jksxxxx:
Now we have 5g see how time flies

chai! u go wake dis thread wey dey sleep in peace.

Jeffmonti:
About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help!

This might turn out to be a lengthy read, please bear with me. The bashing and insults will be unnecessary as i have already told myself hurtful things a thousand times over.

So i am 29 and have a girlfriend who’s 25 we are both graduates; she’s a nurse and i am a practicing engineer and we’ve been dating for 3+ years now and preparations are underway to tie the knot this year God willing. Something happened last year, she suggested i move to a bigger apartment so that we can start buying household items and everything necessary to start a home as we are looking to get married soon which we did; i got a bigger place, met her parents she met mine. In a nutshell everything seems to be going well, we even started a business together and set to take on the future together before the devil struck (i take blames for my actions as i am not overly religious)

Around June last year, i met a girl (very fine girl) in the new area i moved to, although i have been seeing the girl around but one day as i was driving in i saw her hiding somewhere close to my compound avoiding the rain with her friends so i took them in until the rain subsided we exchanged contacts and started texting on WhatsApp a few days later. And soon after we started having sex (protected sex), prior to that time i never cheated on my girlfriend.

The sex continued, up to 2 times a week sometimes 3 as it was relatively easy as she lived very close and my girlfriend only visits on the weekend and never sleeps out (she’s from a very good and wealthy family with proper moral upbringing). Most evenings when return from work conji just do me one kind i don cross street other times she calls until we became comfortable having unprotected sex

So late October 2019, the new girl (I’ll call her Lola) texted me that’s she’s not feeling too well and i asked her to visit the hospital to run a test to know what to treat. She came back with a pregnancy test result proving she’s already 3 weeks pregnant, i was sure it was mine but i didn’t panic as she had a bf and i have my gf we were just for the sex at least that’s what we told each other.

So i asked her to remove the pregnancy, but got the shocker when she said she’s never going to remove the pregnancy that she’s 27 and have no desire to marry me or stay with me but she’s going to have the child. Omo my heart flipped. I begged her for like 3 weeks until she got mad and stopped taking my calls, she even moved away from her apartment. So i texted her and arranged a meeting, we sat down and discussed at length but she was still bent on keeping it, i got furious and told her i am not ready to be part of the child’s life if she’s going through with it as i see no reason why she wants to have my child when she knows we are NEVER going to be together, that was when she said she had already told her family that i am not interested in the child and they support her to keep it and let the child bear their family name. I discussed the matter with two friends a boy and a girl and the asked me to let her have the child first.

One month passed fast forward to early December, Lola called 6 times i was so shocked. I couldn’t take her calls. She texted that she’s ready to terminate the pregnancy since i am wicked and unconcerned she rained all manner of derogatory words but i was only concern with her decision to let go. I called and we agreed to meet the following day, I skipped work that day and met with her and her elder sister and elder sister’s friend. The sister and her friend were so mean but i was unmoved; i don already fuckup and ready to take anything to let it all go away because the knowledge of things will destroy my girlfriend.

So Lola entered my vehicle and we drove out, on our way to the hospital for her to terminate the pregnancy plus treatment she’ll take afterwards and for the damages i have caused her. She’s going to need 150k from me, i was furious and told her i don’t have that kind of money talk less of handing it over to her for something like this (i sure don’t know what i cost but i know it’s not up to 50k). She said if i don’t give her what she want she’s going to have the baby and that i should be thankful that she’s coming up with this that if she had listen to her friends advices she would have moved to my house with all sort of troubles (she was right) but i didn’t give in just yet. I dropped her off and ask her to have the child that am not going to give her the money as i don’t have it (I get the money sha).

So two days passed, she called again and after many arguments we agreed at 100k, made her to sign a NDA not to bother me again and all, I transferred her the 100k that night, she confirmed receipt and promised to go with it the following morning and that was the last I have heard or seen or her since then, until 3 weeks ago when another of her sister called from Canada and was asking if i am Me, that she’s been seeking my contact for a while now that Lola friend had to steal the number Lola’s phone and pass it to her as Lola has been hiding my phone number from the rest of the family and she doesn’t know the arrangement i have had with her but i should know that she’s having the child, she just thought i should know that i have a child somewhere when the baby eventually drops.

Knowing fully well that i am a shitty person to have done something terrible to myself and my girlfriend and all our future plans because of cheap sex, but I’ll be a more terribly bad person to have knowledge of a child somewhere and not be in his/her life. I called Lola but she didn’t take i texted her about her sisters call she called back to know who called and was furious, she ended the call (I guess to call her sister back) and called back again in about 20mins and asked me not to ever call her line again. I replied her text she should tell her family not call me as well. I have dodged to her apartment building a coupe times but she’s not been around for weeks as i was made to believe.

So i bought a ring to engage my girl few weeks ago but had to hold first to see how things play out, i can’t go ahead and marry my girlfriend with this kind of secret untold; that will be wickedness from the pit of hell and i still don’t know how to break it to her, it will destroy her.

I jokingly painted a similar scenery to my girlfriend; her response was: she will not marry me because if she does she will kill me in my sleep. That everybody is expecting us to get married this year, she now have high respect from her family because of me and this kind of thing happens both of us will die. Omo fear catch me.

Fellow Nairalanders, this is my predicament please advice a stupid brother. Insults are welcome as I hope to pick a thing or two from your comments. MODs please push this up biko.

forward this story to a popular Nigerian actress, you have nice story.

even in shoprite ilorin

that's the trending couple of the moment.
if I should say where this couple is from, people will say I don't like ilorin people.

IamCookie:


You may be wrong, Gina2019. Sometimes , flexibility does it! It's a good thing she's not a liability and she also acknowledged LOVE between them. You dated for 6months ,cuddling and kissing sometimes, due to your own personal reasons. What about his own personal reasons? He was so reasonable as to allow u get along for good 6months and decided to give his own personal reason a thought , and then u became furious. You are selfish , Lyydia.

One would have thought your reason could be Virginity issue but Nope. Everyone wants emotional security..I only imagine the thoughts running through the guys mind to make him make the move again.

Well, I gave it to my guy very well ...and now he is my MAN. Your decision is your decision, though.

some ladies still believe ( no sex ) is a tool to measure a serious relationship, I pity dem.

Nice contribution.

IneedSugarMumy1:
Please this is my infinix s3 I forgot the turn on password
I travelled and left it at home now I'm back I can't remember the password
How can I format the phone

olosho don wipe your memory

so, where is the money the bread turned to? na how much?

Kolahim:
Any seller with clean umidigi power, lagos to be precise.

mizik is your man

SageTravels:
Pls, help my phone charges only when the phone is off. How can i fix it?

Don't tell me it's tecno

SaintsSamurai:
I don't normally do this, infact i cannot remember the last time i did this online but seeing your picture, i must confess you are beautiful.

No make up, no eyelash, no lipstick, not even powder and yet you look flourishing.

I can see you are still young probably 19 or 20, so listen to me dear.
Do not allow any guy to destroy your life for you with money or lies. Be focus on your education and craft.

Listen dear your prince charming is waiting for you and you will have all you have ever dreamt of if you follow my advice.

Please i beg you, don't follow the crowd, be deligent, humble, respectful , hardworking and prayerful and thank me later in years time.

If you really know me you will know this advice is coming from the bottom of my heart.

Without mixing words, you are the most beautiful lady I've seen in nairaland since 2019.

Keep being natural, you will go far.

won tun de..

you're stylishly toasting her... hahhaahhahahaa

Geminiman:
Good morning,

I have a girlfriend and we've been together for almost 3 years. I do the little I can to support her every now and then but the issue has in most instances always been the Physical aspect of the relationship.

Having sex is a far cry from the present situation. Sometimes after making out, she would tell me she feels guilty. If we making out, she'd tell me don't touch this, don't touch that. Sometimes during the making out sessions, when we are close to having sex she'd just turn her back to me, I'd ask if there's a problem, she would tell me there isn't. Many times she would tell me we have to stop the making out thing and all. In most instances, I suck it up.

You see the whole thing is pathetic. Pathetic in the sense that I have a girlfriend and still jack off. Although having a GF and jacking off are two mutually exclusive things, the former ought to reduce or even stop the former.

Some weeks ago we had a misunderstanding and she sent me a text message containing several things, but the most striking was "... can't you do something without always expecting something in return".

I was bewildered. To begin with it was her pouring salt on the already festering injury. Secondly, I can't particularly say we have done anything sexual per say. It was really humiliating for me.

These days, I don't even think about her in a sexual manner, in short I don't even get an erection because of her. And I told her this morning I want us to stop the making out and all.

I am not cheating on her or intending to, I jack off, it suffices. All in a bid to maintain sanity. I don't just want to get humiliated or insulted over such pettiness or her thinking she's doing me some sort of favour by making out with me. She's been giving me attitude because of that.

Was I wrong?

Cc Harddon, Ubunja

I believe relationship is a mutual business, but you seems to be the only one involved here. she's simply getting something from you now, that's why you haven't been totally rejected. forget the stupid love and move on. you guys are not meant to be together (fact).

Protein0:
ASUS ROG PHONE 2 Brand New, Sealed 8gb RAM 128gb ROM 6.59" AMOLED screen with 120Hz refresh rate SNAPDRAGON 855+ processor Adreno 640 gpu 6000mah monster battery with 30W fast charging 48+13mp main camera 24mp selfie camera Just watch YouTube reviews of this nice piece of gadget
It's the Tencent Games version.
Price: 197k Call, sms or whatsapp 07063579846

if I should say the phone is BADASS, teamtecno will not be happy.

milemimi93:
Imagine what a girl of 26 is asking for. If women have brain she'd hav requestd for a busines setup den wit time she buys iphone 50 wit her busines profit.

Bros, she get brain but she no get sense.

OgunLaakaye:
Hello Titi

How are you doing? Hope you are fine. The reason am writing this letter is to let you know that I have been having some feelings for you. That is why I find it difficult to look into your eyes cos it sets my soul on fire. I am not shy but your looks make me weak and tender. Remember the day we were at the tap and i helped you to lift a bucket on your head? I could not sleep that night, I thought of you all through the night and reasons why I was sleeping in class, Its all because of you.

Titi, If loving you is a crime then I am a criminal, my love for you is more than what words can explain. My friends have been asking me why my heart always skip when I see you but I lie to them and deep down inside me, I know they are right. I wish I can marry you when we finish the coming WAEC exam cos I want you to be mine forever. I will cross mountains and sail across oceans for your love

Please think about it and let me know about what you feel. I will be expecting your letter.

Please dont tell anybody or show your friends this letter so they dont tell the housemistress.

You will always be the fire in my heart.


Ade

Job application letter sef no dey long reach like.

olosho

funmisticqueen:
why ladies will open leg for a guy who has mattress on bare floor is beyond me. those mattresses looks like what thy use to rape people, not have cosensual sex with

won tun de.

dawnomike:
Simply take a stroll if you're alone...

konji hold you, na stroll go solve am?

1k.... where kestolove

Another one

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another one

nani667:
So darris how Nairaland supporters Club just forced and intimidated the poor buyer to wait till whenever he sees refund....

the OP needed people advice and he was told nothing but the truth. is dat force?

Michealvegas:

alaye,its been over one month you are advertising this 1 week old phone,abi e no dey age

I thought I'm the only one seeing this.

Kreamie:
It’s actually a harmless non venomous snake that feeds on rodents, roads and frogs but unfortunately for it, it was hatched/born in Nigeria where all snakes/reptiles are perceived as venomous.


Even the gentle giants (constrictors) are gruesomely killed.

who wan hear sey one snake is harmless

Lexusgs430:

Oga Saint2ace, is our leader........

And you're the godfather.

Lexusgs430:

You too dey #ClubOlosho........

Your steps we are following sir.

Lexusgs430:



And no how wey u go carry olosho, wey one river Niger, go equal to river benue.......

Big bros... we would be glad if you can enlighten us more.

I hope you won't sweep it under the carpet like that "umiwake matter"

Daintydan:
I bought my A5 Pro from Jumia Global, I've never had any issues with the phone since the 2nd of August I started using it. If all Umidigi products are like this A5 Pro, I'll have no option than to stick to their products.

there's no how you will cook yam , one go hard pass others.

9500

People search for flagship phone and buy BADASS phone.