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Do siblings fall apart?

There may be misunderstanding, but falling apart shouldn't be an option.


If my siblings offend me, I have many ways of sorting it out, depending on the offense....one of such, is ignoring the person for some time, until I feel better.

"A sinner is living a risky life"

Sure.

And if cheating is not a deal breaker for any of them, they can stay out and sort it out


As for me, cheating is a deal breaker.

NB forgiveness should be paramount.

Greed

Pastor kumuyi is the best among all.

This one will not face front, with his stolen mandate.

Disgracing Nigeria, both home and abroad.

God have mercy.


What sort of cannibalism is this biko

There are many creams for it....google them.

Way to go.
I pray this won't be the last development in the south east.

I hope Enugu governor is seeing this sha River adada in nsukka needs to be dredged and developed to become a sea port.

Funny enough women hustle more than men and even ball more.....but some low self esteem always find a way to generalize the comdition of the women in their family with all other women in the world as being broke and always depending on men.


As a matter of fact, many men today depend on women for their meal ticket, but no none is ready for this discussion yet.

Do you need a prophet to tell you, that the mkpi is knacking the dog

Stay there until he dashes u AIDs then u will have sense.

Madam that dog is your rival. He is sleeping with the " two both of you" so flee.

I doubt if there is any Nigeria man, not sleeping with an animal....since that is what is reigning for them.

The other day, was a married man sleeping with his pet goat.....today u are here with your own story.
Thankfully, he is even sincere with u, to tell u that the dog was his girlfriend....That "was" is a lie.

It is still his girlfriend.

First and foremost...

I think the last one.

I feel sad, anytime I remember that we have youths among those supporting a drug baron to rule this country.

How did this country get that bad?

Kai, I sincerely pray that those who are supporting this evil, will surely weep and gnash their teeth in sore pain and disgrace!

Except obi reclaims his mandate....this country is heading to a sloppy stead.

Tinubu is not fit to rule this country!

Tell them to allow u to enter Nigeria first

N3TRAL:
It was only Bola Tinubu who damned the consequences and challenged Buhari and Emefiele not to proceed with the policy.

Atiku Alootakar supported it.

Pandora Obidîot supported it.


The North remembers.

Jagaban is Allah's will for us.


God willing, he will put a total end to suffering in Nigeria.

Any challenge against Bola Tinubu is a challenge against Islam because he is Allah's response to our cries.

Allah 'Akbar

الله أكبر

The same suffering your messiah buhari couldnt put an end to....all of a sudden a sick 86 years old man will do the magic?

Dey play.

Protest votes to business votes?

If sanwo olu, had achieved his very best in the business of Lagos, would he even be begging for votes now?

Deport him asap.

Always disgracing us.

While not use the opportunity of being there, to tap into their world of IT which is currently blooming their economy?

Why go into drugs?

Nigerian courts has lost it's relevance...thanks to buhari.
After his utter disregard for the court ruling about the release of dansuki.....and later Nnamdi Kanu, the entire judiciary is now a big joke.....
Funny enough, others dont also see the relevance of the court system, since the number one citizen has no regard for it.

The supreme court is now a glorified debate hall.

Ok

End time

He has already conceeded to defeat....even before the election.


Eluupee!

Emir8:
You are a goat. You are not a Christian. Who told you that the law is made for christians? Stupid

Dont mind him/her.

Church bench warmers, be doing the most!

GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, I think I must give kudos to our Muslim brothers and sisters for living by the tenets of islam. No Islamic ruling nor nation will give a nod to this madness and we wonder why they are more morally up right than we Christians? Weird acts and cultures are common amongst Christian nations yet we think we are more righteous. Sometimes I regret being a Christian

Then go and join Muslims and worship ....so u can as well go about killing Christians to defend it.

So being a christian to u, is not about your personal worship of the Almighty and true God but about the lifestyle of others??


Please join them sharp sharp....u were never a christian in the first place....

U see this freedom of worship u enjoy in Christianity....u don't find it everywhere!

Thats the reason why many people have trust issues.

I have been dumped too, by closeby friends.....but I can't help but still trust them anyway.

There are things I trust in the hands of strangers, even things concerning my life......like traveling at the dead of the night with total strangers. Sometimes in vehicles with only men looking somehow.

I leave my phones with strangers, hoping that they will return it to me.

Sometimes I have taken risk like the one u did, several times. It's worrisome, but one thing I believe is that, so long as ur hand is clean and u don't engage in duping others, posterity will bring people that will treat u that same way.

Most times I commit it to God. Just a small short prayer like "oh God, my phone is in your hand. May it not be stolen" " God please don't let me meet wicked people.....or let this people not be unkind to me" etc.


And most times I make such prayer, I hardly lose anything.

franchasofficia:
Do not ever make the mistake of marrying for romantic love, love is a fallacy, its a tool used to manipulate weak minds.



If you want to marry without regrets, marry based on the qualities and things that will ensure the growth or expansion of your financial wealth, sustainability of your success and lineage. Marry like the Royal families.



Before you pick any lady to marry, consider her:


personality; is she respectful?

Is she reliable ?


Does she enjoy working and earning?

Does she have a career prospect?

Does she have clear plans to grow on her own with little help from you?


If something happens to you and renders you incapacitated, can she sustain your family success without resorting to begging and turning miserable?


Does she have luck on her side? If she is not lucky, its a risk marrying her cos her ill luck will mar your life unless your destiny is too bright to outshine her ill luck.


Who are her immediate family members ? Are they leeches or people you can run to for help if need be?


Watch her utterances about life and money management.


Is she a money maker or a money spender?


What's her belief? Does it align with yours?

Will her profession, career, business, handwork or craft help you grow or mar/distort your own growth?


Don't marry for sex, sex is overrated, you will bet tired of sex in marriage even if your wife fine pass mami iwota, especially as a man, so forget about romantic vibes or sex vibes.




Love is not enough to marry anybody, it will expire when financial lack sets in.

I like this portrait.
Women can also follow this advise too, when searching for that someone.
I will also add, that one should not forget the God factor too.
Pray about it.

Thanks for dropping this.

@op take this.

Baking soda and lime.....will do the magic. But make sure u avoid applying it on the gum..just the teeth, and it will glister.

brain54:
I don’t want to trivialize your issues…


But what’s up with being a virgin at 32?

Are you a monk?

Not everybody wants to be committing fornication like u nah.

Leave him alone!

How much is your groomprice. I want to come and pay

Its hard to see a virgin guy today....what we have now, are overused dicks all over the place.

If you are certified to be medically fine, just DM, lemme go and pay your groom price, before another girl fess me

lavylilly:
What's your location?

Abuja

To be honest, you did nothing wrong, since you said that was the name you had being calling her in the past.

I found it funny, when people criticised you,telling you it is disrespectful.

How is it disrespectful pls?

Except a person is redefining or changing the relationship, I see no reason for a change in name from what the person calls u.

Most of my married class mates and friends, I still call them by their names, because we are still maintaining the kind of closeness we had in the past.
If Joy is your name, Joy is what I will call you.....and if u married lets say another of our friend, Eg. mike.

I will say " hello Joy.....how far nah? How are you and mike doing today?"


Anyone who finds anything wrong with that statement, has lost one nut from his brain.

There are a lot of reason why people change the name of what they call others.
Eg childbirth ( from Cynthia to mummy Mary)
Marriage ( from Cynthia to Mrs mike or "your wife" when referring to the husband)

However, those should be based on CHOICE not force.

U shouldn't see it as disrespectful when others choose to call their name instead.
It's still their name.
( even those who did change of name on newspaper, don't find it disrespectful or even go about warning those who call them their former name, talk less of u who didnt do so)


Regardless, let's learn to live in peace with everyone.
The matter too small to cause fight.

RaiStar95:
My rejection story is plenty. Still finding a way to handle it. Rejection can be really tough particularly on someone who is smart. I have been rejected from jobs, scholarships and even men. There are times are feel like a complete failure. Last year was the worse. I would cry almost everyday. Don't get me wrong, I have a relatively good job, but I feel so stuck in it for years now and I can not help but feel like there are stuff I need to achieve and while time passes by, it does not seem like I am getting any closer. People say I put a lot of pressure on myself, but how could it be when I feel like I am yet to arrive at my destination? There are times when I have been tempted to just stop trying and accept that this is my life now. But it seems like I might even be failing at that too. Failure births self doubt. I hope I do not loose sight of who God created me to be.

Stick at it, and don't give up.

Picture where u want to be, and set a goal to achieve it....

You will be fine.