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dacovajnr:
You've not left this Thread since 2daya ago Oyin, Se wan fi se e ni?

NIGHTMAREOO7:

PaulKillerman:
What can I do you for?

SmellingAnus:
even you my only Sister

youngreezy:
Drunkcow,smellymouth(tho i love u bro no homo)smellingmenses (jeez dis guy is disgusting to d core),agressivefucker,oyindidi,refiner(dafuq)?,ilovetosuckpussy no comment on dis marafucker..

robosky02:
yea


is the buffet ready?

Fourwinds:
please d husband is not
insecured....who will allow a married
woman to work in a hotel.? who goes
to night vigil with rampant case of
pastor molesting deir female
followers.? what about ritualist dat
can carry out their havoc on her way
home.? what about rapists(Area boys
or Agberos) hiding around at night.?
Look I always tell people to use their
brain oool..

ipobbigot7:
That has stopped long time ago.

Daboomb:
The question should be why do some men try so hard to remain `attached to one woman?
ofcourse, they are either scared or just playing 'nice' because religion/mis-education has been used to bamboozle their head.

Men are polygamous by nature, its in their DNA!
They are not cheating, just being themselves.

ipobbigot7:
After marriage.

Please women need to be commended for giving more in a relationship, while we should stop looking for every opportunity to castrate them on what men will easily get away with.

If the woman in question is called on, you will find that she equally have reasons to be suspicious of the man but she's rather focus on moving forward.

Splinz:
Lefu, a child? C'mon... give lefu some credit. Say: Happy children's day to your 'children'. Abi lefulefu no be so?

ipobbigot7:
My sister i read that too before my comments.

Truth is building a home is not a day thing.

The lady sure have some errors of which the man is neither innocent. But women have easily been victimized often in matters of marriage. My wife caught me cheating on her many times before i could become stable, and in all those times she forgave me and gave me another chance, but today she's happier than the other ladies jumping from one relationship to another on the excuses of men cheating on them.

Giving my case as an example, how men is overlooking a lesser offenses from their wives?

If this man in question here have such a gracious heart to forgive his wife when he caught her cheated on him emotionally, then should encourage him to manage what he's having problem with.

holluphemydavid:
Lol, Dun fear me ooo

lefulefu:
broke men should not have erections abi?

ItsTutsi:
Can u pls elaborate?

holluphemydavid:
Fear women

sfinkzslot:
my man, please allow me to call U my man, just listen to this two (f), it is only a thief that will know the foot step of another thief on a rock, mind u am not saying these two (f) are like texture with your wife o, but they are birds and they think alike

EVILFOREST:
For ordinary FRIENDSHIP....abiiiii

What then will she do when they get married...
She may indulge in suicide bombing....

eediots....
After all, when men cheat, ladies are also always involved

ominirajj:
Hi matured minds
I need an honest advice here. My husband has become a stumbling block for me, whenever i bring any opnion to him he sees the negative aspect only . i told him i want to learn hair dressing he goes against it, there was a time i got a job in airport hotel went against it.
Now why am so depressed and sad is that i have went to field to train because i cannot afford money to attend GYM house what he have to say is that that place is not secure becos of thugs.
This is a kind of man who doesnt contribute to my getting a befiting work, all he does condemn anything i do
Am a Gospel artist , he wont allow me go for outings especially night vigils. Am i not in trouble already or what can i do?
He is also violent and a bully

eponoloyin:
Stop lying, you want to visit your boyfriends for better fvck.
Same way that married loose thang in literature section was accused of friending Kayemjay, Frank317 and other small boys.. Adultery ruins home and it kills

Now go back and beg your husband and remove his mail

ipobbigot7:
Op i am a married man and so i should qualify to say something.

I don't see what is wrong with your wife here, though according to your claim you have reason to be suspicious of her but i don't think it's necessary as much as you can be magnanimous to forgive which makes unique and mature.

But sir quit monitoring your wife around, you are going to be creating unnecessary anxiety and frustration for yourself. Suspecting and monitoring her can never improve your trust for her because you're going to keep finding out her imperfections and have more reasons to distrust her, whereas your findings may have nothing concrete linking her to infidelity but mere speculation.

I see some virtues in your wife. A woman that will own up and apologize to what she's corrected on, that will take time to explain reasons for some actions. You shouldn't allow suspicion to make her feel insecure and under constant watch, that will only produce more negative things you didn't bargain for.

And please avoid those comments suggesting that you should divorce your or take other negative steps. Many of those advisers are not married or have a broken home background. From your two threads, it has indicated that you love your family and have displayed to be a responsible husband, your wife is not also doing bad either.

The truth is every homes have issues to manage, please go home and manage yours.