₦airaland Forum

Rizzputin:
You don't need to stroll far on the internet before you see stories of men paying their gf's school fees or training them only for her to leave for another man.

Or putting her on salary only to find out she's cheating or sponsoring another guy. These men are shocked. And are left scratching their heads. Wondering what happened. They probably read somewhere that women love money. Their gfs probably convinced them that if these guys loved them, they'd take of them. So, they hurriedly funded their gfs. And ended up wasting his resources. As usual, the response/advise most people give is: "Never pay a girl''s fees that's not your wife"

This advise comes from a good place BUT it is still wrong. Because it falsely assumes that a woman's nature suddenly changes once she's married. If anything, it only increases and/or deepens.

So what then is the right solution to this issue? Before i tell you, let me explain the REAL reason why putting your babe on salary or paying her school fees will just lead her into the arms of another man


------Why Salary Never Works


The reason is simple. A girl's love and attraction for you deepens based on HER investment in you not yours. As men, we are logical. Men think "If i invest in her, i'll reap the rewards" They treat girls like some business project. But this is not how women's brain view love or attraction.

To her, the more she invests in you MORE than you do, the more she feels like she really loves you. So when a man meets a girl without her investing quality and quantity time, experiences, resources etc... she sees him as weak and someone she can easily manipulate.

That's why when girls tell stories of an ex they can't get over, they often say "after all i did for him" OR "nothing wey i no do for that guy" However the guy that spent on her and paid her school fees? She barely wants him.

This brings us to the key reason I mentioned. Tattoo this in your brain:

It's NOT your investment in her that matters. It's HER investment in you


This may be tough for your logical brain to grasp for now. But as you urge the women you meet to invest more in you than you do to her, you'll notice her attraction grow for you.



----HOW Do You Inspire A Woman To Invest

I'm just going to summarize. Cuz the details can fill like 10 pages. First tho, you dont want to put any gf on a salary. She's not an employee. She's not working in the relationship. It's her relationship just as it is yours.


Secondly, get her to do things and sacrifice things for you. Make her cancel plans for you. Change her schedule for you. It's important to note that I wrote "inspire her" NOT force her. You shouldnt force a woman to do anything. It will only back fire. The desire and urge should come from her based on the inspiration and direction she gets from you.

It should never feel like you're forcing her. Because after all, the mindset you should always have is that you don't need her.


Lastly, create a balance between your investment in her. As a general rule you should invest 20% less than she does. That's the sweet spot. If it's equal, you'll notice her creating drama trying to take charge of the relationship. If yours is way more, she loses attraction... feels bored and ends up cheating.

If you've ever seen this meme: "The person you love doesn't want you, It's the person that you dont like that wants you" THIS thread explains why.

Someone because of love is over investing more than they should. For a girl this isnt much of an issue. But for a man, this leads to a ton of problems and heart break along the way.


So that's it. This should give you a feel of how female attraction works. And help you form a stronger, sweeter relationship.

N/B. What you just read is very powerful. And should only be used on girls you actually love. Do not use it to waste women's time or use them. Only weak men do that

Talk soon

You go remain single till you die.

Except the lady is financially independent, nothing wrong in giving your lady monthly allowance if you have to give.

Just be mature enough to understand that she can still leave you.

Fear who no fear women.

When women unite together, it is over.

And I keep saying it that the Simpsons can't be overlooked.

America will most likely have the first female president.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lB05HJzeqdY?si=wBaVpKs4k4dhvLrH

Chimarto:
If Tinubu fail to give this guy appointment he fit faint, and his case maybe like that of Asari who attacked Igbos up and down thinking Tinubu will give him appointment but ended up on wheelchair.

So you are not aware he is already on Tinubu's payroll. I expect you to be smart enough to know this.

Let's see how it goes.

As far as I'm concerned, the Simpsons predicted Donald Trump as president and it happened.

They also predicted a lady that looks like Kamala Harris as the first female president.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2_NA9hKQE5Y?si=pskbofK0lVhRe7i9

Kenmatt:
God forbid that I will take to twerking.

May God forbid in honesty.

Then take to whatever you chose but don't condemn anyone for their choice but rather appreciate them.

Live and let's live.

Kenmatt:
What am I meeting him for?

A full grown man has looked for all the things he could do and achieve in this life, it's to be twerking up and down.

Tufiakwa!!!

Tufiakwa to you.

What have you achieved with your pseudo wisdom?

That is why Africa is backward.

Let people do what they love.

752hub:
Guy stop confusing yourself, any ejaculation you do is a blood sacrifice, sperm is the purest blood form because it has life. Not only is masturbation a sin its a blood sacrifice unto lustfull spirits you cannot see.....

As I wrote, go and write your own bible.

All these fooolish explanation is a proof that you are even more confused than you think.

Fooolish Christians always tagging things sin simply because it does not sit well with them.

Colosians 2 vs 8


See to it that no one takes you captive through philosophy and empty deception [pseudo-intellectual babble], according to the tradition [and musings] of mere men, following the elementary principles of this world, rather than following [the truth—the teachings of] Christ.


If you must know, what you are preaching is heresy and you are bringing curse upon your head.

Many of these teachings have made many believers give up their salvation and end up in hell.

Enough of these fooolish talks. Don't make a sin of what the bible never tagged sin.

Enough said.

Dogalmighty17:
Kamala Harris, already endorsed by Joe Biden will be in a formidable position to win. Only she out of a possible number of other candidates will be able to immediately access the over 300 million dollar war chest of the Biden/Harris campaign. US campaign finance laws prohibit the Biden campaign to transfer that money to anyone else.

Bill and Hillary Clinton, Barrack and Michelle Obama, Nancy Pelosi and Senate leader Schumer have all endorsed Harris candidacy.

A large slew of celebrities and heavy pocketed donors will also likely line up behind her.

Kamala may pick Gov. Gavin Newsom of California or Ben Shapiro of Pennsylvania as her vice candidate.

WHAT DOES THIS MEAN FOR TRUMP?
Trump so far has only released a limp listed video attacking Harris for her laughter and the situation at the border. Donald Trump very much preferred to run against Biden. Having to face Harris complicates a lot for Trump.

Trump a known racists will struggle to not make racial attacks against Kamala. He cannot help himself but make racist attacks. This will drive more voters away from him.

The overturn of Roe vs Wade by supreme court judges Trump appointed, already has women all over America furious. These women will come out massively for Harris. Trump knows this that is why at the recent RNC convention, he made sure every anti-abortion rhetoric was eliminated.

Harris is 55 and Trump is 78. All the insults Trump has been hurling against Biden due to his age, will now turn a sharp focus on Trump. He can't keep his thoughts together nor follow his statements in a way that makes sense. Trump is also suffering from dementia. He has refused to allow any of his medical reports be released.

Harris was a prosecutor. She will be able to hammer home the fact that Trump is a convicted felon. That will not be a good look for trump. Will the US elect a criminal into office? Time will tell.

Overall, this election will be the most consequential in American history.

Has he been convicted

Stephenabudu960:
What or who is really behind the Simpsons

I think there is a psychic in the production crew.

Moresalt:
Friend, not sure you're ready for the truth yet, cos you don't know where someone like me—who was once lost in the world—is from.


If my interpretation was too hard, here, check this too... It's more about homosexuals but it's quite applicable too...



Rom 1:26
For this reason God gave them over to dishonorable passions. Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones.

27 Likewise, the men abandoned natural relations...

May the Lord give us light...

Take care...

Bro, I'm a spirit filled, heaven bound believer in Christ.

Stop misinterpreting scriptures.

Masturbating is a habit not a sin.

But anything that causes addiction is bad BUT THAT DOES NOT MAKE IT A SIN.

Sexual feelings are normal but don't fornicate.

People mastrbate for medical reasons

The simpsoms prediction is about to come true once again.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lB05HJzeqdY?si=wBaVpKs4k4dhvLrH

Moresalt:
Friend, in a dignified way perhaps, Jesus surely said these things are sinful... Please let's not fool ourselves. The spirit is spirit, the flesh is flesh...

Matt.18.8 - "If your hand (to masturbate ) or foot causes you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you. It is better for you to enter into life lame or maimed, rather than having two hands or two feet, to be cast into the everlasting fire.

Matt.18.9 - And if your eye (to watch porn) causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you. It is better for you to enter into life with one eye, rather than having two eyes, to be cast into hell fire.

God bless

You will soon write your own bible.

Remember the curses that come on those who add to the scriptures.

bibiking7:



Good call but a little too late. Trump has gathered much momentum.

It will shock you.

David0002:
Mods, please push this to front page. It will help a lot of people come out of masturbation. Thanks a lot

You have written nothing.

You only ended up blabbing.

There is a difference between addiction and a habit.

Masturbating is not a sin but a habit that can lead to addiction just like eating, reading, playing games, smoking, drinking.

People masturbate for medical reasons.

But if you find yourself getting addicted, that is when you need to watch it.

As for porn watching I will say clearly that it should be discouraged (not that is is expressly sinful) but it has the tendencies to currupt iyr minds

But the first step to avoid msturbatiin is to get married.

1 Corinthians 7:36

If anyone thinks that he is not behaving properly toward his betrothed, if his passions are strong, and it has to be, let him do as he wishes: let them marry — it is no sin.


May GOD grant us wisdom.

If she is promiscuous and if she has the entitlement mentality.

EcoNews:
Where you come from even your father dare not look at me n make the statement you are making. What part of Igbo land allow an Osu like your father speak rudely to a freeborn like me. Amadioha suppose de flog your foolish head for this audacity.

You are dumb and backward minded by using the word Osu.

babazak:
Former Governor of Niger State, Muazu Babangida Aliyu, has been battling with his health for some time now, and the recent photos and videos of him have sparked concerns among his supporters and well-wishers.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hyoRCcbF1Ec?si=YL-oGDe9MqB7nv_9



https://www.facebook.com/share/v/sG4Lh7UMx6JRhuxL/?mibextid=oFDknk



https://www.facebook.com/share/v/UHvV895kErNowTiW/?mibextid=oFDknk

What is the point?

Anybody can be in this state.

adebowales:
See free meat! It will be very sweet

Tastes like pork

What an irony.

Very hungry man with no integrity.

Got a job by proxy to defend Tinubu but unfortunately, he is doing a terrible job.

He argues out of context and he has no diserning ability to know when to give an opinion and when to shush.

I challenge him to place a curse on himself if he has never taken any money to defend Tinubu.

Waiting for the clueless Reno omokri to come and counter the claim of a former CBN governor.

TopBanter:
Don't mind them. I think Omokri, who I was never a fan of, is a patriot who wants the best for Nigeria.

No one does factual dissemination of issues better than Omokri in Nigeria currently and even Doyin Okupe admitted that.

Omokri is very intelligent and, most importantly, clinically efficient at understanding what verified facts mean and how to interpret them.

Unlike many so-called public good governance advocates/analysts (Deji Adeyanju etal) who are glorified and compromised rabble rousers.


If I was Tinubu I would give Omokri a job whether he wants it or not. He is giving off vibes of Tunji-Ojo, our current Minister of Interior, indicating he should be deployed somewhere pivotal to the glory of Nigeria.

Omokri's intellectual energy and vibrancy is impressive. He puts all others to shame, most especially the Agulu Gbajue scammer, per his ability to collate, interpret and present indisputable facts.

Let me help you make a better sense.

Show me one thing in his write up that actually counters the essence of what Dele momodu wrote.

Just one.

Perhaps there is a new meaning to the word INTELLIGENCE.

patrickmuf:
The onus is on you to counter his fact-filled fact filled claims.

For the records, I don't care about what you think.

What fact?

Are you OK at all? Sorry for asking.

How much is a litre of petrol, how much is a bag of beans, rice and Garri?

The question is.. Did he actually counter Dele momohdu or he just proved once again how low his IQ is.

I think I blame Jonathan for ever bringing him to the limelight.

Does it not even sound fooolsh to even the most fooolsh person that it is total insanity for anyone living outside Nigeria to start supporting Tinubu's Govt.

Let them come live in Nigeria and then whatever they say will be considered.

I'm not Reno's mate. I'm older than him and I am well schooled so don't think I'm just one small boy typing shit.

Reno has made himself a nonentity.

jattopeter:
You can not be in another Man's Land and be telling us what is real or fake , equally be analyzing things for us . If its that easy , Come to Nigeria , thats when I will start taking you serious.

Gbam.

I did not see this before I made the comment above.

I think Nlfpm should stop making this Reno guy relevant by not beaming his clueless opinion on the front page.

For those saying Tinubu should employ him I guess you lot are not smart.

He is on the payroll of Tinubu and he is working for him by proxy.

He lacks integrity and he will always go where he will be fed.

He is an abomination to GOD and mankind.

patrickmuf:
If I am the president, I won't think twice about bringing Reno into my team. Love him or loathe him, you can't deny the fact that he is intelligent and well informed.

Tell me one intelligent thing he wrote in countering Dele momohdu.

If you think Reno is intelligent then I may begin to ask if you are anywhere near intelligence.

No pun intended at all.

ALTERNATEID:
Response To My Beloved Senior, Dele Momodu: Nigeria's Economy Is Not Collapsing. Far From It! 



Reno Omokri

Can somebody tell this guy to come back to Nigeria.

It will make more sense if he is writing this as he experiences the Tinubrulation.

I honestly don't take people in diaspora who support Tinubu Govt serious.

To me they are clueless noise makers that should be ignored.

Big shame on the labour organization.

70k will do nothing in this economy.

What about the side effects?

RichBoy247:
Wole Soyinka is now over 90 years, you have a father too, tell him to assess the government

Lazy youths with no future ambition still want a 90 years old man to be fighting for them. The same thing the man has been doing for over 60 years fighting for their grandfathers and their father while the lazy men he has been fighting for were locked up in their huts with their equally lazy wives making babies they cannot cater for thereby producing drug traffickers, human traffickers and fake drugs manufacturers

Delete this nonsense.

Manjapa:
Please what can I invest or what business can I do with my million naira please.
Thanks in advance

Open a food stuff business

Do or die

If only Biden is replaced by a younger Democrat to run against Trump.