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OnyinyeGod:
I am a girl of 22 yrs, and in love with a guy. We have been in this relationship for over 5 yrs now and our family members knew about it. He was the one that taught me what love really is. I love him so much and he love me too.

He is not rich neither is his family but despite all these, i can't love anyother person other than him, i gave him my whole heart, soul and body. It got to an extent that when he comes back home (because he is living in the north) and his transport money finishes, i will beg my parents to give me money that i want to do something or sometimes, i will do some menial job to get some money for his transport fare back to Kaduna.

This guy pregnanted my best friend and he later came back and ask for forgiveness, i forgave him wholeheartedly because the girl refused that he will not marry her because of me. I took it as a temptation and forgave him. I gave this guy my heart, everything there is nothing left. If i woke up from sleep, the first thing that will come up from my mind, is how is Christopher doing now? Has he woken up? Has he eaten? He is no 1 in my life.

Men were coming, asking my hand in marriage to the extent that his immediate elder brother keep on asking me to marry him. Since i can't love then neither can i like them, i will tell then that i am engaged despite that this guy has not propose.

Our problem started last month, he called me one sunday afternoon and ask me where i am, and the person i am with(Thats his usual attitude). With all sincerity, i told him am at our house and am with our landlord's son talking with him. He got angry and ask me why i will be with him, what is he doing with me. He started raining abuses on me saying that he can see that i have boyfriend here while he is there starving himself, that from that day that he is going to get for himself another girl.

Since then, i have been begging him and asking him to give me chance to explain things to him that there is nothing going on between me and the boy. He said that he does not want to hear anything that i have been cheating on him all these while. Since then i have been trying to make him understand that he is the only person that have stolen my heart. What he told me is that if i call him another day, that he is going to give his new girlfriend his phone to talk with me.  please can you imagine the pain? He has gone ahead to tell my elder brother that he is not interested again that he has gotten a girl that he would marry.

A guy i have dated for good six years. I can't omagine myself loosing him to another girl. I love him so much, that i cried everytime i remembered what i have passed trhough because of him.

He doesn't call me anymore, i can't love anyone else, each time i remembered him, i cried like a baby. Should i keep on asking him to come back, if no what will i do to get over all this mess? i.e. forget him and forget him forever.