₦airaland Forum

Damn, I wanted to post the result first.

Federer is really in form. I hope he gets the Title.

woleprof:
No MANU No Football::::::::::::::::::::::::1 UTD

Fantasy X League.

You guys didn't think Liverpool's would defeat chelsea which was quite unexpected of all chelsea fans _{sorry to put them all in terrible miseries} . I was quite disappointed when I heard the skipper(Henry) putting in a dying minute goal at the back of the net.

But all is well, it is only giving us hope of moving on top the table. I pray the dream is achieved though because we never walk alone(Baba God dey with us).

We are third on the table. We are going up as long as this teams keeps losing cause last week both two top teams showed there weakness. I hope our boys seizes this opportunity to get back on there rightful place in the table.

@ J-girl

We weren't joking when we said we are the true reds(liverpool). Seems muki was right about turning you guys into [color=#14d699]Grey[/color].

Don't mind me O.

I haven't forgotten that they got devils supporting there red.

We are indeed true reds.

Boys, Make me proud.

The reds(Liverpool) victory is a great one.

I hope you guys too fasten your belts up, and show Arsenal the true color of the reds.

bolaoni:
The pressure is off us now.

They think we are one easy meat, they don't know that when they chew, there teeth is going to lose it usefulness.

Well as for the Gunner, your faith lies with Reds.

Good luck.

HAHAHA!

Who said Liverpool won't wipe the butts of Chelsea?

I can't just imagine what Jose is feeling like now. Sorry Guys

@ mukina

Winning Liverpool doesn't count you guys superior to any other team, ok. Just wait till Man. U gives you a total Fatality on the pitch tomorrow.

@ babyosisi

Nigeria is not for a certain group of people, it for every group of people. Though religion and ethnicity made us a little bit different, but that doesn't deprive us from living in peace. I believe the faith of Nigeria lies on our hands. Let us try to live a congruous life with each other. Its not by force to bring people to your religion, but letting them understand the truth which is now left of them to decide which part they want to stay.

Everybody has the equal right as christains to pray for there nation, this topic is a very good example of conflict which I don't think the nations wants. Lets try to avoid discrimination between ourselves.

My prayer for Nigeria: May the Lord restore peace and stabilization among our people. [size=13pt][color=#096609]Amen.[/color][/size]

I reserve my comments.

I can see that Serena Williams is getting are wits back together. I was very shocked when I view the results this morning in which she defeated Nadia Petrova. I hope she improves for the better and if possible win the Australian Open.

Radiant:
Ope, don't get it twisted. I'm not jealous for any reason. I'm sincerely happy we actually have "smart" and "intelligent" people on Nairaland 'cause the majority of Nairalanders are just pathetic. You can't reason with them.

My peace to y'all and please Shahan, make Nairaland females proud if I must say that.

Ok, just that I despise the fact that most poster pick up unnecessary fight in the forum. Please, endeavour to keep things cool and ignore pathetic poster as you said.

Peace to u'll.

shahan:
No, never. They were muslims as well.

No wonder you could quote the Quran!

Radiant:
I see. So, what's the whole point of starting this thread? To tell us Shahan is a girl huh? Thanks for that.

Guys, y'all never met clever girls in your life? What you guys on about here? Don't you have sisters, friends and above all, mothers? Why y'all acting as if you've never met smart and intelligent females?

Not that we have never met a smart and intelligent females before. But for the fact that her hidden gender couldn't have described that she was a female due to the way she posted. Some even went ahead to say, "God Bless You Brother" in which she replied "Amen". I was simply shocked.

Radiant:
Besides, what kind of girls have y'all met to think Shahan is simply the smartest?

I didn't post she was the smartest, did I?

Radiant:
And Nairaland guys are actually smarter and wiser than the chicks? lmao Y'all bunch of mediocre minded dudes get over yourselves please. This is rather shameful to read.

I can see you took this thread quite seriously [s]are you feeling jealous because you have never being credited of your smartness[/s] which obviously describes what my point is. You didn't see me criticising other females not being smart.

Radiant:
Shahan, don't get me wrong. I'm not hating on you just had to say a few words to the guys. Best wishes and goodluck.

Don't sweat it Radiant, just get over the fact that this topic was created.

The first time I laid my eyes on your posts, I thought to myself; who could bring out this much wisdom, and yet your gender wasn't revealed. I even went ahead to make the conclusions that you are a male just because I have never seen a female make this much sense ever on Nairaland._{*thinking*she is not a female jare}

I was so shocked to see the feminine gender sign behind your name, infact I was forced to go to your profile to IM you but to no avail. _{*still thinking*are you sure you are a female?}

God, I have never seen a lady make this much impact on the religion section since mlks_baby last posted here as told to me by my friend goodguy.

This is the most amazing thing I have ever witnessed on my stay here in Nairaland. Looking at the time you quoted my in "Should Women Preach?", it really affirmed my thought of you being a male.

Shahan female?

It is really bad to hear that one of my favourite artiste of all time is engage to this act of marriage. It is absolutely nonsense and absurd to have sexual relationship outside your marriage vows. I will never take that. If my spouse suggest such an idea, I will simply show her the door.

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Pierce Brosnan - First


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Sean Connery - Second

As for the bond girls_{'well they are just girls. dont really have a favorite'}. All of them are wonderful and seductive.

shahan:
Good points you made to ope_emi's, and the sympathy of his entry is only based on feelings rather than on Scripture.

I can see you quite understand where my stance is, and I couldn't have explained better. I wouldn't say I based my explaination on only feelings but also scriptural, just that I didn't quote the Bible. Keep up with the good work. 

This is what I call a joke(classic).

@ susanne

I admire your interlect about the what the future might hold for both you and your husband considering the rate at which your economy is growing. As an aspiring mother or wife, I believe that you have consider every aspect. The things you mentioned shows how observant you are, and I must say that your man is someone easily influenced.

A typical Nigerian man is very eager to have kids, thereby making him very arrogant of his desires. But I believe as a man, you must first look at the financial aspect and economic aspect on how it will affect you as a husband. But it seems that most Nigerian men don't want to know about effects it will pull on them.

Susanne, I will say I am ashamed of your man's move to be with another lady. Though, he still loves you and you still love him, but the other woman that has come in between both of you, and has broken the commitment you made to each other. I think for him to make that move, your commitment to each other is no longer present. I will advice you to call it off. And I hope you find someone of your own heart.

@ topic

I don't think discrimination of sex is in the bible, a woman is as equal as a man. Though the man as lots of responsibilities more than the woman, that doesn't mean he has much authority over her. Our generation as made it easier for everyone to live independently, no one is no one's slave anymore. We have brains like other humans.

The phenomenon behind the topic now is like saying the man's brain is more advanced than that of the woman's thereby not having the responsibility to preach the gospel which I find totally absurd.

The gospel can be preached by any sex, the issue of abonimation has being renewed by Jesus Christ. Atleast, in the day of pentecost when the holy spirit came down from heaven, it met with both men and women in the house and all spoke in tougues.

The issue of women not preaching is simply erroneous. Please let this be corrected.

Women are very much allowed to preach, it ain't a taboo.

@ trini_girl

I can't begin quoting you from the first post you made because everything I am posting is aimed to reply your posts. As a christian, I believe we know whats good and bad, and influences get to change our mind set about things.

@ Topic

Firstly, if you have a relationship with another person(maybe BF/GF), in a way both of you are committed to each other and thereby showing signs of being with the person forever in which the bond for the commitment is not there. That bond is marriage.

Secondly, If you have intentions(as babyosisi quoted earlier) of marriage, it is quite different from being married because anything thing could happen. Your partner might just be waiting for that act(sex), and at the end of the day dump you, making pre-marital sex synonymous to fornication.

Thirdly, I don't know what is on your mind or where you heard or studied that pre-marital sex is not a sin, but as a christian I will advice you to read and understand what the scripture is trying to pass accross because purely, pre-marital sex is a sin.

Lastly, I am not God to judge anybody by there actions, but as for does the other acts you posted above like masturbation, lust and the rest, they are as equal sin as pre-marital sex. There is no doubt that there won't be temptations but I believe its all about self control.

Sin is Sin, the is no great or small sin.

Eurphoria: ope emi

why do u want to know so badly my reason for asking if you were married?

As you also asked earlier - "just curious"

Eurphoria: you think i want to propose?

Don't worry, I won't have to think twice before I reject it.

ThiefOfHearts:
anyway ope, i'd think you'd understand why E asked you that.

Just wanted to find out from her personally, she might just have something contrary to what we might be thinking of.

kaecy5:
@radiant your all encompasing in wisdom for u to call some one a retard

your one dumb girl seeking for attention because u assume by responding the way u do, makes your non retard psychological imbalance brain makes u fit in
crazy yankee wanabee- grow up child

The gas has being extinguished, but the way posts are being posted on this thread or should I say this forum, it is only getting topics derailed. Well, I won't like to bring myself low like the way some posters do here.

Back to the topic

@Eurphoria

I was wondering why you asked the question

Eurphoria:
Are you married? just curious

No, not yet.

Radiant:
Lousy looser!

Still not making anysense.

Radiant:
Ope, I said get lost. It's an order, yes! What next?

I can see from your reaction that you are in noway making anysense in this particular post.

@ Topic
I believe that those eager to get married are the ones experiencing most of all this breakups and cheats. Before going into marriage, both parties most have taken time to amend their weakness and know how to come about solutions to problems which might be a threat to them in future. If you take a look at marriages that lasted, they would have been in a long term relationship before going into it.

@ Radiant

I hope you weren't giving me orders?

I think you know what freedom of expression means?
You have no right shunning people in this thread, even though there is nothing no one can do.

As a married man, he must meet his expectations. Marriage is not only about both of you, but also about the new lives you will bring up. As a woman, you shouldn't see it as a problem. Though tension, stress and the rest might affect you, but you see it as a wonderful thing having a life formulate within you is a joy to behold.

If you guys get together, plan when you both want to have children which should be a topic you should go into everytime. I see that the country situation is what you are concerned about and the regrets, you can always reside else where(e.g Nigeria ) to born your children. I don't want to know how harsh the economy might be, it will always give room for children deliveries(If thats the problem ).

@ papa D

After reading your post, I must say that I am very much not impresssed by your post. As a man, it is your responsibility to help and assist the family in whatever way you can mention. Women have equal rights as men do, the issues of superiority should be damned from any married couples. Love is the major reason for marriage, I hope you know what it means(if you don't, you can always ask).

@Radiant & TOH

I understand the reason for the calling of names, and I don't blame you for expressing your feeling. But don't you think it is rather an inappropriate way or manner to prove someone wrong?. Let there be more sense of maturity in your post. Calling of names won't solve the question.

P.S. - Not all boys, guys, men are the same.