Nice14, pls dont do this.
You can be very happy again.i am married almost the same yrs as you. Had some bad times, girl I never thot my hubby and I could love each other again. After a very resentful period.
If you could share your pains people ll help you. You can love him again
That I promise you by God's grace.

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My stomach should be included in the item7...!
Goodnews! I'm happy 4u.... Wish u success...
Soon u'll be welcomed into world of motherhood.[/q

Hello lyndaroyce it's been awhile, hpe you re gud

Imurboss, madam thanks jare.how is Lo?
Nice14,hey hey I don come back ooph.
I am a pushing mama again
Julicoka,its well with you.kpele.

Mamateniola, it's well with you. God ll not disappoint you. Very soon you too ll smile and carry to term in Jesus name.

Hello other mamas, I don't know your name yet. But I salute you all

aghaibiam:
Hello mothers.i had a medical evacuation on 22nd feb but 'm yet to see my period.is that normal?'M so worried.

Don't be worried dear sorry abt your loss.
God ll compensate you with great children.
Your system will normalised between 6weeks and 12 weeks. The womb is most fertile after a miscarriage,DC, or any kind of evacuation.
Just eat healthy and be expectant.
Then be actively involve in Kpekushing.

Dhabeautyjas, chifreke, gra8fulheart, thanks for welcoming me.
All the new mamas naw wah ooh
Una just fashi my post #sad face#
LovinaM, me just dey do second phase. I know say you don hang boot,hang bed even hang *laughing*
Kpekushing master, naw una advice land me here naw oooh.

To every mama in this beautiful thread, i hail oooh.
Where are the old mamas, reading thru this thread makes me feel like a stranger.all I se are new mamas, pls old mamas show face small naw
Congrats to everyone who has put to birth especially sayoberry,iya beji of life.
Chifreke, dhabeautyjas, fino,tobiegal,beevann,lyndaroyce, lovinaM, twinmama,kai my brain no remember again
Mamaabike and all the new mamas.
I love you.
I ve officially joined this thread again.
But I don't know how far I am gone. Didn't see my period when breastfeeding. So couldn't tell when I took in.
Starting ANC soonest.
Just want to holla you guys.
Pls keep safe during this election period.
May God deliver us from election violence.

Hello everyone, complement of the seasons to all the new arrivals.our latest joy and all the women. May God keep them all. To the preggy mamas do carry to term in Jesus Name. Pls where are all the old bees?
Miss you all.
Kisses and hugs to you all

Hello mamas, how are you all. Sorry for missing in action. I ve started working so my schedule is tight.
I miss you all, dhabeautyjas, mamaabike, mamatwins, chifreke,donatee,preshila,imurboss,sayoberry,beevann don,lyndaroyce,prishila, ehiblessing, and all the newbies. How are you doing?
Congrats to everyone who put to bed may God watch over them.

Hoynlolar,i am going to be rude and blunt.so pls no vex

First, you remaind me of mysef kind off. Sharp tongue,always has an answer to every question, quick tempered and a look of perfection. You feel you know it all.
This was my perfect description until I worked on mysef.

Hubby didn't change towards you, you didn't show this aspect of yours when you were dating so he couldn't have been possible to hit you then.

Secondly,the way you reply to every typed msg shows how you react to every word he says to you. If you can reply the pple you don't see, how much more you ll reply your hubby that sleeps on the bed with you.eat, does every together. You must learn the act of keeping quiet. Especially when the urge to speak is heavy.

Thirdly,you ve this air of perfection around you that was why you never told us your own shortcomings. Until you begin to see your own fault you may not change.

The pressure of taking care of a baby and a grown man is weighing you down.this too makes you angry.you need to calm down and relax.

You need to stop reporting him to your parents or his you wounded his pride.
Tarnished his image in front of your family, your hubby is angry cos you couldn't protect his bad altitude.

You need to work on yourself he married you cos he loved you then
Something has definitely happened
WHAT HAPPENED?
Ask your sef
Get a jotter,look downward.inside your conscience. Search it verywell.
Tell yourself the bitter truth.
Then write your findings
Most importantly tell God to break you down to be totally submissive.
Any successful marriage has a "mumu" wife who submit to one aspect or another.

Pls no vex oooh

nwababy: Amen to all your prayers. @ B I cannot write in details what we went through but he's worth waiting for though he's not perfect. Well, my fiance had to listen to his people though I didn't understand at first. Their reason was for him to save up and all that. Not that we wanted to rush and do everything at the same oh. Every members of his family had to agree with the elder except him. He had to take excuse @ work and travelled to go and talk with them again; when he came back, he told me that he doesn't want to have issue with his people or his people using because of our getting married to have issue. Infact, it wasn't easy cos I made sure (unintentionally oh) and remind him that I wouldn't wait for him forever. He sat me down and told me that if am willing to take the after math of our getting married against their family that he will do it. But, I don't want my own to be different. I don't want to wait all this while and cause problems between siblings. I had to wait since Dec is almost here. He said he's waiting for my mum to come back from Omugo to start reminding his people. So far, he hasn't disappointed me in any way. Just as the brothers said that him alone cannot marry me. 2ndly, I have a friend that's a banker that's going through same but in a different way. She's earning more than the fiance and they agreed to get married without knowing the guy's people are not in support. Reason the guy is the last born and has three elder ones (including 2girls) non of them are married.the guy went with his friends for my friends Introduction but her father told him to come with his people. The fiance told my friend that they will do her introduction and pay her dowry and she agreed thinking is a way of saving money. He cancelled the date of the Introduction giving reasons about his church saying they will have to start marriage course before anything. Their R/ship is a long distant one. So, she travelled to pay the guy a visit(he's still staying in his family house) and the fiance's mother sat her down and told her that they told him to wait for some time but he went behind them to do everything. The guy is soo desperate and wants to rush everything. Now, my friend is thinking probably the guy wants her money.(My friend is not willing to pay for her wedding Lol) she's very angry with the guy for not telling her the truth. She was like how she wish she will meet another man just that there's no time. Meanwhile she's going to 30years this year.

Hmmmm, in my few years of marriage I have come to know that family is an integral part of a new home. They can end a marriage quickly and they can advance it.
Pls tell your friend not to go ahead with that wedding except she has the consent of her family and his family.
Marriage is not relationship ooh,and this man that is busy siding you today may change towards you and began to tell you how you forced him into the "unwanted union"
Aside that ,there was this life experience that happened to a family friend when I was in secondary school. The man is yoruba and the lady delta igbo. The guy's family were not in support of the union. The couple were able to convince the guy's family and theeE union took place. The guy was working in the bank and was growing steadingly. The family that sponsored the guy thru school began to demand for payback, like supporting the family financially, sending the younger ones to school.
The guy was trying but the family wasn't satisfied. Hmmmm, they eventually killed the guy. If the woman wouldn't allow them to enjoy their son,it was best they wasted him.
The guy died from unknown sickness. The lady was left with a baby girl and a few months pregnancy.
The lady was still blamed for his death and meant to suffer immensely.
She would ve cried several times and would ve wished she hadn't married that guy.marriage is a complex union. Don't treat it with kids gloves.
Seek everybody's consent, blessings, agreement,prayers. And if you don't get it?
WALK AWAY.trust me,you don't want to fight some battles.

I ve been reading since yesterday and I ve been blessed. Thank you Op for
Starting this thread and all the contributors.may God bless our homes and
Keep the flame of love ablaze in our homes.
Peace

Orpeyeame, you peel the beans when you want to make for babies just like u want to make moi moi. And cook the white part with crayfish or Titus.

mytestimony: I went for check up. Doctor said its heart burn. Na wa o. For my life I never get that kind heartburn. The pain is excruciating. Did a scan. My baby is fine. Thank God. Doctor said to take milk.

Thank God baby is fine.maybe you ate late or ate heavy. Whenever wherever however whoever whatever time you experience it again,take a glass of full cream milk according to doctor.milk is the brother of heartburn.

My pple how una dey jollificate on this soft afternoon?una well done ooh

@chocomilo Amen to your declaration.
@rukemi. I am fine ooh,lo is a bigz girlz now ooh.how is ur oga at the top? Breastfeeding till one year.hmmmm no let those ur London Bridge fall finish ooh.lol
@smokeydrinky, thanks dear. Kisses to Lo. Guess she is growing beautifully.
@sayoberry,ur preggy don Waka ooh.now now you don dey go third trimester. Do carry to term in Jesus Name. Twin boys for you, I claim it for mysef too in Jesus Name.
All belleful mamas I hail ooh.

@favouredgal, OK that point is noted.
How is your Lo. Kiss and hugs.

Good morning mamas,how was your weekend?
Thanks to everyone that answers our questions and attends to our worries. God bless you all.
However, I will like to point out some issues that I have noticed with some mothers.
Pls mothers, when God decided to give us these kids he entrusted their lives,wellbeing,upkeep in totality to us(parents).
Coming short of these responsibility,is failure on our part. And God is going to hold us responsible.

1)As a mother/parent take extra precautions in whatever you feed your babies.you must first taste whatever you are giving to that child either medication, food or drink.

2)pls read instructions very well, either on their toys, food or medication.read and understand before administering.

3)sample opinions of other mothers before taking a decision.it ll guide you in making right choices.

4)Dont feed your baby concoction or adult food that their system cannot digest.only give recommended food according to months or age.don't mix cereal and puree.
* Eg pap and cerelac,goldenmore and custard.
*Peak123 are for children between 12months and 3years old.

5)consult a paediatrician/doctor for proper medication.

Hello temismith,darling how is my baby? Naw world cup carry me goo.i was in Brazil supporting Germany. Lol.
@chifreke, have you seen a yoruba teacher.how is baby.
@iyaibeji, you don't need more than one ooh. Except recommended by a doctor.how are the ibeji's? Carry to term in Jesus Name.
@smokeydrinky I hail ooh
Where rukemi now?
Happy Sunday mamas

Hello mamas,
Congrats to nkemella and other mamas that put to birth.may God watch over them
Lyndaroyce. ,u don wonjour me with laughter. My bossom are looking on to God not down to earth oooh
No play rough ooh,its either you pay the bride price in full or...... u know the rest.lol
Beevan mama how are the boys. Thanks
Dhabeautyjas how is jasmine doing.
Chifreke, ekutoju omo tuntun.

Madam stop drinking green tea,you wan colour the baby green? Lol
Bestie,ask Beevan for wassap group.
MariaGorrrti, ask a doctor. Don't know anything abt it.
A-Z mamas una well done

I am a dealer and I buy from uk,you can contact me. But I ve female stuffs.
Thanks

Hey I don miss una plenty for this preggy thread.alot of newbies. Plenty pple don born ooh. Congrats to chifreke, chiangel and the other mamas. New preggy mum's carry to term in Jesus Name. All the sabi sabi mamas wey una dey hide? That wassap group has really don a lot of harm to this thread but thanks to lovinaM and other mamas keeping the house alive.guess I ll visit more now that pple are coming back. Where is beckytunde, dhabeautyjas, Rukemi, Beevan don(area) mamaabike, twinmama and A-z mamas?
Darisgodooh in this missing in action.lol. Rinda Sorry lyndaroyce I sight you.
Good morning everyone.

God,please bless bill gate and his wife for their support towards a better health care and every other person who contribute to free vaccination all over the world .
Teach our African leaders the importance of "a good name is better than silver or gold".

Good development from GSK, no wonder this companies live beyond their founders.

What is happening here? Happy muslim celebration to rukemi,mamaabike,dhabeautyjas and other Muslims in the house. Enjoy ur holiday

Hello house.
Thank u twinmama for asking of me.
Opeolukoya2, thank God for the Grace, may God bless your effort and keep your son from evil.
Congrats oritse,hugs to baby. One natural method to tackle air in newborn is to hot water and a towel to massage the tommy especially the navel area. U need an experienced elderly woman for this method so don't do it if you are alone.
Then make sure u rub baby's back after every feeding so as to belch(burp ).
This house dry ooh.wetin happen?

Happy belated birthday to dhabeautyjas (guess I am right)
Congrats skimpychick may God watch over her.
A-Z mamas una do oooh

Hello mamas,
Thanks Rukemi. How is everyone doing?
Beedam,you are welcome do carry to term.
Pls where is opeolukoya2, hope u and baby are good
Kisses to our Lo

Amen to all the prayers
Thank you tchwinne,dahbeautyjas and chifreke,
The issue of seductive dance steps amongst kids is sad, and the parents will be cheering the kids like it's a competition for "naw my pikin dance pass" well, God ll guild us in teaching our kids in the rite way.

I ll teach my kids how to enjoy life in a goodway,especially channelling their energy into something productive. That way some of their excesses will be curtailed

Goodnight chifreke, luv u mamas. I am super dupper excited my little girl is 6months today. Just like yesterday when the doctors said if I don't deliver by 8pm,i ll be prepared for CS. And 15minutes later, she poped out by herself. I am excited.
Cant sleep self. Watching her gives me a certain satisfaction. God's name be praised.
Gud nite all.

Beevan you too much. Chifreke, Beevan din answer you.