PUNCH HER IN THE FACE,
TELL HER YOU HATE HER
SLAP HER EVERYTIME U SEE HER
KNOCK ALL HER TEETH OUT
INSULT HER PARENTS,


ARE YOU SERIOUSLY ASKING THAT QUESTION OR IS THIS A JOKE?

Ok this is my predicament- PLEASE READ CAREFULLY as i need as much advise as i can get. 

I'm based in the UK, and visit Nigeria at least once a year. The first time i went, i managed to sleep with 3 girls, in Ikoyi area. This was no big deal, as i was introduced to them through a friend. With 2 of them it was a mere fling, and both parties went there own seperate ways. However with the last girl, we carried on brief contact on my arrival back to the UK but it was only the occasional email, and text.

Early last January, i went back to Lagos, and linked up with this girl again. This time we met in Falomo, in Ikoyi, as im based by the waterside.

The problem is that she brought her friend with her, whom i immediately felt a connection with.

Anyway as things went on, this friend also came back with myself and a friend to our apartment.

I could not take my eyes off this her friend, and it was clear she also liked me.

Me and the initial girl now had sex, whilst the friend was also present. They stayed the night, and i collected the friends number the following day.

Since the encounter with her friend, i have been in deep trouble.

Girl (A), the original girl has been making my life hell.

To cut the long story short, me and her friend Girl (B) began having a relationship (after all, me and girl A were not an item).

When girl A discovered, she grew incredibly jealous, and they both fell out.


To really cut the story short 2 years down the line me and Girl B, are still having a long distant relationship. She seems genuine, and i trust her a lot, to the extent of her even tatooing my name on her shoulder.

Girl A as gone to all extent of breaking us up, such as taking both our pictures to several witches and wizards. She even sometimes use to call me all the way from 9JA and pretend to be Girl B, having sex with different men at night. I have received phone calls pretending to be Girl B asking for other guys by name, and several funny issues.

I recently visited 9ja again, and my feelings for Girl B are stronger than ever especially after not seen her for nearly a year. She is georgous, and every mans dream girl. We promised each other to always be faithfull, and never let girl A, or anyone for that matter ruin our relationship.


Im now back int the Uk, and despite speaking on the phone every single day, its extremely difficult on the trust side. We are currently making plans for her to come over for holiday.

Although i can feel she has feelings for me, i sometimes take out the stress on her, and i make her feel so annoyed with me.

I manage to assume, she is been unfaithfull, or messing me around. Her actions show she is genuine, but i just cant get it around my head why this girl wants to be with me so much.

She as met my family and all speak well of her. She confessed that she loves me because i treat her right, which is hard to find in most guys nowadays.

We speak absolutely everyday for hours, but i just sometimes have bad feelings, as the distance is complicating things. I ALSO FEAR THAT I MAY BE A TARGET OF ACCESS TO THE UK. SHE MAY COME HERE AND DO A RUNNER

WHAT CAN I DO,

ANY ADVICE WILL BE HANDY,  THANKS

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YOU ARE A MUGU SIMPLY BECAUSE YOU DONT EVEN KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT THIS GIRL! IF YOU KNEW HER THEN ITS A TOTALLY DIFFERENT STORY! PELE, SOME MAY SAY THAT YOU ARE HELPING, WHICH I CAN PERFECTLY UNDERSTAND.

ITS JUST THE FACT THAT YOU ARE ABROAD, AND SENDING MONEY TO SOMEONE YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT.

Once a cheat always a cheat! Only ever sorry once caught. The worst part is the fact that she lied she was going to her Uncles house and purposely cheated on you. Even worse she turned her phone off. Im sure if you never caught her out she will never have come clean.

I advise you just to be carefull. Some of these girls are not what they say they are. Most love snooping around, even thought they have the best man in the world. I guess its just in their nature.

Saying that there are also the committed ones.

My friend just be carefull, and dont marry her unless the trust improves, otherwise she could easily do it again.

Remember, if you didnt catch her, she had no intention of coming clean!

I'm in love with my girlfriend! I honestly don't look at any other girls despite the attention I get from the ladies. Due to the fact that I'm a successfull 23 year old with a striving business, there is always one girl or another loathing around! I can truly say I show no interest!

if my babe tell me say she wan go for competition, and show her yansh then that is the day when she will see my true colour. Wetin be dis one wey you wan go expose your yansh to the whole universe. That sweet YANSH is for my eyes only. Nonsense.

this baba na get time wey she worry 4 her ex. Instead of u to be minding your marriage you are busy galavanting, and poke nosing into ur ex affair. Wetin be dis kind of nonsense.

Be prepared to get bleeped after N500 Suya and small stout.

cheat till your oko dun tire! carry on cheatin my brother!

Wetin dey worry ur friend. Im sure that if nobody is there they will pick the pant and feel the warmness. Dont mind them, dey just dey pretend 4u