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emeijeh:
How does a wife cheat on his husband emotionally?

Besides, na missed calls matter you carry come NL this hot afternoon?!

NIGHTMAREOO7:
Check na?.

Iceberg3:
...my mother always stressing ain'livin'right,buh ain goin'down witout a fight,see everytime ma eyes close,i start sweatin'n blood start comin' oumanose,theres somebody watchn me eh,buh ah dunno who he is..ah can see him when am deep in the covers,buh when i awake,ah dont see the moda4ka....its 4kd up when ur minds playin'tricks on ya....
...GHETTO BOIS

NIGHTMAREOO7:
Check na?.

NIGHTMAREOO7:

Billyonaire:
Anonymity.

Billyonaire:
Why do you think I like nairaland?

Billyonaire:
There are no lesbians in Nigeria that I know of. But I know lots of bi-sexual ladies. They are great for groupie.

Michellekabod:
People tongue lash baby mamas for being drama queens and wanting to ruin their baby fathers current relationship. But, I put it to you that baby fathers are equally toxic.
I believe most nairalanders have read a post of how I broke up with my first love/baby father.
But those that haven't come across it, I will summarize it....
I was 15+ and he was 17+,when we were dating, a couple of months I'd clock sweet sixteen. We had sex, after much coaxing. He refused to use a condom as I insisted, promised not to cum in me but intentionally did it. I missed a period, got so depressed as the world came crashing at my feet but the news of the pregnancy seemed to make him happy.To make matters worse he made several attempts to harm me if I dared abort his child. His family had strong leg, and my parents feared that if I aborted the child his family will jail us...
In my moment of depression, he called for us to hang out. I lied I was not around so I could think things through and somehow he suspected I was lying. On finding me in my house he was furious. I tried begging him to forgive me for my lie. I sent messages and then he said"dont call or text me until I tell you to do so" .That was the last, NEVER heard from him till about 3.5 years later when he commented on my picture on facebook but I was too hurt to reply. I don't know how he got info about me, that he came to my school and apologised for abandoning me. He asked for us to give our love another try but I declined. After months of begging and I made it clear to him that I couldn't forgive him, he gave up.

Fast forward, he wants custody of my son(he will soon clock 11years). I have made it clear to him that aside spending holidays with him,he will not have custody of my kid. Once beaten, twice shy, the only time I allowed my kid to spend his holiday with him was some years back. What did I reap? He converted my son to Islam!(my ex is a Muslim), a traumatic experience I am yet to get over.
He wants my kid and even threatened getting a lawyer. His reasons being that I don't have a stable job and thus financial security for his son is not secured. I am a businesswoman, I do get contracts like once or twice a year. But the money I get from this few contracts can sustain me for over five years(not exaggerating). Besides if he feels there is no financial security our kid, he should continue sending support money as he had been doing over the time.
He has since been competing with me to win my son's love. If I buy him something, he would buy him a bigger stuff. For His ten years birthday, I went to school to deliver his cake and party parks only for me to find out he had thrown an elaborate party for him already .
We both agreed that he would call my kid twice a week and through me(he calls my line and I hand the phone over to my son to talk to him) but somehow he got my son number and calls him like thrice a day. I seized my boy phone, and he bought a bigger one for him.
I am frustrated! He coaxed my son to start answering his name and not my father's name which my son does now.
He has painted me black severally,lied to my son that I left him for another man that was why we broke up(which is a bloody lie.... He was the one that left because I lied).

I initiated a meeting with him in which I inquired why he had to lie. I also asked him why he wants to take my joy away from me-my son. He asked if we could get married, I didn't even allow him open the ring box before telling him never to bring up the topic of us getting back together talk more marriage. He has been begging for almost a year plus but I shunned him,reasons being that he left me hurt when I needed him and he is of different religion from mine. I still have a space for him in my heart but he hurt me alot. And besides I don't trust his proposal, it could be that he wants marriage because that will make him have 24/7 access to his son.
He recently threatened to tell my son that I wanted him aborted until he and his family threatened to deal with me if I tampered with his unborn child-this one weak me! My son may hate me for life and go meet his father if he finds out that his father desperately wanted him alive while I wanted to abort him.

He recently sent money to me to book a flight for my boy so he could fly over to the country where he is based so he could give him a nice children day treat,but I ate the money and told him he should fly over to naija to give him a Children's Day treat.

I am frustrated! Plus, all this wars we have concerning my boy is traumatizing my boy.
PS: baby fathers are toxic, my advice to youngstars is to zip up. Avoid sex before marriage to avoid the palaver of baby fathers or baby mama's. If I had proper guidance my life wouldn't be truncated like this... I love my boy alot but I wish he was born in wedlock .

refiner:
U are cheat!...that's all i can deduce from ur long epistle...

U guys hate to see ur wife cheat but derive pleasure in cheating...that's plain EVIl bro...

StarPlayer:
One sided thrash as usual

basty:
I know you are not married and you are naive of what marriage is all about. You are one sided judge. Why are you blaming this man for God's sake?

redbeans:
yup! Another guess gone right. In btw.. Finally got to see your face

uzoormah:
destruction!!
he get mind ooo
he survived

zyzxx:
.u will have for summary
U know we roll here


Good evening

redbeans:
nor vex o. Is oyindidi same as oyind17

Marisol911:
Normally i like guys with whom i can talk at lenght..Intelligent discussions ofcourse.
Someone who'd bring out the best in me ..make me a better person blah blah blah.. Someone I'd ill always want to be with, and that mks me Hot just seeing him. I don't feel any of these with him

Marisol911:
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dacovajnr:
Cmon ekolo you dey fear, what if na snake, ayaff killed several snakes before including the one I killed with my pillow

Marisol911:
Or maybe im just selfish.
I want to eat my cake and have it

dacovajnr:
and you claim you sabi better thing

BiafraBushBoy:
Lol... oh baby!!

Marisol911:
what to do now

kayo80:
lol!

dacovajnr:
Who be Messi for where Ronaldo dey?

kayo80:
See The Snake My Neighbors Just Killed

I was on my bed dozing off a couple of minutes ago when i heard my neighbor's son shout "Dadddy! Snake! Daddy come and see snake outside." I jumped up and looked out the window to see the 14 year old holding a plank, and running from one angle to the other, trying to hold off the snake till his dad showed up. At that point, i knew it had to be a small snake.

The dad later came and threw a big stone at the snake. And then hit it multiple times with a stick when the snake had gotten injured. When i got outside, the snake had been cut in two, but was still moving.

Constant rain has caused the bush around my house to grow very high. I just hope they aint bigger snakes hiding in the bush, cos i come back late at night some times.

Who knows the name of the snake? By the way, i stay in an area of Ibadan called Ajobo...close to Ojoo.

BiafraBushBoy:
There must be bulletproof na... you wan make I concede away goal??

I have been doing more of reading and observing.