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Osareime: My first problem is this She had been forgiven once and she committed the exact same crime again Thats bad. Thats really really bad. She doesnt see your forgiveness as a big deal or as anything to cherish and take care of.

Then secondly, why didnt she delete the contact before she came to see you?? She still had the guts to be having his contact while visiting you If it were just to collect something why didnt she tel you before she added him? or even add him on your phone to show you she wasnt hiding anything because obviously sehw ould have known trust wasnt sooo strong at that time.

Its the lack of respect she has for you that worries me most. Pls find a woman that loves you and RESPECTS you.

I dont belive once a cheat always a cheat. Anyone that wants to be faithful will be faithful. Its a conscious decision. People that cheat change all the time even men too when they realise they have something worth changing for.
My point is after being forgiven, she hasnt changed Then she doesnt think she has found something valuable that is worth changing for. Its better to find a bad person that would change for you because they love and respect you soooo much than to find a good person who doesnt value you to that extent of changing for you.

My first problem is this She had been forgiven once and she committed the exact same crime again Thats bad. Thats really really bad. She doesnt see your forgiveness as a big deal or as anything to cherish and take care of.

Then secondly, why didnt she delete the contact before she came to see you?? She still had the guts to be having his contact while visiting you If it were just to collect something why didnt she tel you before she added him? or even add him on your phone to show you she wasnt hiding anything because obviously sehw ould have known trust wasnt sooo strong at that time.

Its the lack of respect she has for you that worries me most. Pls find a woman that loves you and RESPECTS you.

Trigger Happy: U asssss wipe nigerians r going to GH for education cuz u morooooons r tired of ur pathetic pronounciation. Calling words like PURSUE..... Errrrm PORSHOE foools

Now I know you are stupid. Cant you write and make sense?

If you notice even though other countries insult Nigeria on their own website we don reply because we dont even know those sites exist and we dont go looking for them because we dont care and we dont even have time to notice because we dont go around looking for your opinions on us. We only respond when crazy people think because Nigeria has issues like every other African country they can tweet crap to our faces. Thats stupidity and we'd have to tell you the truth and set you on the right path.
When we put up topics for our own entertainment and consumption on a Nigerian site you would be aware because you are always wondering what Nigerians are saying about Ghana, you bother so much about our opinons of you and then you'd start spewing crap? As Ghana is soo good why wont you leave us to amuse ourselves however we deem fit and with whatever topic we deem fit? Afterall we didnt use you new dam to do it.

This is a Nigerian site for entertainment amongst others. Please leave us to entertain ourselves however we want to. Haba?

Upon all the problems we have in Nigeria and upon how good you claim Ghana is, I would rather have a Nigerian passport that a ghanaian one. Mainly because I know Nigeria is worth more than a hundred Ghanas put together.

Goodnight.

Bidvest2020: hahahaha defination of nigeria: a fvcked up sh1thole where narrow minded n miserable like yourself live! 99% of mugugerians r thieves,murderers n rapists! fuckeduppedness!

Youre a fool sha. The video going round of that doctor raping young girls before aborting their pregnancies, wasn't he your fellow ghanaian? Thats just one of plenty. Nigeria we are exposing them so they can be removed from society because they are not real Nigerians. your problem is that you hide them!

Kajina: @ bolded,

Because in Ghana degrees are earned not bought, unlike in Naija where degrees are bought either with money or in kind. speaking of in kind, we all know how the Naija girls pay for their degrees)

The both of you need urgent brain transplants. Who and what employer would respect a degree fro Ghana more that that from Unilag? or from Uniben? or from UI just to mention those?

I am not proud of the state of Nigerian universities but the truth is even in their horrible state, they still top Ghana in the quality of graduates and in the labour mkt they are well respected over and over degrees from Ghana and even over some degrees from the UK and other non African countries.

please dont fool yourself. The Nigerians that go there are not there because your education quality is better. Then it was mostly because of strikes in Nigeria which have greatly reduced. Why they go there till now I have to ask.

My problem with Africans. I usually dont comment on stuff like this buh I have to.

Why would you come here and call Nigerians dogs?? What is the aim of that?

Like serzly?? Millions of people You just type crap that they are all dogs?

Youre comfortable posting crap unnecessary videos and typing crap because of a dance?? Its a natural resource abi?

Ghana needs as much work as Nigeria does.

I like P Square but the first thing I said when i saw Alingo video was "whats the difference between this and azonto? " P square copy a lot from both foreign and african artistes. That doesnt change the fact that they are talented musicians. It would have been better if they just admitted alingo was from azonto like Wizkid did with his Azonto freestyle instead of trying to brand it as a new dance style.

I still remember their interview on the radio when they called it a new dance style. Thats the annoying thing. Just admit it was a spinoff from azonto. Its branding it as a new dance style that vexes.

They should take a cue from Wizkid. Your original work is your original work. Your copied work is cpoied. Ski ne nan.

It shows how easily she can do without you. It shows how comfortable she can be when you, thats her husband in sooo much distress. I cant believe she wasnt at that police station everyday to try to get you out. I cant believe she wasnt calling lawyers 100 times a day. I cant believe she wasnt tracking down thieves. She was instead giving you back your ring.

She was attempting to move on with her life when you were in a police cell, for a crime you denied being guilty of.

I would not advise you to take her back.
I learnt this lesso the hard way. For the one you want to give your life to, to abandon you when you need help the most is something else.
You sound like you would never ever forget it which is absolutely expected from one who was truly in love.
She should have been the last person to leave your side.
Once she asked and you denied being involved it should have been enough for her to do what your friend did.
Even if you were actually guilty, she should still have stuck by you because you needed help the most then.

This same thing happened to my uncle and his wife and it made them stronger.
Personally I have had the only person I loved turn his back when he heard stories about me that were lies. I loved him that i even owned up to things i didnt do becaus ehe said if i just confess to doing them he would take me back. When i finally realised what he was turning me into, i realised I loved him but i wouldnt marry someone who turned against me because everyone else did.
She valued her job more. She dumped a man in a poilce cell. Thats harsh.

Love doesn't seek to pour fuel into fire. Even if she didnt believe you, someone that kicks you when you are already down is someone you should keep from. You were already suffering and she dumped you when you were already in soo much trouble. thats cruel. She could go on with going to work everyday and gisting with friends and going to church and all that normal living when her husband to be was languishing in a police cell for a crime that he denies being involved in? Haba! I expected her to be a mess when you were in jail and not when you were acquittedHer reason is that she wanted to keep her job She should have resigned at the point where her bosses threw you in a cell if she couldnt convince them that you were innocent.

She was ok working for people that threw her future husband into a police cell? She should not be able to stand even her parents disrespect you. Not to talk of her continuing to serve and go on errands and receive salary from men that treated her husband in such a manner.
Life tested her love for you and it turned out to not be real. That thing that broke can never be fixed. thats the painful truth.

I wouldn't advice you to take her back.

Thats my take.
I pray to not be with someone who leaves me when am so down and need the most help. I pray to marry a man that can stay by my side through thick and thin because I know I would do the same for him. Amen.

The painful thing is that she would never forgive herself for her actions.

I cant believe you just referred to rape as fornication. Fornication is of your will. Rape is a totally different thing.

I dont support abortion but I wont judge anyone who aborts a pregnancy resulting from a rape.

Fulaman198: What you're talking about is lust, true, real love shouldn't ever fade.

There is love and there is lust. True love can fade. That is why brothers fight.

So if your two brothers fight they love they had was lust.

Love for a brother is different from romantic love definitely. I just need to use that example to tell you that true love can fade.

If you truly love someone and you find out the person is sleeping with your best friend you would understand why love can fade,

Sweetlemon: Oh! No wonder........

No wonder what?

kulyie: you are the one who needs to shut up and think with your brain instead of the tail in between your legs.is it not funny how animals of your kind get on the offensive,when they are faced with the naked truth.if the way people were using the enthusiatism of cursing injustice,abuse and rape,maybe there will be no raping of under 8 or 8o plus.tell me what i've not heard before,swine!

I don't agree. The wickedness isn't that she abandoned the baby but the manner in which she did. Why use sand at all? Dump the baby at the roadside at someone's door sef. Nothing can justify burying a baby alive.

No matter how the mother came about this baby only an insane woman or a wicked woman would do this to a baby.

Even if it where rape! If the baby's mum is not insane she had to be the most wicked and heartless woman alive. Not because she abandoned her baby but because of the manner in which she did it.

I just want to believe she's mad because I cannot fathom such wickedness.

I believe in love. But I know that one would be stupid to pick a partner based on only love.

First love actually fades that's the truth. Love actually can die. The line btw love and hate is very thin and is often crossed.
I believe in love but I don't think love should be the only criteria when picking a life partner. That is just recipe for a disaster.

We pray that the ones we are mutually compatible with we actually love enough to get married to and we can build a friendship with them.

My ex taught me too many things I can't even to mention. He showed me what true love is.

I still hate myself for losing him.

The lady that ends up with him would be the luckiest on earth. I would always envy her cos I would know she has the best there is.

Losing my ex boyfriend.

Na wa ohhhh!

For her to request a thing like that she already knows you would be foolish enough to consider it.
She was bold enough to utter such a request because she knows you are foolish enough to even think about it.

sunny t: It depends on wat led to the break-up. If it jst didnt work out because of genotype issue for instance, no problem,
but if u guys broke up bcs of unfaithfulness, disrespectfulness, hurt, how cud d above topic cross ur mind?

I even prefer they broke up because one partner messed up. When the break up was for platonic reasons it means they still have a lot of chemistry btw them.
Am I the only one that thinks this way?

dayokanu: A breakup can be by mutual consent so why cant you remain friends?

Breakup by mutual consent e.g Guy traveling abroad and he tells the girl they cant continue long distance and both moveon,
Genotype dont match,
Families dont agree,
Guy joins Military and the girl cant wait till he comes back from Afghanistan
Girl wants to get married guy not ready. Mutual consent breakup

Dont act like once people breakup they become mortal enemies

That's the issue. If the breakup was because she did something really bad. I mite just know her but not talk to her too much.
If its that he did something bad, then I don't want to even have her around me. Before she d start to forgive him after we are married and open closed chapters.
It it was a mutual break up for genotype, long distance etc I would prefer she moved to another planet because there is still potential for a lot btw them.

I would trust my spouse but I won't be tempting him by allowing him or me be friends with exes.

Of whAt point is it? It's unnecessary. You mustn't be enemies but to be friends it's unnecessary drama.

I advocate for boarding schools because children at that age need to learn to deal with all kinds of characters. When a child is a day student they do not learn TOLERANCE the way those in boarding house will.

The beauty of boarding house is that you learn from teachers but learn also from your peers from so many different backgrounds.

I know for one I learnt to deal with different people differently, I learnt to speak up for myself, I learnt to mix social life, sports and academics to excel in all.

I learnt the importance of looking tidy, organised and being responsible for myself.

For homosexuality one has to guard and pick one that doesn't allow for that.
In my boarding house we didn't use bunks and two people sharing a bed was one of the most serious offences one could commit. It was grounds for suspension or even expulsion.

Even at home a child could learn bad character. I would rather allow my child learn early to be responsible and be able to deal with peer pressure.

A good boarding house is a very good experience I would advice every parent to take advantage of.

Find Out!:
Yes, the LJC ajeburrer sec school alumni are here.lol.
But really, your secondary school is one of the best in Nigeria presently. I've seen products of that school & I'm over-impressed. I'm sure less than 10 percent of your classmates are schooling in Nigeria & a good number of those outside are in really good schools.

& no offence o, but is we call LJC a boarding house, what do we call the FGCs? jungle house? loool. Miss, ur school was home away from home

No offence taken. No matter how comfortable it was, it wasn't home and you learnt that you wouldn't always be at home.

Yes the academic life was very good. They never used book to play.I love that school. Proud to be an alumni of LJC.

The only bad thing is that they make females cut their hair. But it was a beautiful experience.

Sagamite: I personally would like my kids to face some slight hardship in school, not have everything laid out for them. That is not the world they would be pushed out to eventually, especially in Nigeria.

That is just my preference.

Everything was not so easy. There was discipline. Detention if you fail to do morning duties, if you were late, if you broke school rules. And the detention wasn't fun. You learnt to study, and you learnt to use your time wisely. You learnt valuable life lessons that is my point.

I went to a private boarding school in Abuja and it was beautiful. There was no bullying because the management was American and Nigerians trained in America. At a point teachers were not even allowed to tell students to kneel down. The food was good. We ate 5 times a day and good food. (not home quality but good).

Ice cream, salads, drinks, yogurts, chicken and many others were normal. The bathrooms were always clean, hot water flowed in harmattan. It wasn't home but it was comfortable.

The students were from good homes. I made many many good friends there.

The academic life was great. We had the best WAEC result for years.

Nice programs and events that I look back now and really appreciate.

Although I lost a lot of classmates in a plane crash in 2005, (RIP angels), I loved my boarding school experience.

I would love for my children to have an experience like that.

What if Jakata lied to Tony about his relationship with Chioma? It's possible he was trying to get Chioma and she didn't agree. Then he lied to Tony about getting it.

Except Tony saw it happen with his own eyes. Jakata may have lied to Tony and sometimes girls lie to their boyfriends about admirers.

This has happened to someone I know. A boy was asking her out and she visited him once. This guy went ahead to tell his friends he did her when that did not happen.

Then someone he told said it to her boyfriend. It caused a big fight oh.

Some men can be useless especially when they chase a girl and get nothing.

He should ask Chioma.
On the other hand she mite be guilty as hell.

I dont condone indecent dressing. I don't like it. I think makes the girl look cheap.

But you're reasoning is seriously flawed. In essence you are saying if God blesses you and you can buy expensive cars and jewelry, the thief that is attracted by your possessions and attacks your family at night and prally shoots you in the leg is not to blame?

Sweetlemon: *rolls eyes
I wasn't talking about myself but the people who will advise me. And even though you ve seen my pictures you don't know me in person and probably never will.
That's what I mean by anonymous.

From this reply I have concluded that your brain isn't well developed. You seriously need help or better still pay someone to be reasoning for you because according up you, you have enough money to buy your own bb and Brazilian weaves. I was going to not stay how dumb that comment was but I just changed my mind.

You are a dumb girl with dumb comments.
If you are a natural gold digger your being able to afford a second hand bb and fake Brazilian weaves wouldn't change that. Even girls that can afford more than that are still desperate to marry up. so why state that as proof that you are not a gold digger?

If you are not a gold digger you are not. Don't state reasons as dumb as that that would make us wonder if your brain receives enough blood.

This girl is ure brain fried in g/ nut oil?
Have you not heard it is a small world? Abi you think ppl just say it because it's catchy? It really is a small world!
What is wrong with you?
How do you know I don't already know you? Or your sisters? Or even this poor fellow that is about to marry Dumber as a wife?

Anonymous doesn't not mean you hope no one here ever meets you and anyone that knows you. It means that you don't drop any clues to who you are in real
Life.
When ppl write anonymous letters and articles to newspapers Why don't they send their pictures too and hope nobody that reads it never meets them? Or nobody that knows them or their family buys that edition?
Do you reason at all? I don't think you do.

Instead of you to read and understand you would be typing crap.

Imagine what a grown woman like you typed? Rolling eyes?!!! Seriously how old are you? Like you actually typed that? You're insane.


My last comment on this thread.

kitty kat: Stop sharing ur life on a public forum. If u must seek advice, u hv to be anonymous. Ppl talk to u but u do not listen until it backfires. Your pix is allover NLD. Pls remove ur pictures and stop sharing ur life. If I or any other IT guru wanted to diG u and bed Guy out, we could, with all d info u have on NLD.

Even at that, NLD is visted by a lot of Nigerians from all works of life. You wont blv it but top notch Nigerians in home and diaspora visit NLD. How would bed family or family friend feel after reading these threads of urs and seeing ur pix and then find u in their home. Already ppl have concluded that d excitement is abt money and you wanting to be who u r not.

I expect u to come and defend urself cos I have noticed that u r never wrong.

PS: a lot of oldtimers on NLD create new IDs just to post sensitive info. Almost all of them have done it. I hv done it. I create a new I'd and change evrything abt me, if I need advice abt something sensitive. But u hv ur pix here and telling us abt bed man. Which info did u hide? All d gguy, his friends or family need to see is ur picture, " I will buy bed", house staff and they know its them u r talking about. Lemm tell u something that wealthy families don't like, " its called scandal and an inlaw that washes their family affairs in public".

A word is enuf for d wise.

Pls tell her. It's as if I typed German when i tried to tell her this.

kitty kat: Stop sharing ur life on a public forum. If u must seek advice, u hv to be anonymous. Ppl talk to u but u do not listen until it backfires. Your pix is allover NLD. Pls remove ur pictures and stop sharing ur life. If I or any other IT guru wanted to diG u and bed Guy out, we could, with all d info u have on NLD.

Even at that, NLD is visted by a lot of Nigerians from all works of life. You wont blv it but top notch Nigerians in home and diaspora visit NLD. How would bed family or family friend feel after reading these threads of urs and seeing ur pix and then find u in their home. Already ppl have concluded that d excitement is abt money and you wanting to be who u r not.

I expect u to come and defend urself cos I have noticed that u r never wrong.

PS: a lot of oldtimers on NLD create new IDs just to post sensitive info. Almost all of them have done it. I hv done it. I create a new I'd and change evrything abt me, if I need advice abt something sensitive. But u hv ur pix here and telling us abt bed man. Which info did u hide? All d gguy, his friends or family need to see is ur picture, " I will buy bed", house staff and they know its them u r talking about. Lemm tell u something that wealthy families don't like, " its called scandal and an inlaw that washes their family affairs in public".

A word is enuf for d wise.

Pls tell her. It's as if I typed German when i tried to tell her this.

kitty kat: Stop sharing ur life on a public forum. If u must seek advice, u hv to be anonymous. Ppl talk to u but u do not listen until it backfires. Your pix is allover NLD. Pls remove ur pictures and stop sharing ur life. If I or any other IT guru wanted to diG u and bed Guy out, we could, with all d info u have on NLD.

Even at that, NLD is visted by a lot of Nigerians from all works of life. You wont blv it but top notch Nigerians in home and diaspora visit NLD. How would bed family or family friend feel after reading these threads of urs and seeing ur pix and then find u in their home. Already ppl have concluded that d excitement is abt money and you wanting to be who u r not.

I expect u to come and defend urself cos I have noticed that u r never wrong.

PS: a lot of oldtimers on NLD create new IDs just to post sensitive info. Almost all of them have done it. I hv done it. I create a new I'd and change evrything abt me, if I need advice abt something sensitive. But u hv ur pix here and telling us abt bed man. Which info did u hide? All d gguy, his friends or family need to see is ur picture, " I will buy bed", house staff and they know its them u r talking about. Lemm tell u something that wealthy families don't like, " its called scandal and an inlaw that washes their family affairs in public".

A word is enuf for d wise.

Pls tell her. It's as if I typed German when u tried to tell her this.