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JustGood:
The guy is daft for not telling his Nigerian wife that he had to marry in Finland in his search for papers.

Bingo!

prittigrrr:
Dear Iyakadijat:  Sweetheart, I know you started this thread as a way to vent and for support and prayers. I believe many ppl here are giving that. Many others are also doling out blame to u 2.  Some have  given  contructive  criticism  to  help  u  analyze  and  move  on. Others r  just mean for whatever reason. Remember that what matters is U. U don't have to keep defending yourself.  U know what happened, why and how.  Keep  what  u can  use,  discard  what  u  cant  and use what u have 2 move on and  thrive.    Baby girl, I want u 2 win this. Remember u r a winner and no 1 can hurt u unless u allow it 2 b so.  Be in it 2 win it.

correct yarns. .

@IyaKadijat   Most of these new posters only read your first post, and are ranting on you over here  , u don't have to keep defending yourself. Just know what you want for yourself and your daughter and take active steps towards achieving them.

Wish u good luck! 

spikedcylinder:

not name calling and ego bashing.

The way some pple have gone about it over here, you'll think they have a personal vendetta against her or sth 

justwise:
I'm going to give her a ring 2moro and tell her exactly what i saw

@poster

This one no b phone conversation o. .

U need to have a face 2 face talk with her.

@Iyakadijat C2H5OH has knocked it down right. The faster u sever all dealings with him, the better.

@C2H5OH By d way, u dey shack wella?

@poster

Calling and texting a married woman? It was bound to happen anyway. .but na fire u dey play with.

If u no wan make anotha man mess with your wife too when u eventually get married, hands off now.

IyaKadijat:
Again-this her living with him situation is only for the next 2 and 1/2 weeks that school is in-after that she is coming back home and I will leave it up to him to maintain contact with her. I am not going to force his daughter on him. I want him to be a part of her life, but I am also not above letting my daughter come to realize what kind of asshole her Daddy is on her own.

Correct. .na wetin I hear b dat. ._{u understand pidgin english?}

Wish u all the best _{and keep us updated on how you're getting along}

posakosa:
@Euchena

call immigration on that biotch and call it a day. Revenge is best served on a cooold platter.

frank talk 

If it were up to me, I'd cease all forms of contact with him. Dropping off/picking up your daughter, calling him to speak to your daughter thereby hearing his voice on the phone. .will only hinder you from moving on. Having contact with him still gives u a sense of hope that he might come to his senses one day and it'll all work out just fine, but face reality: he has his wife and kids with him now, and that's HIS family as far as he's concerned. .

Move to a new city if u have to. Tell your daughter "Dad has returned to Africa" or something. You said earlier your daughter can't live one day without seeing him. .well, she'll just have to get used to the new life. You're her mother.

The important thing is to erase him from your life and move on. It won't be easy, but it can be done.

It's kinda amazing how some men think. What goes around definitely comes around.

[quote author=SoAmazing! link=topic=265731.msg3779197#msg3779197 date=1240663308]Wo ore wa, eran to o danikan pa, iwo nikan lo maa da jee.Alakori Okunrin![/quote]

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This is an outrage

omo dis leta gangsta o!

i go write am give one girl and watch her reaction. .

LOL @ poster !!!

u sef sharp wella. .at least i dey shag d girls wey i dey pay dem house rent/school fees. .but you. .u b father xmas na. .

Guy u b perfect mugu. .

The girl wasn't sure how dumb u were, so she put u to the test. .and u showed her ur true colours. .

MRbrownJAY don talk am perfectly. .

It's a pity d guy don sabi where u dey work . .that's why it's always better to meet in a neutral location first, incase u have a change of mind like in ur case. .

Not that I'm into online stuff. .I prefer make I see d babe face 2 face, like am, then pursue am like crazy. .

Finally. . . a sigh of relief. .  

chamotex:
I dey o . . . where u don dey since now?

here n there, haven't been regular on nland really. . .

i no get chance watch d match, just dey follow am online 4 eurosport. . .hope d boyz dey play wella sha. .

chamo. . .wetin dey. . .i no say i go find u here. .  

word!

Eyin people, i gaz comot. .it's past my bedtime. .

It's been fun catchin' up with nland, and esp that 18-year old gal. .

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=257292.msg3709044#msg3709044 date=1239241057]LOL, that's not me. . . .you're hitting on my best friend. cheiii!![/quote]why u dey put her pic 4 ur profile in the first place. .u sure say u no be lesbzzz. .

no use dat one as excuse. .drop me an email. .

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=257292.msg3709049#msg3709049 date=1239241349]That's my friend(MissyB)'s husband  [/quote]not anymore. .I'm free now. .you made sure of that by fixing her up with ur bro. .

OgidiBoy:
And soooo! what missyb don't know won't hurt her

u b correct person jare!

why i no go fear pikin

but shey na u dey d pic?

throw me ur email make we yarn beta away from all these prying eyez o. .my addy dey my profile. .

jet plane ko, canoe ni. .wa pe nibe. .

why dem dey call u "Silk"?

na ur pikin dey dat pic?

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=257292.msg3709003#msg3709003 date=1239238820]am speechless, now I believe you. Ara oko united [/quote]awa ni yen

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=257292.msg3709003#msg3709003 date=1239238820]But phones cant get me [/quote]hey Toyin, frank talk. .what if I buy you the G1, u go gree 4 me?

no seriously. .

I was watching "Grey's Anatomy" before the flight took off, and she came over and asked me to switch it off. .

After the plane was in the air she told me I could switch it back on and she kinda hung round a little making small talk, then she left before it was too obvious to her collegues. .

Then a few minutes before the plane landed she asked me to switch it off in preparation for landing, and that was when she asked me to come to the back of the plane. .

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=257292.msg3708949#msg3708949 date=1239236748]She be ara oko?[/quote]Girl u sure say u sef no be "ara oko"? cos "it takes one to recognise the other". .

Admit it. .the phone dey trip an average naija person. .i no say e trip me when i first see am. .yes, i be ara oko

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=257292.msg3708923#msg3708923 date=1239235919]Boy, I am old enough to be your wife, your dominatrix. . . .SO watch am o[/quote]hmm. .i like the sound of that. .

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=257292.msg3708923#msg3708923 date=1239235919]LOL, behind closed doors, not me and you [/quote]Of course, not me and you, but the three of us! The more the merrier

netotse:
and the thread begins to get derailed. . .

bros no mind d girl. .na phone i wan discuss, she turn am into 3some talk. .

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=257292.msg3708901#msg3708901 date=1239234603]no, am not a lesbo[/quote]hmm. .u sure? the three of us could "investigate" behind closed doors. .

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=257292.msg3708901#msg3708901 date=1239234603]She hooked up with my bro [/quote]wish them happy married life. .


[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=257292.msg3708901#msg3708901 date=1239234603]Depends on whose asking [/quote]how far now? u wan make i use all mouth explain to u, haba. . not surprised anyway. .18-year old daddy's pet. .

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=257292.msg3708885#msg3708885 date=1239234301]LOL, how I go fit forget you? Neva, baby Welcome back[/quote]hmm. .callin' anoda woman husband "baby"?

wait a min. .abi she don hook up with anoda bobo?

by the way. .are u by any chance single?

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=257292.msg3708839#msg3708839 date=1239233233]Oyato, stop flirting, I dnt want MissyB after me. She be my paddy, you know [/quote]wow. .didn't think anyone would remember. .haven't been on nland in ages (infact, I think these are my first posts this year). .

Ok. .do u have the G1? We could swap phones, and see which one is actually better. .

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=257292.msg3708793#msg3708793 date=1239231970]LOL, after 5 post, na love? u no serious at all [/quote]So you were counting? Interesting. .

Wait. .u sure say u no be one 18-year old girl whose papa still dey screen male visitors for? was thinking about that whip. .


The letters aren't that difficult to use. .each letter magnifies when you press it, and there's also an auto-correction feature to help out when you mistype. .it's really cool.

For me, I love its sleek design (the fact that it has only one button is totally awesome) and its flexibily - i can add hundreds of different apps and turn the phone into virtually anything else. .

So u like the Youtube? Why did you single out that one single app?

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=257292.msg3708739#msg3708739 date=1239230976]You wan rob me? oga o. . . .[/quote]nice idea, right?  I wan rob father so i go fit buy correct ride to woo the daughter. .lol 


[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=257292.msg3708739#msg3708739 date=1239230976]My papa get more than money. . . .he also has a whip for men that comes after his daughter [/quote]nothing dey happen. .i don chop pass whip. .nothing wey i no fit do for love. .

But seriously I loff that iPhone sha. .the only things that piss me off are the fact that the call register doesn't hold more than 2/3 days of records, and you can't also delete pictures off the iPhone directly except the ones taken with its camera, and lastly, I have to take if off standby mode each time in order to skip tracks. .ahh yes, the bluetooth sucks!

hmm. . .woman!

Been dreaming about a gulfstream lately. .but money neva reach. .and if u throw in this recession factor. .only God knows. .

Who I go rob to make my dreams come true?

Come to think of it. .Toyin. .ur papa get money?

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=257292.msg3708579#msg3708579 date=1239228227]You got one girl with a iPhone, you'll get plenty with G1 [/quote]naaa. . .i don wash my hands off women. .dey don tire me. .

I'll switch over to the G1 on one condition. .if it will get me you. . _{i go throw d iPhone inside well sef}. .