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kowema:
Lol.
Love him with the words of your mouth.
Love him with Web and Mobile votes.
You must not use decoder votes

I've already voted for him via the website and please kindly explain the difference between Web and mobile votes?
Cos I've been voting him via the website and dstv App until subscription expired ,please explain to me how to go about the mobile voting...

Thanks in advance.

Adekunle Lovers, my subscription has expired ooo,any lover with a good heart to help renew my subscription?

ymbappe:
Fresh Payoneer account needed..

I have one

What escrow system does this group use?

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edochie12:
If this thing has happened in the east,my brother u will suffer,u will marry her in death,infact u will regret ever meeting the girl for the first time

But I'm wondering, what if he refuses to do what the elders say, wetin go happen?

somehow:
Savings account
Talking from experience!

Although they deduct my money but they sure replace with interest

somehow:
FCMB IS A TRAP
I REPEAT FCMB IS A TRAP
THEY WILL DEDUCT YOUR MONEY UNTIL YOU START OWING THEM!

Are u talking of current or savings?

I heard Zenith bank is the best of all banks..

Another friend Standard Chatered is also okay, no illegal deductions and all sort....

But like someone said, you can give fcmb a trial, they give u interest on your savings.

Dementia is real guys.....
My daddy is presently suffering from one and I do know how irrational they can behave sometimes....

The man should be taken for medical evaluation instead of detaining him unnecessary...

Trust me when I say Dementia is real especially amongst old people...

Cleobulus:
Send a mail to me. I cannot give such detail in a public forum.

Okay I will.... Thanks

Rest in peace young lad.

Whether ure a Neuro surgeon or a worker in the hospital. Please kindly let me have your contact... This is for my dad..

07026204153

Here's another scammer who called me yesterday asking that he upgrades my banking information.

May God heal all of the depressed people..
My thought goes out to every one of you.... It is well.

Her mother must be very dear to her heart.

The protection of the lord will continue to be upon him whenever he is, this time on Sunday 17th when We were everywhere looking for my dad, I was practically passing out beat by beat, I thought I wouldn't survive the next day, but to the glory of God he was found, I pray for you, God's protection will continue to rest upon you wherever you are. Just very very soon you'll be found.. Amen

boyjo:
Why not take him to the Psychiatrist?
They will provide him drugs to balance out his chemicals or hormones.
I know the B vitamins help with moods but take him to the hospital.

On it sir.

jaxxy:
Seems u don’t know the old deeper life, sm are like sadists. The new ones are abit better. I know families that the father is almost like her father. Isolated, lonely and depressed like they are just waiting to go to heaven and forget planet earth. If u go to their house he won’t greet any visitors, in fact visitors are not welcome. It’s hard to believe they are Christians. That’s the reality.

They are into themselves alone and don’t care what other are doing except when they want to carry out religious activities like preaching they became active bt still detached. It’s weird.

Exactly, he was too obsessed with heaven heaven heaven....

Let him talk to u small, the next he is preaching the gospel, praying and speaking in tongues until the thing enter I'm head...

When he was found, he was praying... And will not speak to anyone. But thank God he is better now.

Chicent:
Ope88 Its very simple... Your dad needs to be taken care of, he needs reasonable and worthy people around him. You and Your sisters should start an operation of foster peace amongst his brothers and sister's make them forgive and accept him back....

Then retire him to the village permanently, I won't advice any of you take him to start with your houses because he will be a treat to your kids. If possible get someone you gals will pay to take care of him. From time to time also take turns to visit and stay with him.

As for your brother and Mother they need to be taught a lesson that its not necessarily a MUST that the Son or Only Son inherits his father properties. Your dad can Will it all to charity or even his daughters or even to his brothers, His house His choice. I will also advice he gets a lawyer to put things in order before its too late.

God will heal him and make him sane again. Amen

I want clarification on some things, how can he be treat to my kids, he loves playing with children a lot and loves it when his grand children are around him..

About the will, before things got this worse, he was always shouting that he wants to write his will, but my mum talked him out of it saying that does he want to die now by shouting Wil will will up and down..We knew from there that he might not want to give my brother anything, reason why he talked him out of it. And now that his condition worsened, she has packed all the documents from him, we are not sure if she has handed it over to my brother, but from all indications my brother is very very desperate...

His mates finished 2 years ago but he is still battling with u seriousness and carry over, ask him what he wants to do with his live, he doesn't have any direction watsoever, my mum still feeds him, clothes him, house him, he takes things anyhow from my mummy's shop and whenever she challenges him, he snaps back, this same issue happened when my sister was around, this time, he challenged my mum why she asked a tenant to move in without his permission (as if he is the house owner), my mum spanked him at the back and then he pushed her away, my sister caution him which led to him beating her up...


My father built two houses, and each of the houses is a storey building... I. E one storey building and another built in the same compound...
The first is for the family..... While the second he built for tenancy purposes... All the tenants have packed out due to one fight or the other with my mum and on different times, she will ask my brother to beat the tenants up... So all of them parked out, and another set starting moving in..
But there are still empty rooms in the building.

At different occasions, he will lock both my dad and mum downstairs and not let them gain entrance to their rooms upstairs, he did this for two days, my mum could not call the cops on him, it took hunger to let him open up..

So from all indication, we feel this is how he wants to settle down, when mum and dad finally dies, he could settle with his family in the building at the front, while he lives off the rent from the building at the back...

He doesn't want to work at alllllll, we have given him several options of things to do but he wants to live the big life...

My sister has said we should everything to them ( my mum and himself), that's our own lives matter than any property.....
But my father's family are involved now and they have vowed to thrash the issue.....

I never believed they will give us listening ears.

Adgideon:
My i condole with you and my prayers goesvto ur dad, but my friend you no try instead of coming here u should be with ur sister helping ur dad, ur duster aline can't help her 4get about updating us go help ur sister take care of ur dad

Everything is under control.....

He is with his sister... The family he abandoned for his wife, religion and heaven... They all welcomed him with love, recalling how nice he was to them until he found religion and married my mum..... Lots of things were said that I can't say here.. But we thank God everything is under control now...

Gloriagee:
Your bro is most likely on drugs. You guys should not leave the decision making to his siblings. He needs medical attention urgently n God bless your elder sister...she's a rare gem.

Yes ooo,she's a beautiful woman with an heart of gold.. May God continue to keep her for me..
We are working to ensuring he gets all the medical attention he needs, and I just do hope he gets his sanity restored at least a bit.... My elder sister is with him now in his own sister's house, he will likely be staying with me after visiting the hospital to get all necessary medical ATTENTION he needs

dantrillion:
From my observations after reading your long story, the DNA of dat your spoilt young brother should be question.... i suspect sumthing fishy & only ur mum might know the answers to it

LOL... No he looks so much like me.. And both of us look like my father, while my other two sisters look like my mother... He is truly my father's son, but a very spoilt boy.

UPDATE ON THE ISSUE..
I Called my aunt who my dad had abandoned for years, she responded fast to the calls and made way to where he was crying and wailing, her grandchild picked them in the car and they drove to her place.
My sister and Dad are presently at his younger sister's place somewhere in Lagos, So tomorrow, the rest siblings will be present to take a final decision on the matter...
Prior to this, my sister who had not set her eyes on my brother since he beat her said today he was also at the scene ( mum asked him to come pick dad up but wasn't released to him), was rolling on the floor and in tears crying, apologizing for all that he had done, she said she was stunned, because this same boy kept malice with my younger sister who is her immediate for a period of 8 months, they started talking when we marked our dad's 70years birthday, and he was even begged to talk to her...
My elder sister said he's forgiven her but I'll not say a word on the matter..

And for those who said I should be with them, I sincerely would have been with dem but for the lockdown, interstate movement isn't allowed..

Goodnight everyone.

Sleep well and continue to stay safe.

Beautiful people, he has been found.... Badly beaten and bruised....from what my mum told me.... I'll get back to u all on this.

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famousNdee:
I always say this a lot.

Religion has fvck up a lot of us here in Africa.

I can relate to what the op is a saying.
Your father is a bipolar disorder patient, all that man need is just a medical intervention.

If u are in Lagos here I can refer you to yaba.

I'll get back to you when he is found, I hope he can still be treated at 70.....he was 70 in March.

Sososo:
how about renting a place for him no matter how small cause he needs to be happy in his old age. He can't suffer to raise you guys and still suffer at this time when you are all grown.you can also bring him over to your place if your husband is okay with it and mum doesn't react.

We are looking at this possibility when he is found....

I don't know if I can post his pictures here to aid his search, he was last seen in Ikorodu, Itamagha