nortcentrallord:


Well, that's a shame! I thought catholic churches has church wardens that check such excesses in dressing mode. What has gone wrong?

liberalism I guess. no one wants to offend members. it's asif the life of ladies depends on dressing sexy. even oyibo wey craze pass us no dey dress anyhow go church.

but Africans will always be monkeys.

Time2Smile:
That's very rude and uncalled for. May you be guided

she understands. no need to be a hero.

waka pass.

Blackfire:




igbo people like creating a myth, and allow u to propagate it for them.

Oga go sleep jo. an abia person also told my brother... I don't care if it's a myth or not. they eat humans in abia (so I heard)

Blackfire:

@owliver please don't ever fix igbo tribe as people who eat human flesh.. Se owa alright?
@ari3l how far.

na igbo person tell me. e say na for abia or so.
just like I indicated (so I heard)

AccessME:
Congrats to them but wait o,, this one wey Nigerian guys just dey marry oyinbo babe so.. hmmm..me 2 go soon join the league at least if not for anything but for the Green card

foolinlove see your ex; D

HaneefahRN:
Nice write up OP. A case scenario is the mother of one that disgraced herself some days ago, if she had worn an elegant, well covering dress, her breasts will not be the talk of the World. Like it or not, the way you are dressed is the way you will be addressed. I can't see a guy in crazy all torn up jean, sagging his life out and even identify with him, I will automatically see an un serious person.

You can't wear pant and bra out or a fish net or dress barely covering anything yet expect people to see you as a decent, respectable woman. You will see some people and wonder if they have parents at home. Let's not even talk about our yeyebrities who some porous brained teens and even adults take as role models.


Well, like they always say, it's their life and body and they have freedom to wear whatever. It's the heart that matters, I feel more comfortable with my boobs exposed and my gown short enough to expose my VJ if I bend, don't judge me, I might be better than the lady dressed modestly.

hey ISIS lady I know where you coming from. I can agree with you today but another day am against you in advance.

got my eyes on you mehn

foolinlove:


Ok well I'm vegetarian... so let's not discuss that.

I know society doesn't function optimally. But we have evolved to the point where people are trying. The more people that fight for human rights the further forward we move.

I don't approve of the "every person for themselves" attitude, but that's just me. Showing sympathy and empathy towards others is powerful and can change our society for the better. Or we can just go back to the dark ages, which wouldn't be that pleasant for anyone.

hmm I am happy you are coming to terms with me. and good thing you are a vegetarian.

but It will never be achieved. there will always be those to exploit others. and that's the duties if the government. and with the wide spread of Islamic ideology I fear for that Disney freedom world of yours.

but even if it's achievable, there would still be some who would act otherwise, not also minding the negative effect of such ideology.

I call it clash of knowledge. there must be fightings and conflicts any day, any time, any year, any century. forever and ever. just fall in love and try to stay safe.

nortcentrallord:



The fault should fall on your pastor for allowing indecent dressing in your church. Its got nothing to do with Christianity. Not even God will come down to educate anyone on that. When some Orthodox churches kick against such, our new generation people refer to them as being Judgemental and old"

I identify with Catholic, I was born free of cos but grew up a Catholic. yes in Catholic churches they now wear sexy cloths. I saw one last Sunday in coka parish with a short gown oh damn. I was like oh damn it. her booty was tweaking. who wouldn't notice that booty. even married men had a glimpse.

can't she see mother Mary dress properly? even the mothers encourage them.

I guess she was feeling fly. well, who are we to judge

like power, absolute freedom corrupts absolutely.

even in churches these days you see them dressing anyhow they like and speak in tongues.

last Sunday my d?ck just dey shake cos of booties wey I dey see everywhere.

if you talk they will say control your eyes. how? pluck it out Abi? oloshi

Christianity is a joke.
I dislike Islam but am beginning to see sense in hijab.

Funkybabee:
@op I can't blame u, but know something that girls disgrace image of a real woman. our problems in this generation is our celebrities or yeyebrities they called themselves. they are the one that brings trash outside so that people can comments on their likes,it will be nice if will woman start condemn them if they wear trash and tell them to stop destroying our image. if we can join together and do that, they also we know they are worthless in front of us if they dress in immature way. that is why I love Nigeria because they are good in criticizing bad habit or dress.

my babe don show. hmm your comment sha

hehe

foolinlove:


Ok but even in the animal kingdom - look at lions, gorillas etc. - there exist rules which determine behavior. A lioness will protect her children. Lions will fight over a mate and protect the mate thereafter. It is primitive but right and wrong still exist. Good and evil behaviour have reactions in these primitive situations.

Humans have (mostly) evolved beyond this primitive lifestyle. So society is a way to control behaviour and protect the vulnerable. An attempt to make things "fair". Even though it doesn't function *all* the time, at least we have evolved to the point where people are able to (somewhat) control their destinies.

I understand you, but I don't think it stands. It is all theoretical and pragmatically speaking, what a woman wears should be her own choice rather than the choice of others. And a woman's clothing should not be a justification to treat her badly.

and the food lions eat how did they get it? killing looooolz.

a hawk comes down steals a chicken. go feed her children which she dearly loves looooolz.

a lioness goes hunting kills a baby deer to feed her children she dearly loves looooolz.

we humans kill animals, slaughter them, you could even see the fighting, struggling. we put their flesh in pots and fry. feed on them. you think they got no feelings?

your point about society is because of where you come from. the ideology is different. have you ever imagined living under Sharia law? sorry that's the ideology that will spit on your rights without no remorse.

like I said, there is no justification for rape but knowing what I tell you will make you safer. we are all citizens of planet earth but hey take a trip to Saudi Arabia. you'd be forcefully wrapped in black.

and if I am right, the west don't allow polygamy. why?

hey is marijuana allowed in your place? why not. if it's harmful, it's me Dieing not my neighbour.


there is no freedom in "Society"

Rubyventures:
@ OP we live in a free world, that means the anybody any sex can express themselves through there speech, dressing, works. As long as it is in the right place and occasion then that's fine. That doesn't make them less human than you.

Who are we to judge?

free what? you kidding?

There's no freedom in "Society" morals and constitution are for what?

OK I crave your fried blokos. that's what I want and need. don't even try to tell me it's bad. I want it. it's good for me.

Lolz good and bad are relative. subject to environment, knowledge(religion, morals)...
you think Clifford orji was stupid? think again.

foolinlove:


Ok so you're getting existential. Good for you. But women aren't property.

Are you saying that women's bodies don't belong to themselves ie, there is no such thing as rape because property doesn't exist. That essentially society has determined that women should have autonomy over their bodies and that goes against "nature".

I disagree. Society developed for a reason... you may not agree with everything that goes on or think that its "fair"; but it serves various purposes, like protection of the vulnerable. And I do believe thay good and evil exist in their inherent forms.

I posit that violation of someone's autonomy is evil. Something which violates a person's ability to make choices about how their body is treated, like rape, torture, murder etc. are evil. I'm not having and argument about theft.

A woman's right to choose what happens to her body should be respected. She's not property. You can't just do what you want to her because "nature".

I understand you but you still didn't get me. all you are saying is right. from a social point of view. society through concept of morals have been able to subdue the true nature of man. good thing cos I'd probably have been eaten by mungo pack's grand daughter.

but that true nature never dies. it's hidden within. it pops once in a while, to others its their way if life. there are some tribes in igbo people who still eat humans till date(so I heard). what do you make if that? to you it's bad, oh damn those victims got rights Lolz well not to the tribes.

am not saying rape is good. no it's bad. but if you were to see the true nature Of man it's not bad. it's survival(Trade between pain and comfort). those days homosexuals were killed even by the whites. "witches" were burnt to death even by the whites. slavery was "good" and done even by the whites.

things change agreed. and people are subject to knowledge of their time. just like women of olden days accepted second and third wives and it was good then but today what do you have? women can't share d!cks anymore. it's now bad.

while the majority has accepted changes and reforms. the true nature lies in many. triggered by something or somebody. I repeat, for every reaction there's an action(you should be familiar with cause and effect theory)

I don't even know your name.

every action is a reaction to another action. abstract or concrete.
am saying this from a psychological point of view.

foolinlove:


I think I just fell in love with your brain. The world needs more men like you.

this is funny.

foolinlove:


A murder victim doesn't cause their own murder. The murderer causes the murder. Your logic is flawed.

Don't blame society for actions, blame the perpetrator. Good and evil do exist. There are grey areas for mental illness, duress etc.

But to excuse murder and rape because "society". That's weak.

you didn't understand my post. certainly. see there's nothing as good and evil. it is society that tells us what we should perceive as good and evil. but in reality there's no good and evil.

we humans became so intelligent we upgraded our jungle nature from pure jungle(actual jungle) to society(jungle of deception)

I once saw a friend of mine eating African cherry(Agbalumo) and I asked him to give me he said no. I should go buy my own. he says he won't give me his own.

your own? b!tch dude you came to this world with nothing. everything you possess is stolen by deception(knowledge). you cheated. you had an edge. there wasn't a fair play.

I need that cherry. you need it I need it too. then the society comes in. hey police pls someone tried to take my cherry. police comes and locks me in a cell. oooh I didn't get that sweet cherry I so crave. why me. so unfair. yh that's society.

bill gate son didn't choose to be Bill Gates son. a poor man's son didn't choose to be a poor man's son. so tell me why do you call one rich and one poor? where was the fair play?

no one does things by themselves. pain makes a man. knowledge makes a man.

foolinlove:


Rape is caused by rapists alone.

You can't continue your arguement because you have no logic to back it up.

Enjoy your judgemental life.

rape is not cursed by the rapist. no one causes rape. environment makes a man. humans a beast in nature. "society" is what tramples on that right. people don't do what they do cause they want to but are forced to do it by one pain/knowledge or the other.

what if I tell I have every right to kill you? I love killing don't try to tell me what I want or need. only I understand my urge for blood. let me slit your throat out. but then I get arrested(here is society again cubbing my need for blood)

so you see the work of a society? and pls I don't justify rape just in case you thought about that.

foolinlove:
This guy is a boss!

I want to marry someone like this... someone nice

hmmmm. *passing by*

even with the make up they still look sad. ehya

Akshow:
that's true. I don't see why they can't understand no one will choose to be gay in a straight world, not with all the hate and persecution they go through. And if you as a sane and rational human feel their plight and fight against their discrimination you are tagged gay. I've never seen a bunch of ignoramus bigots like some Nigerians

true. to me I would suggest they go through thorough re-orientation or something. it's a psychological disorder.

but condemning them is what I won't subscribe to.

Akshow:
tell them dear. Lol. Awon hypocrites. What I don't understand is why gay issue tickle most Nigerians. Imagine, this thread is in the tenth page cos some hypocritical big mouths all have a righteous opinion when it comes to homosexuals. Pages not related to Gay issues die off in the third page. Too much obsession for something they claim they hate.

those that fornicate and even oloshos will come here and be condemning gay. I dislike the act but equating them as useless is wrong.

they didn't create themselves that way. just like those born blind, cripple, slowpoke, it could have been anyone.

lepasharon:


A virgin giving birth is unnatural, therefore also demonic.

oshe omo Lepa

cgei:

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God wants people to multiply. how can this occur if we are all gay . he did not make them gay they choose this. it is very unnatural and so is demonic . this is not judging because it is clearly condemned .

you mean the just chose the demon themselves? where did you get that from? you high or something?

cgei:


everything was perfect before sin entered . that is why there is genetic abnormalities and we see slowpoke and so on but he will repair all of these soon

so if you offend me it's OK if I kill your unborn grand children? that's pathetic judgement

puzzling

Mickael2:


God did not create homosexuals. Please don't say something that you will regret

then who did? Lucifer?

same God created homosexuals, blind, cripple, beautiful, ugly, handsome, conjoined twins, slowpoke. etc.

I wonder why he created all that differences and still call us perfect.

the female body is mostly meant for pleasure.

you see them in films, music videos, concerts, stage show, in church, even in the street all almost naked shaking their things and feeling good.

that's what they've been reduced to. pleasure objects.

adecares:
Really?

yop. if need be

I was born in Lagos, I grew up here I live here and am tired of here.

been to port Harcourt once and lodged in eagle cement area for weeks. fun area, the calabar restaurants are awesome with wonderful soups

OP come let's exchange family.

Feshizzy:

What is your definition of "unnecessary things"? In attempt to sound smart, you just played yourself, I support my boss above me.

looolz

chikason68:

You re even thinking of kneeling down to greet da parents of ya bride to be. Make i hear! I am yet to greet mi parents kneeling down nt to think of a human like me even if he/she is US president. I Only kneel to greet one being; ALMIGHTY GOD!

am a bad boy I will need to deceive them with a bug grin and almost on my knees. yes