end of story, seperation ko, demacation ni! Hisssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss******

My dear, here's my own two kobo. First you need to pray to God to give you the right words to say to YOUR husband. Sit you husband down and have a heart to heart discussion with him, ask him what it is you've done or didn't do. Let him know you're not a fan of him browsing all the time and staying out sa late, especially if its becoming excessive. Another thing is that you need to work and make some kind of money, a man respects a woman that can handle her own business, trust me. Its not like before when the husband took care of everything, we live in a different world now. Empower yourself and bring se"xy back! Give him a nice treat when he comes home, i know i personally have been warned to maintain my se'xy after the kids, so bring out the heels, tight jeans and get your hair done!

Bros you really need to sit and talk to her and let her know that her behavior is unacceptable if you guys are gonna get married. Maybe you should ask her what you've done or didn't do. Omo marriage is not an easy thing o! A broken engagement is better than a broken home ,

@ SIANU: Damn! seems like you got burnt, since girls are deadly to you, maybe you should try guys or donkeys, LMAO!!!

If i have the means to spoil my guy, i will to the "T". Then again you have to consider the guy you're spending on, it has to be reciprocal, you can't just be giving all the time and they continue taking, u'll dry up like a well in the sahara desert!

Support (sprirtually, mentally, physically, etc), Friendship, Good Food and Good Sex (lol)!!!!

They are so stupid, its because they've watched Fast & Furious too many times that's why they think they are "something". See the cars they are using sef, so stupid. I hope it comes to an end soon 'cos this is absolute FOOLISHNESS!!!!!

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According to him, in line with the judgment of the Federal High Court in Abuja, there was no vacuum in the leadership of the country against the backdrop that the Vice President can act for the President in the latter’s absence without any formal handover.

Really?? there was no vaccum? that's why the US found it so easy to put us on the Terrorist Watch List and no was there to fight for us!!!!!!! Nigeria needs to get its act together, starting with every single individual,

i forgot to add that the reason why women find it hard to submit is simply because we are human!no one really wants to be told what to do, i mean come on think about it for a second, Its only natural, it takes time for any grown woman, after living and thinking independently for 20+ years, to just all of a sudden submit to a man just like that, its not easy. Ask any man if he would ever have to submit to anyone and the answer will always be NO!, its not easy

Technically yes women should obey their husbands. That's why you should pray to God to have a wise husband in the first place so that he doesn't lead you the wrong way,