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Hello house, this original Base London corporate pair of shoe is for sale for just 10k. Solid Italian leather work with the baddest sole i have come across. Was sent to me together with other items from London but won't size me as i wear 41/42. Size is 40, bought around 108€ approximately 40k naira. Just 10k to a lucky buyer that wears size 40. 09030712412 whatsapp/call. Thanks

Lets do it. Plan the thing as soon as more people show interest coz December is already here. No time.

PreciousRahl:
Samsung Galaxy S4 (GT-19500)

Has cracks but works perfectly. 2GB RAM and 32GB ROM.

Price: 15k negotiable

Location : Warri, Delta State

Drop ur contact or add me on WhatsApp with 09030712412. Let's talk business.

deyink1:
I have two dead s4 but I stay in Ibadan

Do you have an S4 screen for sale? Quote me if you do. Thanks.

valenti12:
I have, my almost perfectly working samsung s4(i9500). I don tire to change battery every 3-4 month and i just changed the charging port. The screen which you should be interested in is dope

Chat me up on 09030712412 bro, let's talk business. You can also drop ur number if you'll prefer that. Thanks

Samsung S4 screen needed. Quote me if you have. Thanks.

lobul:
I served at Ilorin, Erin ile precisely and I stay in a room apartment standard room with separate kitchen
#10k annually

My Hometown . Not Ilorin, just one of the towns in Kwara state and very cheap town at that.

Op is legit. Just made my gotv sub through him. Cheapest in town. Thanks oga A.Y

soberdrunk:
Now they can grow up and slay.....

AND IS IT UR SLAY?! BAD BELLE! BE HAPPY FOR SOME PEOPLE'S PROGRESS FOR ONCE IN YA LIFE.

IamLEGEND1:
All I see is forehead. Forehead everywhere.

This boy yaf finish the foregirl. Sorry, girl.

Offpoint:
Thanks to Glo, my neighbors no longer disturb for Wi-Fi again. last time I shared with one I heard him breaking things in his room out of frustration and I narrowly escaped being beaten for sharing my Wi-Fi with Glo line.

Glo The Grand Baste.rd of Data.

HIGHESTPOPORI:
Why don't u just marry her since you are comfortable.

I plan doing that soon. I just have to put some things in place to have a good home and i will give it a go. Thanks bro

upuphim:
A pastor's son, keeping girlfriend. May be this is the reason you never mentioned what the Holy Spirit told you about the this matter. With this lifestyle, you know that you are not qualified to join him at running the church if your are to obey him. Secondly, your father seems not be a sound Christian as no such sound pastor will threaten his son with curses to scatter his (son's) future. We can't bless and curse with the same mouth James 3:10. The earlier you repent and face serving God in all honesty and then break loose from the clutches of your father, the better.

However, if you are a sound Christian, then your father is not your God. You have not be called into full time ministry, yet. If you decides to obey him because of fear, you will still meet serious frustration from your father that you're trying to avoid. Think wisely!

Thanks for the advice bro. But does keeping a girlfriend makes me less a Christian?? This is my second girlfriend ever and i dont womanize. You sounded just like my father there. Thanks all the same.

embee3:
I sincerely sympathize with you on your predicament. I understand exactly what you are going through, sometimes parents do put their children in such precarious positions.

Sometimes I wonder what most parents really want from their children. While some can't wait to shove their grown up children away into the society, some wouldn't just let them go. Hmmmm. . . Different strokes for different people.

My problem is; if he didn't want you to be your own man, why then did he bother sending you to school? That being said, he is still your father and God honours his decision concerning you. The role of a father in every man's life can not be over emphasised.

I suggest you go and see him. Honour God's word in the book of Ephesians 6. Try to persuade him to let you make your mistakes and grow as a man.

I pray it works in your favour. GOOD LUCK.

Amen. I will go talk to him this weekend. Thank you bro.

PrecisionFx:
Just take ur father to a Psychiatric hospital.

REALLY?? . Thanks anyways.

jaxxy:
Sm pastor parents are funny they go arrnd commanding their adult children to do their bidding not realizing they hv their lives to live and hv to agree on issues at hand. If u ready to be a man then live u life and move ahead. Ur pastor father isnt God and in this case hes clearly wrong anyway. He has to let u live ur own life wen ure ready and support u the best he can or is he grooming unto take over him as pastor? My concern is I just hope ure responsible.

jaxxy:
Sm pastor parents are funny they go arrnd commanding their adult children to do their bidding not realizing they hv their lives to live and hv to agree on issues at hand. If u ready to be a man then live u life and move ahead. Ur pastor father isnt God and in this case hes clearly wrong anyway. He has to let u live ur own life wen ure ready and support u the best he can or is he grooming unto take over him as pastor? My concern is I just hope ure responsible.

I don't know your definition of "being responsible" but I pay my rent of 90k. A leader in about 3 youth units. Take care of my girl. Visit my parents every weekend (the weekends i decide not to go, they believe my girl is around and stopping me from coming calling the girl all sort of names), I buy home some things for them wen I have d money. Now that I have started something, I plan to give them something on a monthly basis. I am not wayward and I don't keep friends. I have just 2 friends in total and they are known at home. I have plans of setting myself up on a business in about a year while I continue with my job ( I have sex with my girl occasionally wen she comes to visit. I believe that doesn't make me irresponsible). I hope I am responsible enough.

RALPHOW:
My first question is what type of church? Spiritual, Pentecostal or Orthodox.
2. Are you sleeping with your girlfriend in the house?

1. Pentecostal

2. Well, I can't possibly sleep with her outside the house. If what you are trying to know is if I have had sex with my gf. Yes I have.

toyetade:
Are you actually serious ? or just a satire ?

No, he is not.

Maradonna:
Some 5 years ago, I was in your shoes though mine was with my mum. She threatened fire and brimstone but I stood my ground. Now am married with kids.

My advise
Dont give in to the emotional blackmail. He is only scared of losing his control over you. Try to talk to him like a man. If he doesnt bulge, plead with your uncles or anyone that your dad respects to speak with him on your behalf.

Then pray. If you dont manage this well, it may damage your relationship with them (popsie and mumsie) for a long time.

No matter what you do, DONT MOVE BACK

You are a full grown man that should be able to make decisions for him.

Remember, DECISIONS DETERMINES DESTINY.

Thanks for that advice sir. And thanks for sharing your experience. It was encouraging.

eyinjuege:
The curse causeless shall not come... Prov 26:2
Any father that curses his child for whatever reason shouldn't be accorded the respect as one.
Don't give in to any form of blackmail.

Thanks boss

onyichick:
if you'll love to tk over the church from your dad in future then move back home but if you don't have any interest in the church I'll say stay put where you are and don't move home.

No I don't. Never seen myself as a pastor.

Ishilove:
What kind of father will pray for his son to be sacked? He stands on the altar every Sunday to pray people but wants to curse his own son because the boy has chosen his own path in life.

Op, stand your ground and use prayer to counter prayer. God is not a confusionist and He will set things straight

Yes Boss. Thank you big time

Gluhbirne:
Don't you dare do it! Move back home at 30, especially when you're doing okay for yourself? Don't do it. I command you to stay where you are!

Okay ma. Thank you so much for this

haywire07:
Bros, I blame u

That's what happens when you allow your parents make all decisions for you wen you were younger . Ur dad still feels he still has that right.

I'm not asking children of nowadays to be rude , but when you can't find justifications for some actions, u have the right to question your parents .

Hmmm.....

fernandoc:
what an elder sees sitting down.... you know the rest. Maybe your father has seen that with your input in his church it will grow to the likes of Rccg and Winners and you being his son will inherit it and have a secure future. The path with the least resistance is not always the surest path.

But I can still help with the church without moving back home. I go to his church every Saturday and come back to school on sundays since my 100 level days. My tfare to and fro the church is 1000 naira. I still go every Sunday.

haywire07:
Bros, I blame u

How big boss?

efighter:
Your father threatened to see that you are sacked and pray your girlfriend jilt you? I respect elders, so I will say nothing.

Baffles me a lot and makes me wanna cry. What on earth can a son do to his father to warrant such moves.

NnamdiN:
Stand your ground Sir.

What is your mother saying or doing about the relocation order?

She is in support of my Dad. Has always been. Its giving me headache but my spirit, body and soul does not move back home. I am only scared of my father's threats of cursing my relationship and working towards my sack.

Hi everyone. Happy Sunday. I am a guy of 30 years of age who graduated with BA Degree last year. I couldn't go for youth service because of my age. So I decided to get myself an apartment and started hustling and hunting for job. I recently got a job which promise a great future even though the pay at the moment is not much. I also have a girlfriend who school in one of the federal polytechnics. My father is a Pastor, pastoring a small church in the same state I live.

Now the issue at hand is that my father wants me to leave my apartment and move back home (until probably when I am ripe for marriage I guess). He has been on this for quite sometime of which I told him I can't move back home with them at my age and moreover, its a rented apartment (My parents never build house).

Today, he dropped a bomb. He commanded me to pack all my things and move back home to come and help him with d church within 7 days else, he will see to it that I am sacked from my new work in one way or the other and also threaten to pray to God to make my girlfriend jilt me (coz she is one of d reasons why I don't want to move back home according to him).

I don't want to move back home at my age. I always pray against it as I see such act as pointing to a backward step in my life. I have managed to setup my apartment to taste and also aiming to marry my present girlfriend.

Do I yield to my father's "come back home" instruction or do I stand on my decision not to? PLEASE ADVISE.

MrBrownJay1:
You cant

Really?!