Sweetlemon:
*rolls eyes
I wasn't talking about myself but the people who will advise me. And even though you ve seen my pictures you don't know me in person and probably never will.
That's what I mean by anonymous.

Sweetlemon:

Lol! Don't worry. It get's up almost everytime we are together. Only thing is he hasn't made use of it on me.

ferhyntorlah:

[b]Babe, you aren't anonymous kan kan! [/b]With your pictures all over nairaland and the information you've dropped, you still think you're anonymous?

Please wake up from Lalaland!

Sweetlemon:

*rolls eyes
I wasn't talking about myself but the people who will advise me. And even though you ve seen my pictures you don't know me in person and probably never will.
That's what I mean by anonymous.

Sweetlemon:

*rolls eyes
I wasn't talking about myself but the people who will advise me. And even though you ve seen my pictures you don't know me in person and probably never will.
That's what I mean by anonymous.

Idowuogbo:
Lmfao! U mean desperados might consult Ifa to secure a master bed? Hmmmm.... Bed guy! if u are reading, we af tolded u o! If dem turn u to "yes Ma" u no y.

Sweetlemon: The "bed guy" I have been talking about here has invited me to spend a weekend at his family house (with his folks)
Lord!
I'm so excited!
And I'm so scared! One minute I'm on top of the world, the next my tommy churns.
What if they are snobs? What if I do or say the wrong things?
What kind of clothes should I even take along with me?
Oh well, at the end I guess I'll just have to settle for being confident in myself.

ItsModella:
Secondly, she doesn't think before she types. She divulges too much information and still claims anonymity.

lola.luv:


But anyone could recognise you anywhere, Sweetlemon.
The way that things have degenerated here doesn't portray you in good light and like they've told you here, his family and friends could be reading this.
I have an alter ego that I use in pasting sensitive topics. So I can remain truly anonymous. You are not anonymous!!

I was just talking to a friend who told me that he broke up with his girl because of how he saw her screaming at people at a wedding while distributing sovenirs.

People really want to help you and want the best for you and this guy (hence all the advice) but you are digging a deeper hole for yourself.

Idowuogbo:

LWKMDDDD! If she no hia English, na to knack am wiv a drop of ngbatic. Kai! Torlah! Fi mi le o!

jay bee: People really need to start giving advises and leaving at that instead of trying to shove it at others throat. It's a free world and as long as each and everyone of us are comfortable with the decision we make then that's what matters.
Being comfortable discussing her love life on NL with other members doesn't define who she is or what she is about. Yes she may be a lil naive but who isn't?
At the end of the day she gotta make her own mistakes and learn from them.
It's her life and y'all should stop trying to bully her to see from your own point of view.


Posts from here onward viewed/termed as an attack on the OP's person will be hidden and the user is going to be liable for a ban.
Give your advice and just leave it at that

jay bee: People really need to start giving advises and leaving at that instead of trying to shove it at others throat. It's a free world and as long as each and everyone of us are comfortable with the decision we make then that's what matters.
Being comfortable discussing her love life on NL with other members doesn't define who she is or what she is about. Yes she may be a lil naive but who isn't?
At the end of the day she gotta make her own mistakes and learn from them.
It's her life and y'all should stop trying to bully her to see from your own point of view.


Posts from here onward viewed/termed as an attack on the OP's person will be hidden and the user is going to be liable for a ban.
Give your advice and just leave it at that

kaboninc:

Abeg free the babe oh. This is the 10th page and she's been following. So she should able to make wise decision. After all, she's 'intelligence'! #intelligent

rhemaplus: You don't put the cart before the horse. Everything in life has order that must be followed. The question I need to ask is that, who are u to him? Is he your boyfriend, fiance, or simply an admirer. If u were asked that salient question in his house, what will be your response? To me, you are acting too fast. A whole one week with someone you are not even sure of his intention except that he is so much into you? A whole one week for someone that has not promised you marriage? Where is your pride, sis? If I were you, I won't even sleep a day in his house, just go the same day and go back. If he wants you to stay that long in his house, let him do the proper thing, which is proposing to you! I simply feel he wants his family to assess you before he makes his choice and that to me is demeaning. He may have shown you that he really means well, loves you, wants you but he is simply taking you for granted albeit unknowingly. A little strength to say no and not act too desperate as you are acting now is all you need. There is a saying that what you hold tenaciously to, you eventually lose, what you let go, you have may be best appropriate in this situation. Don't stay that long in his house, it is too cheap and demeaning maybe not to him but to an average 'onlooker' and 'these onlooker' may be the ones to determine your fate.

lola.luv:
@Sweetlemon
Smh that you think it depicts fakeness when a poster chooses to remain anonymous by using other user names. So I guess those that donate anonymously to charities are fake too and not trying to remain private.
Toh, wish u all the best.

Tgirl4real:

Well said sir. Some people are fond of making other people uncomfortable just cos they shared a story.

Osareime: I have one question. How would this guy feel if he knows his business is on nairaland like this? Except he knows already.

Too much of your relationship is on here. Made the mistake once and when I told him he wasn't too pleased. If he is a private person I doubt he would appreciate you taking advice from the public on your relationship.

This thread is unnecessary. Your mum or sisters or close friends could have given u advice. This is unnecessary and seems attention seeking wi you going on and on about his status and family and conversations wi you.

Learn to keep ure life private.

We know what you look like cos we have seen many of your pics and you still come here to give us so many details about ure relationship with this guy.
You don't even know us.
I more be his sister or his cousin or his friend. I think it's too much. If we dont know what you look like its a bit okay. We know your face well. With makeup and without make up. So anywhere we see the both of you we know it's him that you are referring to and you don't know where you would meet someone from here.

Seems very attention seeking to me. Hope it's not the case.
My own two cents.

Sweetlemon:
That's a different case madam and I know that you that we all know that!
Thanks for making me laugh earlier sha

lalaosky: smh...

I won't be caught dead posting more advices

2sexy: sister, koyo. you are but what shs has gained here can hardly be compared to what she would have gotten offline.

The only problem is how she has been describing the guy, which no one forced her to, and also another problem that tells you how she reasons.