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1. fall in love with the person i was suppose to be with
2. get married in a extravagant church
3. have a baby to share my love with

@ esss
i am juss saying that people were meant to be together for a reason. be it end good or bad. juss because you dont believe in romance doesnt mean you have to kill my innocence.

@ esss
we shall see what the future holds. I wouldnt be surprised to see you with the person you deserve. A MONKEY!!! lol

If god sends me the sign that the man that i am with should be my husband i will know it. I will feel it in my heart, soul, and body.

just let her do what ever she wants. if she wants to marry with out being in love well lets juss say we will being a new thread called "What is life after divorce?"

you need a serious reality check. i feel like im talking to someone in the 1930's. i mean seriously. you are making men sound selfish by stating that if your son gets a girl pregnant that her life is ruined. so is his. he will also be in the same condition. Also you stated that if your daughter got pregnant that it will be hardship on you. what do you have to do with it?? it is her life and decision. Dont you care about the hardship upon her seriously get with the times.

a marriage focuses on both a man and a woman. that is why it is called a "marriage" neither party should be but ahead of the other. personally i feel marriage is for anybody for any age. NO i am not supporting sugar daddies. cuz that is not even in the category of marriage.

@ esss
you are saying that you are an emotional guy

are you even hearing what you are saying You will allow your son to parade around having sex to whom he pleases. but you will get all moral when it comes to your daughter. why dont you just treat them both the same??

[quote author=®Th£ Sly® link=topic=139716.msg2336121#msg2336121 date=1212633591]A Cry Baby??
In this age?? [/quote]well he is not necessarily a cry baby but you know he just gets real emotional about things that normally a woman would get emotional about.

what about your son?? you never did answer the question.

if you marry someone you do not love, you are putting your self endanger for having an affair or getting a divorce. I understand because i am in college and choose to abstain from having a boyfriend. Not because i cant find one but i know when i am ready God will send me my husband

tank top w/ lace lining. and some jean shorts. and some jordan slippers plus juss got my hair done

@mallamMusa
dont you think what you said is a double standard so you would allow your son to parade around the neighborhood being known as a man LovePeddler before allowing your daughter??

I would of course pick the great saucekid. He is so sexii. i love his music and his style. it doesnt get any better. and all those oppose are juss inferior to he greatness

@ topic
dont feel as if i am sexually corrupt. maybe it is the "girls" you have encountered. and if you are going to say the nairaland women are corrupt what about you men alot of yall are more than sexually corrupt

i personally told my friend to leave him for a real man but what can i say she loves him

Hey, a friend of my really needs your advice. The new man in her life is totally EMOTIONAL!!! i mean it is rediculous. she wanted a guy who would express himself emotional but not a cry baby. So i was wondering, what is better having a guy who is totally emotional or a guy who is stern and keeps things to himself?? Thanks for your help

how closely were you staring at her i mean seriously. also the human body is not perfect. for example i bet that in your pants one testicle is larger than the other.

R. Kelly- seems like you are ready

Definately the naija men. i mean where do i start with all their drama. most are too into themselves to notice muah. which should darn near impossible being me.

Well i never had sex before. but i would prefer for the guy to take total control. im just a puppet to his every move.

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@toyinrayo
nice scenery!!!!

could you clarify

Early this week, i was catching up with Flavor of Love 3 and was terrible disgusted. Is this what us black have become? The next day some white kids were passing by me on the street and one of them just came out with the N word. I was deeply disgusted and confronted them. They said that it was okay to say it cuz the black people here say it all the time so it doesnt offend anyone. I was shocked. Have we as a people accepted this to our culture?? Do you think shows such Flavor of Love, I Love New York, and All under one roof has increased the stereotyping against us black folks?? And if you do, what can we do to show more positive examples of B. I. B.?? (black is beautiful)

dont know that is a tough question

yes it does exist because i have been a virgin all my life. and dont plan on giving it up

trust me u are better off alone then getting into a relationship with any of the guys.

this would get you far for some american girls but soon catch up to your game and leave you.