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@DeReloaded

LMAO!!! That Sudan jist had me rolling.

[quote author=link=topic=254174.msg3654129#msg3654129 date=1238206123]Look you were born and raised in the US, you're no better than girls that have never been outside Lagos all their lives. FACT - most of them will make far better wives than you. no pun intended, just the cold hard facts.

A man is not the product of where he is born but how he is raised.[/quote]You are so lame David. I mean come on already. Haven't you changed one bit since I left?? Are you still on this whole "Onyinye will make a horrible wife" stupid ideology? I mean seriously can you please come up with something new then this shit you keep on pulling.

FACT- You don't know shit about me. Never have and never will.

So do yourself a favor and don't assume you know what  kind of person I am off of NL. It is truly disgraceful.

davidylan:
Are they any different? Experience tells me some are even worse.

From my stand point there is a bridge from here to China of a difference.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=254174.msg3654075#msg3654075 date=1238204847]Nigerians raised abroad?? Yes! Yes!! Yes!!!
We are single n ready to mingle[/quote]Let me clarify, BORN and RAISED.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=254174.msg3654066#msg3654066 date=1238204695]What is ekwensu?? Don't lemme invoke the wrath of Amadioha on you o.[/quote]Psssssh. . . . . . whatever. It means a person who is kind and loving.


Phoenix,

Where am I in this group hug?

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=254174.msg3654061#msg3654061 date=1238204530]Not even Lucifer coulda been that mean.[/quote]Of course you would know omo ekwensu.

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=254174.msg3654050#msg3654050 date=1238204347]Onyinye, stay out of this.[/quote]Okay


[quote author=*Hauwa* link=topic=254174.msg3654048#msg3654048 date=1238204324]david you are right there, that's common in our society. i strongly believed her too. niaja men in nigeria sabi angry not be small. the stress sef pass them. it is the women in their life they pour the stress on.[/quote]That is why I'm running STRAIGHT -------> for the Nigerians raised abroad.

Oya now, Tope na Ruby let us not deter from the topic at hand. Even though homegirl over her Ms. Tope  has my man GinuMINE as her profile pic.

DaPhoenix:
Some men can be huge assholes. She probably innocently said it and he took offense to it.

Ike and Tina Turner.

There isn't much anyone can say now but wait and listen for a news report on the vicious death of a woman and her unborn baby found in the back seat of a pick-up truck.

Till then, her days are numbered.

C2H5OH:
By the way, why has this same strong, indepdenent, money-making, beautiful Rihanna remained with him, as rumors have it

And how did you come up with these assumptions of her??

spoilt:
Isnt that why Guys hit and slap? Cos they know their women will stay?  

That is what erks me. These women think that things with magically come to terms and will go back to the wonderful prince. All it takes is otu efere thrown on the wall na im gone.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=254174.msg3653937#msg3653937 date=1238202172]White gurl ke??
The Naija gurls i am running from are the ones copying white women and u still want me to marry a white woman??[/quote]Oka sure mufasa, you have shown me the light.

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=254174.msg3653928#msg3653928 date=1238202027]Woman: Oh wow, something smells.

Man: I wonder o, oya, come darling, let's get it on tonight

Woman: It smells like a dead rat

Man: Nothing jor, I'm feeling horney, come on now

Woman: Bbay, could you plz take a bath

Man: Watchu say? *slap*. Who are you? Who are you? *slap*[/quote]Nsogbu dikwa gi!!

Who are you? Who are you? ------ Onyinye

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=254174.msg3653918#msg3653918 date=1238201773]Yes. . . . . . .U don't want to give Nigerian women an inch. . . . . .they are going to take a mile.[/quote]Then go marry someone else. In fact go and marry a white girl and hit.  See you run for your life after Jimmy Bob and Redneck Jr. come after you.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=254174.msg3653921#msg3653921 date=1238201888]Stop comparing Nigeria to the USA. There's a universe of difference between the two.[/quote]More like light years.

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=254174.msg3653919#msg3653919 date=1238201786]I can't blame some men sometimes.
The way some women throw themselves at useless men.
Easy catch eh [/quote]As soon as I hear a guy say "I want to be your everything. . . . " Shizzzz I'm out ASAP!

spoilt:
you're pregnant?  :oHe slapped you? twice?   You want to apologise?  
I would have left for my parents house same day.  

But noooooo. . . . . according to these men here once you are married your source is your husband and have no ties to your husband.  

C2H5OH:
surrender his manhood and be used as a verbal punching bag.

Really? Are men really that weak? "Verbal Punching Bag"?? WoW.

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=254174.msg3653861#msg3653861 date=1238200512]Another advice to my fellow women.
Finish school and have a stable job before marrying any "charmer".

Don't depend on any man for whatsoever.
Make sure the house is in both your names, the car that you drive is in your name, and that the account is in both your names.[/quote]Abi ooooooooooooo Can't even trust your own husband nowadays.

C2H5OH:
Where would she run to?

Her family? Abi just because you are married doesn't mean you must cut all ties with your family. . . .

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=254174.msg3653834#msg3653834 date=1238199823]Aren't you the one that said she needs to apologize?

What are you saying, woman![/quote]I was just joking Ruby. . . . . if you read my posts to tope. . . . . .

WTF!!!

What kind of nonsense is that?? Oh because she used a new approach to tell her husband to take a shower she needs to be disciplined?? And they women are emotional creatures?? What kind of man hits his pregnant wife over a shower comment?? Men, argggg. . . . . .  they are just worthless species at times.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=254174.msg3653820#msg3653820 date=1238199264]I wish it was that simple.
There's no way on God's green earth she told him politely and the husband slapped her. . . . .
We are not being told the full story. . . . . .The hubby isn't an animal.[/quote]And of course Mufasa you would know. Because men NEVER hit their women because of simple things. That would be absurd.

tope2000:
coming from you . . . . im shocked
wat happened to you??
so u think if the woman apologize all their troubles will end??
i agree that the woman isnt tellin the whole story. . . .i mean how can u just tell ur husband to take a bath n two slaps

LMAO!!! Okay you know I've turned a new leaf. j/k j/k

Okay okay okay, I guess this nice onyinye is just not doing it for you.

My true advice would be to pack your shit and leave. There is no such thing as things getting back to how they were because the hell he just proved he don't give a shit about you if he hits you while you are pregnant. I mean how will the asshole act if you were sick or injured. This is God giving you a sign to RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!!! He is a jerk and deserves to rot in hell.

Wooooooooooooooooooo. . . . . nice to get that off my chest.

She might as well apologize or leave. That is her only two choices. And it appears sweetheart wants to stay in this hell hole path of a marriage.

Now if it were me, shit. I would have packed up, uprooted, and left. I don't play with abuse. But as you can see in her post, she wants to stay in this marriage.  So it is either she craves in or leaves.

WHOA!!!!

Did I read right?? Did you say you were thinking of terminating your pregnancy? Over a man? Lawd the world is truly coming to an end.

My advice to you is to apologize. Be the bigger person. All these nonsense games you two are playing with each other is just freaking childish. Playing the whole "holding out until the other person caves in" game is not one with a winner.

With the whole thing of your man hitting you, that is truly unacceptable. Shit he ain't even a man anymore. Disgraceful.

I still say you should apologize and if he wants to be an asshole about it then to hell with him. There is nothing else you can do but think about your child. That is your only concentration at this point. If  he wants to act like stupid idiot, let God handle that.

And the TOP 2 Haters of the year would be the first post. omo ekwensu.


@ Poster

Glad that you have found someone to share you life with. Enjoy it with all heart and may you stay in lover's bliss.

For me not learning Igbo was just it. It wasn't necessarily a choice but something I grew accustom to. We had to interest in learning the language. Yeah we understood it but learning it was just not something we were fond of. Does that make me any less Igbo then the next person, No.

Most africans that I knew who were born abroad didn't speak a word of their language. Just a select few. So you can't just throw it all on the Igbos.

I'm learning it now as a personal thing. I'm not trying to justify myself as more Igbo then my friends cause I could care less. I just want to learn for the sake of learning it.

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=248761.msg3647858#msg3647858 date=1238100704]Lmao. . . . who taught you curse words?
Is that the only yoruba you learned?

I'm on break. . . .studies, aiight been crazy.

So are you still dancing?[/quote]Hehehehehehe. . . . . . .
You know I have been brushing up on my Yoruba.

Dancing. . . . . yeah I still do. Not as much but yeah I still do.

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=248761.msg3647839#msg3647839 date=1238100264]@onyine
same as you left it.
C-R-A-P-P-Y[/quote]Yeah I can tell. Yesterday I went to one of the Igbo threads almost bust a nerve. Some fool wanna talk trash by saying "You're only Igbo if you speak the language." omo ashewo

Well anyways how have you been? How is the studies?

ibkaye:
@onyinye
mrs runaway, how are you dear?  

Hey now.
You know school and all, but today im off. [quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=248761.msg3647819#msg3647819 date=1238099817]@Ibk
No talk to onyinye jare. The girl dey avoid us

Nwanyi, how u dey?
did I spell it right?[/quote]Hey I'm na
School is my first priority. So how is NL since I have been gone.