₦airaland Forum

lordnkem000:
I have been observing my married friends, colleagues & even neighbors around and I noticed deep down their marriages were all lacking discipline, they cheat on each other, lie, they pretend and most of them are so miserable.

Funny thing is two of my friends are not even up to 3yrs in marriage and they are so tired. Yesterday I met an old classmate of mine and he told me the girl I saw him with wasn't his wife, just for knacks, that he's been married for 1yr and 9months but he's tired of his marriage. It made me scared because here i am thinking of finding a wife and people in it are wanting out.

So I'm asking, what could be the problem with staying married these days?

People who have been married for 10+ years what is your secret? I'm curious to learn a thing or two

The institution of marriage is not the problem but the individuals going into it. Where most couples gets it wrong is in the days the foundation of the union is been laid that is when they are dating. Most intending couples do not see the need to be faithful to their relationship. They cheat, lie, and are not so committed to the relationship and expect if the relationship ends in marriage that a miracle should ensued. As you lay your bed, that is how you will lay on it.

We are living in an age where anything goes but be smart enough not to be caught. We kind of neglect God's directive for a blissful marrital union but still expect that we should have a blissful marriage. You can't eat your cake and have it.

Guy, in as much as many marriages are hitting the rock, lay your marrital relationship on a right foundation and you will be happy in marriage. I will not fail to say that you reap what you sow. Marriage is garbage in garbage out. Find the right partner and work on your relationship and you will have no regret going into marriage.

Ever8090:
Ok... I pray Tinubu succeed even though I did not supported him during the election as my candidate was obi, but deep down my heart, I doubted if Obi nor Tinubu can fix this country.

Nigeria problem is so grounded, deeprooted that I doubt even secession or regional government can fix it.

98 percent of Nigerians on the street has the same mentality with our politicians,.they complain on the sidelines because they do not have the opportunity to be there they will do far worst, our leadership is the reflection of our society.

The only solution, which in my opinion will be difficult is " the unity of the poor masses from the North and the south, it will be the game changer..but will that ever happen?..I doubt!

Yes, the unity of the poor masses across the length and breadth of this country is far more closer than you think. Hardship have a way of uniting people but the only problem is who will lead the way for this amalgamation. Do not underestimate the power of the social media. All we need is like minds across board that will be committed to bring in the change we desired. It was almost achieved through the Obidient movement but the penetration was not sacrosanct in the far north.

As Nigerians, these money's shared on monthly basis is for our welfare and social amenities but we are not asking the right questions.

How much is going as salaries, social amenities and welfare, etc? How much is use to run the state affairs and how much of these funds are left? So many questions that is asking for answers. It is our right to know.

Our governor's and local government chairmen are receiving allocations that we don't care about how it's been used.

It's time we start demanding for the information about how this revenues are put into use on our behalf. They're not in those offices for themselves but for us.

The idea of enduring a bad leadership till after four years have got to stop if not our political class will continue to take us for a ride. This have got to stop and not until we demand to be governed rightly, we will continue from one bad leadership to another.

DesChyko:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/12/tinubus-first-6-months-fg-states-spend-hugely-citizenry-not-feeling-impact/

YeyeGbami:
All eyes on judiciary

Is not easy oh. They've been in one place all day long

Congratulations to APC for deliberately shooting herself on the foot for their Muslim-Muslim ticket brandished today. Without any form of prejudice intended, will the Muslim brothers and sisters accept a Christian-Christian ticket no matter their track record in Nigeria? An obvious no is the answer. Why then do you want to field what the Christians will never accept?

Thank God we have a better option for a presidential candidate in Peter Obi. Farewell APC with your bad governance. [color=#006600][/color]

Your bravery is one of a kind, you were willing to sacrifice your life so that others may live. God bless you sir. Exercise a little patience and see what God will do for you. Blow your trumpet as loud as you can if not, no one will do it for you. Do not be deterred by what some fellow nairalanders are saying.


HAPPY FATHERS DAY TO ALL THE FATHERS IN THE HOUSE

Best of luck to the player

fuckingAyaya:
Chamberlain earns more than this guy

Sadio Mane have earned my respect in the world of football no matter how little his earning might be[color=#006600][/color]

emmanuel529:
https://www.tori.ng/userfiles/image/2017/sep/25/atiku-abubakar.jpg



https://www.google.com.ng/amp/s/www.thecable.ng/atiku-igbo-rebuilt-region-war-mud-houses-still-north/amp

this statement is politically inclined. the question i'll ask Atiku is... when you were in power, was it that you forgot that you guys could have repositioned this country?

BabaRamota1980:
See how quick the financiers of Kanu and IPOB were trailed. Good job!

Should we not even deploy same intelligence team to assist unravel the bokoharam financiers, and those who fund ammunition for fulani herdsmen.

the government of d land are not interested on that one

keep it up gunners