₦airaland Forum

Onetenth:
I have never believed in reincarnation but my eyes did saw one yesterday

Here's the story:

Year 2020, I think around may according to his parents because I can't recollect, this neighbor of ours and close friend to my sibling was into cultism.
There's was a cult clash at ikorodu that year and he lost his life, I wasn't told I was there life when police released his corpse to his parents and I was even part of those who digged the grave he was buried. Two years ago oo..


Now, this is year 2022, I saw this boy at orile, he wanted to board the bus I was in with my girlfriend. Immediately we both saw each other I wanted to scream but I couldn't I don't know how. But everyone in the bus saw my reaction, this boy disappeared on that spot.

This isn't a made up story, if there's any nairalander at orile bustop around that time will testify to this.

Omo! I still can't believe what I saw, I cried till I got home, my girlfriend was shocked and speechless as well. How did he do that? How did he disappear in midst of people? Why is he not dead? There's obviously something spiritual about this that I'm not told.

His mom has been hospitalized since we got home and I explained everything that happened. He was her only child. This is so disheartening and scary as well

blackmantis:
No wonder she resemble Calabar girl.

jumper524:
See constructive criticism and commendation from our Naira landers.
Wished they made same comments like they did when shettima did same in bornu.

PraizHim:
what of APC's 2015 and 2019 Manifesto? They couldn't fulfil their 2015, 2019 Manifestos, is it in 2023 they want to fulfil it.?

robinso01:
I've saved my life so far. I can't come and kill myself.


So some people dey save in this economy? If you're saving in this economy you're a ritualist or a corrupt person that need to be investigated.

saintkeppy:
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Apart from Ikeja Lagos, few of the best I have reside so far:

Uyo City, Nigeria's 21st State Capital City, became State Capital since September 23rd, 1987. Next week Uyo indeed Akwa Ibom State will celebrate 35years of existence.

Uyo was Designed by Arc. Victor Bassey Attah, a renowned Architect, who later became Governor of Akwa Ibom State between 1999-2007. He is regarded as the Father of Modern Akwa Ibom State.
I call it Nigeria's 21st Century Liveable State Capital City, Residential Estates, a beffiting State Secretariat, Clean&Green environments with good sense of Hospitality by the residents, economically viable city with shops, Restaurant, Eateries, cool spots to hangout with friends. The capital city is accessible by Ibom Air via Victor Attah International Airport, or Road while cruising down the 8-Lane super-highway, Water via ferry cruise @the Nwaniba Beach near Le Meridian to&fro Calabar, Cross River State.

Ancient City of Calabar, well planned city with motorable roads with drainage system within the city, Pre-colonial buildings left behind by the white slave traders, missionaries, serene Green sceneries, home to one of the oldest Presbyterian primary school founded 1847, it will amaze you to see an ancient structures still standing tall, post primary schools such as St. Patrick College, Edgerly Girls, Holy Child@Marian Hill & Hope Wadell Institute @Diamond Hill founded by the Scottish Missionaries, higher institutions such as UNICAL, CRUTECH are all in Calabar, the city supports businesses especially Tourism&Hospitality, Eatries there offers you some of the best cuisines for your healthy living as well as impressive nightlife.
Small scale import&export, the city is accessible by Air, Land & Water via Calabar Port to neighbouring African countries such as Cameroon, Equatorial Guinea, Gabon etc. with High commission offices in the city.
The acronym is:
C•ome
A•nd
L•ive
A•nd
B•e
A•t
R•est.

Port Harcourt City, Africa's Oil&Gas Capital is well planned as well thanks to the wonderful work Gov. Wike is doing to solve the perennial traffic jam the city is known for, by providing key road Infrastructures to make the city easy to navigate. They host some of the best residential estates, markets, shopping malls, 3&5-star Hotels around, 4 major Higher Institutions is located in this city, due to presence of Oil&Gas companies, the city is economically viable, you can imagine public transport or taxi driving is a modest business one can venture into.
As Port City it is accessible by Water, the channel, Atlantic coast, Air via International Airport, &Land which proximity to an ever-busy International market @Aba, East of the Niger.

I have visited Ikeja, Lagos they have massive Infrastructures there,

Hilly city of Enugu, Capital of the old Eastern Region with red soil, they have good roads.

Owerri is nice&it's nightlife.

Kaduna city.

New Ibadan should be created Capital city of Oyo State cos Ibadan is too big especially the old part of the city.

You can add yours.

Militant1:
I will try to be brief and straight to the point.

My wife stays up late (11pm -12 am) every blessed day.... That's the problem.

We live in Lagos and have 2kids, 3yo and 8 months. My wife was working before but left the job when she gave birth. There is a job waiting for her when the baby is 1y6mnths, therefore she is a stay at home mom.
You are dealing with a psychopath
We live on the mainland but I work on the island so I live home as early as five. In our house we have all the amenities you can think of; 24 hrs light (NEPA plus inverter), running water, gas, 2 washing machines etc to make a home 95percent comfortable but my wife can't seem to cope and it started when we had one child.

She doesn't wash my clothes, my office shirts and suits are given to dry cleaner to arrange while my other laundry I do myself every weekend with the washing machine.

When I get home by 7pm or 8, that's when she now starts rushing to bath the kids and prepare dinner, so we eat by 9 or 10. Before the kids play play and play, by 11pm we are still awake. Sometimes I go to bed by midnight and have to wake up by 4am to go to work again. It's impacting on my health and my work. She will sleep by 12 am and wake up by 8 or 9am the following day.

I have tried to beg and appeal to her. If I eat out and come home to just sleep, she go dey vex. If I just come home shower and sleep the kids who have passed their bedtime will be playing and when madam is ready to sleep they won't agree to sleep. She will beat them, guess who they will come crying to- daddy that just started sleeping and has to wake by 4am, I will now pet and pet till 2am before kids sleep.. I have advised her that kids have a bedtime(8pm). When I man up and off the tv by 9pm and tell everyone to go to bed, she says I am disrespecting her. She reports me to her mum.

Worse still our sex life is horrible... We have sex like once in 2 month.. At 35 I am in my sex prime and can Bleep everyday but she doesn't seem to care about me because she is always tired am I pity her so I don't demand sex so much.

I fully understand stay at home is not easy and I help her when.

I tried to create a schedule for her.

Wake up by 6am
By 7 she suppose don clean finish
By 8 breakfast should be ready for her, kids
9-10am bath herself and the kids
10-12 do any other stuff in the house
12-3pm rest, watch movies, chill
3-5pm... Do whatever she likes
5pm boil water and bath the kids
6pm she don bathe and bath kids
7pm... Food don done... Everything dey freezer
8pm we eat
By 9 everyone goes to bed and we knack 1hr

I throw the trash every day
Na me dey go market buy foodstuff
On weekends I clean the house
I wash my all my clothes
I provide all the finance in the house
I satisfy her on the bed when we naka. She begs me that she's tired
I buy her gifts, drop 3k for her everyday
Why should we have a house help when she is a stat at home mum (for now)

So what's the problem..


Mothers, are my demands too much?
Mothers, please when do you close your kitchen and go to bed?
Are you still awake by 11pm every blessed day.
Am I crazy?

Please advice me.

I have begged her, pleaded, shouted, done everything. Sometimes I intentionally come home late (10-11pm) thinking that the kids have gone to bed but my first child will be watching cartoon.

Please advice me. I am going crazy, Lagos is stressful

Threesha:
The job is in Lagos and Delta

Maximos7:
I did not get it. Send me the mail again

oluhyohmih:
Please can we talk on WhatsApp 08081092270

Threesha:
What's your location?

inforesource:
Your adrenaline to fight the snake should be high enough to make sure fight it or kill it and remain in the tree until helps arrive. Remember the survival instinct of a man is always at the top when faced with such situations. Even the lion and the crocodiles will give up if you refuse to come down on time.

So the most important thing here is to find a way to balance your self in the tree. Shikenah

rtdCivilservant:
Simple. Shake the branch and the tree will fall (the tree is almost cut-off from the base) towards the small piece of land to the right and the snake will go down inside the water.

PresidObi:
Tribalism, that's what the elites use to tie the destinies of the youths. When they see a good candidate who can win and stop them from looting money meant to develop the country, they will introduce tribalism and ethnic sentiments in the minds of the youths, whose education is very unstable.

Then the youths will take sides, fight each other to the finish while the oldies smile home with the victory, and youths lick their wounds, the survivors collect small change and drink themselves to stupor, chase a few girls and wait for the next 4 years when a child of the old crooked politician will remind them that the other tribe hates them, and they start another round of fighting while their destinies are being looted to London and America.

Wake up Nigerian youths, vote for competence, not trube or religion, vote for Peter Obi for a better tomorrow. God bless Nigerian youths everywhere.

kenzysmith:
Good evening guys went to my ex wedding yesterday and I saw how happy her husband was I dance to congratulate them and as soon I shook hands with my ex
I remember those nights she will beg me to sex her, I remember the styles I use her to learn, I remember how she gave me bj , I remember how I use to smack her ass when she use to give me doggy , I remember the countless time I have Bleep her then I burst into laughter the husband was impress and taught my laughter was joy and he thank me after I shook his hands why my ex shook her head towards the ground

I want to tender my apology for falling the wife brea....st drastically and the pu ...ss y I have handle with aggression I tender my apology to the unborn children for the brea...st I have su ck beyond repair am sorry they should forgive me

Sergio101:
Nobody is blackmailing you.

Vote whoever you like.

But think deep before doing so