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SonofElElyonRet:
She's not done actually.. it will always be referred to but what's done is done. She must now become a vigorous advocate for abstinence before marriage. Therein lies her redemption

You are pretending like you do not know the society that she lives in. There are some doors that may never be open to her again.

I wish her all the best because nobody Holy pass.

Loyalty1:
Stop that.Her life has not ruined. If her God decides to forgive her nothing and no body can bring her down. Remember one man meat is another one poison. We all have pass.

Una no dey lime tell una self the truth. Which man wants to be the laughing stock of his friends and enemies that have seen another man ***cking his woman.

Socially she is done.

oshiokpu:
She is not done my dear. There is the place of Grace and Mercy. Don’t rule those out

I am a realist. Wherever she goes as long as she dies not mention the name associated with that event she will be fine but if she does any internet search will bring up that history.

Now it will take a special kind of African man to take her home to his parents, to employ her at work, (boys will always refer to that and want to try their luck.

Let's tell herself the truth.

If she changes her surname and uses her middle name as her first name, she may do well.

When him dey enter Atlanta. His tour cannot be complete without coming here .

Whatever...she is done. Some mistakes can be very costly.

See Tiwa blushing. Portable idamu adugbo.

VeryDarkMan01:
It's not only cod
It's peculiar to all churches
Front rows are reserved for big wigs

Don't Sa what you don't know

Not ALL churches

SEGLIZ:
this man deserve pankere

No he deserves something much more better. A gentle hug and a pat in the back

Georgekyrian:
They are thought in school that nurses are caring, so they can give their all just to make a client feel better in the name of been caring

Lol. Very funny. I need to go build my retirement house beside nursing school.

madridguy:
Mr man go and take 2nd wife. If your wife is a medical practitioner or military personnel, you don't need any soothsayer to tell you before you get another wife.

I have not fully grasped that of the medical practitioner. What is the pshycological basis of their behaviour.


I recently told someone that " once you return to your bed side nursing job again, you will start to carry shoulders again"

So I am aware of this behaviour...but the underlying psychology behind it I've not had the time to reflect on. I'm curious

Namaster:
Encouraging your wife or GF to join the Military is like serving up your pet dog to a RAVENOUS Lion. Just consider them LOST to you.

The Military, even a shambolic one like the Nigerian Military, is a HIGHLY structured and regulated institution.

Superiors are PLENTIFUL and NEVER to be questioned. Testosterone fly everywhere like knockouts on New Year's Eve.

Your wife is exposed to these ALL the time.

Plus, women CANNOT control themselves around authoritative men. Especially if it's clear that he's above them. The Military is filled with them.

Imagine her being deployed for 3 months where EVERYDAY she's surrounded by a certain commander barking orders at HUNDREDS of men. And they obey him. Then she gets back home to you and you're asking her things like "what should we eat this night?".



Your wife is the wife of an Army man now. Spare yourself the needless heartache, show a little backbone and get a DIVORCE.

Her attraction to you is DEAD!

Every Military person thinks he/she is ABOVE every civilian person. That includes your wife. And women can NEVER be attracted to a man they consider beneath them.

I bet even when she's around, you RARELY get to Bleep her.

This is the pure undiluted truth. Powerful, Famous and Rich men are irresistible to women. Knowing that the men she is around daily are trained killers who have likely killed in the past and have power to kill anyone without remorse or real consequence is downright attractive to her on a primal level. Aside work commitments, she prefers being around such men compared to the husband.

To her you just be " fuyetu ". That is you are less of a man compared to them even if you are rich...unless you are now are civilian with enough political authority to command the men she works with.

That is why Class Captains, Class Reps ,Lecturers, Pastors,Prophets, Bosses at work and whoever is the big fish in any setting will always be attractive to many females.

As a man you can't afford to be ordinary...you must become bigger than normal in whatever way that is legally and morally possible.

Check out many famous sports men once they retire, problem go start with their wife. Na the fame and money she marry...unless the man can quickly become powerful politically or spiritually and look for ways to continually earn really big wahala go start.

Na level by level.

Not everyone smiling is happy.

Always appreciate what you have while striving to become a better version of you.

Saintganduje:
Just a little money and fame she quickly discarded her husband. I bet karma has dealt with her.

For her, the husband had outlived his usefulness as a provider and there were men that were willing to pay big to drill her borehole.

They told her to discard the man so she can hawk her goods in without restraint...but such ventures never end well.

Starz825:
He be get one advice wey one dude drop here...

I bet I can't remember the guy's Moniker

He say ...man no suppose dey put woman for head....
Like you be man but almost all your thinking na about woman...he wrong.

Na me. Since I stop to carry woman matter for head, I get better peace of mind and them no dey want go as I no dey give them any kind of pressure. I be safe place for them.

I wish I had that mindset like 20 years ago .

Na so life be...women want to be associated with men that are either rich, famous or powerful.( socially, physically or spiritually)

That's why dem no dey carry woman matter for head. In many cases, a lot of women don't love, they calculate.

Accept this reality and dont be carried away when women dey hail you.

You might be a big fish , but there is always a bigger fish somewhere.

Use your turn and time well and let go gracefully when a more richer, famous or more powerful person comes along.

Freshtruth:
There is a conspiracy on ground who be Masecera and kompany

He was so successful that they had to tear him down...because he was always speaking his mind. Unlike some others that say only what the media wanted to hear.

Imagine a fool like Daniel Levy sacking a coach a few days to the final just because he told you he did not like the idea of the team Super leauge that you were trying to create in Europe to replace the regular leauge.

StarRiderr:
I totally condemned the killing of the soldiers but at the same time the government should do the needful by releasing Nnamdi KANU holding him will always be causing turmoil in the southeast let the government conduct a referendum in the region that are clamoring for secession but if the region is so important to Nigeria they should be accommodated in Nigeria political arena a certain compensation should be paid to them for the damages caused by the civil war call this people reason with their plait they have been marginalized so much in the past if you want my relationship you don't have to force it down my throat

You are not far from the truth. Sadly our elders are extremely irrationaly tribalistic.

What exactly are these people's complaints, listen to them , hear them out, draw lines and boundaries where necessary and exterminate quietly those who who not bulge.

Granting Kanu a presidential pardon will have calmed the agitation. Then as you grant him freedom you let him know that if he brings up any undue unrest...he will not be arrested a third time.

But his telling people to go burn houses and businesses in Lagos during end Sars will make him rot in prison for the next eight years.

This world ehnn, if you talk sey you stubborn, you will meet those who have a PHd in stubborness.

Mourinho needs to win big with a small team to ever be considered by the very top clubs in Europe.

I think that his drama is not worth the laurels that he might bring.

I think he will do well in Turkey....their passion matches his.

Israel promised them that by the time the dust settles, the Palastinians would have lost any appetite repeat the attacks ever again.

Israel still plans to fight for the next seven months till they destroy all the tunnels and brigades.

The road is still very far.

Nigerians hate the truth. Her real crime is saying in public what many believe and practice in private.

Some straight boys abusing her will even open their legs for other men for 1 million a week.

I heard the story of a married top 3 nollywood actress that serviced a strong militant just for one night only and got a hefty sum..there was to be nothing like relationship because of both their status.

It was very very discrete from two matured people but it happened

People like Reno are extremely mischievous people.

Bravery24:
Kwame Ture
(Civil right Activist)
2005 video interview

Zionism is a political philosophy which has brought about the state of Israel. The so-called “State of Israel.”
This political philosophy has nothing to do with religion, on the contrary, it is to confuse others and let them think that Zionism and Judaism is one and the same. I’m a conscious Africa I know properly my history, I know that Africa gave Judaism to the world, I know that the first Jews in the world were Africans not only do I know this but I inform everyone who has doubts about it to read a book by Sigmund Freud entitled “Moses and Monotheism” as a beginning.

Consequently, know that Judaism and Zionism are not the same. Zionism had its first Organisation expression in 1897 in Basel, Switzerland in Europe. Here was a man by the name of Theodore Herzl. He was the founder of Zionism. He said that he was going to find the state that God promised the Jews. Listen to this carefully the man Herzl was an atheist he believed that there was no God, he said God did not exist now how is it the man who believes that God does not exist is going to find a state that God promised to His chosen people? I tell you this man is a Satan in disguise.

Zionism is a satanic movement, it is devil, it is imperialism, it is racist, it is gone and taken the lands of the Palestinian people through terrorism has driven them out and through terrorism it maintains its power United States of America with over 6millions homeless sends Israel billions and billions dollars every year to bomb Palestinians while homeless and unemployed people are here.

Zionism is going to raise this war and make the people in America become clear to what it is.

How come Bethlehem is not in the continent of Africa and Jerusalem as well.

If I follow your train of thought, it would mean that both the Zionists and Palestinian are both fighting for a land that is fake?

Eshin race course

That building is probably still standing because some men rented shops there or own the place.

If to say the building no get levels , it would have received baptism

And all the generations that grew up with the one that we have been singing since 1978 nko. For 46 years.

EmeeNaka:
The road is beautiful.
Can we do away with this black and white painting of road and road demarcation?

That is the standard worldwide. The lines have meanings to the motorist. Stay in Your lane and only switch after traficating the turn signal on yoir car..

The space in between the white lines means you can overtake the vehicle in front of you. A continious white line means you cant overtake in that portio of the road. So stick to your lane

guywitzerogal:
it's you dt is not getting it look at luka modric he has opportunity to go to those retirement league but he prefer to compete in laliga...... If you have master degree pls can you go back to secondary just to clear all ur subjects?

Is Luka Modric any where close to Ronaldo in terms of personal accomplishments ?

When a man has won everything except the there is to win in football except the world cup and at the tail end of his career joins a project that will fetch him more money in one month, than he can earn in one year any where else why would you hate on him.

Modric has more incentive to stay in Madrid because that is where he started to win anything and likely to win more compared to Ronaldo who had won in Portugal, England, Spain and Italy.

Ronaldo has nothing to prove to anyone. He has seen and done it all...at the age of 39, he still goes to the hot desert and gets the golden boot.

Let his life and work ethic inspire you instead of hating.

LordIsaac:
The secret is to understand that many of them are carriers of innumerable diseases; that alone should be sufficient deterrent for the discerning mind. The moment I see painted eye lids and claws in the name of nails, as well as phones I know they haven’t worked for, I don’t even allow them to get to know me let alone lusting after them. I have purposed in my heart not to crave for chlamydia and gonorrhoea partially covered up in skimpy clothes.

You are not far from the truth. Most of these girls are walking viruses and bacteria. And some don't even know and some know and do not care.

Might have been a court clerk or messenger that decided to rebrand himself.

Thief na thief any how any how

guywitzerogal:
see normal normal i don't respond to quote when I comment here in Nairaland but let me tell you something nobody says CR7 hasn't accomplished and his not successful..... Ronaldo at his prime was a good player.... Pls telling me someone his playing in Saudi league, MLS, China league etc all this league are retirement league if it sure for him why him no wait for Juve or Man utd and compete? Check all those players that when to Saudi and pls give me there ratings.

Don't you get it, he has competed in those other big leauges and been the highest goals scored for a season in them.

He came to Saudi Leauge and broke the existing record. Meaning every league he has played in, he been the highest goals scorer for at leat one season.

So you can't call his achievement inferior ( trying to say he could not do it elsewhere but did so only because the leauge is inferior) , when he has done it everywhere he played.

JASONjnr:
I drove passed banned junction today heading to area11 and I didn't even notice anything.


But we keep shut about things like this alot in Nigeria. The military are not constituted to have direct power on civilians but to the government.

Whatever act was taken against the officer, giving the police a chance to investigate properly and by now those culprits would've been arrested.

Nigeria is not a normal country. It is almost as if the civilian government is in power because the military permits it.