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RomanceRe: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by opeemi1(m): 9:21pm On Jan 08, 2007
ThiefOfHearts:
Instead of telling me how to do things in my thread, how about answering the question.
Point of correction, I am not telling you how to do things on your thread, I was only giving you a piece of advice.

ThiefOfHearts:
Like I said I would like for you to give me examples of excuses you find as "reasonable" for cheating.
She could be druged or hypnotized, I have seen cases like that which is very reasonable. But if it were her freewill, there will be likely other cases of betrayal or infidelity which will call for divorce.

ThiefOfHearts:
How about you deal with that first before trying to order me?
Hope that is solved and I don't have any right as you too don't have any right to order posters, I can see you are taking this situation more maturely.
RomanceRe: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by opeemi1(m): 8:44pm On Jan 08, 2007
ThiefOfHearts:
opeyemi,
Please give me a list of reasons that you would consider as being reasonable. I'm sincerely curious
Atleast this statement made sense out of all you've being posting.

It is simple, I said if you find out the reason for the cheat is unreasonable, then you can go for the divorce.

ThiefOfHearts:
and calling guys esp Nigerian guys "sexist pigs" isnt exactly an insult as that is what majority of them are.
You can always exclude me.

ThiefOfHearts:
It's not entirely their fault as alot of them were raised to think with such a disgusting mentality and it bothers them that the world isnt really like the way it used to be for their fathers/grandfathers which is why they go around spewing typical male chuvansitic garbage. Fortunately some have the sense to get out of that kind of mentality(saadly not that many), and there are those who rather stay with it. If you are indeed not part of that group, then it shouldnt bother you now should it?  cheesy
First of all, you are not entitled to name or judge other by there action, even if its not what you like or expect. I am not bother if you make reasonable remarks, which you are not doing so far. You suddenly grow incongruous with those opposing your view. Try to be more polite with approaching a fellow poster.
RomanceRe: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by opeemi1(m): 7:39pm On Jan 08, 2007
ThiefOfHearts:
Lol, if you caught your wife with the mailman or whatever, would you write a pros & cons list on the "possibilities" and whether the reason why she did it was "reasonable"?
As they say, fingers are not equal. You think I would react just anyhow, like beat the guy up or something before thinking it through. I would say its rather not wise. I would rather get to know the reason before taking any action.

ThiefOfHearts:
Rofl who the hell do you sexist pigs think you are fooling with your trite nonsense?
There you go again with you name calling which seems to be a habit you adopted or born with. I don't know what you've being through, but I am sure you are talking from experience cause I see nothing wrong in what I posted.
RomanceRe: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by opeemi1(m): 6:26pm On Jan 08, 2007
@ TOH, Radiant and Co.

I don't think the idea of marriage makes an important meaning to you, maybe you think it is just a formal declaration or contract by which act a man and a woman join in wedlock(Dictionary Meaning). But do you think thats it!

Before you step into marriage, you must have known well who you are getting involved with except maybe it is not him you are after but his wealth or properties. If your spouse cheats on you, first look at the possibilities, and if you see it ain't reasonable for such infidelity to occur, then you can divorce.  But your ways of approach to it is more or less like, "Two can play in that Game", which will only make you infamous in your deeds.

Marriage is not about rings, papers, house, looks and intercourse, but about mutual understanding between both partners and strong commitments via wedlock. But this generation as turned it otherwise, and an undiscerning culture as rapidly evolve round people making them blind of what they are going into, that is why we see lots of breakups everyday.
Its a shame in my own perspective.
Christianity EtcRe: Prophesied End-time Books by opeemi1(m): 1:27pm On Dec 30, 2006
naijacutee:
I thought they said it was 1999, then 2000? Why is it now 2013? Have the plans changed? Someone please keep me informed o!
I bet you want to repent just days before the date grin.
Christianity EtcRe: Is Jesus God? by opeemi1(m): 11:18am On Dec 29, 2006
Reverend:
the leader of an advanced extra-terrestrial race known as the Elohim.
In other words, you believe in extra-terrestials? huh
WebmastersRe: Why Did My Sidebar Move Down by opeemi1(m): 9:20am On Dec 28, 2006
Your sidebar is still below your context, I don't think you've rectified much in your blog, try returning to default i.e. undo what made your blog look weird. You might just know where the problem came from.
RomanceRe: She Orders A Bottle Of Moet On A First Date. by opeemi1(m): 8:55pm On Dec 27, 2006
I can't but imagine the look on the guys face grin, no wonder he is seeking for a go ahead on the thread.
My advice to you is to keep your cool and take time to study the girl to know how else you can handle her without unleashing too much money.
WebmastersRe: Why Did My Sidebar Move Down by opeemi1(m): 3:29pm On Dec 27, 2006
I think nothing is wrong with the blog. Oh! have you checked your settings? huh
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Dating Indian Men by opeemi1(m): 9:21pm On Dec 21, 2006
mamaput:
And non Germans are much less than the rest of the world
I didn't grasp what you were trying to pass accross here, kindly explain what you meant.
Christianity EtcRe: Jesus Wasn't Born On Christmas Day by opeemi1(m): 3:49pm On Dec 21, 2006
I don't want to turn this place to a chat room, but you are an a$$. cool
Christianity EtcRe: Jesus Wasn't Born On Christmas Day by opeemi1(m): 3:38pm On Dec 21, 2006
goodguy:
Jesus was born on the 29th of September. I have no facts to prove that. I just know it. cool
In yours dreams young man. grin
Christianity EtcRe: Why Christianity Is Wrong by opeemi1(m): 12:57pm On Dec 21, 2006
babs787:
ope emi,

don't even try referring to the bible as the truth.
Sorry to say, it is.

babs787:
u asked for where i quoted the verse. it has shown that you're not conversant with your bible.
Sincerely, can you tell me you know everything in your Quran? I only memorize the most relevant things in the Bible.

babs787:
now this is the full verse

Ezekiel 9v5: and the Lord said, ‘go through the city and SMITE, let not your eye spare, neither have you pity. SLAY utterly old and young both maids and little children and women.

Num 31v1-: and the Lord said unto Moses, ‘AVENGE the children of the Midanites……………as the Lord commanded Moses and they SLAY ALL THE MALES. And they took all women as captives and their little ones, and they took the spoil of all their cattles and all their flocks and all their goods. And they burnt all the cities wherein they dwelt and all their goodly castles with fire. Moses said,’HAVE U SAVED ALL THE WOMEN ALIVE? NOW KILL EVERY MALE AMONG THE LITTLE ONES AND KILL EVERY WOMAN THAT HAS KNOWN MAN BY LYING WITH HIM BUT ALL THE YOUNG GIRLS WHO HAVE NOT KNOWN A MAN BY LYING WITH HIM KEEP ALIVE FOR YOURSELVES.
I see that you rather spend your time in searching for every statemants that marks death in the Bible, its a shame you don't have the time to read and assimilate what the verses are trying to pass accross, but rather you go ahead to make gory statement on them.

babs787:
MORE STILL COMING
If more are still comming, make sure you know how it begins and how it ends, not just pointing out were kill is. Read to understand.

babs787:
MAYBE U CAN EXPLAIN TO ME TOO HAVING FAILED IN PROVIDING SUBSTANTIAL EXPLANATION.
I don't blame you for this statement, merely because of your religion.

babs787:
ALSO TO YOUR ISSUE OF JESUS BEING GOD OR NOT, THERE IS A THREAD FOR THAT, GO THERE AND CONTRIBUTE YOUR QUOTA RATHER THAN DIVERTING THE TOPIC.
Diverting the topic? huh Point out where I have, so that I will give you my reason for it.
Christianity EtcRe: Why Christianity Is Wrong by opeemi1(m): 2:41pm On Dec 20, 2006
olabowale:
@ope_emi: What happened to verses 15 to 26? It jumps from 14 to 27 without a natural progression? I am just asking.
I used verse 14 to answer verse 27, main reason I jumped to the verse. Thanks for asking.
Christianity EtcRe: Why Christianity Is Wrong by opeemi1(m): 2:35pm On Dec 20, 2006
babs787:
ope emi,

u said it was all parable.did u noticed the apostrophy meaning that it was said by someone and not part of the supposed story, what made you concluded that it was the continuation of the parable. why didnt you say the last verse on jesus leaving for jerusalwem is also a parable said by the king.
I think you don't want to accept the fact and thereby holding to your own egoitic idea of what was written in the Bible. Point of correction, it wasn't an "apostrophe" but a "quotation mark", I can see you can't differentiate between the two symbols. Hope you can put that into thinking and get a glimpse at what is written in the passage.

babs787:
u can see your level of ignorance.
Its a shame that you jump into into conclusions that was made by your intelligence.

babs787:
what made u concluded that it was the same parable and why didnt u say it was the same parable at the tail end too.
At what tail endhuh

babs787:
let me add this to it too.

and the Lord said unto Moses, ‘AVENGE the children of the  Midanites……………as the Lord commanded Moses  and they SLAY ALL THE MALES. And they took all women as captives and their little ones, and they took the spoil of all their cattle and all their flocks and all their goods. And they burnt all the cities wherein they dwelt and all their goodly castles with fire. Moses said,’HAVE U SAVED ALL THE WOMEN ALIVE? NOW KILL EVERY MALE AMONG THE LITTLE ONES AND KILL EVERY WOMAN THAT HAS KNOWN MAN BY LYING WITH HIM BUT ALL THE YOUNG GIRLS WHO HAVE NOT KNOWN A MAN BY LYING WITH HIM KEEP ALIVE FOR YOURSELVES.

WAS GOD JESUS ALSO SPEAKING IN PARABLE?
Kindly put down where you got this passage from.

babs787:
FUNNY SET OF PEOPLE, ALWAYS EVADING THE TRUTH.
And what is the truth? (I believe you are refering to the bible)

babs787:
U WILL WANT TO SAY THAT IS IN THE OT, FORGETTING THAT HE SAID HE DIDNT COME TO ANNUL ANY LAW. SO MAYBE THE GOD OF OT (JESUS) IS DIFFERENT FROM THAT OF NEW TESTAMENT (JESUS).
Yes, he is still the same God.
And do you think what you typed above there in your own understanding is part of the law?  huh
Nairaland GeneralRe: Casino Royale: With Daniel Craig As James Bond by opeemi1(m): 12:16pm On Dec 20, 2006
The tradition of a Bond character as being slightly extinguished away. Craig is more like the everyday hero we see in most action films, but doesn't possess the traits of a bond character.

Casino Royale is cool. cool
TV/MoviesRe: Best Animated TV Programmes? by opeemi1(m): 9:08am On Dec 20, 2006
Where is it aired? huh
Christianity EtcRe: Why Christianity Is Wrong by opeemi1(m): 12:47pm On Dec 19, 2006
babs787:
this is the question again

Luke 19v27: for those enemies of mine who did not want me to reign over them, bring them here and SLAY THEM HERE AND SLAY THEM THERE BEFORE ME .
This was what Jesus Christ said to end his parable of "The Ten Minas".

If you begin the reading from [url=http://bibleresources.bible.com/passagesearchresults.php?passage1=luke+19%3A+10-35&version1=31]luke 19: 11[/url] you will find out that the parable began with a man that had lots of servants and was appointed to be king somewhere(Heaven). Before going he gave his servants money(Gift of God) to invest(to bring people to him) on. On his way;

Verse 14:  "But his subjects hated him and sent a delegation after him to say, 'We don't want this man to be our king.'

These are his enemies who didn't want him to become king.

Verse 15:  "He was made king, however, and returned home. Then he sent for the servants to whom he had given the money, in order to find out what they had gained with it.

Putting the devil to shame, he was victorious and became King.

Verse 27:  "But those enemies of mine who did not want me to be king over them—bring them here and kill them in front of me."

Refering to verse 14, those who didn't want him to reign over them he sent for to be slain.(Making this verse part of the parable)

The logical Meaningof the parable is that Jesus Christ left on each and everyone of us that has accepted him as our personal lord and saviour a mission to win souls for him(that describing the the servants who has sowed his minas and reaped more from it), and as for those who reaped alot will be rewarded according to his work, and to those who didn't reap anything will be taken from him/her the Gift the lord gave them. When he left(after he died on the cross), he went to hell to set his people free and became victorious and went to heaven to become King, where he is sitted at the right hand of the Father Almighty(God), and as for he's enemies who didn't want him to reign over them(evil forces) will be slain.

I hope this as given you an insight in what the verse is trying to pass accross to you.
Jokes EtcRe: Try This And See. Its Fun by opeemi1(m): 1:48pm On Dec 18, 2006
[center]Can you spot the black spot on this picture? Don't get blind  grin

https://img219.imageshack.us/img219/1339/spotsxp7.jpg[/center]
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Anybody Here Below 16 by opeemi1(m): 12:48pm On Dec 18, 2006
The young shall grow. grin

You're welcome!
RomanceRe: What Do I Do? by opeemi1(m): 12:16pm On Dec 18, 2006
All I have to say is for you to take heart, though it might be really tough for you but there is nothing you can do to change what has been done. Since, you guys aren't engaged yet, she is taking that advantage of living the country for someone who might just be serious about her, not that am saying you ain't serious about your relationship.

Things come and go. Don't worry, it might just turn out to be your luck finding the right person that will stick with you forever. Forget anything that ever happened between you two and have a swell Christmas!
TV/MoviesRe: Best Animated TV Programmes? by opeemi1(m): 11:21am On Dec 18, 2006
iice:
@gbade.x, u seen 'the batman'? It's a new batman, not batman forever but the new batman is more anime type, the villians are stronger and the actions scenes are really gr8t.
How does it look like?
Got any pics of the new "Batman"?
When was it aired?
Christianity EtcRe: Why Christianity Is Wrong by opeemi1(m): 8:17pm On Dec 16, 2006
olabowale:
@the christians who are responding to Babs787, specifically my loving brother havila: She you dey follow the writing and the logics of the christians; "Ms Ope-emi"(I think you haven't being looking closely at the gender sign behind my name), MrPataki and even yourself? None of you have been able to address the questions posted.
I doubt if you've being following the thread. We will love to know the question that has remained unanswered.

olabowale:
Except that you begin to snake away from it, doing the rope a dope and harlem shuffle. Please answer the gentleman, and stop begging the question and do not wizzel. I know you can not. So I am just going to wait and see how weak your foundation is and for sure, it is weak. You must fall. You see, there is no Ikma in your religion. You arrogantly cling to ignorance, explaining away in lust. Is it because you are all arrogant that you do not want to prostrate your face to your Creator, that's why you are following the path that leads to perdition?
The only problem is that you didn't want to accept the answers, not that anybody is snaking around the questions as you said.

olabowale:
2 years ago, I met a grandson of the late jazz great, Miles Davies. He and his father ( Miles son) and others in their family are Muslims. He was telling us what Miles said begore he died. He said that he knew Islam is the religion of truth, but he did not want to prostrate his face. What arrogance!
Is this part of the topic alsohuh


Abdblues:
I have to give up on you guys! This kind of arguement will not get you anywhere!!!And isnt it so hypocritical of you? Using all sorts of words here while trying to prove that your own RELIGION is the right one!!!!!!
Thank you for using that word "hypocritical", main reason I am quiet disappointed at the way questions are being answered. Your contribution is very much welcomed by me.
ComputersRe: Help! My 2gb Flash Drive Is Malfunctioning by opeemi1(op): 2:00pm On Dec 16, 2006
adewaleafolabi:
it could be that the flash is not actually 2gb. where did u buy it i hope not otigba cause it sounds like u've got a fake
No, but its a Sony product. Do you think I can recover my lost documentshuh
Christianity EtcRe: Why Christianity Is Wrong by opeemi1(m): 1:26pm On Dec 16, 2006
babs787:
@ope emi,

thanks for your post.
You are very much welcomed

babs787:
well, i doubt if u have been following this thread. also i didnt open this thread, another person did.
I have being following the thread and I also know you didn't open the thread.

babs787:
now to your questions and post on sex and terrorism

firstly the reason for my post on sex is a result of what havila posted saying there was sex, father having sex with daughter and vice versa. i told him to bring the proof from the bible but he never did, so this prompted me into posting those verses on sex.
I quoted you on that because of your allegations.

babs787:
i beg you to start reading the thread from the beginning and you will understand perfectly.
I understand perfectly everything going on, thanks for your concern.

babs787:
ALSO I ASKED EARLIER THAT WHAT MORALS DO THESE TEACH?
Did you mean on your previous post or on the topic of discussionhuh

babs787:
NOw to your post on terrorism, u said all the acst were performed in the old testament. let me ask you, is OLD TESTAMENT NOT PART OF THE BIBLE? HAVE U FORGOTTEN WHAT JESUS SAID THAT HE HAS NOT COME TO ANNUL ANY LAW. SO WHY ARE U SAYING OT IS old fashioned.
Jesus said he didn't come to abolish the law but to fulfill the laws and I agree with you on that (Do you know the laws?). I am not saying the old testament is old fashioned but as being renewed by the new testament in which Jesus Christ fulfilled the commandments.

babs787:
even if i want to take you by your words, you said it is in the old testament we are having such and that brought peace, can you please explain the below verses for my understanding

U SAID HE BROUGHT PEACE BUT READ THE BELOW

1. Luke 12v49: I came to cast fire upon the earth and would that it were already kindled. Do not think I came to make peace but rather DIVISION for from henceforth in one house there will be five divided, three against two, two against three. They will be divided, father against son, son against father, mother against daughter, daughter against mother.

I NEED EXPLANATION ON THE ABOVE
On this subject he was talking about division of "the good from the bad" when rapture takes place.
N.B: He was speaking in parables.

babs787:
2. Mathew 10v34: do not think I have come to make peace on earth. I have not come to make peace but a SWORD. For I have come to set man against his father and a daughter against her mother.

NEED EXPLANATION TOO
Here, he is taking about the revelation(End Time), when the sinners would be cast to hell and the righteous to heaven. Not that he will seperate all fathers from there sons e.g. If a man as a son who is righteous and unfortunately he is not, they will be set against each other.

babs787:
3. LASTLY

Luke 19v27: for those enemies of mine who did not want me to reign over them, bring them here and SLAY THEM HERE AND SLAY THEM THERE BEFORE ME .

I NEED EXPLANATION TO THE ABOVE SAYING OF THE'PRINCE OF PEACE' PLS.
If you read it very well from the beginning, you will see that Jesus was talking about "The Parables of the Ten Minas" and the verse you quoted was part of the parable. (Please read to understand)

babs787:
ONCE AGAIN, THANK YOU FOR YOUR POST, WE R MAKING PEACE THROUGH DIALOGUE AND EXCHANGING OF IDEAS. AND NOBODY HEREON NAIRALAND IS MY ENEMY, EVERYBODY IS MY FRIEND. WE R JUST PROVING ALL THINGS AND ALLOWING THEM TO HOLD FAST TO WHICH IS TRUTH COS TRUTH HAS COME AND FALSEHOOD IS BOUND TO PERISH.

AM WAITING FOR YOUR RESPONSE OPE EMI
Conclusion: Mostly all the verses you laid down here is Jesus taking about the End Time where the pure will be seperated from the impure. He was passing it accross the people in parables.(Don't misquote the lord's word)

You are welcome. And may the truth set us all free from our iniquities.
ComputersHelp! My 2gb Flash Drive Is Malfunctioning by opeemi1(op): 4:52pm On Dec 15, 2006
I just got this flash and I formatted it following the normal procedures, later on I started cuting my files in this flash drive from my system. When I was done the flash was able to open my files, but when I tried cutting some other files on another system the flash drive started malfunctioning.

First of all, after cutting the files in the flash drive, it opened the flash but was rejecting the files in it bring out errors on them, then I ejected from the system. When I got back to my system, it wasn't opening the flash drives atall. Please, I need your assistance, I don't want to lose the files in the flash drives, it took my weeks/months to get them.

Please what can I dohuh
Christianity EtcRe: Why Christianity Is Wrong by opeemi1(m): 11:32am On Dec 14, 2006
I don't see the point in arguing about other's people religion, this only cause more violence. And in addition I am highly disappointed at the way most christians take there religion. If you are to defend your religion, you don't have to mention things concerning other religion, what is our mission, is it not to spread the word?, but look at what you are doing, you only spreading more violence. In this generation, lots of influence are making people divert away from there religion. Please, learn to live a humble life.

According to the topic, Christianity is not wrong.

@babs787

I see you really did some homework on bringing to this thread what you think was wrong.

You laid emphasis on sex and terrorism.

SEX: Wasn't it through sex you were born, how did that become a sin. Most of the sex acts you quoted in the bible were all considered sin in the bible. Please, read to understand.

TERRORISM: Everything you quoted in terrorism was from the old testament of the bible. These were the old ages where there were different tribes trying to overcome each other or prove the existence of a stronger force behind them. But since the Son of God (JESUS CHRIST) came to the world, he never thought such acts, but rather brought peace.

All of you, learn to control you anger and make peace, being a muslim or a christian doesn't mean the person is your enemy, they are humans like you, and you could be close friends at the end of the day. Make Peace!
Christianity EtcRe: A Religious Man Is Not A Free Man by opeemi1(m): 10:01pm On Nov 25, 2006
michelin89:
Didn't god say help yourself first then he shall help you?
I see you are trying to quote the scriptures, but your quote was wrong. I guess the words just came out just for you to have a little backup for your point, but I would rather advice you to get the scriptures and read it with the fullest of understanding instead of jumping into conclusions.

michelin89:
You are convinced that he is always right and not that he has prove that to you. if he has them please give me an example of his "absolute and indubitably righteousness"
If you can rewind back the clock of time, you will definite be convinced of his pure righteousness, because I don't think you have the valued time to go through the Bible.
FamilyRe: Nigerian Family Of 4 Stabbed To Death In Uk by opeemi1(m): 11:23am On Nov 21, 2006
I very much feel sad and sorry for the deceased, I mean this is life, unimaginable things happen to different individuals, I just heard on radio not quite long ago the a man killed his father while preparing to go to his uncle funeral, and this happened in Nigeria. Only God knows where we are headed.

I just hope hope the U.K. government handle this case with fair justice. I am only imagining why he killed the two kids too, if he killed the mother only, we can say he did that out of anger or fury of he and his wife's seperation, but as for the two kids and there uncle thats way off heartlessness. I just hope the Family of the deceased can go on with this disheartening loss.

May the souls of the deceased rest in peace.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Oj Simpson And His New Book by opeemi1(m): 9:51pm On Nov 18, 2006
I don't want to jump into any conclusions, but is this the time he ought to write a book about his past, atleast knowing to him it will bring about a flash back in everyone's memories who knew about the trial.

I believe this is another way of recovering the money he lost in his trial in which I heard was about 20 million USD. I for example want to know what is in the book, even the new born babies will want to know about "The Trial Of The Century"


If he is doing this to gain fame, he will recieve "A Famous Punishment" instead.
Music/RadioRe: Soundcity: A New Music (Entertainment) Channel by opeemi1(op): 8:12pm On Nov 16, 2006
I see you are a Real E.K.O. girl, Soundcity is indeed cool.

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