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you see why I say nairaland is full of hypocrites ,can you see the amount of people lusting after this girl..but if they post man gropes Regina Daniels breast , the next thing social justice warriors go spawn from no where given the opportunity una go do the same , she should plz be decent , cause if a a man touch her now they will say she is a minor ..them go say the man no get right stall ..yes oh the man no get right but she could help issues by covering her nipples abeg

I called a a female friend of mine and asked her night went with her crush and the first thing I heard was the guy is a fool joor ..because I told him no just once he just slept off and left me ..,but I was you told stop yeah ? and she said wait is he a child don't he know there something called " STOP IT I LIKE IT" well I was surprised that guy was a gentle man and now she think his a fool .

4Ken:
If a girl says she doesn't want to do and you still force yourself on her it's rape.

If a girl follows you to a hotel or to your house or office, even if she wears a mini skirt and no undies and she doesn't consent, it's rape.

If you and the girl are doing it and after a while she says stop but you don't stop, it's rape.

A lot of Nigerian men need to understand this.

its either you dumb or plain old stupid , a guy having sex after consent can still be accused of rape lol, there is a Yoruba proverb that says when the axe entered the forest the tress looked at each other and pointed to the axe screaming but you are one of us !!!, men would enslave themselves ,stupid men like you in the need to feel civilized or gain acceptance from God knows what would say anything to buy relevance from these crazed milieu of liberals , you can Prate about this all you want the biological nature of man remains unchanged no matter how evolve you think your faculty of reason has developed ..I read a case yesterday of guy who was having sex with a girl and her ass implant was damaged and it was tagged as sexual assault the guy was arrested and is in jail presently , if you encourage an unjust system without putting objective and subjective reasons into play you are just bending to the tide of conformism ..in as much as we want to protect women we should not in so doing victimise men also , I read somewhere a girl mentioned she was verbally abused and he was sued for that, but women insult men every time ,women make joke about a mans height or finance every time but if a man talks about how overweight a woman is a man gets victimised for that .. no body is preaching decency to women but they preach control to men , a woman can spread her legs in front of you and finger her self ,stroke your meat but if she says no then that's it a man should just fight it , but idiots like you won't tell women not to put them selves in such situation rather subtly encourage it ..I have tried getting few women aroused for experimental purpose and backing out just see how they react ..and the reaction is almost the same if the girl had the strength I had she would hold me down and have her way ., I have sisters who I advise to dress as decent as possible men are visual being you take a picture of clevage halve the men commenting had taught of sex with you before they liked the picture it what it is ..we should curb the liberal view women have taking into cognizant the resultant causality,

iRepNaija1:
OP, you shouldn't have bothered with this write-up. The only thing you managed to do was bring out NL members who want to insult you, tell you that you hate all men, call you a feminist/say this is about feminism, distract the conversation by pointing at women's "faults" in response, and make comments that don't contribute to the discussion. If your write-up didn't apply to these naysayers, they wouldn't have bothered responding in the first place.

The fact of the matter is that there is truth to the what the OP is saying and the responders, not matter how much they try, can't negate that. They can look our society and see for themselves, if they want to. Smh. This site used to be a cool place to come to.

if you a man am most certain when you have sex , she wears a strap on and take you from behind bitch nigga while you scream ,but if you are a woman its okay you point don't matter anyway

good Riddance's to bad rubbish , plz let me make some thing clear a woman is in no way equal to a man .. till the day women would do brick layer work , or weld or pack shit then I might believe , the o.p did mention men have pride ,well that is the denominator of a man our pride is wrapped with dignity and honour that is why men look down at other men who gossip about other men , that's why men don't go and wish each other all the best on face book but say all sort of despicable things about the same friend of theirs to any ear who is ready to listen , that is why gigolo business is frowned on by the men community but Aristo business is taken with complacency withing the female circle , a man does not get delusion of grandeur from ridding shot gun in his best friends car but a woman can catch an attitude by just taking a picture with a b list celebrity or getting 200 likes on .I.g .. pride deficiency is the reason a woman would spread her legs for anything that would pay her bills women don't have pride the way they have tricked the world to believe , even women would be quick to call a man who cries or bitch about everything a woman , feminist are just confused if am to treat the o.p the way I treat my fellow man ..example call her an idiot as a form of compliment or take a jovial jab at her she will be quick to understand and hold unto the advantages she might have as a woman..plz take a seat eh

Bizibi:
wait!!! Fashola could not say a word.....

f.c.t minister

I was watching tvc and I was so impressed when a pressure group brought the minister to a 13km road site , which only 2km out of it was completed , they were very harsh with their questions and crude ..they asked him how is it two years of office you can only complete 2km the guy was speechless

kendrace:
I hate guys who don't respect women

one idiot spotted , if it was the other way to round no body will say any thing I no blame the woman sha , I blame the stupid men who will kowtow to woman worship just to please society , what's there to respect in women this days , the fact women want to walk around naked or open their legs to anything over material things , if it was the past generation that demand respect perhaps it would be considered not this public properties

see as don jazzy let this girl use am shine , agro na bastard

carammel:
Ruggedman trying to stay relevant, what's his business?

olosho support group I sight you

any man who a woman has the mind to raise her hand to touch him has probably allowed it , while y'all stupid men are forming its not right to hit woman blah blah me am solidifying my resolve if a woman as much as lookat me funny your face go hear am , you hear on social media how women torture their house girls and minor that is because they can , if a woman has the strength to slap you she would so don't any one fool you ,if a woman as much as struggle with curb there and then if not the next time na stab wound you go battle with ..

collabo4me:
Dis is d result of fighting. Hw will a guy be quarreling with woman publicly. Nonsense

you an idiot , what should he do beat her so the likes of you would come an lash him for fighting a woman

thunderbabs:
That is what we want to hear and see in videos too...doz booties

Dont you know that the world passes different phases at differnt times till the end of the world?

We re in a democratic phase ryt now...do n say what u like, itz called freedom of speech tho with its clause sha

biko nego du you see why I say men are becoming increasingly stupid look at what this one is saying among men I would count this one as just a form of weed

Gloryr:
They should appeal this judgment... Or is it because she is a woman??

Just 7yrs....she will serve the short term, come out relocate and start life a fresh while the man is lying stone cold in his grave.

Men are gradually becoming endangered in this country... Education and civilization has spoilt alot of things sha.

is it now you know , but it good for men cause most I meet this day are just stupid , you hear em saying things like they raise your voice when you talk to a woman , don't do this cause shes a woman , that shi make my stomach churn if it was a man who killed her or even as much slap her social media justice warriors would demand death penalty now the opposite is the case men are quite , I personally feel I weed every weak spined man out of community if you low tow to woman worship you don't deserve to be a man , social media has made men go to soft ,maybe a war should erupt so we could go back to our default setting , you are a man , you are meant to enforce discipline ....I know talk again set I son tire

what the EFF is wrong with the world , ye spineless men are the reason masculinity has been eroded this bad , so fuvk what if he had cheated I spit on all you men on here who are supporting his wife y'all are idiots , he his a man and you can't change that ,a man goes the extra length to make a woman comfortable , a man should stomach whatever the world throws at him , a man should eat once a day while the woman eat three times , a man should use a torch light phone while the woman use a Samsung s8 ,a mans should lay down his life to protect a woman , all this are the virtue society is quick to demand from a man , but we shun the vice ,which is men do cheat every once in a while not like I encourage it , many women would be quick to shout is she not a human being like him too , plz then she should slave her self and work twice as hard if we are to bring the equality card here people need to understand the underpinnings of the male /female sexuality .. , what is demanded of the woman is just loyalty , our forefather had the right idea of being very conservative and draconian with the way they handle the female specie this liberalism ye so called civilized men are propagating would be your undoing ,the .op in question who seems well grounded with African traditional value might find it difficult to treat her the same way he did before, if he does not pull through that child would possible grow up without a strong father figure to serve as a mentor or role model , he might grow up without having little or no regard for the female folks hence a vicious circle ,women are a forte for a progressive society , they are the ones who are charge with doing a 70percent job of grooming our son into responsible people so if you are a man and you are being complacent about infidelity you are a fool . dear O.p plz forgive her and move on for the sake of your child but hence serve your hedonistic urges whatsoever put you and your son first in whatever you do cause trust me she is only sorry cause she got caught ,drop that ideology of because am a man am suppose to suffer for her , women are very selfish beings but trick men to believe they are altruistic the only selfless love you can get from a woman is only from your mother ... wake up world

PAGAN9JA:
Nigeria is a sex obsessed nation.

I disagree with you , where did you keep India in all of this

NwaAmaikpe:


I am not shocked;

My mother told me that Preek no go school

My father told me that preek no get conscience.

Experience has taught me that preek no get shame.
The preek is the steering wheel of a male body. Anywhere it takes you to, just go

wow so your parent are these vast on preek knowledge ...you must have had the best of education ,,

you see why I don't how a woman and a man can be seen as equals nah it just physiologically and psychologically imposicant ...can a single father all in the name of representing or filling a void dress as a woman to attend his child mothers days ish ...no ! am not the type to delve into other peoples issue but I am irritated and livid not by this bitch but the stupid girls supporting what she's doing ....I don't even blame feminist any more I now blame the men who taught it was cool to endorse it ,,,,no doubt some men are uncultured and savage but then given women feminism won't fix the problem it would only make things worst a woman can be all she can but can't in anyway stand the physicality that a man has ...people say why would a man hit a woman , ask your self why men fight wars ,,,if it were just women countries would only quarrel with other countries..men are violent and that is what it is ...men try to curb your anger women , forget feminism and tame your tongue

graciella:
Must he talk?? If he says he is done with Tonto, Why is he doing this?? Ehn?!

ode, may you end up with a man like you ...senseless and irrational

if I know this fiancee of yours I will actually advice him not to marry you , ask your self if he shows his mum this much love ...that shows how much of loving man he is ....her life is halve spent already is only right he gives her all the best he can now shes alive you have no idea what that woman gave up for that boy to be the man he his today ..what you should do is show him all the love you can ..and take the place of his mom when she's gone ..as for now just live with it

decatalyst:
Bros calm down.

The police you see in that picture are slowpokes. There are just there to fulfill all righteousness of visiting a crime scene.

You were expecting to see yellow tapping around the crime scene with emergency ambulance, cops with gloves, object labelling, evidence carrier kit, forensic and homicide cops battling to unravel what an ordinary citizen can not decipher, right?

The last time I checked, Nigeria is an underdeveloped country. Cased closed!

abeg tell am oh ... so let's say they actually put a yellow then to what end ...do we have a forensic team , u want swab DNA or collect finger print to run against which data base ?

IamKashyBaby:
I dunno ...im not convinced with the answer tho..i need deeper answers to this..thanks...

okay perhaps you check quora ...there is an answer there on how our subconscious mind stays conscious and stores all sort of information even if we are totally oblivious of it....this particular questions of yours bugged me some years back after reading some teachings from reputable amorc Rosicrucians and grail teachings also it gave me a lot of insight as to how and why ...good luck

Princejebs:
Can someone help out with this, I also experienced these especially whenever I had a bad dream and I wanted to rush trying to wake up.

my best bet is you had a lucid dream and your body in way snaps out REM before REM could finish and you have what they call false awakening you fully aware of your surrounding but sleep paralysis won't let you move or act out ...some esoteric teaching give guide lines on how to self induce a lucid dream

IamKashyBaby:
My only question is why we see people with blur faces in our dream but they sounds familiar yet we don't know them in real life?

I fell on my bed many times while im asleep coz my favorite spot is on the edge of the bed..

the faces you see most times are random people you ve actually met or talked let take for example the cab man or bike who dropped you off today do you remember his face or the boy hawking gala or pure water I bet you can't recall what they look like ...but your brain does the faces off all these people get stored in your subconscious as your eyes sees your brain registers .. and as you enter REM your brain access this store data in your subconscious and there you have a stranger offering you sweet in your dreams ...

KahlDrogo:
Whatever happens to them, they brought upon themselves. The hate being propagated by these people is just too much, all because Jonathan lost the election. Even the Ijaws moved on, why is it so difficult for igbos to move on?

menn this Igbo people are really stupid I am halve Igbo but any one listening to namdi KANU is a loser ....I told one of my biafran friend why don't you people agitate for power to enter a real Easterners hand and his like we don't want the presidency we just want Biafra ..,,if you know history very well trust me you know too well how much of a lost cause yall have embarked on ...this acrid and disparaging narrative was one of the culminating cause that led to the pogrom ...some group of Igbo soldiers killed a northern royalty and some dim wit artist went ahead to release a song ' ewu na ba akwa' market women praising the rebel soldiers and all smh , well history always has a way of repeating itself you see this namdi KANU fella would be you peoples own undoing , this guy like ojukwu would remain unscathed from the fall out of this whole drama that's about to unfold ,,,, just a bunch of sheeple and innocent people who will be caught in the crossfire I already sympathetic too..

DocHMD:
Bring it on you gworo-munching clowns!

lol igbos don't eat kola-nuts? stereotypic biafran never know what they are saying ...am Igbo by the way and a Nigerian also before you bring the aboki card let me check mate you there

make we cry

fucking biafrans ... well I respect y'all nairalander for one thing , even though most here are partisan and ethnic zealots y'all are smart ....funny story,. I am both Igbo and Hausa Fulani ,marternal(biafran) and parternal the later but i detest the lack of Honor biafrans have .. a biafran friend of mine called me up some days ago and told me he has page on facebook biafra...blah blah and he want me to be part of the admin and all that ...and I told him how will I get content cause am not really probiafra like that ... and he was like what content? ...write anything wetin them talk wetin them no talk just put am for there... can you imagine sensationalism and propaganda this was one of the major cause of the genocide between the hutis and tutsi in rawanda in the early 1990's all this hate this people are brewing would soon explode right in our face ... plz dear biafrans I am halve Igbo like you people ...the game you people are playing will not end well for any off us ..most of you propagating this nepotistic narrative would be sorry if this all end in violence this I promise

his parents are farmers and he was able to school abroad, does not add up atall , what humble beginning if his dad could send him abroad from farming trust me ain't nuffing humble in such beginning ....the guys people are boxed

kujuru castle is like 129k to 150 a night oh ...better just add extra 200 go Dubai

kimbra:
Women are not polygamous. We should learn how to speak for ourselves. Because few silly ones cheat on their husband doesn't mean all cheat.

If a man is jobless they'd nag but few weeks or a month out of town isn't a reason for any woman to cheat on her husband. He's doing the both of you a favour by pulling the necessary resources needed to run a home, and such men shouldn't be repaid with cheating.

I can never cheat on whoever I marry, I rather do you the favour of not marring you.

If he has a potbelly, you could help him do stuffs to deflate it. That's if there's love in the first place.

God plz let the right man find this girl ....for the life of me never did I imagine I would see a woman say something this sensible ...may your progenies inherit the earth ...

funny enough this was planned a friend of mine who is pro biafran, goes for all their mmetins in abuja and all told me this would happen about 3weeks ago ...But the hype was over exaggerated , they went unclad so what their fallen breast will pierce the eyes of the security operative ? well secondly he said something will happen on may 30th well my legs are crossed as I sip my origin