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I hope no faults sha, just admiring the ride

I think may be what ippis should have done was to do migration for you, since your information is in their database, that is transfer your details with same ippis number to your new mda, well confirm from those in ippis department of your mda if you would get any arrears, although I doubt if it's possible because it would mean you would be paid twice and ippis was brought in to remove this kind of problems were people earn from 2, 3 mdas at a time.

Lucaslookers:
Please married folks in the house,

My lovely wife and I have been married for almost 2 years now. I know I am not a perfect person and she is not too but we have been managing.

Why I opened this thread is that I am very afraid of her new attitude of always carrying weapons anytime we have a misunderstanding.

It started when I found out she had an abortion without telling me and when I confronted her she flared up and started behaving like a tout jumping here and there.

On Friday last week we were discussing about how to go about the new business I want to set up for her and somehow we got into an argument and she ran into the kitchen and grabbed a knife.

Again, this morning I simply asked her to waybill some foodstuffs to her father as I wouldn't be able to do that before heading to my place of business and she grabbed my clothes and started calling me names, next thing she picked up the belt hanging on the wardrobe and started threatening to teach me a lesson.

I have never been a woman beater and honestly don't know what has gotten into her.
We have a pending issue we are yet to sort out but still I am keeping my calm why is she the one suddenly going violent??

Please what do I do? I don't want blood on my hands because if I touch her it will be very bad.
My marriage is still young.

1. It's either she doesn't love you and there is an ex or a guy in the picture

2. Or, She is paying you back for some bad things you did to her, revenge

Hence the abortion and resulting to violence anytime there is disagreement, call her family and inform them, they must be present for you all to talk and caution their daughter.

Like a few have stressed on above, does she have the ambition to do her PhD prior to your suggestion.

It's very hard for her now in my opinion, knowing fully well she has a year old child to cater for.

What plans do you have to bring the family closer when she starts her programme in a shortest time frame possible, or she goes with the kids and you visit often with a plan to join them soonest.

You also have to do your research about the best countries that fit your migration plan as you are the bread winner and any mistake on your part would cost the family dearly, that is financially and otherwise

Rhu4xce:
The coach might be a rookie but i can say he is lucky some of our players picked up form right when we needed them to. Moses Simon is now our go to man alongside Joe Aribo. We are through to the next round so the coach can other players against Guinea fowl after half time.

Which coach is a rookie?
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Augustine_Eguavoen

Be patient and diligent in your work, have faith in God like never before, with time this sucidal feeling shall pass. Stay blessed

thinkinghead:
Hello good people, I hope my message finds you well this year. I got my car this last December, the history is amazing, wonderful milage and all that but I realized there some lights indication to which I need enlightenment. 1. CHECK ENGINE, 2. WHIPPER ( yet is actively working) 3. MAINT REQD. 4 I don't know what this stands for( pls find the picture attached to this message.
I trust that I will get professional instructions that will help me in all of this. Regards

use the appropriate oil types for your engine and transmission servicing, check your car manual for this, very important. Go online and download it, if your car manual isn't in the glove box of the car.
Don't use 20w50 oil weight to service your engine, stick with manufacturers recommendation, you can see the oil weight written on the oil cap when you open the bonnet of your car. No let kazeem(local mechanic) kazeem your car because you lack the requisite information

Use a scan tool to check pull out error codes, the fourth light from the left is the tire pressure sensor, gauge all tires to the right psi and that light should disappear, if it doesn't then one or two of the sensors may not be detected by the ecu hence you may need to replace and reprogramme with a scan tool

Chukdobz20:
Streaming link please

by 5pm, hesgoal.com

I feel its not legit, in due course they would fold up with your little money gone

Nigeria 1 - Sudan 0

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selfmadeOLX:
Get your kazeem (local mechanic) and do a test

Jack up the front end of the car and ask your mechanic to start the car, use a small plank to hit the starter repeatedly as he starts the car.
If the car starts immediately then the starter is going bad thus replace the starter

thanks I doubt if this is the issue, when I turn on the ignition to start the car, the engine cranks unlike what you described above, its only when the engine doesn't crank when you turn on the ignition that you hit the starter in the engine

Mikky2019:
Is engine mount the same thing as engine sitting. And I have actually scanned it today and the said plug coil number 4 which I changed but not still working. Pls help.

yes

Originakalokalo:
No.

When the gear is on park, it vibrates slightly.

When the gear is on drive and my leg is on the brake, it vibrates.

When I remove my leg and the vehicle rolls freely, vibration stops.

inspect your engine mounts, have someone in your car change the transmission from drive to reverse, while you stand infront of the engine to inspect any play on the side, front and back engine mounts. Also check ball joints too

Dozieson:
I am in Abuja. bought mine in Shema filling station

thanks baba

Dozieson:
Dirt or water in fuel tank. I used a powerful fuel cleaner in a can not those coloured plastic bottles to solve mine when I had similar issue

any idea where I can get it, because all I see around me are plastic black and red bottles

Car type 2006 honda accord v6
No error code

Problem encountered:

Despite changing my fuel pump recently, I experience difficult starting, I need to turn the ignition twice or thrice before it starts most times.

keypha1:
Who snap the picture, Jim ike own Don teach people.

na murder scene na, the girl was murdered. Jim iyke own na celebrity, this one no be celebrity news to trend, its what's going on in the streets, apparently the crazy quest by our youths to make money, is making them do all sort of evil things, please let us warn our sisters.

Fiscus105:
Figment of ur imagination back by nolywood scene, just to get attention at all coast

try going through the news, you would see this OP isn't lying, didn't you read the news of a young lady whose eyes where plucked or cut out recently.

Yes

If you work in an organisation, take a stroll to HR and make appropriate inquiry but, if you are self employed see it as a means of personal development because you can learn alot online

See oil you are using to service this sweet ride, golden super. Kai

Ernesttoby30:
Bro i will make a post here on Nl on how i bought a car that turned me to debtor. Funny enough i bought it here on Nl and the seller sugarcoated everything. Truly Honda civic is very rugged. More reason why i bought it and based on recommendation by many. But i bought a scrap

also check if water isn't entering your transmission, pull out your transmission dip stick and inspect that guage for signs of water bubbles or droplets on it

Webster563:
Thanks for your input. Is there an alternative for him to get funding?

he can look for opportunities that provide grants like this one https://www.nairaland.com/6919765/how-apply-2022-tony-elumelu

Also go through google and this website regularly https://www.opportunitiesforafricans.com/

Just finish your programme, you have 2 years left, dropping out now is not something you should consider, thank God your parents still pay your fees and provide an allowance for your schooling as well.

Have this discussion with your parents as well, so they understand your position, they can help psychologically and other ways which may feel appropriate

Post your question in this thread link https://www.nairaland.com/2863557/nigerian-nurses-midwives-dream-working#41953409

I hope someone would reply you there.

How much

Kolawole2130:
We have been married for 3 years now. We stay in a self contained apartment. He tries as much as possible to pay his bills while I support him too with paying the bills.

Since we married, anytime I talk about childbearing he gets angry. Like he may not talk to me for days. I will be the one to come and beg him later. He says his not ready to start bearing kids that he wants to have enough money to take care of the kids. He says he doesnt want his children to suffer.

I am so pissed off, I am 32 now and he is 35 and he earns 100k while I earn 70k. Is that not enough to raise a family. Plus age is not on my side he doesnt look like he will be ready in a year time again. Am already getting tired and people around me are getting married. No body can even talk to him. His mind is made up already.

The last fight we had he said i can go and divorce him if i cannot wait till he is ready. He is busy reading for professional exam instead of him to be thinking of how to produce seed. Professional exam that will last another 2 years. His family can't even talk to him. Am just frustrated already.

I understand the pain you are going through and I get your husbands point.


Please show him this thread so he can read through the comments here.

I think financially you and your husband are capable of starting a family with one child first, before he completes his professional exams.

Life OF SUCCEESSFUL married couple ARE built on COMPROMISE, please let your husband understand this FACT.

First is conception, then 9 months before you give birth and by then his 2 years time of completing his professional exam is already around the corner.

Or better still if he doesn't know your cycle, you both become intimate when you are ovulating and bam you have taken in.



But if he told you his plans about having kids before you both got married, then I am sorry to say, you have to be patient with him.

Well he has to think the process through, one thing I know is a start up would need constant inflow of funds, if you sell the car and use proceeds from the sale to fund his startup, when next he needs funds where does he source it from?

Marxist001:
Good day everyone. Sincerely, I don't think I will be able to survive this new year without a job, as things keep getting tougher. It's been 5 years now since I finished my youth service, but clearly without a stable job. I have been struggling to survive, with a wife and kid. My son is 4, and yet I can't enroll him in the cheapest school in my community. The thought of it breaks my heart, my wife keeps him indoors until noon when other kids are back from school. I am so ashamed of this daily practice. My rent on the other hand is due to expire by February next year. I can't find sleep, I am the first child of my parents, I fear I would die of high blood pressure. I am smart, hardworking and with a good degree(B. Sc Sociology 2.1). I have good Computer knowledge. I am also a very creative person, but there's no platform for me to showcase my ability. I am a skilled painter, but no jobs. I can fit in any job. Please my Son must start schooling by January, I don't want to disappoint him. Please I need a job. 09151775400 WhatsApp.
Mods please help me push to front page.

Why not enrol your son in a government school for a start or home school him with the current curriculum for kg1 or kg2.

For jobs utilise this platform and others to the fullest, hopefully help would come, keep a positive mindset.

ejihand:
I am from medical background. Recently, I seem to be interested in statistics and mathematics. I have made up my mind to pursue data science and machine learning. Can anyone recommend data science courses with global certificate appeal I can enroll to make this dream a reality.

I am already aware of udemy, edx, Coursera, etc. I need something different.

I am also not interested in FREE courses online. So don't recommend youtube videos.

These paid courses should be online so I can follow up in my pace. Length of program should not exceed 6 months.

Merry Xmas to you all.

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try search for short courses that you can do remotely using google and see what your outcomes look like