Family › Re: How To Cope When Your Spouse Doesn't Listen: Seeking Advice by Oxfordgrade: 3:36pm On Jul 09, 2023 |
[quote author=naice post=124070940]I find myself facing a difficult situation in my marriage and would greatly appreciate your insights and advice. The issue at hand revolves around my wife's unwillingness to listen to me. I'm at a loss as to why she behaves this way, and it's starting to take a toll on our relationship.
To provide some context, my wife has a strong-headed personality, which often leads to conflicts between us. No matter how gently I communicate my concerns or requests, she seems to disregard them and even does the opposite. This behavior frustrates me and leaves me questioning our compatibility.
One possible explanation I've considered is her background as an orphan. She lost her parents at a young age and had to take on the responsibility of caring for herself and her siblings. My brother, this is the exact description of my own wife. I've also consider divorce bu mtt.19:5-9 always stand on my way. Please let bear them that way while hoping through prayer... |
Culture › Know Your Brother On Nairaland Forum by Oxfordgrade(op): 3:11pm On Jul 08, 2023 |
Wherever you come from all over the world.
Lets know where you from, and greet one another in our dialect.
I rep Calabar: ekom dohh.., Ndito eka. |
Crime › Re: Georgia Woman Arrested For Dragging Her Child By The Hair by Oxfordgrade: 9:21am On Jul 08, 2023 |
 Daddyseun1: Devilish woman. Am leaving with a similar one as wife too  Daddyseun1: Devilish woman. Am leaving with a similar one as wife too |
Family › Re: Can A Woman Who Hasn't Had Sex For Months Give Birth Easily? by Oxfordgrade: 8:13am On Jul 08, 2023*. Modified: 8:45am On Jul 08, 2023 |
Rest assure that your woman will deliver freely, if the baby is in good condition i.e lies well in the womb. It doesn't matter if you did not service her for the past 9month; or your gbola is as tiny as toothpick, the genetic make up of that place is a marvel! Believe me i have seen things_ hear some here from the creator of life: Read Psalm 139:13-16 |
Politics › Re: What I Asked AI And The Answer I Got by Oxfordgrade: 8:03am On Jul 08, 2023 |
Please help me ask him if one fake statistian who is looking for his manhood, will find one? |
Politics › Re: Ohanaeze, ACF, Igbokwe Knock Dokubo Over Igbo Secession Comment by Oxfordgrade: 7:37am On Jul 08, 2023*. Modified: 7:56am On Jul 08, 2023 |
I stand with Asari Dokubo. Lets igbo go for goodness sake! I'm sick and tire of this victim mentality in them. Proudly Akw-cross |
Politics › Re: Enugu Govt To Shut Down Schools, Markets That Observe 1-week Sit-at-home Order by Oxfordgrade: 11:29am On Jul 04, 2023 |
HitlerWasRight: Declare Marshall law across the SE and install a Military administrator over them.
Dusk to dawn curfew .
Banning of every and all gatherings be it burial ceremonies , weddings and what have you.
Derecognise all traditional stools .
Enforce a military security network in all states of the SE.
Every interstate and intra state movement to and within the SE must have military clearance approval
That's the only solution. i saw them attacking you already. Igbos matter dey like husband and wife matter; dey no dey chook mouth. Anyway, your summission was brilliant! |
Politics › Re: SS Vs Se...the Comment From A Reasonable Igbo Man by Oxfordgrade: 8:37am On Jul 02, 2023 |
They are deluded by always dragging us to their madness |
Politics › Re: Ndi Igbo, It Is Time To Go Home. by Oxfordgrade: 1:41pm On Jul 01, 2023 |
bender79: who is more sectional than your tribe? Tell me have you ever voted for an Igbo man before? Stop talking trash. You guys are they most sectional set of human beings in the face of the earth GO THROUGH ALL MY POST; I be confirm S.S |
Politics › Re: Ndi Igbo, It Is Time To Go Home. by Oxfordgrade: 8:12am On Jul 01, 2023*. Modified: 8:42am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Someone once predicted that this sudden organic love for Nigeria by the Igbos, because of PO presidential ambition will fade out, should he not win on the poll. Wuna no dey everly disappoint! A people too emotional, loud and brazen. Every ethnic group in this country has contributed in one way or the other, yet, i have not hear this kind of noise. Charge your elective leaders to start lobbying for a change of constitution from: Dr Namdi Azikiwe style to that of great Obafemi Awolowo propposed kind of constitution. Or stop sectional politics and widen out and stop the blame game now_ peace! |
Politics › Re: Ipob Dos Leaders Meets Eu And Un For Biafra Referendum (arise News) by Oxfordgrade: 8:11am On Jul 01, 2023*. Modified: 8:51am On Jul 01, 2023 |
This people no de everly disappoint. I wish them safe trip_ but should count Cross river and Akwaibom state in fact, all the S.S state out of their madness. Tho, we gladly dash them slomirwormair and the rest like him |
Politics › Re: When A Soldier Dies, What Happen To His Boots, Gun, Helmet And Uniform? by Oxfordgrade: 12:09pm On Jun 28, 2023 |
Some are buried with, others are retrieved. Go watch action movies and learn |
Romance › Unemployment And Hardship Rendering Men Impotent by Oxfordgrade(op): 10:32am On Jun 28, 2023 |
This is not clout chasing nor exaggeration. People are going through a lot; I am slowly loosing my grip on hope! Imagine a whole agile sterile man like me, loosing my intimacy.u.a.l apetite to my pretty wife for the past 1-month now. Please the wealthy among us, lets, Micheal Jackson iconic song "heal the world" touch your heart at this moment in our nation. I send my love and hug to you who are daring life's ordeal without recourse to sucide. Lets LOVE lead!!! |
Christianity Etc › Re: Between God And Jesus, Who Deserve Our Praises More ? by Oxfordgrade(op): 6:22pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: As an aside from this... In the same John 14 vs 15 - 25, Jesus Christ explained that the only way you can honor Him — reveal your love for Him — is by doing only that which He commands in His Name and it is only when you do just that you also honor His father, who is greater than He is. So, if Jesus Christ never commanded you to praise Him— with your words and your dances, and singing— it means there is no true honor in praising Him, and certainly, your praises of Him do not honor God either.  very apt sir. I agree 100% |
Christianity Etc › Re: Between God And Jesus, Who Deserve Our Praises More ? by Oxfordgrade(op): 12:26pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Jashub: So John 10 isn't part of the bible abi ? Olodo Thank you sir. Your grandiloquent is top notch! |
Christianity Etc › Re: Between God And Jesus, Who Deserve Our Praises More ? by Oxfordgrade(op): 10:25am On Jun 25, 2023 |
Jashub: You must be delusional. Are you aware that the jew wanted to stone Jesus ? In John 10, The Jewish leaders picked up rocks again to stone him to death.
But Jesus said to them, "I have shown you many good deeds from the Father. For which one of them are you going to stone me?" The Jewish leaders replied, "We are not going to stone you for a good deed but for blasphemy, because you, a man, are claiming to be God."
Jesus here is making the claims by Himself , not me Read philipian 2:5-9 and see for yourself who is more delusional grandeur? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Between God And Jesus, Who Deserve Our Praises More ? by Oxfordgrade(op): 9:32am On Jun 25, 2023 |
Jashub: It's too early for this foolishness . But for your information, Jesus said so many things about Himself, but one of the things He mostly spoke about was His Father.
Then Phillip , who was one of His disciples, had always heard him talk much about this Mystery Father , so he asked Jesus " Lord show us the Father and that would be enough for us "(John14:8.) And what did Jesus say ?
Jesus said , "Philip, have I been so long with you that you do not know Me ? He who has seen Me has seen the Father ". (John14:9)
Throughout scripture, Jesus makes this same claim (See John 8:48 and John 10:30) , and Christians accept His word.
Those that don't agree with this simply just disagree with what Jesus said about Himself. Simple have you attended an occasion where, a representitive was sent instead of original chairman? Jesus while here on earth depicted his fathers attributes without necessarily, usurping his father authority. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Between God And Jesus, Who Deserve Our Praises More ? by Oxfordgrade(op): 8:29am On Jun 25, 2023 |
Opanka44: Jesus is God and God is Jesus. God the father, God the Son and God the Holy Ghost all in one. That's the Trinity.
Look at this analogy of The Egg we eat. It has the Egg white, the Yolk and the shell. These are what make it the Egg. These three parts are interdependent and wouldn't be called an Egg if any part were to miss Jesus said his father is greater than he is... read john 14:28 |
Christianity Etc › Re: Between God And Jesus, Who Deserve Our Praises More ? by Oxfordgrade(op): 8:24am On Jun 25, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: John 5 vs 41 half answers your question. However, if you can only honor God by obeying Jesus Christ, then you should be able to figure the answer to to question is clear from the teachings of Jesus Christ.  that makes sense sir. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Between God And Jesus, Who Deserve Our Praises More ? by Oxfordgrade(op): 8:19am On Jun 25, 2023 |
Jashub: God is Jesus , and Jesus is God. So honoring the Son is the same as honoring the Father. But at john 14vs28,... Jesus made it clear: ...that his father is greater than he is... Please go read that, and come for discussion. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Between God And Jesus, Who Deserve Our Praises More ? by Oxfordgrade(op): 8:10am On Jun 25, 2023 |
OlawaleBammie: U just wake up to make a slide about someone else religion?? Lol, pls why not face ur life and leave religion alone??
If u read ur bible very well u should know that Jesus is a word of God.
God's word is Jesus according to the book of John. So literally Jesus Himself is God and God is Jesus....shalom. so by logic, are you saying: it is justifiable to praise the 'WORD' (Jesus) instead of the one who send the word (GOD)? |
Christianity Etc › Between God And Jesus, Who Deserve Our Praises More ? by Oxfordgrade(op): 7:58am On Jun 25, 2023 |
I keep wondering why many people who escape one form of danger or the other, will quick to say "thank you Jesus!" instead of thank you God. Even in their music, they shower much praises to Jesus more than God his father. My point is, who deserve much praise between God and Jesus? |
Health › Re: Help On Permanent Cure For Bad Breath by Oxfordgrade: 5:12pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Evestar200: Please I need help with a permanent cure for Bad breath (Mouth Odour).
We've tried all English medications on my Younger brother but keeps getting worse with no improvement.
Please anybody with an effective medication should help out. cut dokoyaro stick ( nim leave), let him chew it and brush with it; before he goes to sleep, he should use pinch of salt to rinse his mouth. Stop that english medication and save ur money |
Crime › Re: Police Arrested Me Because A Married Friend Visited My Hotel Room - Ayo Sogunro by Oxfordgrade: 2:02pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
slawomir: Damnnn niggar
See all the comments above just show say we still dey live archaic and primitive life style for this part of the world. Our mentality and reasoning is gone
So hotel room nor be same accommodation and shelter like our normal house? So una just condition una mind say na only bad things dey happen for hotel Wow even some educated nairaland are supporting the police...I dey shame for all of una Light up my weed with anger while I walk of this thread don't worry, when next u bomb into the hotel, and meet ur wife (if atall u will marry ) with a man in such manner, pls run go hug her and shake the man to show how civilized u are woke! |
Politics › Re: Emefiele Is A Flight Risk: DSS,OAGF Oppose Suspended CBN Gov's Bail Application by Oxfordgrade: 12:32pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
Ceenachi: Where is MALAMI AND BUHARI? 
Was it possible for Mr Emefiele to carry out those major decisions without Buhari's consent? I remember listening to Mr Buhari when he said that he authorized Naira redesign. Why is it difficult in Nigeria to probe past Presidents? ARE YOU ONLY BLEATING WHEN IT'S NOT FAVOURING YOU? IF U'RE A PATRIOT, U SHOULD HAVE ASK THIS QUESTION_ DURING DASUKI-GATE. REMEMBER, HE CLAIMED THAT: JONA GAVE THE ORDER AND YET, U AND YOUR GOONS STILL HOLD THE VIEW THAT HE WAS A SAINT |
Travel › Re: Former Erosion Site Transformed Into A Green Park In Uyo (Before & After Photos) by Oxfordgrade: 10:39am On Jun 19, 2023 |
Depriest2020: Which contractor did this marvelous work? I want to recommend the company to Anambra state government. NIGER PET STRUCTURES COMPANY LIMITED |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: New Trend Alert!! Companies Now Taking Advantage Of Job Applicants!! by Oxfordgrade: 8:17pm On Jun 17, 2023 |
uuzba: There's a day I entered a ride to work. The driver picked up other passengers and we were all there stuck in traffic jam. One lady was complaining about her sales work. One guy beside me told her to stop complaining. He was a northerner guy. After UNI, he saw that nothing was happening in the north. He just closed eyes and came down to Lagos. No where to sleep. He went and slept in one kind roadside beer parlour/car park place. Night and morning he will wash the cars of those beer parlour men that came to park there, whether they pay or not. That's how one of them noticed him and asked him to follow him. Oga gave him driver work. From there to head of logistics. Guy managed himself, rented house, later bought land, married wife. - I don't know what else to say. I will not tell you what to do. Just take your actions wisely. I and the northen brother grace are different; I don't think you will expect a family man like me to undertake such risk. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: New Trend Alert!! Companies Now Taking Advantage Of Job Applicants!! by Oxfordgrade: 3:21pm On Jun 17, 2023 |
Ofadaman: Most jobseekers aren't good enough for the job, no employer is frustrating them, this way of thinking is what makes applicant find ways to justify their incompetence ,instead of looking for ways to upskill and do better at interviews they find ways to throw the blame at the employers, just to feel good about themselves. Most of them will respond positively to this post as a way to confirm their bias and feel good about themselves. Sir, you sound like an employer. please sir is there an opening in your establishment, for the post of a driver or gardener? |
Family › Re: Common Issues Associated With Faithful Wifes by Oxfordgrade(op): 10:10am On Jun 17, 2023 |
[quote author=Chinny024 post=123838914]Hmmmmmm....Which type if study and conclusion is this...OP?. How many FAITHFUL wives have you encountered and what made you conclude they are poor bedmatically?.. Have you tried sleeping with any?✍✍✍ |
Family › Re: Common Issues Associated With Faithful Wifes by Oxfordgrade(op): 1:01pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
bukatyne: I read the whole post.
My wonder is how you came up with those characteristics for faithful wives because it means you haven't seen any different around you or all the wives with opposite characters around you I.e. Well dressed, not religious fanatics, goal oriented/ working/ have a source of income, are creative etc. are not faithful to their husbands.
Do you now understand why I am wondering the type of women around you?
N.B.: I did not insult you in the post you quoted. it's obvious you read, but no comprehension! Because I clearly stated that, my source is from the STORIES OF PEOPLE ON THIS FORUM and MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE. Here, you will hardly hear any OP complaining of his cheating wife having those listed characteristic; while on the contrary, you will read something like: she's lazy, can't dress well, can't satisfy me... etc. Personal experience: I married my wife as a virgin. For the first 2yrs, she couldn't satisfied me on bed, but ok nw. |
Family › Re: Common Issues Associated With Faithful Wifes by Oxfordgrade(op): 10:44am On Jun 16, 2023 |
bukatyne: As I moved down your 7 points, I kept laughing.
You must mistake a lazy housewife for a faithful woman.
New things on this NL everyday!
One wonders the families you come from or the kind of people around you. reread the two last paragraph again before your insult thanks |
Family › Re: Common Issues Associated With Faithful Wifes by Oxfordgrade(op): 8:24pm On Jun 15, 2023 |
[quote author=fyzaila post=123821433]Try and be truthful for once op. So to be faithful comes with all this negative stuffs you put up there? You're not serious |