How much is, delivery to Abuja?

They should be rehabilitated asap.

echomanji:
Can a secondarian get a job in Abuja that covers Accomodation? Pls help a brother....

What do you mean by a secondarian?

See format

There is nothing wrong there. Let him remarry if it will make him happy.

Companionship is important.

Talking from experience

And Lai Lai Mohd said the security of the nation have improved greatly.

May God help us

torqque7:


I can assure you that she got caught cheating that's why she got booted out..I have no sympathy for cheating wives..when she was with her husband she cheated and now that she is single she wants to be forming celibacy and fear of God

I pray for you. May you be falsely accused, rejected and denied your rights as a human just as you have falsely accused me of what I never did.

May the earth fight you and may the ground you walk on reject you, amen!

Baba40:


I think she left the husband instead the way she left was on a bitter note... Her pride wont let her go back to beg, yet, the olosho is shouting God

You are the Olosho.

I blame the moderator who pushed this post to the front page.
I preferred it in the section it was and the responses were very mature.

Now the whole post have been bastardized by silly, untrue and irrelevant comments.

Anyway I stopped reading when it was 3 pages.

I won't read further again.

Buskynwa:


its a made up story lmao

Made up?

It's not.

Kobojunkie:
Please try not to muddle this up as it is easy to. According to Jesus Christ, God's very own Law given to those of us who wish to eventually make it into God's Heaven, you sin the moment you lust in your heart after a one you are not married to - Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28. That is the point when one is said to become a sinner against God, not when one engages in any of the physical acts.

Okay I get you. So if I long for sex with my ex husband, that shouldn't be a sin then.

So let me ask you. Is selfplay/selflove/masturbation a sin?

The body desiring what it needs naturally just like we eat.

Not fantasies towards anyone in particular.

Kobojunkie:
If God is really who you claim to want to please by your choice, then you want to make sure you have the right information to help you on your path. According to Jesus Christ, the one who is God's New Covenant and Law in the Kingdom of God, what is sin is not what you refer to as sexual immorality- fornication, masturbation, homosexuality etc. - instead sin is the lust in your heart towards another - Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28 - those fantasies and longings for sex are what constitute sin in the Kingdom of God.

So while you claim you have not physically engaged in what is sexually immoral activities in the 18 months period, that all means nothing when you consider that the sin is that committed in your mind/heart and not the physical activity itself.

So the thought of sex coming through my mind has already made me a sinner?

jackcanfield:
If your divorce is not finalized go and date your husband again. If it happens fine, you wouldn't feel guilty.

This option is definitely not in the picture at all.

He said I am free to remarry if I want but we aren't divorced and also remarrying isn't a day's affair nor a joke.

thorpido:
Why not try to marry again?

Keep doing what you have been doing all these months.Just keep the faith.

Definitely but divorce isn't finalized.

I'm trying hard to live a life free from sin and sexual immorality and I am doing pretty well but of recent, my hormones/body have been raging and I am finding it difficult to cope.

It's 18months I have been separated and there is no getting back together.

Were you ever in my situation, how did you overcome without involving in sex/masturbation?

I just need some words of encouragement.

Its really not easy and it has become some sort of distraction.

The reason I do not want to have a male friend is because of my fear for God.

redstaarx:


You never talk wetin you do madam
What led to such situation

Oga if you know the cause, e no go change anything nah.

Graceobey:
Pray to God again

Okay. Thanks

gambia:
Another story to gain traffic, you gerrit.

Will the traffic convert to cash for me?


If it does for you, please pray tell how.

godumes:
[This simply shows the type of person you are! Your family members are not aware, you ran on the internet to make show of it.

My sister, the day you stop paying much attention on the internet, that's when you'il be fine. I can see you're addicted to the internet. Am being blunt because divorce is never a good omen.quote author=Optimistic4life post=109178130]Year 2021 February to be precise, my husband served me a divorce notice. Though I saw it coming as we have been separated for some months.
The case is still in court though.

We are blessed with 3 kids under 10.

Soon the divorce will be finalized and we will both move on.

How easy is it adjusting to a new life as a divorced lady?

I just want to let it out as I have never discussed this with anyone. Just my immediate family members knows about it.

What is life like out there for me?

The shame, mockery, coping with kids alone, moving on etc

Oga calm down and read the post again... Gently.

OmegaAutos:


How will she shine her congo?

Life is not all about shining Congo you know.


Some of us are pretty decent.

dannywest:
None of those things you mentioned matters.

All that matters is your peace and mental health.

I'm meant to have filed for mine a year now but just been stalling.

Been separated over 2 years and totally over it now.

If there is a chance that it can work again between you both, please try.

Please.

DWJOBScom:


You need Jesus in all things.

In strength , comfort , love etc

It is even in your weakness that you gain the best experience.

I don't know her but i can pray in Jesus Name and she will carry on and achieve what human wisdom cannot give

Jesus is everything and wants to be your all

OH yes!

Jesus is everything.

nosa2:


Your Kpekus is about to get a whole lot of firing

This is the only reasonable thing your brain could come up with after reading my post?

It is well with you, Nosa

Saintinoo:

The day you women will understand that there is only one captain in a ship, that is the day divorce will stop. kindly leave with it.

Yes sir

lomprico:


3 more emotional imbalance young adults will be released in the next decade.

Divorce is not good for young kids.

Not my kids.

They are going to be emotionally balanced and we'll raised

IamANigerianMan:

Op, what she needs is Jesus, people that divorce have a very stupid reason. No marriage is perfect on earth including my own but we continue to learn everyday, before, I would never tell my wife sorry but today I have learnt to say sorry immediately I am wrong.. I know a couple that divorce because the man did not give her what you people call head, ego , pride are all reason for divorce, that is why she needs Jesus.

I have Jesus... Plenty of him.

Your fellow man is the one who needs all of Jesus, the angels and the holy ghost as pride is among the issues...

Kokoebapluse:
You don't tell why your husband want you guys divorce. But whatever it may be my sister leave pride aside beg your husband and ask his family to beg him.

Outside is not funny. Be a single mum is not easy. Don't follow advice from some women here, women are the enemy of women. Women don't like each other they will want you to be like them in regret. Tell me how many man ready to accept you with 3kids? Madam beg your husband and be more hard working later you won't get time to fight your husband.

Who told you I am fighting him?

Guy, you just concluded the whole matter and even passed sentence on top.

Weldone ooo

DeepSight:


Perish the thought of these irrelevancies and focus on your happiness.
There is no shame in being divorced.

Thanks.

Trustedpronet:


Marry a divorcee with 3kids...who wan pay their school fees. E no easy o.

Abeg calm down

Quality20:
just go out there and get a man far better than him to marry

At the right time.

anonymous1759:



Abegi make una stop this nonsense “psychological effect“ It’s better to be fatherless than to have a useless father it’s vice versa .

Kids with both mum and sad still end up useless. Kids from a single parent still do well.
The most important is to have either a good father or mother the kids will be good.

My advice to the lady . Don’t remarry for now. If you don’t want your children to suffer.
You can remarry when they’re grown and can fend themselves.
There’s a reason God gave us 2 kidneys but only one is functioning. Madam OP you can do it alone .

Marriage is spoon beautiful if your partner is on same mission as you (family wise) .

Later on, if God mercy finds me, I will definitely tow that line again.

Love dey sweet ooo

anonymous1759:



Abegi make una stop this nonsense “psychological effect“ It’s better to be fatherless than to have a useless father it’s vice versa .

Kids with both mum and sad still end up useless. Kids from a single parent still do well.
The most important is to have either a good father or mother the kids will be good.

My advice to the lady . Don’t remarry for now. If you don’t want your children to suffer.
You can remarry when they’re grown and can fend themselves.
There’s a reason God gave us 2 kidneys but only one is functioning. Madam OP you can do it alone .

Thanks

OZAOEKPE:
Advise you do UK and go with your kids if you have the funds

Abi?

Thanks