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quite really pathetic and indecent in life, for a matter @ Festus Kayemo pursued up to the Supreme Court.

this fact is true, actually when a guy is privileged and blessed with such attribute as Handsome, it is a threat to friends, the opposite sex and the world at large, in the process the guy goes lonely, it is worsened if the guy is well read and becomes knowledgeable as well.... uncontrollable envy everywhere to such extent the life is even threatened. my suggestion and advice is never to border or kill yourself over it. just look out for more handsome and better dudes and friends around GOD has created and stick with them... with them you are relaxed and calm... now you know... ONYEKAP.

Quite on point! ....totally agree!

Wow! Guys seem to be missing it, that beautiful girl looks like not yours alone, remmber she is not always wearing a pant and a bra and can easily remove for all... The good cook all the way, she has got the real beauty!

The more we go the more complicated, mine to an extent I imagine the high level of stupid and illogical comments of the women. I think we (men) need to strike a deal with the women folks on how to get to a common ground.....(Through our churches etc) to creat awareness and reorientation. Otherwise, the way I see things going, it could be more deserstrous if nothing is done asap. Ladies/women should be responsive to make life better for all us.... They have been causing havoke from the days of Adam.... Caution!!!

Dear! Don't really get yourself unnecesary walked up, your marriage is still young and you have a long way to go! I guess its just your expectation... From what you said so far, it is more of his mindset. Like others rightly suggested, approach him with the issue politely, discuss extensively and have an understanding of how to satisfy each other. May be he just rushes to free himself without knowing he should hold on to make you free yourself as well... Men always rush it uknowingly... Make him to hold and don't get engroused, possibly remove his mind there till you are close or set.... Vagetables, carrot and cucumber can help... The best of luck and welcome to Niraland!

For us in Nigeria! Truth be told we can't do without brooms!

I truly trust and appreciate Nairand family! Grateful for your comments.

.....For instance, she is pregnant and gradually getting due for delivery, I travelled out of town for a job, i know her as someone who likes to eat much and somehow tells her to reduce her intake of food, for her good, she feels I am been wicked, doctor exermines her and tells her baby is getting to big in the womb, she somehow relates to me, and I again caution her, women don't like to be blamed. She angry with me that I am selfish.... How am I selfish? I don't know... That kind of problem...

Hi folks! I have this challenge and I feel I should share with like minds for suggestions. Every time I have conflict with my wife, she says somethings that make me feel what on earth will make her say them all be it to score a point, but what pains me is what she says are unreasonable and it pains me so much and some times unbearable.. How can I curtail or handle it?

......You can also share with us where it came from......

Yes! The evil spirit was already there, there is never a good without a bad previosly in existence..... You have a choice to have it done good or bad, thence you have the capacity to identify and differentiate.... An eye is always watching you from somewhere around you.... You must give report someday .... Remain a mere mortal!!!

So good for you MJ! Happy you!! All the best!!!

ou mension Sacrifices right? I surely don't want to know really or go there but are you talking about ******* sacrifices or effort sacrifice? Because sacrifice pass sacrifice ohhhh .
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Sacrifices can be anything, here try to study how Christ lived as a christain, beging to observe His teachings... Die on the cross, fast for 40 days and 40 nights, ask your for what purpose are you truelly doing this...... If you have so done it for God's sake.... See the kind of wanders you can do in your village alone, let alone the world... That kind of Sacrifice!!

What you are going through is not unusua, find a way around to get a solution for your self..... Good u have aired your view which is worth it, but solution revolves within u...reason being that no other man or person can come and sleep with your wife for you, make love to her for you or treat her as a husband for you.. My experience is it is difficult to communicate with a wife, to find out an exact issue from a Nigerian wife you have to keep it on the fire and watch it get done, not always easy.. My advice is find time and means to always get to her heart to know exactly...... Reslve it reasonable and objectively with her, always let superior opinion upholds.. However your woman will want you to protect her in your arguements with her when you win her and want to always use it on you when she wins you... Don't let it border you, her conscience is always guiding her. They know the truth... Be the manager of her, mange her and don't let her be your manager.... Luck bro!

God is truely everything!!!!!

One thing got me to comment. Before a choice is made over a partner, there must have been scruitinies of I don't know but very peculiar individually. Now a partner goes home satisfied, thereafter lusts on another, it is humanly though that is where sacrifice comes in to say no if you can or can not. Sometime you retain your patner, sometime you loose your partner for the other in the process. But you can cheat and still love your partner. Be guided!

I do very well appreciate this expression and am so persuaded to comment as follows: there is more to these. The writer must have been brainwashed with or misunderstood the concept of new generation, but one thing certain is the effect of the writer's new thought is unknown to the writer. We are in the Era of banning religion and morals in the society. Why won't there be a captain my dear? Why won't there be a voice in a gathering, why won't there be a head in a body? I make haste to say you are completly been misled. Trust me make further reseach on your discuss. Don't be and refuse to be an agent to this theory. You sound quite enlightened but don't be darkened. The implication of these your presentation is when these our less tutored generation wives begin to practice this. Believe me you must answer to the doom thereby. Learn sanity. Submisiveness or been a head as of to the man does not mean slavery. Do your research well. Guide your opinion better. We learn every day remember!!!

My dear, if you are married find out what he lacks and see if you have a solution, may be he sees u are not sweet enough etc. If you find out or you may already know. Look inwards and take a decision. But if you are not married, he certainly finds you unsatisfactory as a bed met... Look inwards still... You will receive favour!

tuffgongjo: Bukky use to tell me "I won't leave u for another"(story) but when I still dey struggle as an undergraduate she meet another guy who was spending cash constantly,my people 2years relationship enter auto-delete sharply.

You see my brother, it may well be that her love for you was dead, she finds another or that she chose to live with wealth and sacrice you her love.. Love is strong.

[quote author=onyekap]True love can very well dwell in poverty, for Love and Poverty/wealth have very different concepts. That One is in love with Another does not vary and not dependent on wealth. A lady that is sticking to a wealthy man for his wealth and not love him would certainly reserve her love somewhere very secretly, only known to her. Let's stop the game. Love is everything![/quote

True love can very well dwell in poverty, for Love and Poverty/wealth have very different concepts. That One is in love with Another does not vary and not dependent on wealth. A lady that is sticking to a wealthy man for his wealth and not love him would certainly reserve her love somewhere very secretly, only known to her. Let's stop the game. Love is everything!

Hmmmmm! when he looks at you as his woman unsatisfactorily!!!!

Several teachings on tithing keep emerging, what is rather most important is the motive behind it, of which varies. It is needless sometimes to raise criticism. The whole crux is consequent upon the realm on which one is operating from, hence we all do not or may not be operate from same level at a particular point in time. Giving is good, tithing is an act of giving, we are exorted to continue to give.

nice one brother!!!

if u see someone u love, move to let him or her know, directly or indirectly. it's not restricted to guys alone. if u think its a job for guys alone pls tell us how u'r informed of that.