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Sports / Re: Nigeria Vs South Africa AFCON 2023 Semi-Finals (4 - 2)pens On 7 Feb 2024 by OnlyJesusSaves: 5:22pm On Feb 07
robosky02:
AFCON 2023


Semi Finals


Nigeria. Vs South Africa

Date: Wednesday 7th February 2024

Time :. 6:00pm

Venue:Stade Bouaké




https://www.standard.co.uk/sport/football/africa-cup-of-nations-2024-last-16-fixtures-results-schedule-group-tables-afcon-how-to-watch-live-stream-tv-channel-b1131730.html


Hi please any link to watch this live in the USA
Health / Re: #SaveChidubem: Baby Starved By Mum's Boss Dies (Disturbing Photos) by OnlyJesusSaves: 5:17pm On Dec 18, 2021
LILTJAY1:
Igbos with wickedness. .
I hate them angry
With this kind of hate in ur heart, u r more wicked n I pray you dont kill urself wit hatred. The more u hate the Ighos, the more u hurt urself gradually, just so u know. I wont read ur response fyi...Nonsense

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Health / Re: Body Is Swelling Up Without Cure by OnlyJesusSaves: 10:36pm On Oct 07, 2021
needhelp909:
My younger who is age 20 has been battling with a sickness for over a year now.
His body is swelling up.
Eyes, neck, legs and stomach. They all appear puffed.
We have done all kinds of test and treatment, nobody has been able to diagnose the nature of the sickness.
There is no pain whatsoever, just swellings especially after a nap.
Also he sleeps more than usual.
There was a period it went down for like 3 months.
But now we are back to it again.
He is having difficulty in breathing because of the throat swellings
I will be attaching some of the drugs he is using.
And will be available to answer questions.


Please, try and go to the hosp and ask the doctor if the Lisinopril is still ok for him to take. That drug has a serious side effect of angioedema and its an airway issue. From the pictures of the swollen eyes and your statment about the fact that he cant breathe due to the swelling, its a serious issue. Airway is priority in health and should not be taking lightly. Also, at the hospital, did they check his BUN and Creatinine level (Kidney function tests)?

Please, go to more hospitals asap. Its well with his spirit, soul, and body...Quickest recovery bro!

Pls ignore the typos here.
Health / Re: Help: Chronic Diarrhea For More Than A Month by OnlyJesusSaves: 7:43pm On Sep 01, 2021
Do you eat anything wheat like wheat bread, oat meal, brown rice etc...if yes, please stop eating them entirely for now and see if u hv improvement. It might be celiac disease. May be not. So if the diarrhea continues after you stop them( that is if u do eat them), then something else is the problem. Just my little suggestion. I might be wrong though...sorry about ur health...wish u quickest recovery in Jesus name...Amen!

rumuokoro:
Health experts in the house.

Please help me.

I've been having watery and frequent stool for over a month. I stool a minimum of three times a day and its always watery.

I have visited hospitals and done numerous tests but no improvement.

I have done Blood test, stool test, Covid-19 test and HIV test and all were negative.

I have used all sorts of antibiotics and anti-diarrheals as recommended by doctors and pharmacists; Azithromyin, Metronidazole, Ciprotab, lomotil, loperamide etc.

I am single but have a girlfriend. We have MouthAction and rarely use condom.

I remember that around the time this stooling started, I bought a rice at one Captain Cook eatery, the rice's taste was slightly changed. Also, I remember I bought a sandwich at another eatery (not on same day) that didn't taste too good.

Please help.

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Family / Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by OnlyJesusSaves: 10:56pm On Sep 05, 2020
owo8184:
I am a young married man with 2 kids. The marriage is 6yrs now. Due to the situation of the country, we’ve not been staying together. I hustle in a University environment in one of the states in Southwest while she works as a freelance for some organizations in Lagos.

I normally come home (Lagos) on monthly basis. But during this lockdown, I have been in Lagos with my family.

Prior to our marriage, there is this guy she met when we had some misunderstanding. They started a date but later called it off when we settled. She didn’t give me the details but based on what I read on her phone back then, I knew they made out together. The said guy is now in Port Harcourt but I am aware he normally comes to Lagos.

Just today, I heard my wife giving someone a description of where they will meet somewhere in Agege (where she uses as her office). I was curious to know the person. I didn’t ask her because she would find a story to cover up. I found a way to check her phone and saw that her ex - the said guy was the one who called. May I say that we have fought over this guy several times even before and after our marriage. She won’t let this guy be in her past. She’s either calling the guy or the guy is calling her. This time, I chose not to raise my voice but monitor her closely. She left home for work today. I may not be able to give details but every surrounding clue indicates that my wife has a date today. She returned home and I found a way to check her whatsapp but alas she has deleted her chats with the guy.

Just this night again, she received a call from another man asking her when she would come to his office. She once told me that the man was asking her out. In all these, I want to believe my wife is up to something. Infidelity is the last I would accept in this marriage.

Should I confront her with all these observations? Please, I am confused.
Of all the things happening in the world right now, who still thinks of cheating on their spouses. People should really pause and ponder on where the world is going right now. Am in my mid 30s. Married for 10 years with 3 wonderful children n still cant'imagine cheating on my husband. God please, help me marry this man till eternity without cheating. May God's mercies n grace continue to see us through this marital vows...Amen!

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Celebrities / Re: Kanye West And Kim Kardashian Christmas Card 2019 Family Picture by OnlyJesusSaves: 7:47pm On Dec 13, 2019
Lovely family. She gave birth to the first 2 and got the last 2 through surrogacy. So adorable

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Sports / Re: Messi Shows His 6th Ballon D'or Awards by OnlyJesusSaves: 9:57pm On Dec 02, 2019
Wow!!! Merciless mercy

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Politics / Re: Uba Sani: Nigeria Should Start Printing Other Nation's Currencies And Passports by OnlyJesusSaves: 6:50am On Nov 05, 2019
I hear u
Crime / Re: Petrol Tanker Leaks In Mile 2, Lagos, Many Fight & Scoop Fuel by OnlyJesusSaves: 3:17pm On Oct 15, 2019
Wow!!! Pls they should be careful of explosion I beg...ist to comment.
Nairafame1:
Many Fight and Scoop Fuel As Petrol Tanker Accidentally Losing in Mile 2, Lagos State.

Watch Video Below
Source: https://www.nairafame.com/2019/10/deadly-situation-many-fight-scoop-fuel.html


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jc8xtEZUwi8

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Family / Re: My Wife Changed 2 Weeks After Wedding!! by OnlyJesusSaves: 11:30pm On Aug 03, 2019
OP, please, do not take her to the US. If not, u will regret it totally. I live in the states and I know wot am talking about. please. Also, do a paternity test on that ur che asap I take God beg u.
Travel / Re: Fleeing To The US ... A Word To The Wise. by OnlyJesusSaves: 6:23am On Jul 25, 2019
I am in US as well. My brother, no country will ever be like this country. Av been here for just 3years and my life and that of my family have changed for good. Thank you Lord! My fried is a Canadian citizen and believe me, the difference is clear

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Sports / Re: Algeria Vs Nigeria: AFCON Semi-Finals (2 - 1) Full Time by OnlyJesusSaves: 9:35pm On Jul 14, 2019
���� Nairaland no go kill personoooo
Politics / Re: Fayemi Pays Salaries, Allowances Of Fayose’s Appointees by OnlyJesusSaves: 8:49pm On Jul 12, 2019
Good to know
Politics / Re: Fayemi Pays Salaries, Allowances Of Fayose’s Appointees by OnlyJesusSaves: 8:48pm On Jul 12, 2019
Good to know
The Ekiti State Governor, Kayode Fayemi has paid the outstanding salaries and allowances of members of the State Civil Service Commission and House of Assembly Service Commission who were appointed by the immediate past administration of Mr. Ayodele Fayose.

Governor Kayode Fayemi disclosed this while presenting cheques covering their outstanding remunerations.

He thanked the appointees for their meritorious service to the State.

Fayemi, who was represented by his Chief of Staff, Mr. Biodun Omoleye acknowledged the understanding and patriotism of the former appointees while serving with his government, wishing them well in their future endeavours.

Responding on behalf of the beneficiaries, the outgone chairman of the House of Assembly Service Commission, Hon. Tunji Odeyemi appreciated Fayemi for being kindhearted, saying Fayemi’s gesture is uncommon and devoid of personal vendetta.

Odeyemi said that the appointees had earlier thought that Fayemi would remove them from office since that was the norm but the governor was law abiding and retained them in office.

“We are most delighted for an avenue like this. I must confess that this opportunity we are having today is very uncommon. When a new governor or government comes on board, what they usually do is to remove members of commissions and boards appointed by their predecessor not minding the laws establishing those commissions.

“But you have magnanimously retained us and now paying our outstanding salaries. As far as Ekiti is concerned, from 1999 to date, the opportunity we are having like this has not been very common. We are grateful to His Excellency for this”, he said.

The former acting governor said Fayemi has demonstrated his commitment to treating all Ekiti people equally regardless of their political affiliations and has set precedence for his successor to follow.

http://www.titopeblog.com/2019/07/ekiti-gov-fayemi-pays-salaries.html


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Romance / Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by OnlyJesusSaves: 3:02am On Jul 07, 2019
Exactly my point. I had told him that earlier on. Arrogant is an understatement. I pray he learns humility in life b4 its 2 late quote author=skukimania post=80017361]

I am practically blowing you kisses here kiss Thank you so very much!
The op is one hell of an arrogant guy.[/quote]

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Romance / Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by OnlyJesusSaves: 2:52am On Jul 07, 2019
I think u really need to work on ur temper. It's very hot n makes u sound too arrogant n proud in ur response to comments.That said, I pray God gives u a perfect direction on this issue. All d best bro! Its well
sirdouglas:
Now before you judge me, I beg you to hear my side of the story.
I said my side of the story cos if she is here, she may not agree with everything I have to say.
This is a lengthy one but I will try to make it as short as possible.
I it is important to note that I am not writing this to be judged or ridiculed. I want matured and reasonable people to help out.

I met this girl in 2017. Can't really remember the month but it should be getting to 2years now. We started dating. As at the time I met her I wasn't struggling, I have my own business and apartment so I wouldn't say she met me when I had nothing. I was a big boy then if I can use that word.
She was just 19 or so then. I am this kind of guy that really really take relationship serious and always looking out to see if things can work out. I don't spend on her, I don't do much for her then. I wanted to see the kind of person she is. She doesn't care or even ask of anything. She might ask for something once in a while but I will pretend I didn't hearw her and to my amazement, she will never talk about it again.
With time I started noticing something about her that I don't like. First is she is really not smart and educated. I noticed that she doesn't have her own say. She listens to gossip and always bore me with what this person said or that person. I really hate that shit.
She is a mama's girl too. Sometimes I wonder if she gives her mom details of our sex life.
She won't sweep the house or do anything for me even while the relationship progressed. I started taking care of her and helping out with her needs. I constantly keep wondering if I can settle down with her but I am always stuck with that question.

I ended the relationship when it was clear to me that I can't live with her. I am an ambitious young man and I am not there yet. I want a woman who will be more than a sex mate. I want someone who can confidently handle my business and manage my home when I am not there. She is to naive to my liking. I am tired trying to build her into the kind of woman I want.

There is only one main reason why I wasn't really hard on her. She was one girl who accepted me from her heart and I know it and I respected that too. I suck when it comes to women and I respect women a lot. You know what they say about guys that respect women. They are mostly single �
She came back few months later. She wasn't ready to let go. Being that I am a loner. My defence wasn't strong enough. We started dating. I got hold of myself and ask her to go again because I couldn't see a future with her and I can't bring myself to be wasting her time.

She wanted to stay, I told her in plain words that I don't want to marry her and that's why I am setting her free.

She left and came back the third time. We had sex and all that but this time I was determined to let her go. I went to a lab for a test with to make sure I didn't infect her with anything because I treated staph before I met her and I was afraid it may still be there or something. To my utmost surprise, she was the one who infected me with gonorrhea. I treated mine and hers and ask her to go.

I noticed that she haven't seen her period and asked her and she confirmed it. She left and came back few weeks later that she is pregnant. She insisted that she wanted to have an abortion but I wasn't interested. I told her to keep the child. Besides, she has been the one telling me that my sperm us not working. I laughed over it. I became afraid that she will try something stupid so I took her to a pharmacist friend of mine to discourage her.

Her mother got to know and ask her to call me. I went with a friend and told her mother everything. I started suspecting that the child might not be mine because I treated her of an infection she possibly contacted from another person. In fact, I was shocked when she confessed about the infection. She said it is the toilet they use at home but I never believed her.

I told her mother that I am not sure about the paternity but however, I will take care of her. I told her family that I don't want to marry her and I have told her that severely.

We had a long discussion that day and I left. I started taking care if her the more. I made sure that I made my stand clear on the matter. I don't want to be a murderer so I got to do what is necessary. She started complaining about abuse from her siblings and war started. They beat her almost all the time and I wanted to take it personal. Shit do happen at times but that is not enough reason to kill their sister.

When all this is happening, I was processing my papers. In fact, I started processing my papers before she got pregnant and she is full aware of that. I took another group of friends to their home to help beg the brothers to stop beating her so they don't kill her and the child.

My visa took time so she was almost due for delivery before I left. I sent money to her account and bought some things I felt she would need even the unnecessary ones and left.

My problem now is that she contacted me few days ago to tell me that the scan said she is having twins now not a boy. I can't explain in details because I don't know but the bottom line is that she is now having a twins. I feel for her like I always do.

I don't want to marry out of pity. I don't want to live a promiscuous life. I don't want to marry this girl honestly and having a twins for me just complicated the matter the more.

She said the doctor said she will be delivering this month. I am thinking of sending my uncle and younger brother to her family house to do the iku aka or whatever that is called so I can lay claims to my kids.

Her family is so messed up that I will never want to do anything with them on a normal day. They are from onitsha in anambra and I swore never to marry from that state. That's one of the reason I kept chasing her away. When I say messed up, I am really not that good with English to find the right word to define how disorganized it is.

I am feeling like a monster already. I need all the help that I can get. I never expected this to happen. I never wanted to complicate her life but here I am in the middle of all this.

Should I marry her out of pity and save her the embarrassment or give her money and make sure she comfortable and go ahead with my life. Honestly I don't know what to do.

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